{"id":123413,"date":"2021-01-11T14:29:44","date_gmt":"2021-01-11T14:29:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=123413"},"modified":"2022-11-26T11:22:09","modified_gmt":"2022-11-26T11:22:09","slug":"sinais-de-que-a-minha-mulher-nao-se-sente-atraida-por-mim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-a-minha-mulher-nao-se-sente-atraida-por-mim\/","title":{"rendered":"18 Sinais inconfund\u00edveis de que a minha mulher j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se sente atra\u00edda por mim"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>That&#8217;s it. There&#8217;s no point in denying it anymore. I finally realized the signs my wife is not attracted to me anymore and came to terms with it.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, <em>it&#8217;s a very challenging job to keep the spark alive when you&#8217;re with someone in a long-term relationship<\/em>. Infelizmente, a minha mulher e eu falh\u00e1mos obviamente nesse aspeto.<\/p>\n<p>To be honest, I don&#8217;t know where I went wrong. I would only want to know what made her change her feelings for me.<\/p>\n<p>Most of all, I would like her to admit it to me and tell me the exact moment she realized that she isn&#8217;t attracted to me anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Even though I came to terms with this unfortunate fact, I still don&#8217;t have the guts to confront her about it. After all, I do still love her, and honestly, I don&#8217;t want our marriage to end.<\/p>\n<p>Pass\u00e1mos tantos anos juntos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>H\u00e1 tantas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es bonitas que cri\u00e1mos juntos. <\/strong><strong>Aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer com o nosso casamento no futuro, guardarei sempre com carinho esses momentos bonitos e inesquec\u00edveis.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 algumas quest\u00f5es que me est\u00e3o constantemente a passar pela cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 poss\u00edvel salvar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o desfeita? Ser\u00e1 que, afinal, vamos conseguir consertar e salvar o nosso casamento? Serei capaz de conquistar novamente o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o? <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-salvar-um-casamento\/\">Como salvar um casamento<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>I have the same answer to all those questions&#8230; I don&#8217;t know. I truly don&#8217;t know. All I have left is the hope that even though she stopped being attracted to me, she has not stopped loving me.<\/p>\n<p><em>Penso realmente que, tal como o amor \u00e9 importante para que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel funcione, tamb\u00e9m a paix\u00e3o o \u00e9.<\/em> Aumenta a intensidade dos nossos sentimentos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica.<\/p>\n<p>O facto \u00e9 que, se a paix\u00e3o abandonou o seu casamento, o amor vai segui-la e, mais cedo ou mais tarde, o amor tamb\u00e9m abandonar\u00e1 o seu casamento.<\/p>\n<p>Quanto mais cedo aceitar isto, mais cedo poder\u00e1 encontrar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o e salvar o seu casamento. <strong>O amor \u00e9 de facto uma coisa muito complicada.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know that feelings can change, but it&#8217;s very hard to accept that in one moment, you and your partner can be completely in love and madly attracted to each other, while in another moment, all that attraction can wax and wane just like that.<\/p>\n<p>I know that the honeymoon phase can&#8217;t last forever, but respect, love, and support must remain in a relationship or marriage forever.<\/p>\n<p>Se detetar algum dos sinais de alerta e comportamentos suspeitos abaixo indicados, deve come\u00e7ar a tocar o alarme.<\/p>\n<p>I put together these obvious signs my wife is not attracted to me anymore with the hope that it&#8217;ll help someone else find out the truth and try to save their marriage before it&#8217;s too late.<\/p>\n<h2>18 sinais claros de que a minha mulher j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se sente atra\u00edda por mim<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123862\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-girl-and-man-hugging-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga e homem abra\u00e7ados na praia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-girl-and-man-hugging-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-girl-and-man-hugging-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-girl-and-man-hugging-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-girl-and-man-hugging-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-girl-and-man-hugging-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-girl-and-man-hugging-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-girl-and-man-hugging-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-girl-and-man-hugging-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re in a relationship or you have been married to someone for a long time, it becomes very challenging to keep the spark alive.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, most couples fail to resist that challenge and that&#8217;s why there are more and more divorces nowadays.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Para ter e manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, ambos os parceiros t\u00eam de se esfor\u00e7ar e lutar juntos por essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 muito dif\u00edcil para mim admitir isto e d\u00f3i muito, mas apercebi-me e finalmente aceitei o facto de que a minha mulher est\u00e1 simplesmente a abandonar o nosso casamento.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re in a similar situation, and if you&#8217;re asking how to know if your wife is not attracted to you and you are <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sentir-se-inseguro-em-relacao-ao-casamento-7-pros-e-contras-para-o-resolver\/\">sentir-se inseguro em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao casamento<\/a>Aqui est\u00e3o alguns sinais de aviso ineg\u00e1veis de que a sua mulher j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se sente atra\u00edda por si, que espero que o ajudem.