{"id":119678,"date":"2020-12-21T14:02:20","date_gmt":"2020-12-21T14:02:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=119678"},"modified":"2021-12-17T16:23:54","modified_gmt":"2021-12-17T16:23:54","slug":"o-meu-marido-vira-tudo-contra-mim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-meu-marido-vira-tudo-contra-mim\/","title":{"rendered":"O meu marido vira tudo contra mim - eis a raz\u00e3o (+ 7 solu\u00e7\u00f5es)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se uma das principais queixas no vosso casamento \u00e9..: O meu marido vira tudo contra mim,<\/strong><\/em> este artigo \u00e9 mesmo para si.<\/p>\n

A arte mal\u00e9fica da transfer\u00eancia de culpas, bem como ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o artificial<\/a> \u00e9 algo que muitos c\u00f4njuges (leia-se: narcisistas<\/em>) a que recorrem quando n\u00e3o querem (e n\u00e3o conseguem) assumir a responsabilidade pelo seu comportamento.<\/p>\n

Uma pessoa controladora como o seu marido culpa-a por tudo (at\u00e9 pelas pequenas coisas) e submete-a a abusos emocionais com as suas atitudes narcisistas.<\/p>\n

Eles fazem uma tempestade num copo de \u00e1gua por causa de um problema insignificante e fazem-no passar um mau bocado sempre que o sugere consultar um conselheiro matrimonial<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Embora a extens\u00e3o dos vossos problemas matrimoniais seja da responsabilidade de cada um de v\u00f3s, uma coisa posso dizer: Viol\u00eancia dom\u00e9stica<\/a> nunca come\u00e7a como uma coisa grande.<\/strong><\/p>\n

At first, you’ll feel as if you’re in a loving relationship with o teu melhor amigo<\/a>. He’s still the kind human being you met for the first time years ago and his narcissism is nowhere to be found.<\/p>\n

Ele diz-lhe que a ama muitas vezes por dia e \u00e9 muito prov\u00e1vel que os seus familiares tamb\u00e9m gostem dele.<\/p>\n

Mas depois, um dia, come\u00e7a-se a ver o sinais de aviso<\/a> a que talvez tenhas estado alheio durante todo este tempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don’t use the word agressor<\/em> lightly, but compared to what he was like last year, you’re starting to see a different picture.<\/p>\n

Ele mina-a constantemente. Destr\u00f3i a sua autoestima e a rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel de que tanto se orgulhava transformou-se numa uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o emocionalmente abusiva<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There’s no abuso f\u00edsico<\/a> (ainda<\/em>), but he’s becoming a bad person that you have to walk on eggshells around.<\/p>\n

The thought: \u2018O meu marido vira tudo contra mim<\/em>\u2019 is constantly rummaging through your head. Are you leaning toward a breakup, and why is he acting this way?<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o 20 raz\u00f5es inacredit\u00e1veis para o seu marido estar a empurrar a culpa. Quantas delas \u00e9 que consegue riscar da lista?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: O meu marido \u00e9 mau para mim e isso est\u00e1 a arruinar lentamente o nosso casamento<\/a><\/p>\n

My Husband Turns Everything Around On Me – 20 Explanations<\/h2>\n

Here’s everything you need to know about your husband\u2019s sudden toxic behavior. These explanations will help you figure out your next move.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ele sente-se pouco apreciado por si.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

The simplest solution could be that he simply doesn’t feel valued by you. While I always say that it takes two to tango, there could be some truth to this after all.<\/p>\n

You’re the only one who knows whether this is the case or not.<\/p>\n

O abuso emocional dele nunca \u00e9 toler\u00e1vel, mas se sentir que as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es contribuem de alguma forma para este comportamento, talvez consiga sentar-se e conversar sobre o assunto.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 15 Painful Signs Your Husband Doesn\u2019t Love You Anymore<\/a><\/p>\n

Falta-lhe empatia.<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

There are people in this world with severely low empathy levels. These individuals have a hard time sympathizing with other people’s feelings.<\/p>\n

Muitas vezes, tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o chamados narcisistas. Embora nem todas as pessoas que n\u00e3o t\u00eam empatia sejam chamadas de narcisistas, elas partilham tra\u00e7os assustadoramente semelhantes.<\/p>\n

