{"id":12273,"date":"2020-05-12T14:58:51","date_gmt":"2020-05-12T14:58:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12273"},"modified":"2022-07-06T09:29:06","modified_gmt":"2022-07-06T09:29:06","slug":"13-regras-a-seguir-numa-relacao-nsa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/13-regras-a-seguir-numa-relacao-nsa\/","title":{"rendered":"Relacionamento com os NSA: O que \u00e9 e 13 regras de ouro a seguir"},"content":{"rendered":"

O que significa uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o NSA?<\/em> You’ve probably seen that Ashton Kutcher and Natalie Portman movie and immediately started wondering if you could pull off something like that, haven’t you?<\/p>\r\n

Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o NSA (ou seja, sem compromisso) parece muito divertido quando se ouve as pessoas falarem sobre isso.<\/p>\r\n

So it’s only natural that it should pop up in your head and tickle your imagination as well.<\/p>\r\n

Having fun in bed and knowing that you\u2019re not going to regret it in the morning is the kind of relationship we all secretly seek! You\u2019re with someone but you don\u2019t feel any guilt after leaving the next morning.<\/p>\r\n

You both know it’s just a sexy, innocent engatar<\/a> e sexo completamente casual (que \u00e9 o que o torna t\u00e3o excitante).<\/p>\r\n

It is never a way of getting emotionally intimate or invested. Unlike a serious relationship, this is pure fun with no strings attached. Sounds perfect, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\r\n

Bem, o problema \u00e9 que existem algumas regras associadas a este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n

\"O<\/p>\r\n

Deve segui-las para n\u00e3o estragar tudo ou fazer figura de parvo. (Como a maior parte das coisas na vida, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o muito complicadas e imprevis\u00edveis.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Sometimes you think you\u2019re about to embark on a life-changing adventure with a sua alma g\u00e9mea<\/a> e acabas com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido e sozinho. Percebemos que era apenas uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o casual.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  And other times, you choose an NSA relationship and you start developing serious feelings for this person. Nothing is going like you imagined it would and feelings appear out of nowhere. You\u2019re clueless what to do about it.<\/p>\r\n

That\u2019s life for you. You can\u2019t plan out a sua vida amorosa<\/a>. You can\u2019t control your feelings when they appear out of nowhere.<\/p>\r\n

S\u00f3 tem de aprender a estabelecer algumas regras b\u00e1sicas para o tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o que deseja ter.<\/p>\r\n

Se uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um NSA \u00e9 algo que decidiu explorar, h\u00e1 certas regras n\u00e3o escritas que deve provavelmente seguir.<\/p>\r\n

Saiba como maximizar o prazer e evitar as potenciais repercuss\u00f5es negativas.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s a way to have some innocent, sultry fun, so do just that with the help of the following guidelines.<\/p>\r\n

1. Know the difference between \u2018friends with benefits\u2019 and NSA<\/h2>\r\n

\"casal<\/p>\r\n

If you choose a friend to have this type of relationship with, it\u2019s called amigos com benef\u00edcios.<\/a> But an NSA relationship doesn\u2019t have anything to do with that.<\/p>\r\n

Here, the man you\u2019re with doesn\u2019t have to listen to your problems and or make you feel better when you\u2019re down.<\/p>\r\n

Este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00f5es tem tudo a ver com o seu prazer f\u00edsico. NSA significa que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 compromissos.<\/p>\r\n

N\u00e3o se trata de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a s\u00e9rio e ningu\u00e9m deve nada ao outro para al\u00e9m de divers\u00e3o, sexo casual e um bom momento.<\/p>\r\n

2. Ask yourself if you’re ready<\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

Being emotionally ready for an NSA relationship is crucial. You don\u2019t want to make it awkward by revealing your feelings to someone who doesn’t feel the same way.<\/p>\r\n

If you’re done with encontros em linha<\/a> and all those useless dating sites, and you’ve decided to embark on a one night stand, ask yourself the following:<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Can you deal with the fact that there won’t be an actual first date and that the person probably won’t stick around until morning?<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Is the person you’re hooking up with familiar with the ground rules of an NSA relationship?<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Are you two on the exact same page regarding your expectations and emotions and have you worked out a foolproof NSA arrangement?<\/p>\r\n

Only after you\u2019ve checked these boxes are you truly ready for this type of relationship.<\/p>\r\n

3. Utilizar prote\u00e7\u00e3o!<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n

Isto deveria ser senso comum, mas a maioria das pessoas comete o erro de n\u00e3o levar esta regra muito a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\r\n

This kind of arrangement is usually a quick, on-the-go type of thing that doesn’t leave much time to actually think things through.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c9 por isso que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio resolver os problemas antes de se encontrar com a pessoa.<\/p>\r\n

Certifique-se de que pelo menos um de voc\u00eas tem algum tipo de contracetivo consigo para evitar qualquer gravidez indesejada ou DST.<\/p>\r\n

