{"id":118599,"date":"2021-10-14T10:33:03","date_gmt":"2021-10-14T10:33:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=118599"},"modified":"2022-03-10T17:42:03","modified_gmt":"2022-03-10T17:42:03","slug":"porque-e-que-me-apaixono-tao-depressa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-me-apaixono-tao-depressa\/","title":{"rendered":"Por que \u00e9 que eu apanho os sentimentos t\u00e3o depressa? (12 raz\u00f5es + 8 maneiras de parar)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Depois de ter sido deixado com um cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a> tantas vezes, uma pergunta estava constantemente a passar-me pela cabe\u00e7a, \u201cWhy <\/i>ser\u00e1 que apanho sentimentos<\/i> so fast and so soon in a relationship?\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 bem, eu admito-o. Tamb\u00e9m me sinto parcialmente culpada por todas as vezes que o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ficou partido porque dei o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o na palma da m\u00e3o a pessoas antes de lhes dar a oportunidade de provarem que valiam a pena.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, the fact that I\u2019m not alone, that I’m not the only one struggling with it, really gave me much-needed comfort. A verdade \u00e9 que h\u00e1 muitas pessoas como eu; pessoas que <\/i>captar sentimentos<\/i> demasiado depressa.<\/i><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitos de n\u00f3s que detestam estar solteiros e que andam a saltar de rela\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o apenas para se apaixonarem demasiado facilmente.<\/p>\n

Por que \u00e9 que me sinto t\u00e3o r\u00e1pido?<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

I think it\u2019s also partly because we have um cora\u00e7\u00e3o puro<\/a> e pensamos que todas as outras pessoas tamb\u00e9m o t\u00eam. Nunca poder\u00edamos magoar uma pessoa e pensamos que as outras pessoas t\u00eam o mesmo racioc\u00ednio.<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m really sorry I have to be the one who breaks it out for you, but that\u2019s not how things work.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 tantos people who simply don\u2019t care<\/a> para outro <\/i>person\u2019s feelings,<\/i> and who\u2019ll stay with you only as long as they can use you.<\/i><\/p>\n

Penso que cada <\/b>treinador de rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b> concordar\u00e3o comigo que<\/b> apaixonar-se<\/b><\/a> \u00e9 um processo e, como qualquer outro processo, precisa de tempo.<\/b> It shouldn\u2019t be easy, and most importantly, it should never be too fast.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso ir passo a passo e respeitar cada parte desse processo. N\u00e3o existem <\/b>atalhos<\/b> em <\/b>apaixonar-se<\/b>.<\/b> Bem, pode haver, mas, para ser sincero, isso nunca o levar\u00e1 a uma boa e rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I know we can\u2019t control and command our hearts, but we definitely can our minds.<\/i><\/p>\n

Para n\u00e3o nos apaixonarmos demasiado depressa e evitarmos um poss\u00edvel desgosto, temos primeiro de perceber o que leva o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o a sentir algo por outra pessoa t\u00e3o cedo.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que me apaixono t\u00e3o facilmente? 12 raz\u00f5es prov\u00e1veis<\/h2>\n

Basicamente, eu era aquele tipo de pessoa que captava os sentimentos logo no primeiro encontro. Isso s\u00f3 me levou a muitas <\/i>desgostos<\/i>E n\u00e3o tive o conto de fadas com que sonhava, nem o final feliz.<\/i><\/p>\n

Fortunately, I was able to realize what was ‘wrong’ with me… I realized that I was falling in love too easily and way too quickly.<\/p>\n

If you have similar issues and are currently asking yourself, \u201cWhy do I catch feelings so fast?\u201d, then I hope you\u2019ll find an answer in these red flags below.<\/p>\n

