{"id":121453,"date":"2020-12-24T17:28:29","date_gmt":"2020-12-24T17:28:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=121453"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:21:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:21:10","slug":"como-concentrar-se-em-si-proprio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-concentrar-se-em-si-proprio\/","title":{"rendered":"Como concentrar-se em si mesmo sem se sentir culpado (20 passos simples)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Due to recent events in my life, I&#8217;ve realized the importance of learning how to focus on yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t get me wrong. Prioritizing <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-o-seu-parceiro-esta-a-arruinar-a-sua-saude-mental\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sa\u00fade mental<\/a> e o amor-pr\u00f3prio sempre foi um grande objetivo meu. N\u00e3o temos muito controlo sobre a nossa vida, por isso, concentrarmo-nos no nosso bem-estar e na paz interior \u00e9 o m\u00ednimo que podemos fazer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Navegar nestes tempos dif\u00edceis e, ao mesmo tempo, trabalhar no auto-aperfei\u00e7oamento, preservar a autoestima, ser um raio de positividade e dormir o suficiente \u00e9 MUITO.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t beat yourself up if self-care hasn&#8217;t been at the forefront of your specific goals lately. But do ensure that you start taking self-reflection seriously and take time to figure out how to lead a better life.<\/p>\n<p>Take it from me. For so long, I let life just happen. I wasn&#8217;t as proactive as I should&#8217;ve been, which resulted in suffering in silence and watching my life become insufferable. <strong>Nunca se prev\u00eaem estas coisas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>I let shitty people get away with their BS, I never asked for help as I don&#8217;t like to burden people with my issues, and I never stood up for myself. Doing this created a real mess in my head (and life).<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not at fault for the bad stuff that happened (nor are you), but I&#8217;m definitely at fault for not doing anything about it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Now, I&#8217;ve done a whole 180. I&#8217;ve changed my entire outlook and decided that it&#8217;s time to get out of my comfort zone.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s super easy to let negative thoughts overwhelm you and spend time feeling sorry for yourself. When life knocks you down, it doesn&#8217;t take prisoners. What else can you do other than wallow in misery, right?<\/p>\n<p><em>Muito, ao que parece.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Quer saber como \u00e9 que, lenta mas seguramente, comecei a dar a volta \u00e0 minha vida? Espero que a sua resposta seja sim, porque estas dicas simples sobre como se concentrar em si pr\u00f3prio puseram verdadeiramente as coisas em perspetiva para mim.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se quer mudar a sua vida, comece com pouco e v\u00e1 subindo. Mas primeiro, responde-me a isto:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Have you recently been through a traumatic breakup, and you&#8217;re unsure how to regain your identity?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Perhaps you&#8217;ve been in a long-term relationship for ages, and you&#8217;re starting to lose your sense of self?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Or are you a people-pleaser who always puts others&#8217; needs first, and you&#8217;re adamant to change your life?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Congrats on finally prioritizing your wellness. Not many people feel comfortable taking that (much-needed) step, but once they do, there&#8217;s no going back, which is something you&#8217;re about to see for yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Learning how to focus on myself has been life-changing, and the thing is, it&#8217;s so simple. I promise your life will start changing from the ground up.<\/p>\n<p>Concentre-se na sua pr\u00f3pria vida em vez de se preocupar com o que os outros pensam de si. Saia das redes sociais e desfrute da vida REAL. <em>Que mais?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re going to have to keep reading to find that out.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/13-formas-de-se-amar-a-si-proprio-depois-de-se-libertar-de-uma-relacao-toxica\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">13 maneiras de amar a si mesmo depois de se libertar de um relacionamento t\u00f3xico<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Um guia sobre como se concentrar em si mesmo e n\u00e3o nos outros<\/h2>\n<p><em>It&#8217;s normal to get wrapped up in work, errands, and life. Taking care of yourself may even seem self-indulgent at times. But the only way to achieve success is by starting from within, and this is how you do it:<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Visualize o seu futuro eu ideal e viva a vida desse ponto de vista.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121515\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/shot-of-a-young-designer.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia de um jovem designer a imaginar e a apoiar-se na parede com um tablet e a sorrir\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/shot-of-a-young-designer.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/shot-of-a-young-designer-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/shot-of-a-young-designer-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/shot-of-a-young-designer-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/shot-of-a-young-designer-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/shot-of-a-young-designer-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/shot-of-a-young-designer-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/shot-of-a-young-designer-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 talvez uma das formas mais f\u00e1ceis de se motivar a perseguir o que o faz feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Basta imaginar uma vers\u00e3o mais velha de si pr\u00f3prio e ver o que faz essa pessoa feliz. Onde \u00e9 que se v\u00ea daqui a dez anos? O que est\u00e1 a fazer? Com quem est\u00e1 rodeado?