Se o seu marido tem dificuldade em perceber que culp\u00e1-la \u00e9 errado, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel que lhe falte empatia.<\/p>\n

Ele tem uma atitude mais santa do que tu.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

His self-righteous moral superiority doesn’t allow him to ever question his actions and behavior. God forbid he did that!<\/p>\n

People like this will be in firm denial and refuse to face the facts even when they’re staring them right in the face. You shouldn’t get involved with someone like this in the first place.<\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea? Because you’ll never have a life partner in the proper sense of the word<\/strong>. A moral deles estar\u00e1 sempre um n\u00edvel acima da vossa. Pelo menos, de acordo com ele.<\/p>\n

He’s hypersensitive.<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Every time you face him with something he doesn’t want to hear, he gets overly emotional. He takes everything way too personally, which makes you constantly walk on eggshells.<\/p>\n

It’s like you didn’t marry a man, but an immature boy. He doesn’t have his emotions in check, and that means that blaming you is a common issue in the marriage.<\/p>\n

If you can’t handle yourself, how can you be mindful of your partner’s needs?<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: I Don\u2019t Want My Husband To Touch Me Anymore (Causes & Solutions)<\/a><\/p>\n

He’s vulnerable.<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A sua extrema vulnerabilidade pode lev\u00e1-lo a desejar o poder e a superioridade. Por sua vez, isto pode fazer com que ele a deite abaixo para se satisfazer.<\/p>\n

Outra coisa que a vulnerabilidade pode criar \u00e9 um sentimento de inseguran\u00e7a.<\/strong> This can make people never want to be seen as a bad person. Do you have reason to believe that this could be your husband’s struggle?<\/p>\n

Se ele tem de ganhar todas as discuss\u00f5es e est\u00e1 sempre a desviar as culpas de si para si, a resposta \u00e9 provavelmente sim.<\/p>\n

He gets offended easily…<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Especially at the thought of marriage counseling. All you want to do is work it out and talk to someone who genuinely might be able to help you, but he won’t hear of it.<\/p>\n

He takes it as an offense and doesn’t give it any thought. When my husband turns everything around on me, I immediately ask him to explain his behavior.<\/p>\n

Exijo saber porque \u00e9 que ele se recusa a ver a minha ideia como algo \u00fatil. \u00c9 preciso lembrar-lhe que voc\u00eas s\u00e3o uma equipa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’re not trying to cause him to feel bad; you’re merely trying to make things better for the sake of your marriage.<\/p>\n

He’s plagued by a sense of entitlement.<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 algo que os seus familiares, amigos, colegas de trabalho e qualquer pessoa que o conhe\u00e7a pode dizer-vos. Ele \u00e9 um narcisista dissimulado<\/a> com um caso grave de direito.<\/p>\n

This causes him to turn everything around on you, as whatever happens, he was either right to do it or he didn’t do anything wrong at all.<\/p>\n

That’s what you get when you get involved with narcissists. They are self-absorbed, always in the right, and if you care to question their behavior, they’ll make you feel sorry.<\/p>\n

He’s a perfectionist.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

His point of view is always the right one. Why? Because he’s incapable of doing anything wrong.<\/p>\n

Now, this doesn’t make it true. His perfectionism doesn’t mean that he’s faultless. Being married to a perfectionist isn’t necessarily bad.<\/p>\n

But, when they resort to blame-shifting and gaslighting, now, that’s a problem.<\/p>\n

He’s controlling and dominating by nature.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Os ultimatos s\u00e3o a sua forma de fazer as coisas. Ele exige saber tudo sobre cada telefonema que faz e cada pessoa que v\u00ea.<\/p>\n

He doesn’t let you control your own life, as he needs to be on top of everything when it comes to you. He knows best.<\/p>\n

When you married him, it wasn’t nearly as severe as it is now. You could never imagine calling him an abuser before, but how else can you explain his behavior?<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: O que devo fazer quando o meu marido prefere a sua fam\u00edlia a mim?<\/a><\/p>\n