1. Neglig\u00eancia na inf\u00e2ncia<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

If you didn\u2019t get your needs met as a child, you\u2019ll probably spend your life looking for someone who\u2019ll compensate you for the affection and love you didn\u2019t get in your childhood.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re dealing with abandonment issues, <\/i><\/a>and you\u2019re constantly trying to find someone who\u2019ll <\/i>amo-te<\/i> honestamente, proteger-te do resto do mundo e, mais importante, algu\u00e9m que nunca se vai embora nem te deixa.<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019re looking for those parental figures in everyone you meet, and that\u2019s why you\u2019re <\/b>apaixonar-se<\/b> t\u00e3o frequentemente e t\u00e3o rapidamente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se quer ajudar-se a si pr\u00f3prio, precisa realmente de <\/i>deixar de procurar <\/i>valida\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i><\/a> de outros.<\/i><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 uma coisa que precisa realmente de compreender para mudar a sua pr\u00f3pria vida e tornar-se uma pessoa mais feliz. You need to understand that you have yourself, and that\u2019s perfectly enough.<\/i><\/p>\n

You aren\u2019t that little child anymore. You don\u2019t need anyone to protect you, and you definitely don\u2019t need to make anyone fall in love with you.<\/b><\/p>\n

You have love already in your life… you have <\/i>amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/i><\/a> and it\u2019s the purest and most special kind of love.<\/i><\/p>\n

2. Being drawn to a person’s shiny attributes<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to feel attracted to someone’s physical appearance, but you should never fall in love with those things you see on the outside. There are so many other qualities you should look for in order to build and maintain uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

A apar\u00eancia f\u00edsica \u00e9 o que nos atrai a uma pessoa, mas o car\u00e1cter e a personalidade s\u00e3o o que nos faz apaixonar honestamente por essa pessoa.<\/i><\/p>\n

You must learn to look deeper. Don\u2019t fall for what you see on the outside (for a person\u2019s appearance only)\u2026 that\u2019s overvalued. Things that are inside of us are what matters truly.<\/b><\/p>\n

And, in order to find them out, you\u2019ll have to wait, spend some time with a person, and get to know them a little bit better in order to establish a deeper emotional and romantic connection.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t get to know those things immediately after the first date. However, keep in mind that all vale sempre a pena esperar pelas coisas boas, especialmente pelo amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n

3. Escolher pensar com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o com a mente<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Eu sei que h\u00e1 uma batalha constante e desgastante a acontecer dentro de cada um de n\u00f3s, a toda a hora. E esses rivais ficam especialmente zangados quando nos apaixonamos.<\/p>\n

Of course, it\u2019s a battle between our hearts and our minds. <\/b>And, unfortunately, I think that the heart always leaves the fight as the winner, but that’s not always a good thing.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to listen to your heart sometimes, but you must also take into consideration what your logic is telling you.<\/i><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to listen to your mind with all those butterflies dancing in your stomach, but sometimes, it\u2019s really necessary to do so for your own <\/b>bem-estar<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s ficamos cegos pelo amor, por vezes, e isso leva-nos a fazer algumas coisas tolas e imprudentes.<\/i> Se gosta de uma pessoa e ela o convida para sair, pare imediatamente e acalme-se primeiro.<\/p>\n

Just because they\u2019re nice to you and they look truly amazing doesn\u2019t have to mean they\u2019re your soulmate<\/a>, and it\u2019s not okay to fall in love immediately with that person.<\/p>\n

4. Forte cren\u00e7a no amor \u00e0 primeira vista<\/h3>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

I believed in LOVE\u2026 in every kind, shape, or type of love possible. I believed in almas g\u00e9meas<\/a> e todas as outras coisas relativas amor verdadeiro<\/a>. Dito de forma simples, eu estava apaixonada pelo amor.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong here; it\u2019s okay to believe in all those things… I still do. My mistake was that I didn\u2019t know the right definition of true love and <\/i>amor em <\/i>primeira vista<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t know that there is a difference between falling in love with someone and simply liking someone. I couldn’t <\/b>diferenciar o amor verdadeiro do <\/b>paix\u00e3o<\/b><\/a>, partilhando <\/b>sentimentos fortes<\/b> por algu\u00e9m, e sentir-se atra\u00eddo por algu\u00e9m.<\/b><\/p>\n

