{"id":12350,"date":"2020-02-16T10:18:36","date_gmt":"2020-02-16T10:18:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12350"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:35:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:35:28","slug":"conseguir-que-um-homem-se-comprometa-usando-psicologia-inversa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/conseguir-que-um-homem-se-comprometa-usando-psicologia-inversa\/","title":{"rendered":"Como conseguir que um homem se comprometa usando a psicologia inversa"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’ve been in a relationship or an almost relationship for a certain period of time and it seems like time is standing still.<\/p>\n

Atingiu um determinado n\u00edvel e ele est\u00e1 muito relutante em passar ao n\u00edvel seguinte.<\/p>\n

He gives you just enough to hold on to and stay by his side but it\u2019s never enough. He clearly has a medo do compromisso.<\/a><\/p>\n

Os especialistas em encontros de todo o mundo e eu, como pessoa que j\u00e1 passou por uma destas situa\u00e7\u00f5es, podemos confirmar que usar a psicologia inversa nos homens \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que os faz comprometerem-se.<\/em><\/b><\/p>\n

It took me a long while and a lot of heartache and pain to discover that I\u2019d been doing it all wrong.<\/p>\n

Pus a minha vida em suspenso \u00e0 espera que ele se libertasse desse medo do compromisso.<\/p>\n

Ao esperar, consegui mand\u00e1-lo para os bra\u00e7os de outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

I don’t blame her, or him for that matter. I just wasn’t up to the task. She knew the secrets of reverse psychology and how to make a man commit and I was clueless.<\/p>\n

Eu era uma daquelas raparigas que achava que tudo leva tempo, que o que acontece est\u00e1 fora do meu controlo.<\/p>\n

I was so sure that was the right way to go but after all that has happened, I see I couldn’t have been more wrong.<\/p>\n

Para que n\u00e3o repitam o meu erro, vou dizer-vos onde errei e como o corrigi da pr\u00f3xima vez que tive oportunidade.<\/p>\n

Certifique-se de que est\u00e1 a escolher o homem certo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando quis comprometer-me com o primeiro homem com quem estive, n\u00e3o me apercebi de que ele nunca foi o homem certo<\/a> for me\u2014commitment or no commitment.<\/p>\n

Por isso, pense muito bem no que o seu homem traz para a mesa e se ele \u00e9 realmente algu\u00e9m com quem quer que as coisas se tornem s\u00e9rias.<\/p>\n

Procure algu\u00e9m que o respeite, algu\u00e9m em quem possa confiar, algu\u00e9m que esteja l\u00e1 para si e algu\u00e9m que fa\u00e7a com que as horas passadas juntos pare\u00e7am minutos.<\/p>\n

That’s really the short version but those are the basic things to build something real on.<\/p>\n

Deixar de ser demasiado complacente<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

I was settling for the little things he gave me. Especially time. He was giving me just enough time so I wouldn’t consider other options.<\/p>\n

Ele conhecia bem os meus limites e mantinha-se fiel a eles, nunca os ultrapassando. Eu era demasiado branda, demasiado agrad\u00e1vel e demasiado assustada para o perder.<\/p>\n

I should’ve never been scared of losing somebody who wasn\u2019t afraid of losing me. When you show no fear, that’s when things start going your way.<\/p>\n

Certificar-se de que os investimentos s\u00e3o iguais<\/h2>\n

\"closeup<\/p>\n

Investing in a relationship shouldn’t be unilateral<\/a>, deve ser nos dois sentidos.<\/p>\n

Entreguei-me a ele de alma e cora\u00e7\u00e3o e fui sempre eu a dar um pouco demais. Esse \u00e9 o maior problema da maioria de n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

We give too much of everything and don’t get anything in return. The thing with applying reverse psychology is that you have to be stronger than yourself. You have to mirror his investment.<\/p>\n

If you have given more from yourself one too many times then it\u2019s time for him to start returning what he has taken for granted.<\/p>\n

