{"id":11995,"date":"2018-01-12T12:56:43","date_gmt":"2018-01-12T12:56:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11995"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:13:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:13:21","slug":"10-razoes-pelas-quais-os-amigos-ok-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-razoes-pelas-quais-os-amigos-ok-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"10 raz\u00f5es pelas quais n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema em ser amigo do seu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser amigo do seu ex nem sempre \u00e9 um desastre completo. Por vezes, acredite-se ou n\u00e3o, pode mesmo transformar-se numa amizade significativa.<\/p>\n

After all, that person spent a great amount of time with you and you shared a lot of moments together. You’ve been through good and bad; that is something you don\u2019t forget that easily. You may break up, but you can’t erase the existence of that person.<\/p>\n

Although it ended the way it did, you still have some fond memories of your time together. There were times he made you happy when you were together, when he surprised you by doing something beautiful. It wasn\u2019t awful all the time, especially not in the beginning.<\/p>\n

Se os dois se concentrassem nos bons momentos que passaram juntos, em vez de se concentrarem no que fizeram de errado um com o outro, poderiam ter uma amizade bonita e duradoura. Tudo o que \u00e9 preciso \u00e9 compreender e respeitar-se mutuamente.<\/p>\n

Here are some reasons why it\u2019s okay for you to be amigos do teu ex<\/a>.<\/p>\n

1. By keeping your heart open, you\u2019ll be able to find love again<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Se viveres a tua vida perdoando as pessoas que te fizeram mal e abrindo o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s pessoas que te rodeiam, atrair\u00e1s coisas positivas que tamb\u00e9m te acontecer\u00e3o. H\u00e1 quem lhe chame karma, h\u00e1 quem lhe chame boa sorte, mas a forma como trata os outros vai voltar para si mais tarde.<\/p>\n

By maintaining a good relationship with your ex, you\u2019re forgiving yourself. You\u2019re going to be a better person with much more confidence, which will pay off when you finally meet someone new.<\/p>\n

2. Foi uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o feliz<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

OK, no break-up is happy, but let\u2019s say that yours wasn\u2019t ugly. You kind of expected it and maybe it was a mutual agreement between two people who just realized that they had nothing in common so they decided to break it off before someone got seriously hurt.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 perfeito para o in\u00edcio de uma bela amizade.<\/p>\n

3. Ele j\u00e1 sabe tudo sobre ti<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s easy to talk to him because you don\u2019t have to explain yourself and the things you do or don\u2019t do, or eat or don\u2019t eat. He already knows all of that.<\/p>\n

It feels natural talking to him and despite the fact you\u2019re no longer together, it would be nice to act nice and keep him in your life as a friend.<\/p>\n

4. T\u00eam muitos amigos em comum<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

If you have a lot of mutual friends and you don\u2019t want to create any awkward situations for them, you\u2019re better off staying friends. Imagine if one of your friends is having a birthday party and you are both invited.<\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t it be better for you to stay friends and go to the party with no resentment or anger that was left from the break-up? Also, you can always stay friends but keep your distance; you don\u2019t have to spend the whole night next to each other.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s also important that you don\u2019t bother each other with your presence.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019ve moved on<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You\u2019ve had your share of tears and you\u2019ve passed the healing process. Now that you hold nothing against him, it\u2019s normal to be friends.<\/p>\n

Now that you are over him, his new girlfriend won\u2019t bother you and you won\u2019t be staring in his direction the whole time, fearing someone will hit on him.<\/p>\n

6. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais tens\u00e3o sexual<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Talvez tenha sa\u00eddo de um rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/a> where sex had turned from a source of pleasure to a habit. And now that you\u2019ve broken up, if someone else attracts you more than your ex-partner, it\u2019s safe to say that you can be lifelong friends.<\/p>\n

7. Ambos s\u00e3o emocionalmente maduros<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Your maturity allowed you to look at things from a different perspective. You realized that he means a lot to you and that you don\u2019t want to lose him, so if you had to break up, that doesn\u2019t mean you mustn\u2019t see each other ever again. You are reasonable enough to let him into your life as a friend.<\/p>\n

8. Deixou de viver no passado<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Finalmente seguiste em frente e percebeste que o passado deve ficar onde pertence. O que quer que tenhas passado j\u00e1 passou e nada do que fa\u00e7as pode mudar isso.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa que pode mudar \u00e9 a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com o seu ex. Por isso, se assim o decidir, pode deix\u00e1-lo entrar na sua vida e os dois podem come\u00e7ar tudo de novo, mas desta vez com pap\u00e9is diferentes.<\/p>\n

9. Preocupam-se uns com os outros<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You still care about each other but not in the same way as before. You grew to develop a different relationship, so why should you lose that just because of a stupid unwritten rule that exes shouldn\u2019t be friends. If you want to be friends and if you still have some feelings for each other, do it.<\/p>\n

10. Ele d\u00e1-lhe bons conselhos<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You know that whenever you have a problem you can go to him. Even when you were in a relationship, he knew how to give you good advice. He didn\u2019t do it that often, but when he did, he knew how.<\/p>\n

You still value his opinion and you\u2019ve got nothing against him, so he has nothing to lose and he will be completely honest.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Being friends with your ex is not always a complete disaster. Sometimes, believe it or not, it can actually turn into a meaningful friendship. After all, that person spent a great amount of time with you and you shared a lot of moments together. You’ve been through good and bad; that is something you don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":12002,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11995","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/henri-pham-348523.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11995","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11995"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11995\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12002"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11995"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11995"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11995"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}