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123418 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"homem infeliz de t-shirt cinzenta e mulher sentada no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the building bricks for every healthy relationship is good and effective communication. It&#8217;s hard to maintain a good relationship without it.<\/p>\n<p>We almost stopped communicating completely. I really try to initiate communication, to talk about some irrelevant things, but I have a feeling that I&#8217;m bothering her or that she&#8217;s bored with me and my talking.<\/p>\n<p>Also, I&#8217;ll have to prepare well before I confront her about everything I know. Ineffective and unhealthy communication always leads to creating misunderstandings and quarrels between partners.<\/p>\n<p>If you aren&#8217;t struggling with a lack of communication in your marriage, you should have confronted your wife a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not saying you should fight with her; just sit together and talk about it, so you can achieve an agreement together.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">I can feel that we&#8217;re slowly growing apart.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123419 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste de t-shirt preta sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know my wife and I can feel that she has become very distant. Sometimes, I feel like she can&#8217;t stand being in the same room with me.<\/p>\n<p>We barely even talk. Our love life is suffering, too. We don&#8217;t spend any quality time together. We&#8217;ve become like two roommates&#8230; we only live together and that&#8217;s it.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t remember the last time we told each other a simple &#8216;I love you&#8217;. Even when I say it, I feel like a fool because she gives me only a &#8220;half-smile&#8221; and turns to the other side of the bed.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O romance abandonou o nosso casamento.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123420 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar pela janela enquanto est\u00e1 perto de uma cortina branca\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-looking-through-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-looking-through-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-looking-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-looking-through-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-looking-through-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-looking-through-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-looking-through-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We never go out on dates anymore, and that truly isn&#8217;t my fault. I&#8217;m the one who is always proposing to go out or do something new together and she always has some excuse ready to turn me down.<\/p>\n<p>At the beginning of our marriage, she was always trying to surprise me with some romantic dinner dates or some other cute little things, and I knew that she wouldn\u2019t always be so romantic, but all of that has completely stopped now.<\/p>\n<p>I tried to surprise her a few times with a gift or by making her favorite meal, but nothing worked. She wasn&#8217;t surprised at all. She even got angry at me in a few of those situations.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O romance \u00e9 o que mant\u00e9m a fa\u00edsca viva numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> Uma vez que este se afasta do seu casamento, a fa\u00edsca tamb\u00e9m se afasta e a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o fica danificada de forma irrepar\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela toma tudo como garantido.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123437 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-floor.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste de camisola cinzenta sentado no ch\u00e3o a pensar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-floor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-floor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-floor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-floor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-floor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-floor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-floor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela sempre foi uma mulher de ac\u00e7\u00f5es; detestava palavras. Sempre soube que, se quisesse mostrar-lhe o quanto a amava, teria de o expressar com os meus actos.<\/p>\n<p>Eu queria <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/romantic-love\/love-advice\/5-formas-eficazes-de-devolver-a-velha-chama-ao-seu-casamento\/\">para repor a velha fa\u00edsca<\/a> into our marriage, and I tried to surprise her several times, but it was like she didn&#8217;t care for all those things I was doing for her.<\/p>\n<p>I stopped trying for a while because I saw that it didn\u2019t mean anything to her.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, ela faz tudo sozinha. Antes, \u00e9ramos ambos inclu\u00eddos nos processos de decis\u00e3o e ela nunca fazia nada sem me consultar primeiro.<\/p>\n<p>Now, it&#8217;s like she stopped involving me in her life and she stopped being involved in mine. Her priorities have changed, and definitely, I&#8217;m not on the top of that list anymore.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela tornou-se desrespeitosa.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123438 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-wall.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste encostado a um muro de tijolo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-wall.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-wall-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-wall-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-wall-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-wall-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-wall-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-wall-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every relationship should be based on mutual respect. When you truly love someone, you don&#8217;t want to be disrespectful to them because you know how that would hurt them.