Ele gosta de ver os outros a falhar.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He often says things like “OMG, did you see what a fool Steve made of himself last night? Wasn’t it AMAZING?<\/em>”<\/p>\n

E pensamos como s\u00e3o tristes as suas palavras. Quem \u00e9 que pode gostar de ver algu\u00e9m de quem gosta falhar? O seu marido<\/a><\/em>, penso eu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Este tipo de comportamento est\u00e1 diretamente ligado \u00e0 sua incapacidade de simpatizar com algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 a passar por dificuldades. Al\u00e9m disso, \u00e9 mais prov\u00e1vel que ele perca a sua b\u00fassola moral.<\/p>\n

Por isso, muitas vezes pensamos para n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios: O meu marido vira tudo contra mim, mas porqu\u00ea?<\/em> Agora, j\u00e1 se sabe porqu\u00ea.<\/p>\n

He avoids feeling emotions, as to him, it’s a sign of weakness<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

In every good relationship, both partners need to be able to communicate their needs and wants. Emotions are a big part of that. You can’t see this as a weakness.<\/p>\n

But, your husband does. He’ll never say how he feels. He’ll never let himself be vulnerable. You’ve probably never even seen him cry.<\/p>\n

All that macho crap has turned him into a toxic partner who blames you for everything. That’s easier than admitting that you’re only human, and that, yeah, you’ll make mistakes.<\/p>\n

He’s an egomaniac.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You’ve never seen someone as egotistical and self-absorbed as your husband. His excessive obsession with his ego means he never stops to consider how that makes you feel.<\/p>\n

He’s preoccupied with his delusions of personal greatness<\/strong> e mostra uma falta de apre\u00e7o por si e por tudo o que faz.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, os egoc\u00eantricos recorrem \u00e0 agress\u00e3o para tentar provar o seu ponto de vista.<\/p>\n

Don’t ignore the warning signs of this. This might be a case of emotional abuse, but it could also be a matter of time before it turns physical.<\/p>\n

Ele precisa que as pessoas saibam como ele \u00e9 fant\u00e1stico.<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

Ele precisa que as pessoas tenham consci\u00eancia da sua grandeza. O seu sentido de grandiosidade est\u00e1 no auge. Ele faz um grande alarido de cada coisa med\u00edocre que faz.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que uma pessoa t\u00e3o impec\u00e1vel como o seu marido pode fazer algo de errado? Al\u00e9m disso, como \u00e9 que ele pode deixar que algu\u00e9m pense isso?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He can’t allow you to be right, as that would suggest he’s human after all.<\/p>\n

He’s the master of projecting.<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Um narcisista habilmente usa a proje\u00e7\u00e3o para te levar onde quer<\/a>. That’s his area of expertise.<\/p>\n

Que proje\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 essa de que falo?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u2018\u2019In the field of psychology, projection \u2013 or psychological projection \u2013 is the denial of subconscious impulses by the human ego.<\/em><\/p>\n

For instance, someone accusing their partner of cheating when they\u2019re the one engaging in the scandalous act is projecting.”<\/em><\/p>\n

E, algo me diz que isto descreve o seu marido de uma forma perfeita. Estou certo em pensar assim?<\/p>\n

Ele gosta de controlar com o medo.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Everytime he wants something, he uses scare tactics to get you to do it for him. He’s a controlling person, and creating fear is what he thrives on.<\/p>\n

That way, you’re unlikely to stick up for yourself, and he’s always in control of his surroundings.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: O que \u00e9 que significa quando o seu marido olha para outra mulher?<\/a><\/p>\n

Ele gosta naturalmente de causar problemas.<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

He’s just a jerk by nature. Sometimes, that’s all there is to it. He enjoys causing trouble. He loves being the reason why someone suffers be it his wife, friends, or family members.<\/p>\n

He’s argumentative.<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

He can’t leave negative social media comments alone. He has to get involved every single time.<\/p>\n

Not to mention real-life arguments… he can’t let things go. He’ll bite your head off if you dare defy him (yours and everyone else’s).<\/p>\n

Por vezes, perguntamo-nos se os sinais estiveram sempre l\u00e1.<\/p>\n

But, it’s easier to believe that he just suddenly became this toxic person rather than accepting the fact that you’ve been living with him all this time.<\/p>\n