Don’t be too available<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Arranjei sempre tempo para ele, independentemente do que estivesse a fazer naquele momento.<\/p>\n

Queria que ele soubesse que era a pessoa mais importante da minha vida, mas estava a faz\u00ea-lo da forma errada.<\/p>\n

It sends the message that you don’t have a life other than him. And believe me, that’s the worst message you want to send.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se j\u00e1 fez planos com os seus amigos, v\u00e1 ter com eles. Nunca adies nada porque queres estar com ele.<\/p>\n

Diga-lhe que o seu tempo \u00e9 t\u00e3o importante como o dele, que gosta de passar tempo com ele, mas que tamb\u00e9m gosta de passar tempo com os seus amigos.<\/p>\n

He won’t be able to resist seeing you as soon as possible after that.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 altura de come\u00e7ar a trabalhar em si para si<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I neglected my own personal interests because of him and the worst part is that he didn’t even have to ask me; it was all my own doing.<\/p>\n

Ao fazer isto, matei a magia que t\u00ednhamos desde o in\u00edcio. Estava mais uma vez a enviar a mensagem de que n\u00e3o tinha vida para al\u00e9m dele.<\/p>\n

That’s really sad even now when I think of it. So I got smarter afterwards.<\/p>\n

Apercebi-me de que o caminho para o cora\u00e7\u00e3o do homem com quem estou \u00e9 encher o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Tenho passatempos. Trabalhos de voluntariado.<\/p>\n

Uma rotina de fitness. At\u00e9 me estou a sair melhor no meu trabalho. Estou orgulhosa de mim pr\u00f3pria e o homem que anda comigo agora tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 orgulhoso de mim. Orgulhosa e espantada com tudo o que tenho para mostrar.<\/p>\n

Livre-se das suas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

If you are concentrating on the next step and constantly worrying about what will happen next, you miss out on your relationship. You miss out because you can’t get away from your own head.<\/p>\n

If you keep bringing up the question of commitment all the time, it won’t make him commit any sooner; it will make him run in the opposite direction.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 aqui que entra em a\u00e7\u00e3o a psicologia inversa. A melhor coisa a fazer \u00e9 dar-lhe espa\u00e7o e aproveitar os bons momentos que est\u00e1 a passar com ele.<\/p>\n

Don’t hold on to the commitment issue so tightly because what you get will be completely opposite, and that’s not something you want to achieve.<\/p>\n

A psicologia inversa funciona se lhe mostrar que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a apressar as coisas e falar muito casualmente sobre o assunto ou n\u00e3o falar de todo e ele estar\u00e1 pronto para se comprometer sozinho.<\/p>\n

Em resumo, a melhor maneira de o fazer comprometer-se \u00e9 ser independente. Fa\u00e7a coisas para si pr\u00f3prio.<\/a> D\u00ea-lhe espa\u00e7o e tempo para sentir a sua falta.<\/p>\n

Sure, you are going to let him know that you like spending time with him but don’t make him into someone you have to be compliant with.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t sit around and wait for him to make plans with you. Make your own plans and fit him into your schedule from time to time.<\/p>\n

Os seus desejos, sonhos e vontades tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o importantes. Ao trabalhar em si pr\u00f3pria e ao ter a sua pr\u00f3pria vida para al\u00e9m da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, far\u00e1 com que ele queira fazer parte dessa vida.<\/p>\n

Commitment won’t scare him when he sees that he is there willingly. If you force it on him he will run because there is no man on this planet who likes to be pushed.<\/p>\n

Quando utiliza a psicologia inversa para o ajudar no amor ou em qualquer outra situa\u00e7\u00e3o da vida, est\u00e1 basicamente a fazer o oposto para conseguir o que quer. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Assim, ao dar um passo atr\u00e1s e dar-lhe espa\u00e7o, est\u00e1 na verdade a fazer progressos e a fazer com que ele se comprometa mais facilmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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