{"id":122900,"date":"2021-01-08T16:28:35","date_gmt":"2021-01-08T16:28:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=122900"},"modified":"2021-10-29T13:05:17","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T13:05:17","slug":"como-o-phubbing-arruina-a-sua-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-o-phubbing-arruina-a-sua-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que o phubbing arru\u00edna a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o (n\u00e3o \u00e9 o \"se\", mas o \"quando\")"},"content":{"rendered":"

Qual \u00e9 a sua forma de relaxar depois de um dia de trabalho duro? \u00c9 aconchegar-se em frente \u00e0 lareira com a pessoa amada, ou gosta de beber a sua bebida preferida enquanto faz phubbing?<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, nos tempos modernos, h\u00e1 cada vez mais pessoas que escolhem esta \u00faltima op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Phubbing has become a real problem, and it’s one of the most common causes of weakening the emotional closeness between people.<\/strong><\/p>\n

All of those virtual things aren’t and should never be more important than the real world. All those people you communicate with online should never be more important than your loved one, not even those you communicate with on a daily basis.<\/em><\/p>\n

I know it’s nice to escape sometimes from our slightly boring and often cruel everyday lives in that ideal, virtual world.<\/p>\n

No entanto, prestar mais aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu telem\u00f3vel e escolher constantemente essa pequena caixa de vidro em vez da pessoa que ama ter\u00e1 consequ\u00eancias enormes na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Por vezes, pode mesmo danific\u00e1-la de forma irrepar\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

You’ll grow apart<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Se permitir que o seu smartphone desvie a aten\u00e7\u00e3o do seu parceiro, isso ir\u00e1 desconect\u00e1-lo emocionalmente dele.<\/p>\n

If you choose to share exciting news with your Facebook audience instead of your partner, that means you’re choosing your virtual life over them.<\/p>\n

You won’t be spending quality time together anymore, and it will lead to you eventually growing apart.<\/p>\n

A vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o afectiva enfraquecer\u00e1<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

If your partner is talking to you about their day or their work and they’re getting half of your attention while you’re scrolling on your phone, they will feel like you aren’t listening to them at all or that you don\u2019t care about the things that are important to them.<\/p>\n

Eventually, they’ll also stop communicating with you. And honestly, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> sem uma boa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em> The bond between you will weaken, and you’ll become completely emotionally disconnected.<\/p>\n

Surgir\u00e3o problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll definitely cause quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/a>. O seu parceiro come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a questionar se existe mais algu\u00e9m na sua vida e se essa pessoa \u00e9 a raz\u00e3o pela qual presta mais aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu telem\u00f3vel do que a ele.<\/p>\n

Honestly, everyone would find it a little bit suspicious. When you truly love someone, you’ll never allow them to feel neglected, especially not over something so unimportant as that glass box.<\/p>\n

You’ll both feel lonely<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Mesmo que passem todos os dias juntos, mesmo que vivam um com o outro, prestar mais aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu smartphone do que ao seu parceiro far\u00e1 com que ambos se sintam sozinhos na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Essa dist\u00e2ncia entre v\u00f3s aumentar\u00e1 a cada dia que passa e isso ser\u00e1 o in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a>. Infelizmente, pode at\u00e9 fazer com que o seu parceiro procure conforto noutra pessoa.<\/p>\n

They’ll get bored of you<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Well, let’s admit it, there’s nothing worse than talking to a person who is just pretending to listen to you while they’re actually giving all their attention to their phone.<\/p>\n

Agora imagine estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com esse tipo de pessoa. Eles podem realmente frustrar-nos e, na verdade, o seu comportamento pode aborrecer-nos at\u00e9 \u00e0 morte.<\/em><\/p>\n

A sua vida \u00edntima tamb\u00e9m ser\u00e1 afetada<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

It’ll also leave dire consequences on your intimate life. At first, your partner was happy and satisfied because your bedroom was the only place where they could steal your attention away from your phone.<\/p>\n

But in the end, that will also change. At first, you’ll be only a afastar-se<\/a> emocionalmente, mas mais tarde surgir\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m uma dist\u00e2ncia f\u00edsica entre v\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

Tornar-se-\u00e1 a principal causa de todas as vossas discuss\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Your partner will feel neglected and even rejected all the time. They won’t be able to accept the fact you’re giving more attention to your phone than you are to them, and it will make them doubt your fidelity.<\/p>\n

They’ll start snooping through your phone, and they’ll follow every step you take. Then you won’t be okay with their behavior, and there it is, each day more and more disagreements and problems will arise.<\/p>\n

As emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas estar\u00e3o ao rubro<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

I know this may sound a little bit funny, but your partner will actually be jealous of your phone. They’ll also feel angry, hurt, and upset.<\/p>\n

I mean, who wouldn’t? After all, they’re being replaced with a simple glass box.<\/p>\n

O resultado final: Mais cedo ou mais tarde, isso vai arruinar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

If you don’t realize your problem in time, your relationship may not be salvageable. Your behavior may make your partner leave you once and for all.<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m gosta de se sentir negligenciado, especialmente por algu\u00e9m que amamos e de quem gostamos honestamente<\/strong>. Don’t allow your smartphone to ruin the closeness between you and your loved one.<\/p>\n

Antes de come\u00e7ar a trabalhar para resolver e salvar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, deve primeiro admitir e aceitar o facto de que tem um problema.<\/p>\n

Also, get ready because it might be a bumpy ride, but if you truly love your partner, you’ll know that keeping them by your side is worth everything.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What is your way of relaxing after a hard day at work? Is it snuggling in front of the fireplace with your loved one, or do you like to drink your favorite beverage while phubbing? Unfortunately, in these modern times, there are more and more people who are choosing the latter option. Phubbing has become…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":122903,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-122900","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/This-Is-How-Phubbing-Ruins-Your-Relationship-Its-Not-If-But-When-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122900","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=122900"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122900\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122903"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=122900"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=122900"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=122900"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}