{"id":12004,"date":"2020-07-12T13:22:49","date_gmt":"2020-07-12T13:22:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12004"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:36:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:36:02","slug":"9-maneiras-pelas-quais-o-ciume-destroi-um-relacionamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/9-maneiras-pelas-quais-o-ciume-destroi-um-relacionamento\/","title":{"rendered":"9 maneiras pelas quais o ci\u00fame destr\u00f3i seu relacionamento"},"content":{"rendered":"

Os ci\u00fames t\u00eam a sua forma de destruir as rela\u00e7\u00f5es quando ficam fora de controlo. Para compreender melhor esta quest\u00e3o, eis as formas como o ci\u00fame o afecta a si e \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ele tem ci\u00fames?<\/a> ou \u00e9s tu?<\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o as consequ\u00eancias dos ci\u00fames t\u00f3xicos que podem afetar ambos os lados de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Enquanto algumas mulheres se perguntam como fazer ci\u00fames a um rapaz<\/a> for the sake of knowing they are truly interested in them – there are so many relationships out there that have been ruined by jealousy.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a a sentir-se inseguro<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a primeira causa do ci\u00fame e pode manifestar-se de forma consciente ou subconsciente.<\/p>\n

When it\u2019s conscious, you feel like you\u2019re not enough, like you don\u2019t deserve your partner.<\/p>\n

But unconsciously, deep down you feel that you don\u2019t deserve happiness, when on the outside it seems to you like you\u2019re fine.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re so sure that he can do better that you start looking for signs of infidelity, you start waiting for something bad to happen.<\/p>\n

Mesmo quando as coisas est\u00e3o a correr bem, ainda sente que algo est\u00e1 errado.<\/a><\/p>\n

Os vossos medos aumentam<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re constantly afraid of him cheating, of you ending up alone, of you getting hurt again.<\/p>\n

A inveja alimenta-se dos seus medos, que depois o controlam.<\/p>\n

Prepara-se para o pior e, sem saber, prepara o caminho para destruir a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tornando assim os seus medos realidade.<\/p>\n

Fica obcecado com a espionagem<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando tememos que algu\u00e9m nos possa magoar, ou nos afastamos dessa pessoa ou temos a necessidade de conhecer todos os pormenores da sua vida.<\/p>\n

Ficamos obcecados com o seu tempo livre, com o seu tempo de trabalho.<\/p>\n

You have the need to know what kind of emails he sends, or what he\u2019s laughing at while he\u2019s looking at his phone.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: Sinais de obsess\u00e3o: 10 sinais de que ele \u00e9 perigosamente obsessivo, n\u00e3o apaixonado<\/a><\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a a sofrer<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Your obsession starts draining you, giving you constant fears and hurting you because you have no idea what\u2019s going on.<\/p>\n

Soon, you\u2019ll start suffering physically because of the jealousy that\u2019s gotten out of hand.<\/p>\n

O melhor a fazer \u00e9 admitir que existe um problema e depois sentar-se e tentar resolv\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

If it doesn\u2019t look like it\u2019s going to work, the best thing to do is quit.<\/p>\n

If you stay, there\u2019s a huge possibility that both of you will deixar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o desfeita<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Aparece a possessividade<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re jealous, you start feeling like you own your partner (or the other way around).<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 dono de ningu\u00e9m e a possessividade \u00e9 uma forma segura de matar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Se come\u00e7ar a sentir-se possessivo em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu parceiro, ou se o seu parceiro come\u00e7ar a sentir-se possessivo em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a si, aborde a quest\u00e3o antes que seja tarde demais.<\/p>\n

O teu passado volta para te assombrar<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sometimes jealousy can stick with us from our previous experiences. You\u2019ve already been cheated on, so what\u2019s stopping him from doing the same?<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a a ter flashbacks e os sinais do passado come\u00e7am a misturar-se com a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o atual.<\/p>\n

Ficamos presos num ciclo de mem\u00f3rias dolorosas e d\u00favidas, vendo apenas o pior na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

A rela\u00e7\u00e3o transforma-se numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de controlo<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A possessividade d\u00e1 origem \u00e0 necessidade de controlar o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

Para al\u00e9m do desejo de os possuir, de conhecer todos os pormenores do seu dia e das suas horas de vig\u00edlia, segue-se a necessidade de os controlar.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso que se comportem de uma certa maneira, que ignorem certas pessoas e que passem cada segundo do seu tempo livre consigo, segundo as suas condi\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

O controlo pode magoar e prejudicar gravemente a pessoa que est\u00e1 a ser controlada.<\/p>\n

If you feel like you\u2019re the victim of this, walk away. Essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o j\u00e1 desapareceu h\u00e1 muito tempo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Perdes a tua paz<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re the victim or the jealous one, it\u2019s inevitable that you\u2019ll lose your peace.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re jealous, how can you have peace if you\u2019re constantly worrying about losing them, about their behavior, about their free time?<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re the victim, there\u2019s no single possibility of having peace while you\u2019re being tortured, with your feelings and loyalty questioned.<\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es ciumentas s\u00e3o t\u00f3xicas para ambas as partes.<\/p>\n

Destr\u00f3i a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re unable to address the issue, if there\u2019s no communication between the two of you, that\u2019s a lost relationship.<\/p>\n

Discuss\u00f5es constantes, culpabiliza\u00e7\u00e3o e perda de confian\u00e7a s\u00e3o sinais seguros do fim da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Se ama verdadeiramente a sua cara-metade e quer fazer com que as coisas funcionem, certifique-se de que actua sobre os ci\u00fames no momento em que se apercebe que eles aparecem.<\/p>\n

O ci\u00fame fora de controlo transforma as rela\u00e7\u00f5es em rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas.<\/p>\n

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Jealousy has its way of destroying relationships once it gets out of hand. To understand the issue better, here are the ways it affects you and your relationship. Is he jealous or are you? These are the consequences of toxic jealousy that can happen to both sides of a relationship. While some people women wonder…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":110181,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12004","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/9-Ways-Jealousy-Destroys-Your-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12004","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12004"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12004\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110181"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12004"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12004"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12004"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}