<\/p>\n<p>Estas respostas ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o a ver claramente o que precisa de fazer AGORA se quiser que o seu futuro seja de uma determinada forma.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pratique o amor-pr\u00f3prio e seja bom para si pr\u00f3prio.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121516\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-working-on-vacation.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a trabalhar nas f\u00e9rias sentada junto \u00e0 piscina com comida e computador port\u00e1til \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-working-on-vacation.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-working-on-vacation-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-working-on-vacation-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-working-on-vacation-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-working-on-vacation-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-working-on-vacation-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-working-on-vacation-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-working-on-vacation-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do que \u00e9 que VOC\u00ca precisa? N\u00e3o da sua fam\u00edlia, amigos ou colegas. Quais s\u00e3o as suas necessidades neste preciso momento?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 feliz? Se n\u00e3o, o que est\u00e1 a fazer para mudar isso? As coisas nunca v\u00e3o melhorar se continuar sentado, ignorando os seus desejos e necessidades.<\/p>\n<p>Love and nurture yourself. Don&#8217;t let anyone shatter your self-esteem. <strong>If there&#8217;s anyone out there who doesn&#8217;t support your personal development journey, lose their number.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need anyone who&#8217;s actively counter-productive to your happiness. You know better than that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Encontre o seu ponto de partida e parta da\u00ed.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121517\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-smiling-and-pensive.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita, sorridente e pensativa, a olhar para o exterior \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-smiling-and-pensive.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-smiling-and-pensive-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-smiling-and-pensive-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-smiling-and-pensive-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-smiling-and-pensive-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-smiling-and-pensive-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-smiling-and-pensive-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-smiling-and-pensive-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Career, personal life, bettering your relationships with family&#8230; Which area of your life needs the most work?<\/p>\n<p>This will be the best jumping-off point that&#8217;ll clear your vision and set you in the right direction. You can&#8217;t change your life from the ground up overnight.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9 preciso tempo, paci\u00eancia e perseveran\u00e7a.<\/strong> \u00c9 por isso que sugiro vivamente que se concentre numa \u00e1rea espec\u00edfica da sua vida que sinta que pode ser melhorada.<\/p>\n<p>Once you&#8217;ve successfully managed that, you&#8217;ll feel more motivated to keep going \u2013 plus, it won&#8217;t feel like a chore.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t be afraid to get out of your comfort zone and try new things.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121523\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/mature-woman-learning.jpg\" alt=\"mulher madura a aprender e a ser ensinada por um professor dentro de uma sala com um homem idoso a aprender ao fundo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/mature-woman-learning.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/mature-woman-learning-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/mature-woman-learning-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/mature-woman-learning-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/mature-woman-learning-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/mature-woman-learning-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/mature-woman-learning-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/mature-woman-learning-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nothing ever grows in the comfort zone. While it might feel reassuring and familiar, it&#8217;ll never allow you to push yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Try new things. Do stuff that scares you. This is all about focusing on yourself, right? So, ask yourself what you truly want to do and where you want to be. Don&#8217;t be scared if the answers are daunting.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Correr riscos \u00e9 a forma mais segura de se reinventar e de ver como \u00e9 forte, capaz e engenhoso.<\/strong> After all, you only have one life. Don&#8217;t you want to use it wisely?<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/ser-suficientemente-forte-para-deixar-de-lado-tudo-o-que-o-faz-infeliz\/\">Seja forte o suficiente para deixar de lado tudo o que o faz infeliz<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Verifique-se a si pr\u00f3prio com frequ\u00eancia.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121526\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-calm-woman.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher calma junto ao mar e de olhos fechados\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-calm-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-calm-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-calm-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-calm-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-calm-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-calm-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-calm-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-calm-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quer saber como se concentrar em si pr\u00f3prio e n\u00e3o nos outros, certo? Bem, \u00e9 fundamental falar regularmente consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Pare e tire um segundo para respirar. Quando tudo se tornar demasiado pesado, fa\u00e7a uma pausa e permita-se respirar um pouco.