Be smart about this now, so you don’t regret it in the future.<\/p>\r\n

4. Corta-o no momento em que come\u00e7ares a desenvolver sentimentos<\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

Se come\u00e7ares a ficar com ci\u00fames e a verificar as redes sociais<\/a> accounts to find out where they are, it\u2019s a clear sign to move on from that person as your feelings are starting to surface.<\/p>\r\n

In this type of relationship, feelings are the last thing you need or want \u2013 they complicate things.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s not easy to recognize it at first, but if the thought of them being with someone else makes you feel weird, it\u2019s a sign to cut it off. Don\u2019t do this to yourself. You might get hurt.<\/p>\r\n

Unlike all your previous romantic relationships, this is new territory, and if you sense you’re not ready, press pause and wait it out.<\/p>\r\n

Casual sex is not for everyone and there’s no shame in that. The truth is, we’d all like to be void of emotions when it comes to these things, but it’s easier said than done.<\/p>\r\n

5. Ter limites<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n

Os limites s\u00e3o cruciais para nos protegermos de captando sentimentos<\/a>. Making rules for this type of relationship might seem harsh, but it’s necessary unless you want to end up hurt or hurting the person in question.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Decide to only text regarding sex and hooking up. No random messages about feelings and your life in general. Keep it strictly sexy and breezy.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Agree if you see each other in public, not to approach each other unless you’re alone. If you’re with other people, it may get awkward, so you want to avoid that at all costs.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  When you’re done having sex, the person visiting has an hour tops to leave. No sleeping over and cuddling. That leads to talking and talking leads to getting to know each other. And you know where that goes. Nip it in the bud.<\/p>\r\n

6. Divertir-se<\/h2>\r\n

\"casal<\/p>\r\n

Isn\u2019t fun the main reason why you decided to enter into an NSA relationship?<\/p>\r\n

Then enjoy it as much as you can! Don\u2019t think about the way you perform too much, don\u2019t think about what will happen tomorrow, make it enjoyable.<\/p>\r\n

Descontrair e relaxar. Este \u00e9 o vosso tempo livre e podem divertir-se e rir (ou gemer) t\u00e3o alto quanto quiserem! O objetivo deste engate \u00e9 esquecer o mundo l\u00e1 fora e concentrar-se no seu corpo e no seu prazer. Apague tudo menos isso e solte-se!<\/p>\r\n

7. Cuidar das suas necessidades em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\r\n

\"casal<\/p>\r\n

Tem total permiss\u00e3o para ser ego\u00edsta em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s suas necessidades acima de tudo. Lembre-se, isto N\u00c3O \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a s\u00e9rio, por isso pode fazer o que lhe apetecer!<\/p>\r\n

If you don\u2019t like something, tell them and don\u2019t hesitate to make it clear exactly how you like it.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019re apaixonado por sexo<\/a> and you\u2019re having a great time, there is no doubt that it\u2019ll be amazing for them, too. But, you\u2019re your biggest priority.<\/p>\r\n

This is your time to shine. Sure, your NSA partner is important too, but you don’t have to worry about him that much. You only live once\u2026 so make the most of this!<\/p>\r\n

8. Ficar louco<\/h2>\r\n

\"Relacionamento<\/p>\r\n

\u00c0 semelhan\u00e7a da regra de ouro acima referida, isto significa que n\u00e3o \u00e9 obrigado a fazer nada que possa n\u00e3o ser agrad\u00e1vel para si.<\/p>\r\n

Tem agora a liberdade<\/a> para experimentar todas as coisas que tinha medo de fazer numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso.<\/p>\r\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o h\u00e1 preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es de que o seu parceiro possa ficar intimidado ou estranhar as coisas de que gosta na cama.<\/p>\r\n

Quem \u00e9 que se importa agora? Tenha a mente aberta para ser completamente louco e espont\u00e2neo. S\u00ea curioso. S\u00ea selvagem. S\u00ea o tu que sempre tiveste medo de ser!<\/p>\r\n

9. Fazer sexo e ir para casa<\/h2>\r\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t hang out afterwards and don\u2019t spend time cuddling. Once it\u2019s all finished, pick up your clothes, get dressed and get on your way home.<\/p>\r\n

You have a perfectly comfortable bed there, use it! If you start cuddling and hanging around each other, you will start talking and that\u2019s when you know that you\u2019ve gone too far.<\/p>\r\n

You want to keep this going, right? You like this NSA relationship? Then don\u2019t cuddle! This is the most important thing.<\/p>\r\n

Se come\u00e7arem a falar de coisas pessoais, v\u00e3o ficar a conhecer-se a um n\u00edvel mais profundo e, quer queiram quer n\u00e3o, os sentimentos v\u00e3o entrar no meio do vosso engate casual!<\/p>\r\n

Evite-o indo imediatamente para casa depois do sexo e separando este assunto da sua vida pessoal.<\/p>\r\n

10. Don’t tell him things about yourself<\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n

With this I mean: Don\u2019t tell him your secrets; keep them to yourself. Who knows how long this is going to last?<\/p>\r\n