He’s emotionally immature.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He’s an emotionally immature mama’s boy.<\/a> Ele foi criado para ser um narcisista carente, exigente e em busca de aten\u00e7\u00e3o e, com o tempo, os sintomas s\u00f3 pioram.<\/p>\n

While this isn’t inteiramente<\/em> A culpa foi sua, mas ele foi capaz de a ultrapassar e de se tornar um ser humano bondoso e atencioso \u00e0 medida que crescia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can’t do anything about how your parents raise you when you’re a kid, but as you get older (and hopefully more mature), you start seeing the error in their ways and do everything in your power to change them.<\/p>\n

Obviously, this wasn’t the case with your husband, and that tells you everything you need to know about him.<\/p>\n

He can’t handle negative feedback.<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

O processo de pensamento dele \u00e9 provavelmente do g\u00e9nero: “OMG, how dare you question me or anything that I say and do?”<\/em><\/p>\n

Na tradu\u00e7\u00e3o, a sua capacidade de lidar com qualquer tipo de feedback negativo \u00e9 espantosamente inexistente<\/strong>. You feel as if he’d fall apart if he was forced to face all of his BS throughout the years.<\/p>\n

Mas usa o seu comportamento fr\u00e1gil como desculpa para fazer o que lhe apetece sem sofrer as consequ\u00eancias.<\/p>\n

Ele usa a culpa como uma ferramenta.<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Muitas vezes, as pessoas controladoras s\u00e3o muito h\u00e1beis a manipular os seus c\u00f4njuges e as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es de forma a servirem os seus objectivos.<\/p>\n

What’s that you may wonder? It is getting you to feel a constant stream of guilt about every little thing that happens throughout the day so that you can do their bidding for them.<\/p>\n

Ele leva-a a fazer o seu trabalho por ele, e voc\u00ea nunca se queixa, pois sente uma enorme press\u00e3o para o fazer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Muitas vezes, ao fazer isso, est\u00e1 a abdicar do seu poder na rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Escusado ser\u00e1 dizer que isso faz o jogo dele.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: O que devo fazer quando o meu marido pensa que n\u00e3o faz nada de errado?<\/a><\/p>\n

7 perguntas que deve fazer a si pr\u00f3prio nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

Antes de decidir qual o pr\u00f3ximo passo a dar, fa\u00e7a a si pr\u00f3prio estas perguntas e seja honesto na resposta. Elas ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o a perceber como se sente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu casamento.<\/em><\/p>\n

Acredita que o comportamento dele \u00e9, de alguma forma, culpa sua?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The first thing you need to ask yourself is whether or not he is successful in making you believe that it’s you?<\/p>\n

Newsflash, it’s N\u00c3O<\/em><\/strong>mas tens de descobrir isso por ti pr\u00f3pria. Posso continuar a convencer-te de que \u00e9 tudo culpa dele, mas se te recusares a ver isso, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 muito a fazer.<\/p>\n

E tu, acreditas? Acreditas que o comportamento dele se deve a ti? Acreditas que, de alguma forma, fazes com que ele vire tudo contra ti?<\/em><\/p>\n

Depending on your answer, you’ll start seeing what your next steps should be.<\/p>\n

Estar casada com ele f\u00e1-la sentir-se bem consigo mesma?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This one’s simple. Being married to someone is supposed to make you feel good about yourself. Not just on some days, but EVERY day.<\/p>\n

It’s supposed to emphasize all your best qualities and increase your autoestima<\/a>. Deve fazer com que sinta que pode atingir todos os seus objectivos sem nunca questionar as suas capacidades.<\/p>\n

Um casamento \u00e9 suposto ser um ambiente edificante, estimulante e saud\u00e1vel onde nos sentimos absolutamente seguros. E tu?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sente que o seu marido a protege?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele protege-te? Defender-te-ia na tua aus\u00eancia? Encoraja-te quando falhas?<\/p>\n

A resposta a todas estas perguntas \u00e9, supostamente, um SIM inequ\u00edvoco.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Partners should be there for each other through thick and thin without hesitation. If you don’t feel that way in your marriage, what does that tell you?<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: O meu marido quer o div\u00f3rcio mas eu ainda o amo - 16 coisas a fazer e a n\u00e3o fazer<\/a><\/p>\n

