I\u2019ve had my share of painful breakups \u2013 nobody argues against that. In fact, if we look at things objectively, we\u2019d all agree that I\u2019ve been through more devastating experiences than the average girl.<\/p>\n
I loved men who didn\u2019t love me back. I was used, cheated on, and left behind. I was treated like trash, and I was even abused.<\/p>\n
Mas apesar de tudo isto, Nunca tive dificuldades seguir em frente<\/a> com a minha vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n No matter what I\u2019d been through, somehow, I would always find a way to brush the sadness off my shoulders and restore my true self.<\/strong><\/p>\n O mais fascinante de tudo isto \u00e9 que o meu processo de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o foi sempre r\u00e1pido. De cada vez, ficava como novo num piscar de olhos.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sempre que tinha o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, curava-me a uma velocidade incr\u00edvel. Pelo menos, era assim que parecia.<\/strong> Isto era o que toda a gente \u00e0 minha volta pensava. Que se lixe, era o que eu pensava.<\/p>\n At\u00e9 que me apercebi: Nunca me estava a curar. Em vez disso, durante todo este tempo, estava apenas a for\u00e7ar-me a esquecer. E estes s\u00e3o dois conceitos completamente diferentes.<\/strong><\/p>\n You see, when you\u2019re forcing yourself to forget, you pretend that your traumas never happened. Envolve-se numa coisa chamada auto-engano, e isso nunca pode ser saud\u00e1vel.<\/strong><\/p>\n You do your best to sweep things under the carpet. It\u2019s like you have a magic wand, and you expect it to erase everything bad you ever experienced.<\/p>\n You continue with your life exactly like this \u2013 as if you\u2019re not damaged and as if your heart is still in one piece. Sounds like the perfect recipe for felicidade<\/a>, doesn\u2019t it?<\/strong><\/p>\n Well, the problem is that this approach has one fatal flaw: it\u2019s utterly impossible. The things you run away from find a way of catching up with you sooner or later.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sometimes, your old demons come knocking on your door years after you\u2019ve convinced yourself that you were done with them. And once they do, there is no chance of escape.<\/p>\n De facto, desta vez, todos os seus traumas tornam-se ainda mais agonizantes. Afinal, esta dor acumula-se h\u00e1 anos e agora tornou-se um monstro com o qual tem de lidar.<\/p>\n So at the end of the day, I\u2019m not the tough woman everyone sees me as. I\u2019m not strong.<\/p>\n![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-standing-on-the-street-2.jpg\")
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