{"id":11887,"date":"2018-01-11T14:13:36","date_gmt":"2018-01-11T14:13:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11887"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:15:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:15:03","slug":"5-maneiras-de-ter-a-namorada-perfeita-de-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-de-ter-a-namorada-perfeita-de-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras de ser a namorada mais perfeita que ele j\u00e1 teve"},"content":{"rendered":"

We all want to be something special to our boyfriends. We want them never to lay their eyes on someone else. We want them never to compare us to the girls they have dated before. We want to do that extra special something because we love them and to make sure they won\u2019t leave and hurt us.<\/p>\n

There are so many misunderstandings about what it takes to be the perfect girlfriend and it\u2019s not about cooking his favorite food, wearing sexy clothes, putting on perfect makeup or knowing truques especiais na cama<\/a> (embora este possa ser \u00fatil).<\/p>\n

The secret to a perfect relationship, the one that all others will envy you on, is being able to love yourself. Everything starts with you. If you aren\u2019t satisfied with yourself, you\u2019ll always come across problems for which you\u2019re going to blame the other party.<\/p>\n

A maioria de n\u00f3s recusa-se a ver-se como um problema e a tentar encontrar a solu\u00e7\u00e3o, pelo que coloca a responsabilidade no seu parceiro e espera que seja ele a resolver o problema no para\u00edso.<\/p>\n

But, things don\u2019t go that way. You can\u2019t expect him to know all the answers. Sometimes, you have to take a look deep inside yourself and try to see what it is that you are doing wrong.<\/p>\n

Try to be the best version of yourself because you can\u2019t change the person you are with. You can only hope he will rise to the challenge and try to be his best as you are.<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o algumas dicas \u00fateis sobre como ser a namorada mais perfeita que se pode ser:<\/p>\n

1. \u00c9 preciso ser compreensivo<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You have to respect his feelings and opinions and never judge him. Try to understand him for doing something you don\u2019t like. Maybe he really has a good reason.<\/p>\n

If you show that you are not understanding, he won\u2019t trust you and he will never confide in you. You have to show that you tried to walk in his shoes and when he messes up and he will, you have to give him a chance to explain himself and try to look at the problem from his point of view.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, isto dar-lhe-\u00e1 uma vantagem quando um dia cometer um erro. O facto de lhe mostrares compreens\u00e3o far\u00e1 com que ele tamb\u00e9m te d\u00ea uma segunda oportunidade.<\/p>\n

2. Tens de dizer o que queres em voz alta<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Tem de ser direto na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. A maioria das mulheres espera que os seus homens saibam apenas o que elas querem e o que pensam. Elas nunca dizer diretamente o que querem<\/a> porque acham que um homem deve ler-lhes a mente.<\/p>\n

Now, put yourself in that position. Imagine he wants something from you, he gets frustrated because he\u2019s getting nothing and you have no idea that he wanted something in the first place.<\/p>\n

Embora n\u00e3o seja prov\u00e1vel que isso aconte\u00e7a, porque as mulheres t\u00eam aquele sexto sentido que lhes diz que algo est\u00e1 errado, tente colocar-se nessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o para ver como ele se sente.<\/p>\n

Ele tamb\u00e9m pode ficar muito frustrado porque, apesar dos seus esfor\u00e7os, ter\u00e1 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que nada do que faz \u00e9 suficientemente bom para si.<\/p>\n

If you are mad at him, don\u2019t be passive and wait for him to figure it out. Say it right away and try to solve the problem. Waiting for him to ask what is wrong will only build up tension and anger in both of you and you don\u2019t want that.<\/p>\n

3. Tens de lhe dizer como te sentes<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Women are more sensitive than men and that\u2019s perfectly fine. One moment we can be over the moon and the next we sink down because of something he said to us.<\/p>\n

He probably doesn\u2019t have a clue that he made you feel like crap, so spill it out to him. If he was insensitive, tell him that he hurt your feelings and share with him how you feel.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll probably be glad you told him, so he doesn\u2019t make the same mistake again. Hiding your feelings because you don\u2019t want to make an inconvenience will ruin your relationship.<\/p>\n

4. \u00c9 preciso mostrar-lhe apre\u00e7o<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Os homens sentem realmente falta do sentimento de serem apreciados. N\u00f3s damos-lhes amor e carinho e amamo-los da mesma forma. Mas n\u00e3o \u00e9 exatamente isso que eles querem.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s nice and it\u2019s thoughtful and it\u2019s the way every woman wants to be loved, but men are different. They want a feeling of acknowledgment for the things they have done for you or in general.<\/p>\n

Eles querem sentir-se apreciados pelo papel que desempenham e querem saber que n\u00f3s sabemos que eles sabem como o fazer.<\/p>\n

Se ele o levar a algum lado, agrade\u00e7a-lhe e apreci\u00e1-lo<\/a> for taking you and making an effort to do that. It\u2019s not as easy for them as it is easy for us to do these things. This may seem silly to you, but it means a lot to them.<\/p>\n

5. Tens de lhe dar espa\u00e7o<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Esta \u00e9 mais uma prova de que os homens e as mulheres s\u00e3o completamente diferentes quando se trata de lidar com situa\u00e7\u00f5es de stress. As mulheres normalmente detestam estar sozinhas e querem estar rodeadas pelas pessoas de quem gostam.<\/p>\n

Elas querem falar com os amigos sobre o que lhes est\u00e1 a causar stress e, normalmente, isso ajuda. Os homens, por outro lado, detestam estar rodeados de pessoas.<\/p>\n

Normalmente, retiram-se para a sua caverna de homem, onde tratam das suas coisas sozinhos. Por vezes, as mulheres entendem mal este movimento e pensam que os seus homens as est\u00e3o a desligar, o que n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade.<\/p>\n

Se o vir a retrair-se, deixe-o em paz. D\u00ea-lhe espa\u00e7o para lidar com os seus problemas da melhor forma poss\u00edvel. Quando ele estiver pronto, vir\u00e1 ter consigo e falar\u00e1 consigo.<\/p>\n

There is no point in pushing him to talk to you if he doesn\u2019t want to. The only thing you\u2019ll manage to do by forcing him is becoming another source of stress in his life, thus making things only worse.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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