{"id":118675,"date":"2020-12-14T10:39:24","date_gmt":"2020-12-14T10:39:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=118675"},"modified":"2021-11-11T16:10:35","modified_gmt":"2021-11-11T16:10:35","slug":"regras-de-namoro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/regras-de-namoro\/","title":{"rendered":"15 regras-chave do namoro para um romance moderno"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know what you’d like me to say right now. When it comes to the rules of dating, there’s only one rule: N\u00e3o h\u00e1 regras<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If only it were that simple, right? Don’t worry, though. What I’ve got here for you is just as cool, I promise.<\/p>\n

Os tempos mudaram (gra\u00e7as a Deus) e as regras de namoro foram actualizadas em conformidade. O que costumava ser considerado a norma est\u00e1 agora desatualizado conselhos para encontros<\/a> que n\u00e3o vos serve de nada.<\/p>\n

We’re going to stay as far away from that as possible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Today, we’ll focus on making your first date a success and help you say goodbye to online dating once and for all (which means deleting all those tiresome dating apps ASAP).<\/p>\n

I know I don’t have to tell you how complicated modern-day dating can be. Connecting with someone and creating an rela\u00e7\u00e3o exclusiva<\/a> sem se mexer no seu expectativas saud\u00e1veis<\/a> pode ser um desafio.<\/p>\n

Also, once you finally meet the one, I can’t stress enough how important it is to mantenha a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o fora das redes sociais<\/a>.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 tantas maneiras de o tiro sair pela culatra. We live in a social-media-crazed world right now, so isn’t preserving your privacy more important than ever?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Para mim, um rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> means keeping your dating life to yourself. That way, you can create a serious relationship that’s no one’s business but your own.<\/p>\n

The rules of dating that I’m about to discuss are a stepping stone to getting just that.<\/p>\n

O seu objetivo \u00e9 ajudar os namorados a colocarem-se em primeiro lugar e a explorarem encontros modernos<\/a> before they’re ready to leave the dating scene and enjoy their relationship to the fullest.<\/p>\n

I’m no dating coach, but having been through one too many hook-ups (plagued by so many red flags), I feel comfortable sharing some handy dating rules.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca passar por um inferno primeiro encontro<\/a> de novo, seguindo estas regras bastante simples do romance moderno.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Here\u2019s What To Talk About On A First Date (& 7 Topics To Avoid)<\/a><\/p>\n

Regras t\u00e1citas de namoro que deve seguir<\/h2>\n

Novo no mundo dos encontros? Farto e cansado de procurar encontros no Tinder e no Bumble? <\/em><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se preocupe mais! Siga estas dicas revolucion\u00e1rias e torne o seu pr\u00f3ximo encontro muito mais relaxante.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sair com todas as pessoas que quiser (e tirar isso do seu sistema)<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Play the field before emotionally investing in someone for the rest of your life. Dating is a journey, not a destination (that part comes after you’ve circled the dating scene first).<\/p>\n

So, what’s my point? Date as many people as you want. Date MULTIPLE people at the same time if that’s what you want, just be sure not to drag anyone along and tell them if you’re not interested<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don’t deny yourself any type of pleasure. Dating is fun; it\u2019s not a chore. My rules of dating are all about liberating yourself from what people might think and doing what feels right for you.<\/p>\n

Date men, women, or whoever you want. Do stuff you normally wouldn’t, and don’t be afraid of taking a risk.<\/p>\n

Get it all out of your system before you’re ready for the next stage. And guess what? You’re the only judge of when that is!<\/p>\n

Limpe o seu arm\u00e1rio emocional antes de procurar uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Once you decide you’re ready for the pursuit of ‘the one,\u2019 be sure to leave all your emotional baggage at the door.<\/p>\n

Para ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz e saud\u00e1vel, precisa de se libertar de tudo o que as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas lhe causaram. Todas as inseguran\u00e7as, dores e d\u00favidas que o seu ex lhe deixou, enfrente-as de frente.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, don’t get into a new relationship (especially a long-distance one) without resolving your past issues.<\/p>\n