I was being attracted by a guy’s physical appearance, and I was instantly texting my best friend that I fell in amor \u00e0 primeira vista<\/a>. Agora parece-me um monte de tretas, mas na altura tinha tanta certeza de que era amor verdadeiro.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t. It never was. I wanted it to be, but honestly speaking, it was never anything more than just pure attraction, infatuation, and lust.<\/p>\n

5. O medo de ficar sozinho\/solteira<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Para mim, <\/b>ser solteiro<\/b><\/a> significava estar s\u00f3, e eu tinha tanto medo, mesmo muito medo de estar s\u00f3.<\/b> I jumped into new relationships too quickly and too soon only because I didn\u2019t want to be alone.<\/p>\n

Lembro-me que sempre que separou-se<\/a> com um rapaz, activava imediatamente os meus perfis antigos nas aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros e procurava algu\u00e9m novo. E, antes mesmo de o conhecer pessoalmente, sentia algo por essa pessoa enquanto troc\u00e1vamos mensagens de texto.<\/p>\n

Felizmente, Apercebi-me que devia abra\u00e7ar<\/i> a minha vida de solteiro <\/i><\/a>e esperar por algu\u00e9m que valesse a pena mudar o meu estado de relacionamento.<\/i><\/p>\n

6. A ideia errada de precisar de algu\u00e9m para o completar<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sempre senti que estava incompleta, que faltava uma parte de mim e que precisava de encontrar algu\u00e9m que preenchesse essa lacuna.<\/i><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 agora percebo como estava errado. Deus fez-nos completos e perfeitos tal como somos.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sim, Ele tamb\u00e9m concorda que todos n\u00f3s precisamos dessa outra pessoa, mas ela s\u00f3 deve estar l\u00e1 para nos amar, apoiar e encorajar a sermos melhores pessoas todos os dias da nossa vida.<\/p>\n

7. Imaturidade emocional<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Apesar de ter tido muita dificuldade em aceitar este facto sobre mim, tenho de admitir honestamente que era t\u00e3o verdadeiro.<\/p>\n

Eu estava <\/b>emocionalmente imaturo<\/b><\/a>, and that was also one of \u200b\u200b\u200b\u200bthe reasons why I was <\/b>apaixonar-se<\/b> t\u00e3o depressa e saltando de rela\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o com tanta frequ\u00eancia.<\/b><\/p>\n

Eu nunca me dei <\/i>tempo suficiente<\/i> para processar os meus sentimentos da forma correcta. Tentei sempre concentrar-me apenas nas coisas boas de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, enquanto varria todas as coisas m\u00e1s para debaixo do tapete.<\/i><\/p>\n

Believe me, that’s the worst thing you can do to yourself and to your relationship.<\/p>\n

I couldn’t understand my own emotions\u2026 so how, for the sake of God, could I understand my boyfriend’s feelings?<\/p>\n

Algo que todos <\/i>treinador de rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/i> vos dir\u00e1 que, para ter uma boa e <\/i>saud\u00e1vel <\/i>rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/i> <\/a>com algu\u00e9m, ter altos n\u00edveis de compreens\u00e3o, aceita\u00e7\u00e3o e boa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma necessidade absoluta.<\/i><\/p>\n

8. Falta de auto-consci\u00eancia<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I never put myself on the top of my own priority list because I always felt like that place should be reserved for my \u2018better half\u2019. Well, to hell with that.<\/p>\n

First of all, I\u2019m not looking for \u2018my half\u2019 anymore because I\u2019m very well aware of my wholeness now.<\/b><\/p>\n

