{"id":122241,"date":"2021-01-08T16:17:37","date_gmt":"2021-01-08T16:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=122241"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:15:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:15:46","slug":"a-mulher-deixa-de-argumentar-que-ja-nao-vale-a-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-mulher-deixa-de-argumentar-que-ja-nao-vale-a-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando uma mulher p\u00e1ra de discutir, isso significa que voc\u00ea n\u00e3o vale mais a pena brigar"},"content":{"rendered":"

No outro dia, estava sentado com alguns dos meus amigos homens e fiz-lhes a derradeira pergunta: \"Qual \u00e9 a coisa que mais os irrita nas raparigas?\"<\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t referring to their quebra-galhos nos encontros<\/a> because they\u2019re all different \u2013 I was talking about the things that bother them in the women they like and are in a relationship with.<\/p>\n

And, they all agreed on one thing: they can\u2019t stand naggy girls.<\/strong> \u00c9 assim que eles classificam as raparigas que apontam os seus defeitos e os chamam \u00e0 aten\u00e7\u00e3o para as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Before we consider matters any further, let\u2019s get one thing straight: I\u2019m familiar with each one of these guy\u2019s love histories, and I know exactly which of their exes they\u2019re talking about.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re not talking about possessively jealous girls. They\u2019re not talking about women who saw them as not good enough or about women who kept putting them down.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, estas eram as raparigas que davam o seu melhor para transformar os meus amigos em homens melhores. As raparigas que investiram o seu tempo, energia e nervos em homens que nunca os mereceram.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Estas eram as mulheres que lutavam pelos seus homens. As mulheres que fizeram tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para que as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es funcionassem, de uma forma ou de outra.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: neither of these relationships was idyllic. There was a lot of arguing, but one thing was for sure: each one of these women wholeheartedly loved my buddies.<\/p>\n

Mas cada uma destas hist\u00f3rias teve um desfecho semelhante. Mais cedo ou mais tarde, todas estas raparigas ficaram cansadas.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Deixaram os meus amigos, afastaram-se deles e nunca mais voltaram. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Todos eles acabaram por ficar de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido quando se aperceberam do que tinham perdido, mas, claro, agora todos fingem que algo assim nunca aconteceu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, these things do happen. It\u2019s actually a pretty typical scenario.<\/p>\n

A guy meets a girl. They fall in love, but the second he sees that he\u2019s gotten under her skin, he shows his true colors.<\/p>\n

Ele come\u00e7a tom\u00e1-la como garantida<\/a>O rapaz est\u00e1 a pensar que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possa fazer para a fazer desistir dele. Ele est\u00e1 t\u00e3o convencido de que esta rapariga veio para ficar que n\u00e3o faz qualquer esfor\u00e7o para a manter ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

Ao mesmo tempo, a rapariga \u00e9 a \u00fanica que luta por esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Ela faz de tudo para que as coisas funcionem.
\nEla perdoa-o por todas as merdas que ele a faz passar.<\/p>\n

Why? Because she loves him and because she sees something in him \u2013 she sees hope that one day, this man will be her happily ever after.<\/p>\n

The telenovela goes on and on for years. She moves mountains for his sake while he isn\u2019t willing to move a finger for her sake.<\/p>\n

E ent\u00e3o, depois de todas aquelas segundas oportunidades, ela percebe tudo. Ela finalmente percebe: ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno, nunca foi e nunca ser\u00e1.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ela apercebe-se que desperdi\u00e7ou anos da sua vida com um homem que nunca lhe daria o que ela precisa. Depois de ter feito tudo o que podia, apercebe-se que foi tudo em v\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Esta rapariga v\u00ea a verdade e rompe esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o unilateral. Sim, ela j\u00e1 o tentou fazer antes, mas desta vez \u00e9 diferente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This time, it\u2019s not an empty threat. This time, she gives up on him because she realizes he\u2019s no longer worth the fight.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is no more arguing, no more yelling, no more ultimatums, no more begging, no more chasing\u2026 All that is left is o seu sil\u00eancio<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bem, \u00e9 nesta altura que todos os homens est\u00e3o lixados. Este \u00e9 o sinal de que ele atingiu o ponto de n\u00e3o retorno.<\/p>\n

And, this is exactly what happened to most of my male friends. So, if you\u2019re like this, please be different and change your destiny on time.<\/p>\n

If you have a girl who argues with you \u2013 it means that she still has the strength to fight for you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

It means that you should consider yourself lucky because when she stops trying, you\u2019ll wish for all the nagging and criticism to come back. You\u2019ll wish for her love to come back.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The other day, I was sitting with some of my male friends and I asked them the ultimate question: \u201cWhat is the thing that annoys them most about girls?\u201d I wasn\u2019t referring to their dating dealbreakers because they\u2019re all different \u2013 I was talking about the things that bother them in the women they like…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":122335,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-122241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/When-A-Woman-Stops-Arguing-That-Means-Youre-No-Longer-Worth-The-Fight-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=122241"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122241\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122335"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=122241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=122241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=122241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}