{"id":12259,"date":"2020-09-15T12:58:38","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T12:58:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12259"},"modified":"2021-10-29T14:51:06","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T14:51:06","slug":"7-tacticas-de-limpeza-que-os-narcisistas-usam-para-sugar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-tacticas-de-limpeza-que-os-narcisistas-usam-para-sugar\/","title":{"rendered":"7 t\u00e1cticas de limpeza que todos os narcisistas usam para te sugar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Os narcisistas sofrem de um dist\u00farbio de personalidade que acaba por o destruir.<\/p>\n

At the beginning, you don\u2019t understand what situation you\u2019ve put yourself in because these people are such good manipulators.<\/p>\n

When you first meet them, they appear as this perfect, rare species of men and you are happy about yourself and you can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ve hit the Jackpot\u2014you can\u2019t believe that you found the perfect man for you.<\/p>\n

Only afterwards, you discover that it was all a lie. You realize that he is nothing more than a manipulative bastard who has come into your love with one purpose only\u2014to suck you dry.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is just one game in which they are absolute pros\u2014no one can touch them\u2014and that is the game of manipulation.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s their strongest weapon and they know how to use it to get absolutely everything they want.<\/p>\n

They play these little games with you to hurt and humiliate you. People\u2019s misfortune and suffering is something that boosts their egos and feeds their souls.<\/p>\n

Narcisistas<\/a> v\u00e3o consumir-te e esvaziar-te e, depois de acabarem contigo, v\u00e3o colocar toda a responsabilidade <\/strong>sobre tu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 fascinante neles \u00e9 o facto de, de alguma forma, conseguirem sempre um novo come\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

No matter how many people they\u2019ve destroyed, they will always find a new victim to manipulate and after they are done, they will leave you broken and move on to the next person.<\/p>\n

Estas pessoas nunca admitem quando cometem um erro. Al\u00e9m disso, culpam-no por tudo, sabendo que a culpa \u00e9 s\u00f3 sua.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando finalmente se aperceber que ele se tem aproveitado de si e lhe tem sugado a vida, quando finalmente o deixar, ele far\u00e1 tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para a ter de volta.<\/p>\n

Ele usar\u00e1 t\u00e1cticas de \"aspirar\" para literalmente a sugar de volta para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o disfuncional.<\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o as t\u00e1cticas de capta\u00e7\u00e3o que todos os narcisistas utilizar\u00e3o para o conseguir de volta:<\/p>\n

Interpretar mal os seus pensamentos e sentimentos de prop\u00f3sito<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Os narcisistas t\u00eam o poder de fazer com que as suas opini\u00f5es e pensamentos pare\u00e7am rid\u00edculos. T\u00eam o poder de o fazer pensar que \u00e9 o louco e o irracional.<\/p>\n

Este abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> tactic is also called \u2018mind reading\u2019.<\/p>\n

Estas pessoas t\u00f3xicas pensam que sabem exatamente o que pensamos ou sentimos, pelo que t\u00eam a tend\u00eancia para tirar conclus\u00f5es precipitadas sem observar previamente a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t understand they are jumping to conclusions because they are convinced they are right.<\/p>\n

They will put words in your mouth and when you try to confront them about that, they will deny they\u2019ve ever said anything and just walk away.<\/p>\n

Mudar de assunto<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Os narcisistas adoram usar esta t\u00e1tica. Sempre que se p\u00f5e um ponto final em alguma coisa e se decide confront\u00e1-los sobre algo, eles mudam de assunto, come\u00e7ando a parecer que s\u00e3o realmente v\u00edtimas.<\/p>\n

They will bring out the mistakes you\u2019ve done a year ago. They never forget anything.<\/p>\n

Quando se comete um erro eles v\u00e3o mentir-lhe<\/a> and pretend like it’s not a big deal until a situation like this.<\/p>\n

Depois, v\u00e3o esfregar na sua cara tudo o que fez, s\u00f3 para desviar as aten\u00e7\u00f5es deles pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

Persegui\u00e7\u00e3o e tentativa de destruir a sua reputa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If they\u2019ve lost control over you, they will do anything in their power to make other people see you as the toxic one.<\/p>\n

They will try to sabotage your reputation and slander your name so you don\u2019t have a security net to fall into after you leave them.<\/p>\n