<\/p>\n<p>Ter-te em conta quando fazes planos para o futuro e consultar-te sobre algumas coisas importantes \u00e9 um bom sinal de respeito.<\/p>\n<p>A simple &#8216;thank you&#8217; after you do something nice for them is a sign they respect you and don&#8217;t take you for granted.<\/p>\n<p>In a good and healthy marriage, there shouldn&#8217;t be any secrets between partners. I noticed that my wife has started hiding some things from me, and that was the first sign of disrespect.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-uma-esposa-desrespeitosa\/\">23 sinais de uma esposa desrespeitosa (e o que fazer a respeito)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She doesn&#8217;t initiate physical contact anymore.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123439 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bed-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste de top branco sentada na cama perto de um homem\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bed-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bed-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bed-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bed-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bed-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bed-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bed-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, tenho mesmo a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que ela me odeia e me v\u00ea como o seu pior inimigo.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not just that she doesn&#8217;t initiate physical contact anymore, but she also doesn&#8217;t allow me to touch her, to hug her, to cuddle her&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m trying to realize what I have done to her. I constantly rewind the film of the last few months in my head, but I really can&#8217;t understand what made her cool off so much.<\/p>\n<p>Before, she was the one that always wanted to hold hands in public; now she gets angry every time I try to take her hand when we&#8217;re walking outside.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela vai para a cama antes de mim todas as noites.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123440 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"homem pensativo com camisa de ganga sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lembro-me de nos aninharmos em frente \u00e0 lareira ou de vermos filmes todas as noites. Era a minha parte preferida do dia.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, isso tamb\u00e9m mudou. Depois de jantarmos, ela v\u00ea um pouco de televis\u00e3o e vai para a cama muito mais cedo do que antes.<\/p>\n<p>I have a feeling like she is running from me. She doesn&#8217;t want us to be close, and this is the best way to avoid it because she doesn&#8217;t have the guts to refuse me directly.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She seems &#8220;checked out&#8221; while we make love.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123441 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar mulher deitado na cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Como j\u00e1 referi, a nossa vida amorosa tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 a sofrer, porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/falta-de-intimidade-da-mulher-no-casamento\/\">n\u00e3o h\u00e1 intimidade<\/a> between us. We hardly ever make love anymore, and even when we do, she seems cold and disconnected. I just don\u2019t know how to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-deixar-a-sua-mulher-com-vontade\/\">deix\u00e1-la com vontade<\/a> mais.<\/p>\n<p>I have also stopped initiating it because I have a feeling like I&#8217;m forcing it, and that&#8217;s something I would never really do.<\/p>\n<p>Para mim, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/cinco-factos-importantes-que-deve-saber-sobre-a-intimidade-fisica-no-casamento\/\">intimidade f\u00edsica<\/a> is all about connection and closeness. You can&#8217;t improve one without improving the other.<\/p>\n<p>If you are feeling like your partner is disconnected while you&#8217;re being intimate, it&#8217;s probably because they&#8217;re focusing on something else.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re physically there, but both emotionally and mentally, they are in a whole different place.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She&#8217;s becoming emotionally unavailable.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123442 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher tristes sentados ao ar livre durante o dia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For me, the worst thing is that I can&#8217;t get to her no matter how hard I try. She has become a closed-off person and I just can&#8217;t get to her.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre que quero falar sobre o nosso casamento e os nossos sentimentos, sempre que lhe pergunto se est\u00e1 tudo bem, ela \u00e9 breve nas respostas e acabamos logo com a conversa.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00ednhamos uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional muito boa. Fomos sempre os melhores amigos primeiro, depois fomos amantes e parceiros rom\u00e2nticos. Eu conhecia os seus segredos mais profundos e obscuros, tal como ela conhecia os meus.<\/p>\n<p>Fal\u00e1vamos basicamente sobre tudo. Se um de n\u00f3s estava chateado ou zangado com alguma coisa, arranj\u00e1vamos sempre maneira de falar sobre essas coisas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Agora, ela gosta de arranjar brigas por causa de coisas parvas.