{"id":11820,"date":"2020-03-10T10:27:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T10:27:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11820"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:51:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:51:30","slug":"o-amor-nao-merece","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-amor-nao-merece\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu amo-te, mas tu n\u00e3o me mereces"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Eu amo-te<\/b><b>Eu amo. Mas gosto mais de mim.<\/b> Dei-te tudo o que tinha. Esforcei-me tanto por te ajudar, na esperan\u00e7a de que voltasses a ter os teus pr\u00f3prios p\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>I tried so hard to make you feel loved, hoping that you\u2019d see that you\u2019re worthy of it.<\/p>\n<p>But you didn&#8217;t, and honestly, I can&#8217;t take it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>I bent over backwards to show you that I still love you and that I don&#8217;t want us to end, but now I see the man I loved is long gone.<\/p>\n<p>Esse homem perdeu-se no caminho e tu transformaste-te num tipo que s\u00f3 recebe, mas nunca d\u00e1. Um gajo que me v\u00ea como a sua rocha, mas que \u00e9 incapaz de ser a minha.<\/p>\n<p>A man who thinks everyone is out to get him, that he\u2019s the only victim. I love you , but I can\u2019t take this anymore. I can\u2019t keep on being the one who\u2019s always to blame.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t keep on being the bad guy when I\u2019m not. I love you , but I love me more.<\/p>\n<p>You hurt me and even though I miss you , I know I no longer deserve this heartbreak . I don&#8217;t want to get over you , but for my own sake, that is exactly what I need to do.<\/p>\n<p>For too long have I let men control my happiness, but now it&#8217;s time I wished you good luck and took the control back.<\/p>\n<p><b>Eu amo-te<\/b><b>, but you don\u2019t deserve my tears.<\/b> How can I stay with you when you\u2019re the guy who caused me this heartache ?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81251\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a chorar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are supposed to wipe the tears from my face. You\u2019re supposed to kiss them away. You\u2019re supposed to keep me from crying.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you\u2019re the one making me cry.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one whose actions break my heart every day \u2013 every time you let me fall asleep alone, every time you let me go to bed thinking that I\u2019m not enough, every time you let me walk away without coming after me, thinking that I\u2019ll come back.<\/p>\n<p>But not anymore. You don&#8217;t deserve my affection and commitment. You don&#8217;t deserve my attention anymore.<\/p>\n<p>My feelings for you have not disappeared overnight, but my respect has. I am finally ready to admit to myself that it&#8217;s the end of our love affair.<\/p>\n<p>I wish I could say that you deserve better , but that&#8217;s not true.<\/p>\n<p>I deserve better than you and by letting you go, that\u2019s the only thing I will go after now.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o deixarei que o meu desgosto me defina e manterei a minha cabe\u00e7a erguida. Podes ter-me partido o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, mas o meu esp\u00edrito continua intacto.<\/p>\n<p>Vou seguir em frente e voltar a encontrar o meu lugar feliz.<\/p>\n<p><b>Eu amo-te<\/b><b>, but you don\u2019t deserve my devotion.<\/b> I\u2019m done giving you everything and getting nothing in return.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m done giving you all of my time, all of my love, all of me, just so I would fix you.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m done making an effort and watching it go unappreciated and unnoticed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81254\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"casal infeliz de p\u00e9 na natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I finally know that it\u2019s not up to me to fix you. I\u2019m not supposed to give away parts of me to complete you.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not meant to lose myself so you can find yourself. That\u2019s toxic love and I\u2019ve had enough of it.<\/p>\n<p>I used to think that I was the one whose responsibility it was to mend your heart when you felt broken. But it&#8217;s not.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s on you. I can only give you so much without getting broken myself. Heartache is not something to be shared.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you are damaged doesn&#8217;t mean I need to be too.