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re not a robot, nor should you be at anyone&#8217;s beck and call 24\/7.<\/p>\n<p>You can be your own best friend or your own worst enemy. It&#8217;s up to you which one you choose.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Passar tempo com os mais pr\u00f3ximos e queridos.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121527\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-old-couple.jpg\" alt=\"belo casal de idosos com a filha sentados e a utilizar um separador digital enquanto conversam\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-old-couple.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-old-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-old-couple-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-old-couple-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-old-couple-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-old-couple-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-old-couple-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-old-couple-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nunca \u00e9 demais salientar a import\u00e2ncia de passar tempo com a fam\u00edlia. Eles s\u00e3o os \u00fanicos que podem ajudar a centrar-se em si e encorajar o seu crescimento pessoal da forma que merece.<\/p>\n<p>Recently, I&#8217;ve been going through some difficult stuff, so I decided to visit my family. Sort of like an extended stay to find my inner peace again.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn&#8217;t believe how therapeutic this has been for me and my mental health. <strong>Estar rodeado pelos seus entes queridos, bem como renunciar a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/romantic-love\/love-advice\/e-por-isso-que-devem-manter-a-vossa-relacao-fora-das-redes-sociais\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">redes sociais<\/a> por um bocado, faz maravilhas \u00e0 mente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Never underestimate the healing power of a loved one. Their mere presence makes all the difference, which is as astonishing as it\u2019s needed.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">J\u00e1 tentaste escrever um di\u00e1rio?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121528\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-writing-on-her-journal.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a escrever no seu di\u00e1rio numa mesa de madeira com o telem\u00f3vel e o caf\u00e9 em cima da mesa numa imagem recortada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-writing-on-her-journal.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-writing-on-her-journal-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-writing-on-her-journal-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-writing-on-her-journal-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-writing-on-her-journal-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-writing-on-her-journal-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-writing-on-her-journal-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-writing-on-her-journal-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Em termos de trabalho para atingir os seus objectivos espec\u00edficos, manter um di\u00e1rio ir\u00e1 mant\u00ea-lo num rumo firme e motiv\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n<p>Como? Simples. <strong>Writing your goals down will give you a sense of accountability, and you&#8217;ll be less inclined to go off course, as it&#8217;ll become somewhat of a habit.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>O registo em di\u00e1rio \u00e9 a forma mais segura de avaliar o seu progresso e de se manter \u00e0 tona quando se depara com um obst\u00e1culo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know, I know, it may appear so third-grade, right? But let me assure you, it&#8217;s anything but. It&#8217;s the best way to reflect on your journey, stay true to your dreams, and see where you stand.<\/p>\n<p>If more people resorted to this simple strategy, the world would be a much less messed-up place, don&#8217;t you think?<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/cortar-o-contacto-com-as-pessoas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Quando \u00e9 que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio cortar o contacto com as pessoas? ( + 7 dicas para o fazer)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Aprender a concentrar-se em si mesmo depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><em>Breakups are the worst. The time spent together, butterflies in your stomach, sweet messages, and having your person \u2013 gone. Just like that. How do you ever get better? These might help.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Grieving takes time; don\u2019t rush the process.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121529\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-woman-thoughtful.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste e pensativa apoiada nas grades num fundo desfocado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-woman-thoughtful.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-woman-thoughtful-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-woman-thoughtful-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-woman-thoughtful-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-woman-thoughtful-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-woman-thoughtful-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-woman-thoughtful-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-woman-thoughtful-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t expect to feel better overnight. Just like with any other loss, losing the one you love takes a lot of getting used to.<\/p>\n<p>De repente, v\u00ea-se obrigado a encontrar uma nova rotina e a aceitar o facto de ter acabado de perder o seu \"go-to\".<\/p>\n<p>Quem \u00e9 que te vai ouvir chorar \u00e0s duas da manh\u00e3? Quem \u00e9 que te vai segurar a m\u00e3o quando receberes m\u00e1s not\u00edcias do trabalho?