Que conselhos daria a um amigo pr\u00f3ximo que estivesse a passar pelo mesmo?<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma das formas mais seguras de ver as coisas com clareza de uma vez por todas. Se uma das suas amigas mais pr\u00f3ximas estiver a passar pela mesma situa\u00e7\u00e3o, o que lhe diria?<\/p>\n

I’m pretty sure I already know. Isn’t it amazing how differently we treat ourselves versus our best friends?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’re putting up way more than you ever should while I’m sure that if your bestie was in your shoes, you’d be telling her to leave his sorry ass yesterday. Porque \u00e9 que acha que isso acontece?<\/em><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 alguma coisa que VOC\u00ca possa fazer para melhorar as coisas?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

While his behavior is in no way on you (as made clear by the first question), you can still ask yourself whether there’s anything YOU can do to improve your uni\u00e3o conjugal infeliz<\/a>. <\/p>\n

If there’s a slight chance that your actions could somehow make a positive shift, it could be the saving grace for your marriage.<\/p>\n

Num mundo ideal, como gostaria de ser tratado pelo seu S\/O?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Esque\u00e7a a sua realidade atual. Como gostaria de ser tratado pela sua cara-metade se vivesse num mundo ideal?<\/p>\n

Pensa nisto e depois responde-me: \u00c9 preciso viver num mundo ideal para ser tratado de forma justa?<\/strong><\/p>\n

A resposta \u00e9 n\u00e3o. O seu casamento deve ser um porto seguro, independentemente do tipo de mundo em que vivemos.<\/p>\n

Quando chega a casa, todas as suas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es devem dissipar-se (pelo menos por um minuto) e uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de tranquilidade deve domin\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que \u00e9 o vosso futuro sem ele?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Veja o seu futuro com ele e sem ele. Como se sente no primeiro em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao segundo?<\/p>\n

V\u00ea-se feliz, realizada e bem cuidada se ficar com ele? Or, is there a sense of relief at the thought of a future in which he isn’t a part of your life?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pense muito bem nesta quest\u00e3o. A resposta dir-lhe-\u00e1 tudo o que precisa de saber sobre o que deve fazer a seguir. Tudo se resume a saber se ele a faz feliz ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 7 sinais de um marido controlador e tudo o que precisa de saber<\/a><\/p>\n

Embrulhar tudo<\/h2>\n

\"silhueta<\/p>\n

My husband turns everything around on me, but this is the last time I’m going to let it fly.<\/em><\/p>\n

This is what your mantra should be from today on. After carefully having gone through all of my points, isn’t it obvious that this is not a healthy environment that you can thrive in?<\/p>\n

Estar casado com um narcisista suga-nos a energia dia ap\u00f3s dia, semana ap\u00f3s semana. Quando \u00e9 que vai ser suficiente?<\/strong><\/p>\n

A sua transfer\u00eancia de culpas e manipula\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a> are making it difficult for you to react the way you want to. Due to his gaslighting, you’re slowly losing self-respect and your sense of self.<\/p>\n

Don’t let this go on any longer. It’s time to start assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos<\/a>. Enquanto continuarmos sentados, a sofrer em sil\u00eancio e a n\u00e3o fazer nada, as coisas nunca mudar\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

But, the moment you stick up for yourself and start letting him know that you’re not his punching bag, your life will change.<\/p>\n

I can’t say for certain what this means for your marriage, but when you start prioritizing your well-being over his scare tactics, you’ll know what you need to do.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Quando \u00e9 que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio cortar o contacto com as pessoas? ( + 7 dicas para o fazer)<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If one major complaint in your marriage is: My husband turns everything around on me, this article is right up your alley. The evil art of blame-shifting as well as gaslighting is something many spouses (read: narcissists) resort to when they are unwilling (and unable) to take responsibility for their behavior. A controlling person such…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":120435,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-119678","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/My-Husband-Turns-Everything-Around-On-Me-Heres-Why-7-Fixes-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/119678","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=119678"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/119678\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120435"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=119678"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=119678"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=119678"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}