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123443 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a discutirem sentados num sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-arguing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-arguing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-arguing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-arguing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-arguing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-arguing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-arguing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-arguing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, I can&#8217;t even remember what we were fighting about because fights and quarrels about some stupid, irrelevant things have become a part of our everyday life now.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s like she wants us to be angry at each other all the time. We didn&#8217;t fight before, but now, it&#8217;s really driving me crazy.<\/p>\n<p>I always say to her that no matter what the problem is, we can solve it through good and healthy communication. But no, she doesn&#8217;t believe in it anymore. Now, she only looks for reasons to fight with me.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She&#8217;s moody all the time, but only with me.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123444 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-near-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada de top branco sentada perto de um homem\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-near-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-near-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-near-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-near-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-near-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-near-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-near-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-near-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If I understand it well, all women are moody on those days of the month, right? Well, my wife is moody all the time, and I have noticed that she&#8217;s being moody only with me.<\/p>\n<p>When we have guests, she&#8217;s nice and kind, but as soon as they leave, she brings back that moody other woman in her.<\/p>\n<p>She blames me for everything bad that happens to us. She&#8217;s never pleased with my behavior or the way I treat her. She&#8217;s always nagging even about things that aren&#8217;t important at all.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-lidar-com-um-conjuge-negativo\/\">Como lidar com um c\u00f4njuge negativo de 12 maneiras inteligentes<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela tornou-se uma verdadeira profissional em mudar de assunto.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123445 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-talking-to-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a falar com homem sentado \u00e0 mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-talking-to-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-talking-to-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-talking-to-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-talking-to-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-talking-to-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-talking-to-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-talking-to-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-talking-to-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For me, the problem isn&#8217;t that she doesn&#8217;t initiate communication anymore, it&#8217;s the fact that she&#8217;s avoiding talking with me.<\/p>\n<p>Also, she has become very good at changing subjects that she isn&#8217;t okay with.<\/p>\n<p>Every time I ask her what&#8217;s happening and why did she become so distant, she changes the subject and starts talking about something else. Sometimes, I don&#8217;t even realize it immediately.<\/p>\n<p>I feel like she still cares for me and doesn&#8217;t want to admit that her feelings for me have changed because she knows it would hurt me. It&#8217;s the only logical explanation I can think of right now for her behavior.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She isn&#8217;t affectionate anymore.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123446 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem pensativo, de camisa cinzenta, sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-couch-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Acreditam se vos disser que ela se esqueceu completamente do meu \u00faltimo anivers\u00e1rio?<\/p>\n<p>She didn&#8217;t buy me anything, she didn&#8217;t make a birthday cake for me, and she was always doing it&#8230; She didn&#8217;t even wish me a good and happy birthday.<\/p>\n<p>Fiquei muito triste e desiludido. Nunca me esqueci do anivers\u00e1rio dela, do nosso anivers\u00e1rio ou de outras datas importantes.<\/p>\n<p>I knew how much those things mean to her and I couldn&#8217;t allow myself to hurt her by forgetting the date when we got married, for example.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, estava sempre a fazer pequenas surpresas quando eu chegava a casa do trabalho.<\/p>\n<p>Por exemplo, uma vez, ela fez o meu prato preferido e colocou uma centena de notas autocolantes por toda a casa, nas quais escreveu raz\u00f5es pelas quais me ama.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">As chamadas telef\u00f3nicas e as mensagens de texto tornaram-se muito raras.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123447 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem pensativo de camisa branca sentado num sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sofa-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Before, whenever I was on a business trip, she would constantly check in on me and I would get tons of her texts messages and calls where she was telling me how much she misses me, and that she can&#8217;t wait for me to come back home.<\/p>\n<p>Now, she only asks how long will I be on the trip, and that&#8217;s all. I really miss her messages because each message would brighten up my day and make me smile.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Linguagem corporal fechada.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123454 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de t-shirt \u00e0s riscas e homem sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-sitting-on-sofa-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sempre tive consci\u00eancia do facto de que, para ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida com algu\u00e9m, \u00e9 preciso aprender a ler a sua linguagem corporal.