<\/p>\n<p>Yeah. Breakups suck. So, don&#8217;t rush the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/processo-de-cura-das-chamas-gemeas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">processo de cura<\/a>. Take as much time as you need, and don&#8217;t beat yourself up. You\u2019ll find your joy again. You always do.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Feel your feelings but don&#8217;t let them consume you.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121531\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-breathing-fresh-air.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a respirar ar fresco ao ar livre com casaco de ganga em grande plano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-breathing-fresh-air.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-breathing-fresh-air-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-breathing-fresh-air-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-breathing-fresh-air-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-breathing-fresh-air-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-breathing-fresh-air-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-breathing-fresh-air-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-breathing-fresh-air-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Finding the right balance is a challenge; I\u2019ll give you that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You can&#8217;t deny yourself to feel whatever it is that you&#8217;re feeling, but at the same time, how do you not let it consume you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t say what exactly will work for you, but I can say what worked for me. Usually, I let myself cry for a bit while listening to Coldplay (no judging).<\/p>\n<p>Mas no momento em que come\u00e7o a sentir-me sem f\u00f4lego, e os pensamentos negativos surgem na minha cabe\u00e7a, decido simplesmente esquecer isso.<\/p>\n<p>Telefono \u00e0 minha irm\u00e3 ou \u00e0 minha m\u00e3e, ou vou passear o meu c\u00e3o. O ar fresco ajuda a p\u00f4r as coisas em perspetiva e come\u00e7o a sentir-me de novo eu pr\u00f3prio. O segredo \u00e9 agir atempadamente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">There&#8217;s no point in crying over spilled milk (this is not your fault).<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121584\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-woman-thoughtful.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita e pensativa, vestindo uma camisola grossa, de p\u00e9 na floresta durante a esta\u00e7\u00e3o fria\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-woman-thoughtful.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-woman-thoughtful-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-woman-thoughtful-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-woman-thoughtful-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-woman-thoughtful-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-woman-thoughtful-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-woman-thoughtful-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/beautiful-woman-thoughtful-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It happened. It&#8217;s over. And guess what? It wasn&#8217;t entirely your fault. It takes two to tango. No matter what your toxic partner implies, you&#8217;re not the sole reason for the break-up.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s one thing to be in touch with your emotions, but it&#8217;s a whole other thing to keep blaming yourself with no purpose. It&#8217;s not like you woke up one day and decided to fall out of love (or vice versa).<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a whole culmination of events that precedes such a decision. Things build-up over time, and one day, it happens.<\/p>\n<p>No one person is to blame (with exceptions, of course). Don&#8217;t cry over spilled milk. Life goes on, and there&#8217;s so much life left for you to experience. This breakup doesn&#8217;t define the rest of your life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Corte todo o contacto com a fonte da sua dor.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121585\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa ao telefone, olhando para o lado, triste e sentada dentro de casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-the-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-the-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-the-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-the-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-the-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-the-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Yup, I&#8217;m telling you to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-razoes-pelas-quais-e-importante-seguir-a-regra-do-nao-contacto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">seguir a regra do n\u00e3o contacto<\/a>. That&#8217;s the fastest way to heal. While I do believe that staying <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/7-razoes-pelas-quais-nao-deve-continuar-a-ser-amigo-do-seu-ex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">amigos do teu ex<\/a> \u00e9 poss\u00edvel, mas leva tempo a chegar a esse ponto.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re nowhere near ready for that. Distance yourself from the one who caused you pain and delete their number.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Estar perto do seu ex neste momento s\u00f3 vai prolongar o seu sofrimento e tornar imposs\u00edvel concentrar-se em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong> It isn&#8217;t healthy, it&#8217;ll prevent you from moving on, and you&#8217;ll most likely end up in bed together.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t even have to explain how excruciating having to begin the healing process all over again would be, do I?<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/regra-de-nao-contacto-o-poder-do-silencio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Regra de n\u00e3o contacto: O poder do sil\u00eancio ap\u00f3s uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Opte por ver isto como uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o disfar\u00e7ada.