Sooner or later, they’re going to catch up with you and implode. Trust me. I was on the receiving end of it once. It’s not pretty.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a um favor a si pr\u00f3prio (e ao seu potencial parceiro) e resolva o que precisa de ser resolvido antes de iniciar um novo romance.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Os encontros modernos podem ser muito divertidos, mas s\u00f3 se limparmos o passado antes de come\u00e7armos tudo de novo.<\/p>\n

If you’re into someone, don’t be afraid to make the first move<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

I can tell you this with absolute certainty. You’ll never regret making the first move. Not even if you get rejected now and again.<\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea? Porque lhe d\u00e1 a t\u00e3o necess\u00e1ria coragem.<\/p>\n

You’ll start feeling more capable than ever, and the fear you may have felt before will wither away. O que antes parecia imposs\u00edvel ser\u00e1 agora a coisa mais normal de sempre.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sure, it won’t always result in a date, but that’s just the reality of the dating world. We ALL deal with this, so it’s silly to let it discourage you.<\/p>\n

Your next date could only be a phone call away. If you have their digits, call them up. You’ve got nothing to lose and so much to gain. What’s the harm?<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: As 10 principais regras de encontros casuais que tem de seguir<\/a><\/p>\n

Seja sempre franco quanto \u00e0s suas expectativas<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If there’s one thing I’ve learned through online dating and random hook-ups, it’s this: Never go into it with false pretenses. It always finds a way to bite you in the ass.<\/p>\n

Sure, some people won’t be on the same page as you, but that’s kind of the whole point. To weed out the no-goers and see who’s on your wavelength.<\/p>\n

Nem toda a gente quer a mesma coisa de um encontro. H\u00e1 quem goste de namoros superficiais (o que n\u00e3o faz mal nenhum), quem queira encontrar um c\u00f4njuge RAPIDAMENTE e quem queira um romance duradouro que possa ir longe.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s always a good idea to be upfront about these things. Otherwise, you might fall head over heels only to soon find out they’re not looking for anything serious.<\/p>\n

Don’t be afraid to speak about what you expect. People have the right to know, and you’re less likely to be left heartbroken.<\/p>\n

Go for someone who isn’t your ‘type’ and see what you’re missing out on<\/h2>\n

\"imagem<\/p>\n

Don’t wait for Cupid and his matchmaking skills to toss the perfect person into your orbit. This is real life, not a movie.<\/p>\n

Dating apps have taught me one thing. Guys I’d normally give a hard NO to, ended up being quite interesting choices. So don’t necessarily stick to what you know. See what else is out there!<\/p>\n

You’d be surprised how many intriguing people are out there who you’d never consider giving a chance to.<\/p>\n

Let this be a new journey. Let it take you where you’d never normally go. Forget about your type and go for anyone who might seem like they have something to offer (intellectually, emotionally, but also physically).<\/p>\n

Life starts outside of your comfort zone. I think it’s high time to start exploring it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

DON’T discuss past relationships early on<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

This is a major red flag, but I’m sure you’re already aware of that. Either way, it never hurts to double-check.<\/p>\n

Guardar os ex-arquivos na gaveta onde pertencem.<\/strong> Ningu\u00e9m gosta de ouvir o seu par a divagar sobre as suas ex t\u00f3xico<\/a>.<\/p>\n

While your pain might be legitimate, wait for a reasonable amount of time to pass before bringing it up. If this person is worth the bother, there’ll be a time and place to discuss these matters.<\/p>\n

At\u00e9 l\u00e1, mantenha-se num n\u00edvel mais casual e descubra lentamente mais sobre eles.<\/p>\n

Se a pessoa o deixar de lado habitualmente, perca o n\u00famero dela<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Believe anyone who keeps proving to you that they’re not worth your time.<\/p>\n

Surgem coisas e os planos s\u00e3o adiados. Isso acontece. Mas se essa pessoa parece falhar mais do que cumprir os seus planos, perca o n\u00famero dela.<\/p>\n

They don’t care much about you and your time. Don’t give them the chance to keep playing you for a fool. You’ve got better things to do.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Perguntas para o primeiro encontro: 210+ Perguntas para o sucesso no primeiro encontro<\/a><\/p>\n

It’s about how they pursue you, NOT how quickly they pursue you<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Here’s something worth knowing: It’s not about how quickly they respond, but HOW they go about it.<\/p>\n

