{"id":12307,"date":"2020-06-15T14:55:52","date_gmt":"2020-06-15T14:55:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12307"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:20:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:20:32","slug":"homem-das-cartas-abandonado-precisa-se","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-das-cartas-abandonado-precisa-se\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o homem que me abandonou quando eu mais precisava dele"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tu prometeste. Prometeste que ias ficar ao meu lado at\u00e9 ao fim dos nossos dias, mas onde est\u00e1s agora? Onde est\u00e1s agora que eu mais preciso de ti?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Deste-me a tua palavra de que estarias l\u00e1 para mim at\u00e9 que tudo estivesse bem e mesmo para al\u00e9m disso, mas quebraste essa promessa e deixaste-me cair sozinha, sem ningu\u00e9m para me salvar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You promised you wouldn&#8217;t leave me. But you did. You failed to be there for me when I needed you the most.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve <a href=\"http:\/\/www.health.com\/health\/gallery\/0,,20526304,00.html\" rel=\"noopener\">sofria de depress\u00e3o<\/a> ever since I can remember and you thought that it wasn&#8217;t that big of a deal, because you loved me from head to toe, you loved my soul, my heart AND my mind.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca pude compreender o que viste em mim, mas o que viste foi todo o teu mundo, toda a tua vida. Ou pelo menos era isso que me dizias.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You see, depression isn&#8217;t the same as being sad.<\/strong> If you&#8217;re sad, you have a reason for that, but depression is a mental illness that doesn&#8217;t allow you to smile when the sun is out and it doesn&#8217;t allow you to dance when your favorite song is playing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94680\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"morena triste com cabelo encaracolado em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We had a rough start. I would burst into tears whenever I was alone with my thoughts for too long and when I would call you, you would always be there for me, sometimes not leaving my house for days, making me tea and food to eat, because I wouldn&#8217;t have eaten otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>Ensinou-me que nem todas as pessoas me iam abandonar. Isso mudou t\u00e3o cedo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Depois de anos de dias bons e maus, come\u00e7aste a olhar para mim como um fardo, como olharias para algu\u00e9m que s\u00f3 te dificulta a vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Your life would&#8217;ve been much easier without me, right? I would cry myself to sleep every night because I started to notice the changes in your behavior.<\/p>\n<p>You weren&#8217;t there for me when I thought that the whole world was against me, you weren&#8217;t there when <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/teresa-lobo\/2017\/04\/these-are-the-dark-thoughts-you-have-after-you-lose-the-love-of-your-life\/\" rel=\"noopener\">os meus pensamentos obscuros<\/a> e fazia-me ficar de cama durante dias.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s scary to be alone with your thoughts. It&#8217;s a death sentence when you have depression.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94681\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-girl-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga triste em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-girl-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-girl-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-girl-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I never wanted you to suffer, I never wanted you to dedicate everything you could to someone like me. But you still did. Until the point when you didn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>At\u00e9 ao dia em que abri a porta e me disseste que querias levar as tuas coisas para tua casa, porque n\u00e3o havia necessidade de estarem em minha casa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You told me that your life was too short to spend it with someone like me. Someone who wasn&#8217;t able to fight for herself. You told me that I simply wasn&#8217;t worth it. You made me believe that myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Durante dias, meses e at\u00e9 anos, nunca duvidei da tua decis\u00e3o. Eu era sempre o necessitado e pensava que nunca dava nada em troca.<\/p>\n<p>So when my mind cleared up, I saw it all in a way I\u2019d never thought would be possible.<\/p>\n<p>Vi o seu comportamento desde o in\u00edcio, mas pensei que o estava a imaginar. Vi a forma como os teus olhos percorriam os corpos de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/9-razoes-pelas-quais-os-homens-adoram-mulheres-barulhentas-na-cama\/\">outras mulheres<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94682\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside-2.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de uma mulher a ouvir o seu homem no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vi a forma como trocava olhares com eles, sem saber o que faria com eles depois de eu ir para casa.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre pensei que as palavras que me dizias, os insultos que sofria, que os merecia.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca pensei, nem por um segundo, que tivesse algo para te perdoar, apesar de te ter perdoado demasiadas vezes sem sequer saber.<\/p>\n<p>With this in mind, I would always come back to everything and I did stop seeing everything as my own fault. If you really did love me, those things wouldn&#8217;t have happened.<\/p>\n<p>I wouldn&#8217;t have suffered even more than I already did. It&#8217;s like you did it on purpose, to make my pain stronger. As if it wasn\u2019t already strong enough.<\/p>\n<p>Eu precisava de ti. Precisava que me mostrasses que a vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 para ser assim t\u00e3o dura. Que a vida \u00e9 bela, selvagem e f\u00e1cil. Por uma fra\u00e7\u00e3o de segundo, at\u00e9 pensei que era.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94683\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Quarrel-between-young-lovers-walking-in-the-streets-of-the-city-1.jpg\" alt=\"Discuss\u00e3o entre jovens amantes a passear nas ruas da cidade\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Quarrel-between-young-lovers-walking-in-the-streets-of-the-city-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Quarrel-between-young-lovers-walking-in-the-streets-of-the-city-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Quarrel-between-young-lovers-walking-in-the-streets-of-the-city-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But let me tell you that you have taught me a great lesson. You&#8217;ve made me see that no one can save me unless I save myself. I need to be the one who will show myself the sunny day and the starry night.<\/p>\n<p>Preciso de mostrar a mim pr\u00f3prio as flores e as lindas borboletas. Preciso de me mostrar a minha pr\u00f3pria beleza. Para come\u00e7ar, nunca foi o teu trabalho.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hoje, sou eu que sou mais forte, porque tu desististe e eu fiquei a lutar sozinha.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ficando mais forte, derrotando tudo o que estava no meu caminho para a felicidade. E fi-lo sozinha.<\/p>\n<p>Mas tenho de vos agradecer por me terem feito perceber isto. Por isso, obrigado. Provavelmente era esse o teu objetivo.<\/p>\n<p>Fiz caf\u00e9 para mim pr\u00f3pria esta manh\u00e3 e ri-me ao pensar na rapariga pequena e quebrada que eu era antes. Ela regressa a mim de vez em quando.<\/p>\n<p>Ela visitou-me ontem \u00e0 noite e assustou-me, fez-me chorar. Mas esta manh\u00e3 ela foi-se embora e eu estou mais forte do que nunca.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eu sei que posso conquistar o mundo sozinho. Mesmo sem ti. Muito provavelmente sem ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-94685 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Abandoned-Me-When-I-Needed-Him-The-Most-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Uma carta para o homem que me abandonou quando eu mais precisava dele\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Abandoned-Me-When-I-Needed-Him-The-Most-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Abandoned-Me-When-I-Needed-Him-The-Most-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Abandoned-Me-When-I-Needed-Him-The-Most-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Abandoned-Me-When-I-Needed-Him-The-Most-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Abandoned-Me-When-I-Needed-Him-The-Most-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Abandoned-Me-When-I-Needed-Him-The-Most-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You promised. You promised that you were going to stay by my side until the end of our days, so where are you now? Where are you now that I need you the most? You gave me your word that you were going to be there for me until everything was fine and even beyond&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":94686,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12307","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Abandoned-Me-When-I-Needed-Him-The-Most.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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