{"id":11645,"date":"2020-04-09T13:34:24","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T13:34:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11645"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:07:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:07:40","slug":"12-textos-enviados-revelam-uma-personalidade-abusiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-textos-enviados-revelam-uma-personalidade-abusiva\/","title":{"rendered":"12 textos que ele envia e que revelam a sua personalidade abusiva"},"content":{"rendered":"

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es abusivas assumem v\u00e1rias formas e, infelizmente, podemos ficar presos numa delas sem sequer nos apercebermos, antes que seja tarde demais.<\/p>\n

As mensagens de texto que podem parecer engra\u00e7adas e amorosas tornam-se controladoras e abusivas.<\/p>\n

A sua necessidade de saber sempre onde est\u00e1s transforma-se numa persegui\u00e7\u00e3o agressiva.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 certos sinais que revelam a sua personalidade abusiva<\/a> antes que a divers\u00e3o e os jogos se transformem num inferno.<\/p>\n

Onde est\u00e1s e com quem??<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

His constant need to know where you are and with whom shows that he doesn\u2019t trust you even the slightest bit.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t really care about your feelings being hurt here, because he needs to ease whatever is going on in his mind.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to show concern for your partner, but demanding constant intel on their life is just disturbing.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to be in trouble if you don\u2019t answer me now.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care if you\u2019re busy or unable to get hold of your phone and he doesn\u2019t care if you\u2019re asleep, at a meeting or sick; he\u2019s so sure that you\u2019re doing something you shouldn\u2019t that he needs to hear from you the exact moment he texts you.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s with those revealing pictures?<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

If you post a picture on social media wearing anything other than a onesie that\u2019s also covering your face, he hates it.<\/p>\n

No matter what you wear, how much make-up you have on your face, or how dressed up you are, he thinks that you\u2019re just showing off your body to lure other men in.<\/p>\n

He believes that you\u2019re doing it s\u00f3 para o deixar com ci\u00fames<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t think you really love me. You never listen to me.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele disse-lhe especificamente para lhe ligar \u00e0s 14 horas, disse-lhe que detesta esse vestido, disse-lhe que quer que esteja em casa quando ele voltar do trabalho.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your fault that there was a traffic jam, it\u2019s your fault that you love that dress that goes great with your eyes, it\u2019s your fault because you don\u2019t listen to him. It\u2019s like you must not even love him.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t go out without me.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Como se atreve a divertir-se sem ele num lugar onde h\u00e1 tantos outros homens?<\/p>\n

Como te atreves a comportar-te de forma t\u00e3o ordin\u00e1ria, quando ele te ama tanto e te d\u00e1 todo o mundo?<\/p>\n

He knows what men truly want and that\u2019s why you can\u2019t go without him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he needs to be by your side ALL the time. Because, you know, he just loves you so much.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que te preocupas comigo quando fazes planos sem me consultar?<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

You made plans with your girls because you haven\u2019t seen each other for ages. And all of a sudden he\u2019s the hurt one, he\u2019s the ignored one.<\/p>\n

He wants to go with you, and you\u2019re forced to choose between bringing him with you to ruin everyone\u2019s night or staying at home and ruining only yours.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que est\u00e3o a fazer com ele?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re on a break with a colleague from work or having a family reunion with a bunch of cousins (and, of course, some are male) and he freaks out because you\u2019re spending time with someone besides him who has balls.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s constantly asking you questions about your relationships with the most random men in your life, then that\u2019s a clear sign that you\u2019re dealing with an abuser.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t think I\u2019m to blame here.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He snapped only because you didn\u2019t listen to him. He snapped because you left without letting him know where you were going, or you weren\u2019t home when he got there.<\/p>\n

No matter how hard you try, he always finds a way to make a fuss about something you did wrong (even if you weren\u2019t aware that you did it) and finds a way to blame it on you.<\/p>\n

Even my friends think you\u2019re crazy.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Usually, a text like this is followed by some of his crazy demands, because he\u2019s right and you\u2019re wrong.<\/p>\n

And even his friends can see that, so how come you can\u2019t?<\/p>\n

Ele quer que questiones a tua sanidade mental, porque dessa forma ele pode controlar-te<\/a> muito mais facilmente.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t talk to him; leave if he goes to the party.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Whether it\u2019s a guy from work, your ex or some friend you have known for ages, he\u2019s so jealous of him that he demands that you leave the moment he gets to the party or even to the bar while you\u2019re hanging out there.<\/p>\n

Unless he\u2019s there with you, as that way he can establish dominance over him.<\/p>\n

Convince me you\u2019re home. Send me a pic.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A partir do momento em que ele come\u00e7a a exigir-lhe provas e fotografias, a divers\u00e3o e os jogos desaparecem.<\/p>\n

If you haven\u2019t left before this, then it\u2019s time you finally do. No man is worth losing your freedom for.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re breaking up if you do this.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He\u2019s practically blackmailing you into staying with him.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que esse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o vale mesmo a pena?<\/p>\n

\"12<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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