Do you really want someone who\u2019s not going to be around for too long to know everything about you? I’m guessing not.<\/p>\r\n

Assim que come\u00e7ar a falar sobre as coisas que o deixam inseguro ou assustado, est\u00e1 lentamente a passar para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o real e, assim que vir que isso est\u00e1 a acontecer, tem de parar. A verdade \u00e9 que estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um NSA \u00e9 um trabalho \u00e1rduo.<\/p>\r\n

Todos n\u00f3s pensamos que somos capazes de ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que \u00e9 pura divers\u00e3o e zero emo\u00e7\u00f5es, mas quando chega a hora da verdade, apercebemo-nos de como isso pode ser complicado.<\/p>\r\n

A linha \u00e9 muitas vezes t\u00e9nue e depressa nos apercebemos que queremos uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria com essa pessoa.<\/p>\r\n

Evite tudo isso partilhando o m\u00ednimo poss\u00edvel. Enquanto quiser que as coisas se mantenham informais, siga esta regra b\u00e1sica.<\/p>\r\n

11. \u00c9 permitido dizer n\u00e3o<\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

You have no obligations to this person and it\u2019s the same the other way around.<\/p>\r\n

You don\u2019t have to go and have sex with them whenever they want it, so if you\u2019re not feeling like it, be clear about it.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  If they call wanting to have sex and you’re not in the mood, you are free to say it loud and clear. Your wants are just as important as theirs.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  Remember, even if the person does get mad, is it really important? No, it’s not. Unlike with romantic relationships, here you don’t have to be so considerate of their feelings. Be kind, but stand your ground.<\/p>\r\n

\u2022  If the person can’t take no for an answer, walk away from this arrangement. They might get too possessive and controlling, which is your cue to get out.<\/p>\r\n

12. Lembre-se de que eles n\u00e3o s\u00e3o sua propriedade<\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

Se vires o tipo sentado num caf\u00e9 com outra pessoa, don\u2019t get all jealous on him<\/a>Discutir sobre o que quer que tenha acontecido, ou ficar chateado.<\/p>\r\n

That\u2019s the first sign of attachment. No strings attached means exactly what it says.<\/p>\r\n

Ele pode sair com quem quiser e o mesmo se aplica a si. Prepara-te para esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, porque ela vai acontecer.<\/p>\r\n

The only question is when. One day, you are going to see this person in the real world holding hands with someone else, and at that moment, you will realize just how okay with this you are or aren’t.<\/p>\r\n

E por muito mau que isso seja, n\u00e3o tens o direito de ir l\u00e1 fazer uma cena.<\/p>\r\n

What you have is not real, and you don’t get to cause them trouble. If it hurts, walk away before it gets worse. It’s for your own good.<\/p>\r\n

13. Ter sempre um plano de reserva<\/h2>\r\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\r\n

Why would you throw out all the other options you have in your life for an NSA relationship? Don\u2019t do that. It\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c9 completamente permitido namoriscar com outros homens e ir a encontros. Ao faz\u00ea-lo, est\u00e1 a certificar-se de que tem outras op\u00e7\u00f5es no caso de isto correr mal.<\/p>\r\n

And let’s face the truth, it might. Your NSA partner might find someone else, and you could find yourself in deep water.<\/p>\r\n

NSA significa sem compromissos. Lembre-se disso, caso a linha comece a ficar demasiado t\u00e9nue. D\u00ea outra oportunidade aos sites de encontros e veja o que h\u00e1 por a\u00ed.<\/p>\r\n

You are totally allowed to do that, so don’t be afraid to have a backup plan if this blows up in your face. He is probably doing the same thing.<\/p>\r\n

So think about yourself first, and everyone else second. When this stops being fun and casual, take it as a sign to resort to your backup plan. Trust me, you’ll be happy you had one.<\/p>\r\n

Em conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

An NSA relationship is certainly not everyone’s cup of tea. People get into these things thinking it will be smooth sailing and pure, innocent fun, but more often than not, one person gets blindsided and hurt.<\/p>\r\n

E o pior \u00e9 que ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera. Entramos nela esperan\u00e7osos e sorrateiros e sa\u00edmos magoados e desiludidos, com um buraco nas entranhas.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c9 precisamente por isso que existem regras de ouro que deve seguir se quiser que a sua seja bem sucedida.<\/p>\r\n

Esta n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso e o seu parceiro n\u00e3o lhe deve nada.<\/p>\r\n

There are no dates, no declarations of love, and no talking about stuff for hours on end. It’s casual, fun, and breezy.<\/p>\r\n

You go in and you get out, and that’s it. If after reading all of this you feel you’re ready to experience it, by all means \u2013 go ahead! But those who are apprehensive and confused by the arrangement, perhaps this is not for you.<\/p>\r\n

Don’t be discouraged. Do your own thing and stick to what makes you sentir-se bem<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

There’s no shame in being honest with yourself. Good luck and follow your gut! <\/p>\r\n

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