{"id":11825,"date":"2019-11-11T10:39:05","date_gmt":"2019-11-11T10:39:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11825"},"modified":"2022-01-18T01:24:31","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T01:24:31","slug":"finalmente-estou-bem-a-perder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/finalmente-estou-bem-a-perder\/","title":{"rendered":"Estou finalmente bem com o facto de te perder"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sabes como \u00e0s vezes n\u00e3o consegues explicar porque \u00e9 que sentes algo por algu\u00e9m e \u00e0s vezes acabas por te perguntar porque \u00e9 que as coisas acabaram da maneira que acabaram?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Sometimes we complain about the injustice God did to us, only to find out that it wasn\u2019t injustice. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was God giving us exactly what we needed. The problem is that we aren\u2019t able to see it because we are blinded by the pain of not getting what we wanted. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Isto tamb\u00e9m me aconteceu. Durante muito tempo, fiquei cego pela raiva de ter de te perder e n\u00e3o percebi a import\u00e2ncia de te ter tido na minha vida. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I just couldn\u2019t accept the fact that I met you, connected with you even when we were only strangers to each other and got attached, just to lose you after all that. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Queria ficar contigo, planear o meu futuro contigo, e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/instead-letting-go-wanted-fight\/\">Eu queria mesmo que tu<\/a> para ficar. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mas nunca me foi enviado para ficar, apenas entrou na minha vida para me dar uma li\u00e7\u00e3o e, uma vez terminado o seu trabalho, partir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Houve uma raz\u00e3o pela qual Deus moveu o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o para ti e houve uma raz\u00e3o pela qual me afei\u00e7oei mais a ti do que a qualquer outra pessoa na minha vida. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando olho para tr\u00e1s, vejo que desempenhaste um papel importante na minha vida, mas tinhas de estar nela apenas temporariamente para poderes cumprir o teu dever de me mostrar um modo de vida diferente e depois libertar-me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O mais engra\u00e7ado \u00e9 que entraste na minha vida no momento certo. Era exatamente o que eu precisava naquele momento. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ajudou-me a obter tantas respostas e fez sobressair o melhor de mim. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You helped me break through my darkness and for that I\u2019ll be eternally grateful, the same as I\u2019ll be grateful to God for sending you my way. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cometi um erro quando tentei transformar-te na minha pessoa para sempre, quando esse nunca foi o teu papel. N\u00e3o era suposto ficares para sempre porque eras a minha pessoa tempor\u00e1ria. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Foste enviado para mim para me tornares uma pessoa melhor para aqueles que est\u00e3o destinados a ficar para sempre e depois tiveste de partir para outra pessoa. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O problema \u00e9 que fiquei frustrado quando partiste, porque n\u00e3o consegui deixar-te ir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I couldn\u2019t understand why God would take away something so beautiful, someone who helped me heal. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mas depois lembrei-me do que me ensinou e comecei a ver as coisas que me aconteceram de uma perspetiva diferente. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then it all made sense. Perhaps if you\u2019d stayed longer than you were supposed to, your beauty would have faded away, your love would have died and maybe you wouldn\u2019t be able to be as inspiring as you used to be. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talvez o que t\u00ednhamos se tivesse transformado num fardo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I found faith in the consolation that our story is better left the way it is. Perhaps if I had managed to change it, I wouldn\u2019t be able to have a happy ending. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eras um anjo que foi enviado para me dar uma li\u00e7\u00e3o, ajudar-me a curar e depois voar para longe. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ensinaste-me a<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/estou-a-aprender-lentamente-a-deixar-ir-as-pessoas-que-nao-valorizam\/\"> deixar ir<\/a>Como se desapegar e perceber que o seu papel na minha hist\u00f3ria acabou. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gra\u00e7as a si, encontrei a f\u00e9 de que a pr\u00f3xima pessoa de quem Deus me aproxima \u00e9 exatamente quem eu preciso na minha vida. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perder-fez-encontrar\/\">I\u2019m finally okay with losing you<\/a> because now I know I\u2019m ready for the day when I meet a person who was actually meant to stay forever. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know I\u2019m capable of recognizing this person from a mile away because, thanks to you, I\u2019m finally able to understand the difference between someone who touches my hand and someone who touches my soul.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-54302 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/I\u2019M-FINALLY-OKAY-WITH-LOSING-YOU.jpg\" alt=\"FINALMENTE N\u00c3O ME IMPORTO DE TE PERDER\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/I\u2019M-FINALLY-OKAY-WITH-LOSING-YOU.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/I\u2019M-FINALLY-OKAY-WITH-LOSING-YOU-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/I\u2019M-FINALLY-OKAY-WITH-LOSING-YOU-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/I\u2019M-FINALLY-OKAY-WITH-LOSING-YOU-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know how sometimes you can\u2019t explain why you feel a certain way about someone and sometimes you end up wondering why things ended up the way they did? Sometimes we complain about the injustice God did to us, only to find out that it wasn\u2019t injustice. It was God giving us exactly what we&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":11827,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/ian.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11825"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11825\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11827"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}