{"id":11663,"date":"2020-06-09T13:55:40","date_gmt":"2020-06-09T13:55:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11663"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:30:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:30:55","slug":"nao-persegue-afasta-se-continua-a-andar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-persegue-afasta-se-continua-a-andar\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele n\u00e3o a persegue quando voc\u00ea se afasta, continue andando"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A\u00ed est\u00e1 voc\u00ea. Numa encruzilhada da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, tens de escolher entre a vida que tinhas com ele e se queres continuar assim ou o caminho dif\u00edcil de o esquecer e deixar para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>It hurts, it&#8217;s hard, it&#8217;s devastating to know that you need to move on in life without the person you thought to be your soulmate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your heart will take a lot of time to be healed again and it&#8217;s a challenge to make it whole after it has been through so much and you have left pieces of it in your past.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Leaving and moving on doesn&#8217;t make you weak, it makes you stronger than you have ever been before because you have gathered up everything you could to put one foot in front of the other and started walking away.<\/p>\n<p>It didn&#8217;t work out and somehow you have both known for a long time that it would end like this.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92090\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma mulher jovem e de um homem ao ar livre na rua com problemas de relacionamento\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You tried to make it work, but some relationships aren&#8217;t meant to be perfect but rather to show you what love isn&#8217;t supposed to be like and to give you a valuable lesson.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You didn&#8217;t want to leave at first because you knew that he would sit down and not even bother to try and convince you to stay.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s too much effort to make a relationship work after a total disaster\u2014or at least that&#8217;s what he thinks.<\/p>\n<p>Faria tudo para que tudo melhorasse agora, mas est\u00e1 bem ciente do facto de que merece muito mais do que ele tem para oferecer.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this is everything you have thought through, your mind keeps telling you these things every day, but somehow your heart doesn&#8217;t want to cooperate.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re<a href=\"https:\/\/goodmenproject.com\/featured-content\/feeling-vulnerable-not-vulnerable-mjr\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> sentir-se vulner\u00e1vel<\/a> e tudo o que queres \u00e9 que ele te mostre que ainda se preocupa ou que te ama.<\/p>\n<p>Because he was never good at expressing emotions, you didn&#8217;t even know how to decode his actions. But it seems that now his intentions are clear.<\/p>\n<p>Na verdade, achas mesmo que ele mostraria que est\u00e1 arrependido, mesmo que soubesse como o fazer? Que faria alguma coisa para que ficasses ao lado dele?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92091\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa coloca a cabe\u00e7a nas costas de um homem enquanto este se encontra no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dear, if he hasn&#8217;t done anything before today, why would you think that he would do it tomorrow? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t let yourself get trapped by his mind games, but gather up your strength and keep walking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Continuem a caminhar e, embora seja dif\u00edcil, tamb\u00e9m valer\u00e1 a pena.<\/p>\n<p>Ter\u00e1 vontade de dar meia volta e regressar, mas ser\u00e1 que isso lhe trar\u00e1 realmente felicidade?<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t go back to someone whose pride is more important than you.<\/p>\n<p>Ele era<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bolde.com\/treats-more-option-priority-this-how-treat-him\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> tratar-te como uma op\u00e7\u00e3o mais do que como a sua prioridade<\/a>, because he wasn&#8217;t able to see through eyes like yours\u2014eyes full of love and understanding.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s probably why he won&#8217;t be able to keep you even if he makes a move to make you stay.<\/p>\n<p>O comportamento dele torna as coisas um pouco mais f\u00e1ceis para si. Embora possa n\u00e3o pensar nisso agora, um dia, quando olhar para tr\u00e1s, lembrar-se-\u00e1 de que n\u00e3o houve nada que a fizesse ficar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por agora, continua a andar. <\/strong><strong>O caminho est\u00e1 a ficar mais brilhante e mais bonito a cada passo da recupera\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Vais ficar bem, posso prometer-te isso. <\/strong><strong>Basta ter consci\u00eancia do seu pr\u00f3prio valor e continuar a caminhar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-92088 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/If-He-Doesnt-Chase-You-When-You-Walk-Away-Keep-Walking-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se ele n\u00e3o a persegue quando voc\u00ea se afasta, continue andando\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/If-He-Doesnt-Chase-You-When-You-Walk-Away-Keep-Walking-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/If-He-Doesnt-Chase-You-When-You-Walk-Away-Keep-Walking-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/If-He-Doesnt-Chase-You-When-You-Walk-Away-Keep-Walking-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/If-He-Doesnt-Chase-You-When-You-Walk-Away-Keep-Walking-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/If-He-Doesnt-Chase-You-When-You-Walk-Away-Keep-Walking-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/If-He-Doesnt-Chase-You-When-You-Walk-Away-Keep-Walking-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There you are. At a crossroads in your life. Now, you need to choose between the life you had with him and if you want to continue like that or the hard path of forgetting and leaving him behind. It hurts, it&#8217;s hard, it&#8217;s devastating to know that you need to move on in life&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":92089,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11663","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/If-He-Doesnt-Chase-You-When-You-Walk-Away-Keep-Walking.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11663","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11663"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11663\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92089"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11663"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11663"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11663"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}