And, it definitely couldn\u2019t be a \u2018better half\u2019 because I have realized my self-worth, and in the very first place on my priority list, I\u2019ve finally put a person there who deserves that place the most \u2013 myself.<\/p>\n

De facto, o primeiro passo para a autoconsci\u00eancia \u00e9 <\/i>fazer de si pr\u00f3prio uma prioridade<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

9. Vazio emocional<\/h3>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

A minha sa\u00fade emocional e mental tamb\u00e9m estava num caos. Eu estava <\/i>lutando contra a depress\u00e3o<\/i><\/a> e ansiedade, o que me fazia sentir muito vazia por dentro.<\/i> Este tipo de sentimento \u00e9 simplesmente inexplic\u00e1vel e n\u00e3o quero que ningu\u00e9m o experimente.<\/p>\n

I was constantly looking for someone who would be able to fulfill that emptiness\u2026 to bring peace, joy, and inner calmness back into my life.<\/b><\/p>\n

Every time someone made me feel good about myself and my life, I would immediately start thinking, \u201cThat\u2019s it, I finally found the right person\u201d, when, in fact, they were so far from it.<\/p>\n

10. Normas muito fracas<\/h3>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Por causa da minha <\/i>baixa autoestima<\/i>Pensei mesmo que era<\/i> indigno de ser amado<\/i><\/a>e isso fez-me<\/i> baixar os meus padr\u00f5es<\/i><\/a>. Na verdade, transformou-me numa pessoa completamente livre de padr\u00f5es.<\/i><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t think about whether we had positive compatibility or whether our relationship even had the potential to go the long term.<\/p>\n

Se algu\u00e9m se comportasse bem e me tratasse bem, eu desenvolveria imediatamente alguns sentimentos por essa pessoa. A minha necessidade de <\/b>valida\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b> from others was actually the main culprit of my ‘<\/b>captando sentimentos<\/b> so fast’ weakness.<\/b><\/p>\n

11. Medo de uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o genu\u00edna<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Yes, I know… this is such irony, but trust me, it\u2019s definitely true.<\/p>\n

Saltei de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o para outra e apaixonei-me demasiado cedo, mas foi tudo porque, na verdade, eu era<\/i> medo do compromisso<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Eu tinha medo de um <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/b>. I didn\u2019t want to attach to anyone, and that\u2019s why I would get back into the dating pool as soon as I <\/b>separou-se<\/b> com algu\u00e9m<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Fortunately, I now realize how important commitment is… I understood that committing to someone is way better than jumping from relationship to relationship without any dreams, plans, or goals for the future.<\/p>\n

12. Recusa em aprender com as experi\u00eancias passadas<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Am I the only person who\u2019ll never be able to learn from her own mistakes? Apaixonar-se<\/i> t\u00e3o rapidamente s\u00f3 me tornou mais infeliz e trouxe-me muitos <\/i>desgostos<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Each and every single one of our mistakes comes with one clear purpose\u2026 to teach us some valuable lessons.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even after so many broken hearts, I couldn\u2019t realize how I was also guilty of breaking my own heart so many times. I was guilty of giving my heart so easily to people who never proved they actually deserved it.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que deixo de me apaixonar demasiado depressa? 8 maneiras infal\u00edveis<\/h2>\n

Sim, cheg\u00e1mos finalmente \u00e0 parte mais importante. Love is a very heavy word, and it shouldn\u2019t be used so easily and so often.<\/b><\/p>\n

Seguem-se algumas dicas eficazes que o ajudar\u00e3o evitar a captura de sentimentos t\u00e3o rapidamente<\/a>. Pay close attention to them and save yourself from getting hurt… salvar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o de ser partido novamente.<\/i><\/p>\n

1. It\u2019s high time to redefine LOVE<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Qual \u00e9 a sua defini\u00e7\u00e3o de amor<\/a>? Que qualidades \u00e9 que a outra pessoa precisa de ter para que se apaixone por ela?<\/p>\n

