Him not calling back ever again isn\u2019t a big deal, right? We enjoyed ourselves, and then we both continued with our lives.<\/p>\n
At least, that\u2019s what we keep telling ourselves. We put a lot of effort into being like men. Esfor\u00e7amo-nos por ensinar os nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es a n\u00e3o se apegarem e a n\u00e3o se partirem t\u00e3o facilmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n Wouldn\u2019t that be perfect? Wouldn\u2019t it be great if you could have some fun with a guy you like without any emotional consequences?<\/p>\n Sadly, things don\u2019t always work out like that. As much as you try not to give it a second thought, you\u2019re always left wondering.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ser\u00e1 que ele vai telefonar? Ser\u00e1 que eu era apenas um caso para ele? Quando \u00e9 que ele vai falar comigo? Estar\u00e1 ele a pensar em mim?<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not only referring to one night stands here \u2013 this was just an example. I\u2019m talking about all the men who were gone from your life in the blink of an eye.<\/strong><\/p>\n No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 que nunca lhe fizeram promessas.<\/p>\n You weren\u2019t exclusive, so you\u2019re convinced that you don\u2019t have the right to be mad. You two didn\u2019t put any labels on it, so you think they were in no obligation to stick around.<\/p>\n The worst part is that all the red flags were there. From the very first moment you met them, deep down, you knew very well that they weren\u2019t here to stay.<\/p>\n But you tried anyhow. You put effort into these relationships that weren\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n Estavas a dar a tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o a algu\u00e9m que s\u00f3 te via como uma paragem no caminho, e esperavas para sempre de homens que s\u00f3 te viam como tempor\u00e1ria.<\/strong><\/p>\n No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not enough. It just means that you kept giving yourself to the wrong men.<\/p>\n Aos homens que se foram assim que conseguiram o que queriam de si. Aos homens que fingiam estar emocionalmente destro\u00e7ados mas que, na verdade, eram uns idiotas desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n You were giving yourself to the guys who weren\u2019t ready to commit and whose only goal was to use your heart, body, and mind.<\/strong><\/p>\n Aos homens que te viam como um brinquedo e que te deitaram fora no momento em que o seu joguinho acabou.<\/strong><\/p>\n You wasted years of your life on immature boys who didn\u2019t know what they wanted. On men whose call and text you had to desperately wait for and on guys who kept giving you breadcrumbs of their affection.<\/p>\n Contentou-se com homens que se recusaram a retribuir o seu esfor\u00e7o. Por homens que a trataram como uma segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o e que nunca se dedicaram totalmente \u00e0 vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n And let\u2019s face it: you need to take a part of the blame \u2013 the fact that you were wasting your sunsets with men who you knew would be gone by the next sunrise.<\/p>\n O facto de ter procurado o amor nos s\u00edtios errados e nas pessoas erradas.<\/p>\n Look, I\u2019m no Judge Judy. I\u2019m not advising you against casual flings because they\u2019re inappropriate, or because other guys won\u2019t see you as wife material, or some crap like that.<\/p>\n I\u2019m begging you to save your heart and body for the ones who deserve you. You\u2019re a whole package, and you can\u2019t allow any man to take just the parts of you they like.<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s tudo ou nada<\/a>. And if they can\u2019t handle you entirely, they should be out of your life. In that case, they don\u2019t deserve the privilege of your presence.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019m begging you not to waste an ounce of your energy on someone who doesn\u2019t have the intention of sticking around. Not to let a guy into your life until he proves to you that he deserves a place there.<\/p>\n Em vez de se contentar com um trabalho de meia tigela, quase, ou rela\u00e7\u00f5es unilaterais<\/a>espera pelo verdadeiro neg\u00f3cio. Espera por um homem que seja digno do teu amor e aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Please, stop forcing anything. I\u2019m not saying that you should sit in your bedroom and expect for your Prince Charming to come knocking on your door.<\/p>\n![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-woman-with-pensive.jpg\")
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