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121586\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada nas escadas do passeio, a sorrir, com um vestido branco \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Right now, it seems like the end of the world, but soon, you&#8217;ll see this for what it is \u2013 a blessing in disguise.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 evidente que estava numa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/o-que-e-uma-relacao-disfuncional\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o disfuncional<\/a>; otherwise, you would still be together. There&#8217;s a reason you broke up, right?<\/p>\n<p>That reason will become more and more clear as time goes on. When you start finding yourself again, you&#8217;ll see how much better things are and how much happier you feel.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re still not in that place, I promise, that day will come, and so much weight will be lifted off your shoulders.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Encontre novos passatempos e concentre-se nos seus objectivos.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121587\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-vacation.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa em f\u00e9rias, sentada no gradeamento de uma casa de praia, com um vestido branco da moda e \u00f3culos de sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-vacation.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-vacation-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-vacation-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-vacation-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-vacation-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-vacation-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-vacation-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-on-vacation-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>First and foremost, make more time for the people you love most. Secondly, pursue new hobbies that&#8217;ll help you feel better about yourself, and lastly, start making plans for your future.<\/p>\n<p>Viajar para um novo lugar. Partir \u00e0 aventura <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/questions-and-games\/bff-talk\/lista-de-amigos-13-desafios-que-tem-de-fazer-com-o-seu-melhor-amigo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">com os teus melhores amigos<\/a>. Apply for that job you&#8217;ve been eyeing for ages. Listen to podcasts that&#8217;ll help you on your new journey.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, estiveste com o teu ex durante alguns anos. Mas o que s\u00e3o esses tr\u00eas anos comparados com a vida que tens pela frente?<\/p>\n<h2>Isto \u00e9 como se concentrar em si mesmo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><em>Being in a healthy relationship is awesome. But sometimes, your individuality gets lost in the &#8216;coupledom.\u2019 You focus less on your needs and more on the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/lista-de-necessidades-de-relacionamento\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">necessidades de relacionamento<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>This begs the question: How do you avoid losing yourself when part of a couple? Here&#8217;s how:<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Passe regularmente tempo de qualidade consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121588\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-with-her-feet.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada com os p\u00e9s num sof\u00e1 a relaxar com um livro e um caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-with-her-feet.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-with-her-feet-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-with-her-feet-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-with-her-feet-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-with-her-feet-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-with-her-feet-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-with-her-feet-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-sitting-with-her-feet-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Carve out some &#8216;me time&#8217; as much as you can. It&#8217;s not selfish, self-indulgent, or embarrassing \u2013 quite the contrary.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s essential to spend time alone with yourself and your thoughts, as it&#8217;s the only way to see how you feel and whether you&#8217;re happy.<\/p>\n<p>Being alone doesn&#8217;t mean being lonely. You can have a fantastic group of people who love you and still relish &#8216;me time.\u2019<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ligue-se aos seus amigos anteriores \u00e0 rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121589\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/four-attractive-young-women.jpg\" alt=\"quatro jovens atraentes, de camisa de noite, sentadas na cama e a beber cocktails\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/four-attractive-young-women.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/four-attractive-young-women-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/four-attractive-young-women-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/four-attractive-young-women-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/four-attractive-young-women-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/four-attractive-young-women-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/four-attractive-young-women-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/four-attractive-young-women-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Remember those friends you were so close with before you got together with your partner? Hit them up, especially if it&#8217;s been a while. Genuine friends are so precious.<\/p>\n<p><strong>While it&#8217;s somewhat expected to be focused on your relationship while it&#8217;s in the beginning stages, after a while, things should go back to how they were.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Call up your pre-relationship friends, reconnect, and don&#8217;t neglect them anymore. These are the people you&#8217;ll always come back to when life knocks you down.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/verdadeira-alma-gemea-amizade\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">20 belos sinais de que encontraste uma verdadeira amizade de alma g\u00e9mea<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Have a hobby that&#8217;s just your own.