Querem enganar toda a gente \u00e0 sua volta, fazendo-a pensar que \u00e9 perigosa, para que acabe por ficar sozinha, sem ter com quem falar depois de a deixarem.<\/p>\n

Podem mesmo persegui-lo ou assedi\u00e1-lo ou \u00e0s pessoas que conhece. Tentar\u00e3o engan\u00e1-los e tentar\u00e3o difam\u00e1-lo ou expor a alegada verdade sobre si.<\/p>\n

Sarcasmo e tom paternalista<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Narcissists will use sarcasm to hurt you. When both parties are up for sarcasm jokes, then it\u2019s funny, but when he tries to provoke you by using sarcasm, he is doing it on purpose just to provoke and degrade you.<\/p>\n

And if you show him that you don\u2019t find the things he\u2019s saying funny, then you are too sensitive or you don\u2019t get his jokes which are carefully planned para te fazer sentir mal<\/a>.<\/p>\n

The other form of manipulations is treating you like you are a child, like you have no idea how to do things on your own, or you don\u2019t understand some things and you need to be carefully explained what to do and how.<\/p>\n

Far\u00e1 com que se sinta est\u00fapida e menosprezada, o que ser\u00e1 exatamente o que ele quer.<\/p>\n

Ele queria silenciar-te e fazer-te esquecer que tens as tuas pr\u00f3prias opini\u00f5es, mas tu, a pouco e pouco, silenciaste-te.<\/p>\n

Gaslighting<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Esta t\u00e1tica \u00e9 perfeita para perder a autoestima e o amor-pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

His ultimate goal is to make you feel useless without him, so you stay by his side forever thinking you can\u2019t live without him and thinking you are unfit for life and that no one would like to live with you in the first place.<\/p>\n

He will use this tactic to make you think things that aren\u2019t real. He will convince you that you did or said something that never happened.<\/p>\n

Ele quer que percamos completamente a confian\u00e7a em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e que nos entreguemos a ele, para que ele possa continuar a usar-nos como marionetas obedientes durante o tempo que quiser.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00edticas e tarefas imposs\u00edveis<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Essas pessoas criticam-no com um \u00fanico objetivo: deit\u00e1-lo abaixo e faz\u00ea-lo sentir-se mal.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 pessoas que nos fazem cr\u00edticas construtivas, esperando que aprendamos algo com elas e que nos lembremos delas na pr\u00f3xima vez que fizermos alguma coisa.<\/p>\n

Estas pessoas querem ajud\u00e1-lo, mas os narcisistas usam a cr\u00edtica<\/a> apenas para vos desencorajar. Talvez o fa\u00e7am por inveja ou por pura maldade.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, d\u00e3o-lhe tarefas imposs\u00edveis e estabelecem objectivos imposs\u00edveis de alcan\u00e7ar, pelo que estar\u00e1 sempre a falhar e sentir\u00e1 que nunca \u00e9 suficientemente bom.<\/p>\n

Por muito que tentes, ele coloca a fasquia ainda mais alta para que nunca a alcances.<\/p>\n

Controlo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

They will make themselves in charge and put you aside. You won\u2019t be having any say in anything.<\/p>\n

Lentamente, afastam-no dos seus amigos, da sua fam\u00edlia e de praticamente toda a gente que conhece, porque querem ser os \u00fanicos a afetar a sua vida.<\/p>\n

Eles querem moldar-te em algo que querem ter ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

E correr o risco de deixar que outras pessoas destruam isso, de arriscar que elas tentem p\u00f4r-nos em sentido, \u00e9 completamente inaceit\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m assumir\u00e3o o controlo das suas finan\u00e7as e do seu tempo livre. V\u00e3o querer saber o que est\u00e1 a fazer, com quem e quando.<\/p>\n

They will make sure to control every little aspect of your life so you can\u2019t run away from him.<\/p>\n

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Narcissists suffer from a personality disorder that eventually destroys you. At the beginning, you don\u2019t understand what situation you\u2019ve put yourself in because these people are such good manipulators. When you first meet them, they appear as this perfect, rare species of men and you are happy about yourself and you can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ve…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":112545,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12259","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/7-Hoovering-Tactics-All-Narcissists-Use-To-Suck-You-Dry-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12259","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12259"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12259\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/112545"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12259"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12259"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12259"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}