Como j\u00e1 referi, h\u00e1 muitas <\/b>tipos de amor<\/b><\/a>, and first, you need to discover the most important one… you need to <\/b>descobrir <\/b>amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Antes de te apaixonares por outra pessoa, tens de <\/i>apaixone-se primeiro por si pr\u00f3prio<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

All the madness and thinking about how you can\u2019t live without that other person is just the beginning phase of love. True, deep love is so much more than that.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a beautiful, but very challenging and difficult journey with many, many obstacles along the way.<\/i><\/p>\n

It\u2019s accepting to go through everything with that one person who makes your heart sing, and love them equally through all those ups and downs.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sente-se a fa\u00edsca no o primeiro encontro<\/a>, but it\u2019s way too early to catch some honest feelings or to fall in love. That\u2019s something that really demands time, understanding, sacrifices, and a lot of hard work.<\/p>\n

2. Fazer as coisas com calma<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t jump the gun and fall head over heels for another person before you get to know them. It won\u2019t end well… trust me. It never does.<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll end up hurt and disappointed. And, the worst thing is that you won’t be able to put the blame on anyone else… the only culprit in that story will be you.<\/b><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de se apressar. Deviam dar tempo aos dois <\/b>para nos conhecermos melhor<\/b><\/a> e estabelecer uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o genu\u00edna lentamente.<\/b> In my opinion (and based on my own experience, too), the faster you fall in love, the faster you\u2019ll fall out of love.<\/p>\n

3. Cultivar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o que tem consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I think that the best answer to \u2018Why do I catch feelings so fast?\u2019 is neglecting the relationship I have had with myself for too long.<\/p>\n

I was constantly looking for someone who\u2019ll love me honestly and unconditionally; someone who\u2019ll love and accept all of me. I was looking for that<\/i> amor verdadeiro <\/i><\/a>durante todo esse tempo, estava dentro de mim. S\u00f3 tinha de o redescobrir de novo.<\/i><\/p>\n

Por isso, o meu conselho \u00e9 que <\/b>voltar a concentrar-se em si pr\u00f3prio<\/b><\/a>. Apaixonar-se novamente por si pr\u00f3prio. Escolhe-te a ti pr\u00f3prio acima de tudo e de todos.<\/b><\/p>\n

Precisa de redescobrir e compreender quais s\u00e3o os seus verdadeiros valores no que diz respeito ao amor. <\/i>Amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/i> vem sempre acompanhado de<\/i> autocuidado<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Once you fall in love with yourself again, you\u2019ll revamp your self-worth, and you won\u2019t start catching feelings for someone else before they prove to you that they\u2019re truly worth it.<\/p>\n

4. Aprender a reconhecer e a aceitar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Those things you feel at the beginning of a new relationship are only lust and pure infatuation. Those aren\u2019t honest feelings of love, and you shouldn\u2019t give too much importance to them.<\/p>\n

Ver a situa\u00e7\u00e3o como ela \u00e9 na realidade.<\/p>\n

Sei que podemos facilmente deixar-nos levar por aquela fase de principiante da <\/b>paix\u00e3o<\/b> numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas \u00e9 preciso reconhec\u00ea-lo e tra\u00e7ar uma linha divis\u00f3ria entre ele e o verdadeiro amor.<\/b><\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m a parte em que deve confiar mais na sua cabe\u00e7a do que no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Primeiro, observe e reconhe\u00e7a as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, depois aceit\u00e1-las e partilh\u00e1-las \u00e9 o \u00faltimo passo.<\/i><\/p>\n

5. Nunca se mostre demasiado dispon\u00edvel<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Being too available for your loved one isn\u2019t the best way to prove to them you\u2019re honestly in love with them.<\/i> Isso torn\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 mais vulner\u00e1vel e lev\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a perder o respeito por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, estar demasiado dispon\u00edvel<\/a> for others will make them take you for granted because they know you\u2019ll always be there.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ever be too available to people who don\u2019t respect your presence at all. You’re not even aware of all the consequences it may have for your self-confidence.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por vezes, o melhor que se pode fazer \u00e9 deixar a pessoa que se ama em paz.<\/p>\n

