{"id":11764,"date":"2018-01-10T13:01:25","date_gmt":"2018-01-10T13:01:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11764"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:18:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:18:43","slug":"historia-verdadeira-por-detras-de-uma-rapariga-que-se-apaixona-facilmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/historia-verdadeira-por-detras-de-uma-rapariga-que-se-apaixona-facilmente\/","title":{"rendered":"A verdadeira hist\u00f3ria por detr\u00e1s da rapariga que se apaixona facilmente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Falling in love is like an instinct to her, something she was born with. It\u2019s not something she chooses, it\u2019s something that comes naturally to her, like with breathing air. She lets emotions surround her and she breathes in love.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She is the one who falls too strong, too hard and too fast. She feels lucky to be alive after all those heartbreaks she has been through. She doesn\u2019t know where she gets her strength from but she never gives up on the idea of true love.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It is a difficult thing, giving your heart so easily. It\u2019s not something she wants, it\u2019s something she simply does. It gives people more chance to destroy her, to take advantage of that pure soul she possesses. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetalko.com\/15-signs-he-has-really-bad-intentions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ela n\u00e3o tem m\u00e1s inten\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a>, so she can\u2019t possibly grasp that other people might have them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Muitas vezes, as pessoas olham para ela com olhos julgadores, chamando-lhe desesperada por amor, chamando-a e dizendo que ela est\u00e1 a for\u00e7ar as coisas e que devia esperar por algo real, que nem todos os amores s\u00e3o o amor da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">O que eles n\u00e3o percebem \u00e9 que ela sabe disso. Ela sabe que nem todos os homens que chamam a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o os tais. Ela espera que aqueles que realmente lhe tocam o cora\u00e7\u00e3o o sejam.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">So she gives them a chance. She crosses her fingers and hopes that this one is the real deal. That she no longer needs to be a part of that emotional roller-coaster she\u2019s been through her entire love life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Ela sabe tudo e est\u00e1 a arriscar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o uma e outra vez por amor. Ela tem medo de ficar com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, mas o que a assusta ainda mais \u00e9 n\u00e3o dar uma oportunidade a esse cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ela tem medo de perder o amor. Tem medo de desistir demasiado cedo de algo que pode ser real. Por isso, tenta e d\u00e1 o seu melhor. Ela coloca a felicidade do seu amado \u00e0 frente da sua pr\u00f3pria. Ela f\u00e1-lo ver como ele \u00e9 importante e fant\u00e1stico.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">O lado negativo disto \u00e9 que, ao am\u00e1-lo, ela esquece-se da sua pr\u00f3pria import\u00e2ncia. Ela esquece-se<a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/debbie-gisonni\/10-ways-to-show-people-they-matter-and-why-its-im_b_6172792.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> como ela \u00e9 valiosa<\/a>. She forgets that she has a life that doesn\u2019t involve him. She forgets her future plans and goals. She postpones her dreams so he can chase his.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>That\u2019s where she fails every time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She doesn\u2019t realize that she is in love \u2018with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/sinais-de-que-o-ama\/\">estar apaixonado<\/a>\u2019. She is hooked on that feeling. It consumes her and it controls her. So she always gives more emphasis to the feeling than to the person.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She doesn\u2019t pay attention to getting the love back. She doesn\u2019t see that her efforts and investments aren\u2019t reciprocated. She doesn\u2019t see that she is giving her best for somebody who is failing her in every aspect. Someone who wouldn\u2019t lift a finger for her.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She knows it\u2019s time to change.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She knows that she has to stop repeating the pattern. That she has to stop choosing to give her heart to the wrong man. She has to stop loving those who don\u2019t deserve her so easily.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She knows that she needs to take a good look at the person she is falling in love with. She knows that expecting all that she is giving in return is not selfish\u2014it\u2019s normal and necessary.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ela sabe que tem de dar mais amor a si pr\u00f3pria. Tem de parar de se negligenciar a si pr\u00f3pria e de adiar os seus sonhos. Ela tem de encontrar uma forma de viver a vida que merece.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ela tem de se colocar em primeiro lugar, para que esse sentimento deslocado possa encontrar o caminho certo.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ela sabe tudo em teoria, mas quando se trata disso,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/science-choice\/201602\/why-old-habits-die-hard\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> it\u2019s really hard giving up the old habits<\/a>. It\u2019s hard when that feeling of being in love is like an addiction to her and she is aware that she needs to change, that she needs rehab.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Somehow, she also knows she will make it. She knows because she realized that she should fall in love with herself first, as easy as she has fallen for those who weren\u2019t worthy of her.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O que ela precisa ainda mais \u00e9 de paci\u00eancia. Paci\u00eancia para aprender a amar-se a si pr\u00f3pria e a refazer-se numa vers\u00e3o melhor. A vers\u00e3o que ela sabe que tem, mas que lhe fugiu de alguma forma. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Paci\u00eancia para perceber que quer ficar para sempre com algu\u00e9m. Paci\u00eancia para esperar por ele. Paci\u00eancia porque ela pode apressar tudo, mas nunca pode apressar o para sempre.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Falling in love is like an instinct to her, something she was born with. It\u2019s not something she chooses, it\u2019s something that comes naturally to her, like with breathing air. She lets emotions surround her and she breathes in love. She is the one who falls too strong, too hard and too fast. She feels&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":11768,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11764","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/ryan-graybill-375570-1.jpg",800,465,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11764","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11764"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11764\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11764"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11764"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11764"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}