{"id":116967,"date":"2020-12-04T14:10:33","date_gmt":"2020-12-04T14:10:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116967"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:48:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:48:41","slug":"mostre-lhes-que-nao-pode-ser-manipulado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mostre-lhes-que-nao-pode-ser-manipulado\/","title":{"rendered":"As pessoas chamam-nos loucos quando lhes mostramos que n\u00e3o podemos ser manipulados"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>J\u00e1 se defendeu pela primeira vez na sua vida e foi imediatamente declarado louco e demente?<\/p>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;ve put up with so many bad things. You&#8217;ve tolerated way too much from other people.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Y<\/em><em>ou&#8217;ve been disrespected, manipulated, and mistreated so many times, and you kept quiet about it just because it was coming from people you loved and cared for.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now, you&#8217;ve decided to put a stop to all of that and finally choose yourself and your well-being for once in your life. I have to congratulate you; it\u2019s a very difficult task because you really must be very strong to confront cruel, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/120-citacoes-de-pessoas-toxicas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">pessoas t\u00f3xicas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tomar uma posi\u00e7\u00e3o afastar\u00e1 as pessoas t\u00f3xicas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116970\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady.jpg\" alt=\"jovem senhora sentada, pensativa, com cabelo louro e liso e cabe\u00e7a apoiada nas duas m\u00e3os em \u00e2ngulo baixo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>De repente, todas essas pessoas viraram-lhe as costas. A tua decis\u00e3o de te defenderes afastou muitas pessoas da tua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 um facto, mas sabem que mais? <em>It&#8217;s the best thing that could ever happen to you. Those people were bad for you anyway, and they never even deserved to be a part of your life.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Honestly, people tend to be like that sometimes. They&#8217;ll forget about you, leave, or even call you insane when they realize that they can&#8217;t use you, and when you show them you won\u2019t allow them to treat you the way they did before.<\/p>\n<p>I know it can be painful to hear them talk like that about you. You might even start reconsidering your behavior and whether you were right or not. However, you must understand that&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It&#8217;s not you. It\u2019s them<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking-.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa a caminhar numa rua estreita com as m\u00e3os dentro do bolso do casaco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking-.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re never the problem; the people who mistreated you are. They want to manipulate and use you for their benefit.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ever allow them to make you doubt yourself. You can\u2019t put up with things you don&#8217;t deserve because you clearly know the difference between what you deserve and what you&#8217;re getting.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dizer N\u00c3O significa conhecer os seus limites<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116974\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher recostada no sof\u00e1 com a cabe\u00e7a inclinada para o lado e profundamente pensativa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t feel guilty for standing up for yourself. Don&#8217;t feel bad for setting <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/120-citacoes-de-pessoas-toxicas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fronteiras<\/a> in your life and distancing yourself from certain people because it&#8217;ll save you from being hurt.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;ll definitely keep you from getting your heart broken.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s good to know your limits. <em>Trace uma linha na areia quando certas coisas na sua vida s\u00e3o inaceit\u00e1veis e respeite-se o suficiente para n\u00e3o permitir que os outros ultrapassem essa linha.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s important to know when enough is enough and when it&#8217;s time to let go of people and move on.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lembre-se, ter um car\u00e1cter forte \u00e9 o seu superpoder<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116975\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a pensar, a beber caf\u00e9, sentada no parapeito da janela com um computador port\u00e1til no colo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you\u2019re asking why it&#8217;s a superpower. The answer is straightforward; it can make your life much easier and happier.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Having a strong character means you&#8217;re able to control your mind and your heart, your thoughts, and your emotions. It means you&#8217;re confident. It means you have unshakable faith in yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You won&#8217;t allow others to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/citacoes-de-manipulacao-a-lista-definitiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">manipular<\/a> or play games with you because you know you&#8217;re so much better and smarter than that. That&#8217;s not crazy; <em>that\u2019s the greatest love of all \u2014 SELF-LOVE.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Chamar-te louco \u00e9 apenas mais uma forma de te manipularem<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116976\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de casaco de cabedal preto junto a um edif\u00edcio com os bra\u00e7os cruzados\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They want to make you think that you&#8217;re overreacting. They want to make you question your self-worth. They want to humiliate you.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s just one more trick they use to manipulate you and gain control over your life. BUT, they won&#8217;t succeed, and do you know why?<\/p>\n<p><em>Because you won&#8217;t fall for their cheap attempts at manipulation ever again.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They\u2019re blame-shifting and pretending to be the victim<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116977\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mulher elegante e pensativa a descansar num passeio perto de um canal numa cidade outonal\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re calling you crazy because they want to present themselves as the real victim in this story. Believe me. You\u2019ll constantly go round in circles.<\/p>\n<p>They won&#8217;t ever apologize to you, and they&#8217;ll try to make you look insane, hoping they&#8217;ll succeed in their intention to manipulate you once again.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;ll happen again and again until you decide to break that circle once and for all and cut them out of your life forever. It won&#8217;t make you a victim either; it\u2019ll make you a strong and courageous winner.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t allow them to win<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116978\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white.jpg\" alt=\"mulher asi\u00e1tica de top branco segurando um \u00f3culos de sol enquanto caminha ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Look at this as a fight. It&#8217;s a battle between good and evil, between you and those <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-coisas-que-as-pessoas-toxicas-destroem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">pessoas t\u00f3xicas<\/a>. They&#8217;ll use many different weapons to try to intimidate you or make you doubt yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t allow them to win the fight. Hold on and be strong. Good will always triumph over evil, trust me.<\/p>\n<p>Believe in yourself because that&#8217;s what hurts them the most. Don&#8217;t let them change you. It&#8217;s better to be called crazy than to be someone&#8217;s fool.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you finally stood up for yourself for the first time in your life and immediately been declared insane and crazy? You&#8217;ve put up with so many bad things. You&#8217;ve tolerated way too much from other people. You&#8217;ve been disrespected, manipulated, and mistreated so many times, and you kept quiet about it just because it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":116979,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-116967","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/People-Call-You-Crazy-When-You-Show-Them-You-Cant-Be-Manipulated-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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