{"id":118518,"date":"2020-12-14T10:29:04","date_gmt":"2020-12-14T10:29:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=118518"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:13:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:13:41","slug":"a-raiva-nao-mata-o-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-raiva-nao-mata-o-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"A raiva n\u00e3o mata o amor, mas n\u00e3o se importar o suficiente sim"},"content":{"rendered":"

Porque \u00e9 que tantas pessoas engarrafam e reprimem as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas quando est\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica? Porque \u00e9 que tantas pessoas t\u00eam medo de discutir com o seu parceiro?<\/p>\n

I’m not talking about those apocalyptic fights after which it is almost impossible to save the relationship. I’m talking about having disagreements over little things.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que a maioria dos casais tem medo de confrontar e falar direta e honestamente sobre as coisas que os incomodam?<\/p>\n

Even if those disagreements provoke some negative feelings, such as anger or frustration, it’s not a bad thing. It’s a sign you care for your partner and your relationship, too.<\/em><\/p>\n

A raiva \u00e9 uma emo\u00e7\u00e3o humana completamente natural e normal<\/h2>\n

\"belo<\/p>\n

We all have our differences, and it’s perfectly normal for you not to agree with all of your partner’s actions and decisions.<\/p>\n

If they do something you aren\u2019t okay with, you have every right to be angry about it.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa importante \u00e9 a forma como se lida com isso. Deve abra\u00e7ar a luta<\/a> in your relationship but be careful, don’t allow your anger to control you and say something you’ll regret afterward.<\/p>\n

There is something way worse than anger…<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Indiferen\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/em> That’s something that will damage the connection between you and your partner to the point you won’t be able to fix it and save your relationship.<\/p>\n

It is the leading cause of many broken relationships. It happens when one or both partners simply cool off. They don’t have any kind of feelings towards their partner anymore, neither good nor bad.<\/p>\n

A raiva \u00e9 um sinal claro que mostra que se preocupa honestamente<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If your partner’s actions upset you or make you angry sometimes, it’s a clear sign that you honestly care for them because you’d never allow a person who means nothing to you to upset you that way, right?<\/p>\n

A indiferen\u00e7a \u00e9 um verdadeiro assassino de rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a>, not being upset over some of your partner’s actions.<\/p>\n

The moment you stop worrying about your partner’s actions and stop getting upset about things that are bothering you is the moment you should start worrying about your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s better to feel anger than nothing at all<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 alguma vez pensaste no que \u00e9 o oposto do amor?<\/strong> For most people, it\u2019s hate or anger. For me, it’s indifference<\/strong>. It’s when you feel nothing at all towards your partner.<\/p>\n

Anger is a temporary emotion. You’ll calm down, deal with it and forget about it as if it never happened, while, on the other hand, indifference is a permanent emotion that will be stuck in your heart forever.<\/p>\n

Once you become indifferent towards someone, you will never be able to change your emotions again. You won’t even want to try because you won’t care for that person at all.<\/p>\n

Abrace a sua raiva porque ela tem um objetivo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Don’t look at your anger as just an emotion because it’s much more important than that. Relationship anger comes with so many purposes.<\/p>\n

Vem para vos ensinar li\u00e7\u00f5es importantes. Vem para aprofundar o liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a> entre si e o seu parceiro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most importantly, embrace it because it’s there to show you how much your partner means to you and how big the love you feel for them truly is.<\/p>\n

A raiva \u00e9, por vezes, uma verdadeira d\u00e1diva<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Even though many people consider anger a bad and negative emotion (some may even say it’s a curse), it can sometimes be a valuable gift.<\/p>\n

It’ll shake things up in your relationship. It’ll keep the flame burning. It’ll remind you how special and strong your relationship is and how you can overcome all obstacles and challenges in life as long as you’re together.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Foi assim que mat\u00e1mos o amor<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

No entanto, tenha cuidado; use a raiva como uma ferramenta, n\u00e3o como uma arma<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A raiva pode ser uma ferramenta muito poderosa que o pode ajudar a salvar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. No entanto, se deixar que ela o controle, tamb\u00e9m pode ser uma arma muito mais poderosa para arruinar completamente a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

It’s really up to you how you use it. Will you allow it to control you and weaken the bond between you and your partner or to learn a valuable lesson and strengthen the emotional connection with your partner?<\/p>\n

Lembre-se que a raiva vem sempre acompanhada de amor<\/strong>. You can’t have one without the other; it\u2019s an all or nothing situation.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why do so many people bottle up and suppress their negative emotions when they are in a romantic relationship? Why are so many people afraid of getting in a fight with their partner? I’m not talking about those apocalyptic fights after which it is almost impossible to save the relationship. I’m talking about having disagreements…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":118565,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-118518","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Anger-Doesnt-Kill-Love-Not-Caring-Enough-Does-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118518","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=118518"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118518\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118565"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=118518"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=118518"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=118518"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}