{"id":11759,"date":"2018-01-10T13:37:37","date_gmt":"2018-01-10T13:37:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11759"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:16:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:16:46","slug":"o-jay-z-pode-enganar-a-beyonce-o-resto-de-nos-e-uma-resposta-curta-nada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-jay-z-pode-enganar-a-beyonce-o-resto-de-nos-e-uma-resposta-curta-nada\/","title":{"rendered":"Se Jay-Z pode trair Beyonc\u00e9, o que \u00e9 que isso significa para o resto de n\u00f3s? (Resposta curta: NADA!)"},"content":{"rendered":"

So, I was randomly scrolling through Facebook the other day and I saw something that got me a little worked up. It\u2019s a meme that\u2019s circulating about the breaking news that Jay-Z has admitted to being unfaithful to Beyonce.<\/span>\u201cIf Beyonce can get cheated on, there\u2019s no hope for the rest of us.\u201d Um. Wait. Hold up just a freakin minute here random meme on Facebook. <\/b>Are you really trying to say that Jay-Z\u2019s decision to cheat on Queen B is somehow about the Queen herself? No. NO. NOOOOO.<\/span> O facto de o Jay Z trair a Beyonc\u00e9 n\u00e3o tem absolutamente NADA a ver com a Beyonc\u00e9 e tem tudo a ver com o Jay-Z.<\/b> E a \u00fanica coisa que a Bey fez foi casar com um batoteiro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa agora mesmo<\/span>: O facto de B ser tra\u00eddo N\u00c3O \u00e9 sin\u00f3nimo de m\u00e1s not\u00edcias para o resto de n\u00f3s. O facto de tantas pessoas<\/b> acreditar<\/i><\/b> que o faz \u00e9 o verdadeiro dem\u00f3nio que est\u00e1 aqui em causa.<\/b> J\u00e1 percebi. Beyonc\u00e9 <\/span>\u00e9<\/span><\/i> flawless, but you know what she is not? New to Jay-Z. And you know what else? She is probably not flawless either. She may be fucking fabulous, all day every day, no doubt she is, but unfortunately, as long as there are some men that can have it all\u2014and still want more, still be unsatisfied with themselves, and still need someone to actively make them feel wanted and validated\u2014that doesn\u2019t matter. <\/span><\/p>\n

Os homens que traem s\u00e3o inseguro<\/a>, and when they aren\u2019t getting what they \u2018need\u2019 from their partners, they look for someone else to reassure them and stroke their ego. That\u2019s not about Beyonce. That\u2019s about who Jay-Z sees when he looks in the mirror and whether or not he likes what he\u2019s looking at.<\/b><\/p>\n

Esta no\u00e7\u00e3o que existe na sociedade atual de que n\u00f3s, mulheres, somos de alguma forma respons\u00e1veis pelas ac\u00e7\u00f5es dos homens que nos rodeiam \u00e9 completamente desconcertante e est\u00e1 muito enraizada. <\/b>Deep. We\u2019ve got highschool girls expected to hide their shoulders and adhere to antiquated dress codes in order that they might not accidentally incite the interest of the poor boy behind them in class who just can\u2019t pay attention because there are sexy shoulders distracting him all over the place. We\u2019ve got an epidemic of men pushing boundaries and women obliging them so as to \u2018not make a fuss\u2019, with the recent #metoo movement barely even beginning to expose a truth we as women learn the first time a man makes us feel uncomfortable in a way we can\u2019t explain.<\/span><\/p>\n

And now\u2026 we have got to somehow shoulder the blame that Jay-Z can\u2019t keep it in his pants and Beyonce is only human. Fuck that. She is a woman. A woman who loves her man, a mother who wants the father of her children. A beauty, an icon, a role model\u2026 and if we can\u2019t look up to her to keep her man satisfied than how can we ever have any hope for ourselves?<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m sorry to say it ladies, but, if we keep letting men trick us into blaming ourselves for their transgressions, we will lose ourselves. I am not responsible for the choices, good or bad, that my partner makes. Life gets hard sometimes and relationships take work, it is not a woman\u2019s duty to do all of that work. And it is not a man\u2019s prerogative to step out of the relationship when life gets real and your love isn\u2019t new anymore.<\/b><\/p>\n

por Tia Grace<\/strong><\/p>\n

Read more of Tia’s work on http:\/\/yoursassyblackfriend.com\/<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

So, I was randomly scrolling through Facebook the other day and I saw something that got me a little worked up. It\u2019s a meme that\u2019s circulating about the breaking news that Jay-Z has admitted to being unfaithful to Beyonce.\u201cIf Beyonce can get cheated on, there\u2019s no hope for the rest of us.\u201d Um. Wait. Hold…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":11795,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/franz-harvin-aceituna-463604.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11759","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11759"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11759\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11795"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}