<\/p>\n<p>E \u00e9 por isso que aceito o nosso fim. Sei que o meu esfor\u00e7o e a minha dedica\u00e7\u00e3o merecem ser retribu\u00eddos, e isso s\u00e3o coisas que nunca me poder\u00e1s dar.<\/p>\n<p><b>Eu amo-te<\/b><b>, but you don\u2019t deserve my heart. <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/im-sorry-dont-deserve-anymore\/\"> You don\u2019t deserve my love <\/a> , and you don\u2019t deserve to share my happiness or my pain.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t know how to appreciate it anyway. You never did.<\/p>\n<p>Tomaste-me por garantido. Continuaste a tirar e a tirar partes de mim sem sequer me verificares.<\/p>\n<p>Usaste-me como um caixote do lixo, sempre a desabafar comigo, mas nunca mostraste interesse em ajudar-me. Eu tamb\u00e9m estava destro\u00e7ada. Eu tamb\u00e9m estava triste. Eu tamb\u00e9m precisava de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Alguma vez te preocupaste o suficiente para ver a dor nos meus olhos? Houve algum momento na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que realmente me viste?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81257\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada na cama ao lado do namorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Not the woman who\u2019s here only to help you, but the woman who loved you with all of her heart, the woman who was ready to spend the rest of her life with you?<\/p>\n<p>A mulher que tem a sua pr\u00f3pria hist\u00f3ria, o seu pr\u00f3prio passado, as suas pr\u00f3prias esperan\u00e7as e sonhos? Ou eu era apenas conveniente para ter por perto?<\/p>\n<p>My mother always told me, &#8221;Either make him see your love, devotion, and sacrifice for your relationship or show him the door!&#8221; and I am finally listening to her advice.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 a minha maneira de te mostrar que eu era demasiado boa para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Marilyn Monroe disse-o da melhor forma:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i> \u201cI&#8217;m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can&#8217;t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don&#8217;t deserve me at my best.\u201d <\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><b>Eu amo-te<\/b><b>, mas <\/b><b>you don\u2019t deserve me<\/b><b>.<\/b> J\u00e1 n\u00e3o mereces o meu corpo, a minha mente ou a minha alma.<\/p>\n<p>Tomaste-me como garantida, e nem uma vez lutaste por mim. Nem uma vez me mostraste que estavas pronto para te comprometeres comigo, que estavas pronto para te comprometeres connosco.<\/p>\n<p>Not once did you make me feel loved, and I don\u2019t deserve that. I deserve more than to be half-loved. I deserve more than to just be there when you need me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81260\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together.jpg\" alt=\"casal a sorrir em conjunto\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mere\u00e7o algu\u00e9m que me queira, que queira passar tempo comigo, que fa\u00e7a tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para me p\u00f4r um sorriso no rosto.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who will want to date me for the rest of our lives, not only because I\u2019m good for him, but because he loves me.<\/p>\n<p>I deserve to be loved, and, let\u2019s be honest, you never loved me. You saw me as the all- American girl next door, but there is so much more to me than that.<\/p>\n<p>Costumava pensar que teria mais saudades tuas e das nossas noites de Netflix e chilling do que de qualquer outra coisa.<\/p>\n<p>The way you stroked my hair as I was falling asleep on your shoulder \u2013 God knows how often that happened. But those are all things I am determined to forget now.<\/p>\n<p>Tem de haver algu\u00e9m por a\u00ed que seja capaz de me dar o que mere\u00e7o sem que eu tenha de comprometer a minha felicidade.<\/p>\n<p>I choose to believe God has better plans for me than this, and that\u2019s what is helping me push through.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81249\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Eu amo-te, mas tu n\u00e3o me mereces\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I love you, I do. But I love me more. I gave you everything I had. I tried so hard to help you, hoping that you would stand on your own two feet again. I tried so hard to make you feel loved, hoping that you\u2019d see that you\u2019re worthy of it. But you didn&#8217;t,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":81261,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11820","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11820"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11820\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81261"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}