{"id":116691,"date":"2020-12-03T14:30:20","date_gmt":"2020-12-03T14:30:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116691"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:49:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:49:45","slug":"recuso-me-a-baixar-o-meu-nivel-de-exigencia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/recuso-me-a-baixar-o-meu-nivel-de-exigencia\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que eu me recuso a baixar o meu n\u00edvel de exig\u00eancia para qualquer homem"},"content":{"rendered":"

How many times have you been in a situation where a man ended up running away from you for being \u201cdemasiado<\/a>\u201d?<\/p>\n

Maybe he couldn\u2019t handle the fact that you earned more money or had a higher self-confidence. Or was it because you were taller, louder, or more dominant in another way?<\/p>\n

Did he accuse you of being too bossy or assertive? Or was it your fierce and independent side? Was it the fact that you didn\u2019t actually need him?<\/p>\n

A quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que ele se sentiu intimidado por si.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been down that road more than once. And if you\u2019re an alpha female, you know exactly what I\u2019m talking about.<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 um mito ou uma desculpa vazia que dizemos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios quando somos rejeitados. Os homens t\u00eam mesmo medo das mulheres fortes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bem, nem todos o fazem, mas h\u00e1 homens que se sentem amea\u00e7ados por uma mulher poderosa. Quer queiramos quer n\u00e3o, h\u00e1 muitos homens das cavernas por a\u00ed.<\/p>\n

You know the type, right? The one who thinks it\u2019s his job to protect his woman and provide for her.<\/p>\n

Of course, in return, she has to follow his lead. After all, he is a man, so he must know what\u2019s best for her.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Look, no guy will tell you this outright, but if you dig a little deeper and pay attention, you\u2019ll notice that they\u2019re all around us.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t only happen in romance: sooner or later, you\u2019ll face this power struggle with your male friends, coworkers, and practically anywhere you show up.<\/p>\n

So, I bet you can\u2019t help but wonder if you should dial yourself down a little. In fact, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve already done it before to make a man happier.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Talvez tenha deixado de usar saltos altos ou baixado o tom da sua voz quando estava com ele. Talvez tenha concordado falsamente com a opini\u00e3o dele s\u00f3 para o agradar.<\/p>\n

Pode ter sido a coisa mais parva de sempre: pediste-lhe para arranjar o teu pneu furado, apesar de saberes faz\u00ea-lo sozinho, s\u00f3 para que ele se sentisse mais homem.<\/p>\n

Or you let him get his way, even though you knew he wasn\u2019t right, just so he could have the impression that he was the dominant one.<\/p>\n

Os exemplos s\u00e3o infinitos, mas eu sei todos n\u00f3s mulheres fortes<\/a> s\u00e3o culpados destes delitos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not here to judge because I used to do the same. It wasn\u2019t anything big at first, but later on, it hit me: I was dialing myself down for a man \u2013 that\u2019s what I was doing.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, eu parei. Parei de esconder o meu sentido de humor s\u00f3 para ele ser mais engra\u00e7ado, parei de fingir ser est\u00fapida s\u00f3 para ele se sentir mais inteligente e parei de fingir ser indefesa s\u00f3 para ele sentir que era capaz de me proteger.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Em poucas palavras, Deixei de fingir que era fraca s\u00f3 para fazer um homem sentir-se forte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o sou uma mulher impotente que precisa de algu\u00e9m que a guie na vida. N\u00e3o sou incompetente e n\u00e3o sou fr\u00e1gil.<\/p>\n

Eu sou um mulher alfa<\/a>. I am strong, and I am too much. And if a man can\u2019t handle my true personality \u2013 well, that\u2019s his problem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 que eu trabalhei muito para me tornar na mulher que sou hoje. Investi muito tempo, energia e esfor\u00e7o para me tornar eu pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m me deu a minha independ\u00eancia financeira e emocional. Lutei para me tornar autossuficiente, firme e est\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, what does the world exactly expect from me now? To annul everything I worked so hard to achieve just so some immature boy wouldn\u2019t be intimidated?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s not going to happen, even if my life depended on it. Because if I did that, se eu me tornasse menos tonta, seria o meu fim.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Isso seria igual ao meu suic\u00eddio espiritual<\/strong> \u2013 killing off everything I ever believed in and stood up for. And I know for sure that no man is worth that much of a sacrifice.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How many times have you been in a situation where a man ended up running away from you for being \u201ctoo much\u201d? Maybe he couldn\u2019t handle the fact that you earned more money or had a higher self-confidence. Or was it because you were taller, louder, or more dominant in another way? Did he accuse…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":116711,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-116691","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/This-Is-Why-I-Refuse-To-Dial-Myself-Down-For-Any-Man.-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116691","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116691"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116691\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116711"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}