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121590\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-dancing-freestyle.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a dan\u00e7ar estilo livre sozinha num est\u00fadio de dan\u00e7a\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-dancing-freestyle.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-dancing-freestyle-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-dancing-freestyle-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-dancing-freestyle-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-dancing-freestyle-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-dancing-freestyle-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-dancing-freestyle-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-dancing-freestyle-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Have something that&#8217;s just your own. Whether it&#8217;s dancing, karate, joining a choir, or cooking, as long as it&#8217;s something you&#8217;ll do for yourself, it works.<\/p>\n<p>While being in a relationship is amazing and fulfilling, it&#8217;s also important to stay true to who you are. Follow your passions and do stuff that makes your heart happy.<\/p>\n<p>Not only will this help you be your happiest self, but it&#8217;ll also make you a much better partner to your significant other.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Arranjar tempo para fazer exerc\u00edcio.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121592\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-exercising.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a fazer exerc\u00edcio num tapete enquanto v\u00ea um v\u00eddeo no port\u00e1til em casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-exercising.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-exercising-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-exercising-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-exercising-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-exercising-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-exercising-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-exercising-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-exercising-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Not only is exercise healthy in the sense that it can reduce the risk of developing many diseases, but it&#8217;s also a fantastic way to let off steam when you need it most.<\/p>\n<p>Have I mentioned that it&#8217;s also guaranteed to improve the quality of your life?<\/p>\n<p>I understand that life can get insanely crazy, and it&#8217;s hard to carve out enough time to go to the gym. That&#8217;s what Youtube is for!<\/p>\n<p>Encontre v\u00eddeos de treino que funcionem para SI e fa\u00e7a o seu exerc\u00edcio no conforto da sua sala de estar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t let your goals get lost by living your \u2018couple goals.\u2019<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121593\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/dreamy-woman-with-diary.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sonhadora com um di\u00e1rio sentada num sof\u00e1 na sala de estar e a olhar para o lado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/dreamy-woman-with-diary.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/dreamy-woman-with-diary-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/dreamy-woman-with-diary-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/dreamy-woman-with-diary-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/dreamy-woman-with-diary-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/dreamy-woman-with-diary-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/dreamy-woman-with-diary-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/dreamy-woman-with-diary-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While there&#8217;s a whole list of &#8216;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/alguns-objectivos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">alguns objectivos<\/a>&#8216; that I&#8217;m sure you and your bae check off the list, it&#8217;s also important to not let your own goals disappear from sight.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Just because you&#8217;re in a happy, fulfilled relationship, doesn&#8217;t mean your ambition and drive stopped being important.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Keep pursuing your dreams. Don&#8217;t settle for just being content. Reach for the stars and do what you need to achieve complete personal fulfillment. It&#8217;s not that crazy, you know?<\/p>\n<p>You deserve it, and it&#8217;ll only make your relationship that much stronger. Your needs are just as important as your partner&#8217;s. Remember that, and you\u2019re golden.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/uma-vida-privada-e-uma-vida-feliz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">As 12 melhores raz\u00f5es pelas quais uma vida privada \u00e9 uma vida feliz<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Comunique as suas necessidades e desejos ao seu parceiro.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121594\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-talking-heart-to-heart.jpg\" alt=\"casal a falar de cora\u00e7\u00e3o para cora\u00e7\u00e3o na sala de estar sentado num sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-talking-heart-to-heart.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-talking-heart-to-heart-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-talking-heart-to-heart-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-talking-heart-to-heart-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-talking-heart-to-heart-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-talking-heart-to-heart-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-talking-heart-to-heart-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-talking-heart-to-heart-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quer saber como se concentrar em si pr\u00f3prio numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas sem perder de vista o seu parceiro e as suas necessidades? <strong>COMUNICAR<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re not happy about something, speak your mind. If you&#8217;re hurt by their actions, express your dissatisfaction. If you don&#8217;t, it&#8217;ll keep eating away at you bit by bit.