{"id":12387,"date":"2020-12-16T12:14:55","date_gmt":"2020-12-16T12:14:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12387"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:27:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:27:59","slug":"o-homem-da-carta-ama-o-proximo-nao-se-da-por-vencido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-homem-da-carta-ama-o-proximo-nao-se-da-por-vencido\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o homem que me ama A seguir: N\u00e3o me tomes por garantido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sorry for writing you this so early; I probably haven’t even met you yet. But I wanted to ask something from you. A little favor: Don’t take me for granted.<\/p>\n

As pessoas tomaram-me por garantido demasiadas vezes na minha vida. Partiam do princ\u00edpio de que eu estaria sempre presente para elas, sem que fizessem um m\u00ednimo de esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

I don’t wish for you to do the same thing. Not because I am arrogant and I want you to be thankful for every nice gesture I do but rather because I want you to realize that I am worthy of your invested time and energy. Sou digno de amor e apre\u00e7o.<\/a><\/p>\n

I will give you the world. I will do anything that will bring you happiness, but it won’t be like that forever if you decide that being there for me too is a burden.<\/p>\n

Estarei l\u00e1 para ti at\u00e9 ao ponto em que me fa\u00e7as questionar o meu pr\u00f3prio valor. I’ve been through that too many times.<\/b><\/p>\n

I will probably continue to love you, but you wouldn’t believe how strong I can be\u2014strong enough to walk away when I love you the most.<\/p>\n

It’s what life has taught me.<\/p>\n

You won’t be able to see my reaction when someone texts me, my disappointment when it’s not you. You won’t see the way I smile every time I see you walking toward me or the face I make when I smell your new cologne.<\/p>\n

But that’s OK. I want you to enjoy the way I treat you when we’re out with friends and the way I respect you when you need time alone.<\/p>\n

It’s not something I’d say to everyone out there, but I do want you to do these same things for me, too. I won’t get mad if you forget that sometimes I need more attention than usual, and I won’t get mad if you forget our anniversary.<\/p>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

Mas ficarei zangado se vir o vosso comportamento transformar-se em manipula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>Se come\u00e7ares a usar-me ou se come\u00e7ares a tratar-me como se eu estivesse sempre l\u00e1 para ti, custe o que custar.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 fui usado tantas vezes, acreditem. J\u00e1 passei por tantas rela\u00e7\u00f5es e amizades em que as pessoas nunca apreciaram os meus esfor\u00e7os e gostaria, por uma vez na vida, de ver algu\u00e9m a esfor\u00e7ar-se por me manter ao seu lado e na sua vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

I don’t need you to throw parties and buy me flowers every time we see each other. I don’t want you to spend your entire day with me when you have loads of work to do.<\/p>\n

Quero simplesmente que apreciem o trabalho que eu coloco na rela\u00e7\u00e3o e que o fa\u00e7am nos momentos de necessidade.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m quero que saibas que haver\u00e1 alturas em que serei eu a n\u00e3o me esfor\u00e7ar em nada, por esta ou aquela raz\u00e3o. Mas tenta compreender, tal como eu tentarei compreender-te.<\/p>\n

Precisamos de nos manter unidos para ultrapassar os tempos dif\u00edceis, os tempos dif\u00edceis, mas juntos conseguimos!<\/b><\/p>\n

Love doesn’t have to hurt, but love does need a lot of effort. So don’t look at me confused, don’t look at me like I’m an alien. I’m talking here with the utmost respect.<\/p>\n

Podes fazer isto por mim? Estar l\u00e1 para mim? Lutar por mim? Cuidar de mim?<\/b><\/p>\n

Se puderes, farei o mesmo por ti.<\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t we be what people would call the perfect couple?<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sorry for writing you this so early; I probably haven’t even met you yet. But I wanted to ask something from you. A little favor: Don’t take me for granted. People took me for granted too many times in my life. They would assume that I would be there for them forever, without them putting…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":123100,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12387","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Loves-Me-Next-Dont-Take-Me-For-Granted-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12387","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12387"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12387\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123100"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12387"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12387"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12387"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}