Mas, nunca fui por esse caminho<\/strong>. Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019ve had my share of heartbreaks.<\/p>\n No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 que, ao contr\u00e1rio deles, nunca nenhum homem me arrastou<\/strong>. Sim, sofri com as minhas separa\u00e7\u00f5es e at\u00e9 enfrentei a infidelidade.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, I was the kind of girl who always knew where she stood. I\u2019ve never been in a loveless relationship or with a guy who couldn\u2019t make up his mind about me.<\/p>\n On the other hand, they all spent most of their lives chasing guys who didn\u2019t have the decency to choose them for real.<\/p>\n Estavam a chorar por causa de uns rapazes imaturos que nunca souberam o que queriam.<\/p>\n Todas as minhas tr\u00eas amigas estavam sempre a cruzar-se com homens que jogavam jogos quentes e frios, homens que as mantinham como op\u00e7\u00e3o de reserva e que namoravam com elas enquanto era conveniente.<\/p>\n They\u2019ve been involved with men who disappeared and then marched back into their lives. Of course, they\u2019ve had problemas de relacionamento<\/a> com estes homens com quem nunca tiveram uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o efectiva.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why I always choose a man who knows what he wants over one who has doubts about our relationship, even if I\u2019m not on the list of his ambitions.<\/strong><\/p>\n Por outro lado, nenhum destes homens teve a coragem de lhes dizer a dura verdade diretamente na cara.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, conduziam-nas durante meses ou mesmo anos, enquanto as minhas filhas estavam demasiado ocupadas a tentar perceber o que as tinha atingido e a descobrir o que se estava realmente a passar.<\/p>\n Sounds familiar, right? Well, I\u2019m sure you know exactly what I\u2019m talking about. If you have never been a protagonist of this scenario, I\u2019ll bet that at least one of your friends has.<\/p>\n Devo admitir que, felizmente, nunca estive numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o semelhante.<\/p>\n Era mais bonita do que as outras raparigas? N\u00e3o. Era mais inteligente? Mais divertida? Mais s\u00e1bia? Mais uma vez, n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n So, you know what the difference is between me and them? You see, unlike them, I\u2019m the kind of gal who will always take rejection over false promises.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019m not scared of the harsh truth. In fact, I prefer it over deception.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t comfort myself by believing in lies, and you won\u2019t make me calmer if you tell me what I want to hear.<\/strong><\/p>\n Let\u2019s be honest: nobody enjoys being rejected.<\/p>\n A guy telling me he\u2019s not interested in me would probably hurt my ego in a given moment. However, this situation most certainly won\u2019t be the cause of your misery in the long run.<\/p>\n I prefer a guy who tells me that he\u2019s not into me over one who leads me on, raising my hopes without any solid backup.<\/p>\n Prefiro um homem que seja suficientemente corajoso para sugerir um tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem compromissos do que um que finge estar comprometido enquanto anda por a\u00ed a viver a vida de solteiro.<\/p>\n A \u00faltima coisa de que preciso \u00e9 de promessas falsas e desculpas vazias. I recusar-se a contentar-se com um homem<\/a> whose action doesn\u2019t support his words.<\/strong><\/p>\n I don\u2019t need a man who will sweet talk me into believing him while he is actually manipulating me.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t need a guy who will keep on telling me how much he loves me when he has never moved an inch to prove that imaginary love he allegedly feels for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n I don\u2019t need someone who is likely to become a part of my emotional baggage… a man who will make me question my worth and leave me wondering why I wasn’t good enough to earn the title of his girlfriend.<\/p>\n Recuso-me a contentar-me com um tipo que me mente na cara sem pestanejar ou com um tipo que mexe com a minha cabe\u00e7a e autoestima ou com um tipo que s\u00f3 est\u00e1 ali para me fazer perder o meu precioso tempo.<\/p>\n Quando um homem com integridade me diz que he doesn’t love me enough<\/a> or that he doesn’t want me in his life, he is giving me an opportunity to move on.<\/strong><\/p>\n Neste caso, as minhas expectativas desaparecem e todas as minhas falsas esperan\u00e7as transformam-se em cinzas.<\/p>\n Yes, that hurts – I won’t lie to you. But, at least everything becomes crystal clear.<\/p>\n![\"bela](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-brunnette-woman.jpg\")
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