<\/p>\n<p>Eu sabia sempre quando ela estava zangada, chateada, triste, desiludida ou feliz pelos seus gestos corporais.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I&#8217;m not able to read them because her <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-sinais-de-linguagem-corporal-rapariga-que\/\">linguagem corporal<\/a> has become totally closed-off. This is just another way she doesn&#8217;t allow me to come near her.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Opta por fazer horas extraordin\u00e1rias com mais frequ\u00eancia.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123448 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-using-laptop-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a utilizar um computador port\u00e1til enquanto est\u00e1 sentada no escrit\u00f3rio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-using-laptop-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-using-laptop-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-using-laptop-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-using-laptop-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-using-laptop-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-using-laptop-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-using-laptop-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-using-laptop-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No in\u00edcio, pensei que ela queria progredir na sua carreira e n\u00e3o me importava que fizesse horas extraordin\u00e1rias. Mas, quando foi promovida, continuou a chegar tarde a casa.<\/p>\n<p><em>I&#8217;ve spent a lot of time trying to accept this, but now I&#8217;m sure that she&#8217;s choosing to work overtime rather than to come home and be with me the entire evening.<\/em><br \/>\n\u200b\u200b\u200b\u200b<\/p>\n<p>I know her job. I know how things work there. No one will make you work overtime if you don&#8217;t want to.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, it seems to me that it&#8217;s a very good opportunity for her to run from home and avoid me as much as possible throughout the day.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Descobri algumas coisas que me fizeram duvidar da sua lealdade.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123449 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-table.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar pela janela enquanto se apoia numa mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-table-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-leaning-on-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s always on her phone. I know it&#8217;s wrong, but I just had a feeling that that little glass box might be the reason why she has become so distant.<\/p>\n<p>So, one day, while she was making us dinner, I snooped through her phone. I didn&#8217;t want to read her texts with her girlfriends; I only wanted to see if there was someone new in her life.<\/p>\n<p>I found some compromising messages from one of her co-workers. He makes her laugh and that&#8217;s precisely how I seduce her.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to make any hasty conclusions, but I really think that there is something going on between them.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m still afraid to confront her because I know that if she falls in love with that man, then our little bit <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/17-sinais-de-um-casamento-infeliz-e-como-resolve-lo\/\">casamento infeliz<\/a> \u00e9 definitivamente imposs\u00edvel de salvar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O meu instinto diz-me que algo est\u00e1 errado.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123450 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sand.jpg\" alt=\"homem pensativo de camisa vermelha sentado na areia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sand.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sand-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sand-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sand-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sand-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sand-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-sitting-on-sand-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you know the feeling when that inner voice is just telling you that something is awkward? Well, I can&#8217;t get rid of that feeling, and I&#8217;m completely sure that voice is telling me the truth.<\/p>\n<p>I know my wife. I know that she has changed. Even though I can&#8217;t find reasons for it, her behavior towards me has definitely changed. I only hope that her feelings are still the same as before.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-mulher-quer-deixar-te\/\">18 sinais de que a sua mulher quer deix\u00e1-lo e como salvar o seu casamento<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Palavras finais<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123451 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-in-the-kitchen.jpg\" alt=\"homem pensativo, de camisola amarela, de p\u00e9 na cozinha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-in-the-kitchen.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-in-the-kitchen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-in-the-kitchen-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-in-the-kitchen-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-in-the-kitchen-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-in-the-kitchen-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-in-the-kitchen-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-in-the-kitchen-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Comecei a aperceber-me destes sinais de que a minha mulher j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se sente atra\u00edda por mim h\u00e1 muito tempo, mas demorei algum tempo a aceit\u00e1-lo e a aceitar o facto.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m still attracted to her and I still love her like I did the very first day, so it has been very difficult for me to accept the fact that her feelings have changed.