If you see that someone doesn’t appreciate you, try with the good old art of <\/b>fantasma<\/b> eles. <\/b>A tua aus\u00eancia far\u00e1 com que eles percebam o teu verdadeiro valor e far\u00e1 com que lutem por ti e pelo teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

6. Cuidado antes de voltar a namorar<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for full dating apps and desintoxica\u00e7\u00e3o das redes sociais<\/a>. It\u2019s time to stop jumping from relationship to relationship searching for happiness and true love.<\/p>\n

Take some time for yourself. You won\u2019t mend your broken heart by <\/b>apaixonar-se<\/b> novamente e iniciar um <\/b>nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s not healthy, and no matter how good that other person will be, you won\u2019t be able to maintain a rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> com eles.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio <\/i>libertar-se da bagagem emocional <\/i><\/a>de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior antes de come\u00e7ar uma nova.<\/i><\/p>\n

7. D\u00ea um passo atr\u00e1s sempre que come\u00e7ar a sentir algo<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Every time you catch yourself thinking that you\u2019ve started developing some romantic feelings for another person, you should pull away for a while.<\/p>\n

Dar um passo atr\u00e1s pode, por vezes, ser um passo em frente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Think about what attracted you to that person and whether those reasons and the other person\u2019s values are valid and enough for you to fall in love with them.<\/i><\/p>\n

8. Atrasar a intimidade<\/h3>\n

\"homens<\/p>\n

Tente evitar o contacto f\u00edsico at\u00e9 conhecer melhor a outra pessoa e <\/i>aprofundar <\/i>liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/i><\/a> com eles.<\/i><\/p>\n

Being intimate with another person leads to catching feelings, and that is something we want to avoid, right? So, choose cinema dates over the \u2018Netflix and chill\u2019 kinds of dates.<\/p>\n

Atrasar a intimidade <\/b><\/a>tem, de facto, mais vantagens do que inconvenientes.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019ll help you build some important foundations of a healthy relationship, such as trust and effective communication, and it\u2019ll also strengthen the bond between you and your partner.<\/p>\n

Para terminar<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Durante muito tempo, perguntei-me porque \u00e9 que eu agarrava os sentimentos t\u00e3o depressa, porque tinha consci\u00eancia de que isso n\u00e3o era saud\u00e1vel. Sempre a considerei a minha maior fraqueza e sabia que era a principal culpada por ter ficado com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido tantas vezes.<\/p>\n

One thing is for sure, though, catching feelings so quickly only means that you aren\u2019t able to control your own emotions.<\/p>\n

Isto pode atrair muitos pessoas t\u00f3xicas e falsas<\/a> na sua vida. Believe me… the key to attracting the <\/b>pessoa certa<\/b> na sua vida \u00e9 a arte de ser capaz de navegar pelas suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/b><\/p>\n

Apaixonar-se<\/i> is a process. It demands time and hard work. I hope these tips will help you fall in love slowly like you\u2019re in a fairy tale\u2026 slowly, but forever.<\/i><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give your heart to someone too soon because they won\u2019t know what to do with it. They may drop it and snap, and your heart will be shattered once again all over the floor.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

After being left with a broken heart so many times, one question was constantly running through my mind, \u201cWhy do I catch feelings so fast and so soon in a relationship?\u201d Okay, I admit it. I was also partially guilty for all those times my heart was broken because I gave my heart in the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":118668,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-118599","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Why-Do-I-Catch-Feelings-So-Fast_-12-Reasons-8-Ways-To-Stop-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118599","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=118599"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118599\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118668"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=118599"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=118599"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=118599"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}