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma ferramenta necess\u00e1ria que faz ou desfaz uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Ser capaz de comunicar eficazmente \u00e9 uma das compet\u00eancias mais importantes para a vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tem o poder de criar uma barreira intranspon\u00edvel entre v\u00f3s ou de vos aproximar mais do que nunca.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">E, por vezes, \u00e9 preciso deixar o cabelo solto.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121595\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/smiling-woman-in-picnic.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente num piquenique no parque a divertir-se segurando vinho\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/smiling-woman-in-picnic.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/smiling-woman-in-picnic-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/smiling-woman-in-picnic-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/smiling-woman-in-picnic-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/smiling-woman-in-picnic-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/smiling-woman-in-picnic-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/smiling-woman-in-picnic-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/smiling-woman-in-picnic-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your life has been a mess, or if you&#8217;ve been too preoccupied with your partner&#8217;s needs, it&#8217;s time to let loose.<\/p>\n<p>Chame a sua equipa e pinte a cidade de vermelho. Saia \u00e0 noite, passe uma noite fant\u00e1stica em casa ou parta para uma aventura improvisada. O que quer que seja que o fa\u00e7a flutuar!<\/p>\n<p>Aprender a concentrar-se em si pr\u00f3prio numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o tem tudo a ver com fazer coisas que fazia quando era solteiro. O que o fez <em>feliz<\/em> ent\u00e3o, provavelmente, agora faz-te feliz.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve just neglected your needs for a bit. That&#8217;s okay, though. It&#8217;s never too late to do more stuff that makes you happy. There\u2019s no time like the present!<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/desafio-30-dias-de-amor-proprio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Desafio do amor-pr\u00f3prio de 30 dias: Torne-se a melhor vers\u00e3o de si mesmo<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>A felicidade \u00e9 uma escolha.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121600\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/happy-woman-at-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz na praia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/happy-woman-at-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/happy-woman-at-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/happy-woman-at-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/happy-woman-at-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/happy-woman-at-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/happy-woman-at-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/happy-woman-at-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/happy-woman-at-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>By now, you must&#8217;ve realized how vital it is to learn how to focus on yourself. Just do whatever makes your heart sing!<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t like the people you hang out with, change your social circle. If you&#8217;ve started to lose yourself in your relationship, do all the fun things you enjoyed while you were <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/as-pessoas-perguntam-te-porque-e-que-ainda-es-solteiro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ainda solteiro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and if you&#8217;re still reeling from your bad breakup (all the while blaming yourself for how it unfolded), STOP. As heartbreaking as it is, breakups happen, and life goes on.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s going to suck for a while, but it doesn&#8217;t mean that you should let it consume you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eu sei que chafurdar na mis\u00e9ria \u00e9 a coisa mais f\u00e1cil de fazer. Mas levantarmo-nos, decidirmos fazer alguma coisa para resolver o problema e permitirmo-nos sentir felizes novamente requer coragem.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Decide today that you&#8217;re going to grab life by the horns and do whatever the heck you want. Who can tell you otherwise?<\/p>\n<p>You create your path to happiness \u2013 if you can believe it, you can most definitely achieve it. And if I didn&#8217;t convince you, perhaps Abe Lincoln will:<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u201cMost people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/quando-comecares-a-acreditar-em-ti-proprio-estas-7-coisas-vao-acontecer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Quando come\u00e7ares a acreditar em ti pr\u00f3prio, estas 7 coisas v\u00e3o acontecer<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Due to recent events in my life, I&#8217;ve realized the importance of learning how to focus on yourself. Don&#8217;t get me wrong. Prioritizing mental health and self-love has always been a big goal of mine. You only have so much control of your life, so focusing on your wellness and inner peace is the least&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":121599,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-121453","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/How-To-Focus-On-Yourself-Without-Feeling-Guilty-20-Simple-Steps-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/121453","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=121453"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/121453\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121599"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=121453"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=121453"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=121453"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}