If they make you wait a whole week before they hit you up with a follow-up text, and it ends up being just “Heyyyyy,\u201d they’re not worth it.<\/p>\n

No entanto, se demorarem o mesmo tempo, mas derem uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o razo\u00e1vel (e n\u00e3o rebuscada) para o facto de terem demorado tanto tempo, d\u00eaem-lhes uma oportunidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As pessoas est\u00e3o ocupadas e, por vezes, uma semana passa sem mais nem menos. Se parecer que querem voltar a v\u00ea-lo, provavelmente querem!<\/p>\n

Qualquer pessoa pode escrever uma mensagem de uma s\u00edlaba com uma semana de atraso. Mas uma mensagem leg\u00edtima sobre o desejo de o voltar a ver significa muito, independentemente do n\u00famero de dias que demorou a envi\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 17 Ideias criativas para um terceiro encontro para tornar o seu encontro memor\u00e1vel<\/a><\/p>\n

Don’t put out on the first date (wait until you know their intentions first)<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Espere um pouco antes de os convidar para o Netflix e relaxar.<\/p>\n

If you’re into a serious relationship and all they want is to get some, it might not be the best idea to put out immediately, as it’ll leave you hurt.<\/p>\n

However, if you’re looking for a fun fling, by all means, do whatever the heck you like!<\/p>\n

Just make sure not to do anything rash that might end up biting you in the ass. It’s smart to know their intentions before taking it too far. At least in my experience.<\/p>\n

Tratar os encontros como uma experi\u00eancia divertida, n\u00e3o como um processo de interrogat\u00f3rio<\/h2>\n

\"belo<\/p>\n

I’ve already said this, but I’ll say it again. Dating should be fun. Sure, these rules of dating might make it seem not so, but don’t be fooled. These are here to make the process MORE enjoyable.<\/p>\n

I’m not telling you to go on a date with a list of questions and follow them blindly. Tem de haver alguma espontaneidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s great if you want to be prepared, but don’t let it overtake the majority of your date.<\/p>\n

Have fun, ask follow-up questions, and see where the conversation organically goes. IF it doesn’t seem to go anywhere, resort to your prepared dating questions and see if they help it move along.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 16 coisas para saber antes de sair com um vi\u00favo<\/a><\/p>\n

Manter o telem\u00f3vel no bolso durante o encontro<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

I can’t stress this enough: Don’t keep your phone on the table for the duration of your date<\/strong>. It’s rude, and it’ll make your date feel that they\u2019re not important enough.<\/p>\n

Keep it on vibrate and put it in your purse or pocket. You want to pay attention to your date and what they’re saying.<\/p>\n

That’s hard to do if your phone is on the table and it keeps going off. Manners never go out of style, and people appreciate these little gestures.<\/p>\n

If the date doesn’t go well, you’re free to get up and leave after giving it a solid chance. But before you do that, make sure you were present and invested in the conversation.<\/p>\n

Always be authentic (don’t put on a front)<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

As clich\u00e9 as it sounds, always be yourself. That way, your date knows exactly what they’re getting themselves into!<\/p>\n

Brincadeiras \u00e0 parte, you don’t want to build a romance under false pretenses<\/strong>. Putting on a front and constantly pretending to be someone you’re not won’t do any good.<\/p>\n

Not to mention how tiresome it gets. Isn’t it just easier to be unapologetically yourself and let your date get to know the real you?<\/p>\n

No one is perfect, and no one expects you to be. Just be who you are because that’s all anyone could hope for. Also, I’m saying this from personal experience,<\/em> n\u00e3o se aproximem de pessoas casadas.<\/p>\n

As regras do namoro um homem casado<\/a> (or woman) are a whole other story. Like all modern-day, kickass individuals know, barking up a married person’s tree seldom brings good news.<\/p>\n

Been there, done that, DON’T recommend it. So, just stick to the singles, and give it an actual shot.<\/p>\n

Don’t stress about meeting the perfect person right off the bat<\/h2>\n

\"belo<\/p>\n

It takes time and lots of practice. It’s highly doubtful that you’ll meet your perfect person on your next date.<\/p>\n