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s still my best friend, my partner in crime, my lover, and my everything. I still hope this is just a phase and we&#8217;ll be able to fight with it and save our marriage.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not quitting, and I will never give up on our marriage because I honestly love her and appreciate everything we&#8217;ve achieved together over the years.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando se trata de amor verdadeiro, nunca deve haver desist\u00eancia ou abandono.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A raz\u00e3o pela qual reuni estes sinais de que a minha mulher j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se sente atra\u00edda por mim \u00e9 porque quero ajudar outros homens que se encontram na mesma situa\u00e7\u00e3o a perceber se a sua<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-minha-mulher-ama-me-mas-nao-me-deseja\/\"> as esposas perderam o desejo por eles<\/a> ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><em>I know it&#8217;s hard to accept it, especially if you still honestly love your wife, but the sooner you come to terms with it, the sooner you will be able to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-reparar-um-casamento-desfeito\/\">reparar um casamento desfeito<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>However, you should know that a fluctuation in the romance can be just a temporary phase in your marriage. It doesn&#8217;t have to mean that it&#8217;s doomed or that your wife has stopped loving you.<\/p>\n<p>A paix\u00e3o e o romance t\u00eam altos e baixos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t mean that you\u2019re in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-um-casamento-sem-amor\/\">um casamento sem amor<\/a> or that it has come to an end, and it definitely doesn&#8217;t mean that your partner doesn&#8217;t love you anymore or wants to leave you.<\/p>\n<p><em>Al\u00e9m disso, nunca se deve culpar por isso. H\u00e1 muitas raz\u00f5es poss\u00edveis para que a fa\u00edsca tenha desaparecido da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Menopausa, ter filhos, problemas de autoestima e de auto-confian\u00e7a s\u00e3o apenas algumas das poss\u00edveis raz\u00f5es pelas quais a sua mulher deixou de se sentir atra\u00edda por si.<\/p>\n<p>A outra coisa que deve saber \u00e9 que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/objectivos-matrimoniais-do-casal\/\">todos os casais casados<\/a> encontrar desafios e dificuldades.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123452 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"homem de casaco cinzento perto de \u00e1gua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-near-water.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-near-water-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-near-water-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-near-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-near-water-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-standing-near-water-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>If your bond is strong and if the love is real, then there is no obstacle that you won&#8217;t be able to overcome together.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pode reconquistar a sua cara-metade. Basta recordar-lhe porque \u00e9 que ela se apaixonou por si, em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n<p>Remind her of your first date or the first time you two kissed. Bring back some of those beautiful memories and win your wife&#8217;s heart back again.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se sempre, o verdadeiro amor \u00e9 sempre demonstrado atrav\u00e9s de pequenas coisas, porque essas coisas s\u00e3o as mais importantes para cada mulher.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you&#8217;re aware that your wife has stopped loving you and<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-que-a-sua-mulher-dormiu-com-outra-pessoa\/\"> est\u00e1 a trair-te<\/a> com outra pessoa, mesmo que a ame profundamente, tem de reunir for\u00e7as para a deixar ir.<\/p>\n<p>Let go of your marriage because there is no point in saving a broken relationship if the other side isn&#8217;t willing to cooperate. You can&#8217;t fix your marriage by yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ever force anything in life, but especially, don&#8217;t force love.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re aware that she doesn&#8217;t love you the way she used to or that there is another man in her life, it&#8217;s best for you to let her go, and move on with your life.<\/p>\n<p>I know it&#8217;ll be painful and it&#8217;ll hurt you, but you need to man up and be brave. There is no point in sticking with something that has no future, and a loveless marriage definitely doesn&#8217;t have a future.<\/p>\n<p>For the last time, I&#8217;m going to ask you to think well about these warning signs that your wife is not attracted to you anymore.<\/p>\n<p>If you love her, then fight for her until your last breath. But, if you have a feeling that she has checked out of your marriage, then it&#8217;s time for you to do the same.<\/p>\n<p>Whichever option you choose, I wish you luck. I know you&#8217;ll need it as much as I need it right now.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m going to tell you only one thing more&#8230; <em>fight for true love because it&#8217;s truly the only thing that brings meaning to our lives.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>That&#8217;s it. There&#8217;s no point in denying it anymore. I finally realized the signs my wife is not attracted to me anymore and came to terms with it. Sometimes, it&#8217;s a very challenging job to keep the spark alive when you&#8217;re with someone in a long-term relationship. Unfortunately, my wife and I have obviously failed&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":123417,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-123413","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/18-Unmistakable-Signs-My-Wife-Is-Not-Attracted-To-Me-Anymore-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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