If you’ve carefully read these dating rules, then you probably understand why that is. You can’t build a lasting connection right off the bet. These things take time to build.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Enjoy those first dates and try to make each one of them count. They might not end up what you wanted, but they’ll give you a great chance to see what you\u2019d like in a person.<\/p>\n

When you least expect it, you’ll meet someone who’ll finally seem like the real deal. They’ll check all the boxes, and the vibe will be on a whole new level.<\/p>\n

So, don’t stress about how long it takes. Enjoy the process, knowing that it’ll all be worth it in the end.<\/p>\n

DON’T stalk them on social media<\/h2>\n

\"m\u00e3os<\/p>\n

Why? It takes the mystery out of the equation! It’s so much more gratifying getting to know them as you go along.<\/p>\n

If you’ve already done your research and know everything there is to know about their family tree, you’re setting yourself up for failure. Give THEM a chance to tell you their story.<\/p>\n

You probably already have preconceived notions that aren’t allowing you to give them a real chance.<\/p>\n

There’s more to people than what their social media accounts say. There’s more to people than what people tell you.<\/p>\n

If you want this to work, you need to hear everything from them. You wouldn’t want them to judge you based on something they’ve stumbled upon online, right?<\/p>\n

Os encontros s\u00f3 s\u00e3o divertidos se os conhecermos pouco a pouco, permitindo elementos de surpresa. Trata-se de uma experi\u00eancia, n\u00e3o de um projeto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u00e1 ao seu pr\u00f3prio ritmo e resista \u00e0 tenta\u00e7\u00e3o de ter uma pasta inteira sobre eles. Isso tira o gozo a tudo isto.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Descubra se deve publicar o seu ex nas redes sociais e MUITO mais<\/a><\/p>\n

Confie no seu instinto<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Last but not least, ALWAYS trust your gut feeling. It’s there for a reason.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t matter how awesome this person appears on paper. If your gut is telling you something’s off, believe it.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, it’s hard to explain these things. You meet a person, and they seem to check off everything from your ‘list.’ They should be a good fit, right?<\/p>\n

But something just doesn’t feel right. There’s no vibe, or better say, you don’t feel that ‘click,\u2019 but since they fit your criteria so well, you keep giving them chances. DON’T.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

If it doesn’t feel right, it’s not right. They might be a perfectly nice person, but just not perfect for tu<\/em>! And that’s okay.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Wait for someone who’ll want to show you off<\/a>. Someone who won’t be able to keep their hands off you. Someone who’ll gush about you to their friends without holding back.<\/p>\n

When you meet someone like that, you’ll see why it never worked out with anyone before.<\/p>\n

Life’s too short for a half-assed romance. Either they’re all in, or they’re out the door (there’s NO in between).<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 21 sinais de um bom primeiro encontro e como arrasar no segundo<\/a><\/p>\n

Put Yourself Out There \u2013 No Risk, No Fun!<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It’s very simple, really. The rules of dating are here to help you have the most enjoyable experience possible.<\/p>\n

When you think about it, they’re kind of common sense. Porqu\u00ea?<\/em> Porque o objetivo final \u00e9 colocar-se em primeiro lugar e tirar o m\u00e1ximo partido da experi\u00eancia de namoro.<\/p>\n

Why not date multiple people before you’re ready to settle? Why not go for someone you wouldn’t normally look at twice?<\/strong><\/p>\n

That’s the whole beauty of it. Take those tiny risks and see what you’re missing out on. If you don’t, you’ll never know the fun you might’ve had.<\/p>\n

What I want you to take from this article is that it’s all about you. If you’re not feeling it, leave.<\/p>\n

If you can’t be yourself around them, stop perder o seu tempo<\/a>. And if you’re into someone, make the first move!  It’s 2020, for Goodness’ sake. If not now, when?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Encontro na praia: 10 coisas que deve saber para uma sa\u00edda divertida e bem sucedida<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know what you’d like me to say right now. When it comes to the rules of dating, there’s only one rule: There are no rules. If only it were that simple, right? Don’t worry, though. What I’ve got here for you is just as cool, I promise. Times have changed (thank goodness), and the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":118721,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-118675","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/15-KEY-Rules-Of-Dating-For-A-Modern-Day-Romance-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118675","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=118675"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118675\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118721"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=118675"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=118675"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=118675"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}