{"id":12393,"date":"2020-05-16T12:23:24","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T12:23:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12393"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:25:27","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:25:27","slug":"nao-posso-continuar-a-escolher-alguem-que-nao-escolhe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-posso-continuar-a-escolher-alguem-que-nao-escolhe\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o podes continuar a escolher algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o te escolhe a ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Deixem-me refrescar-vos a mem\u00f3ria, por favor?<\/p>\n<p>Foste tu que sempre te preocupaste com ele. Eras tu que te empenhavas tanto na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Foste tu que aguentaste todas as tretas dele. Eras tu que fazias tudo o que podias para que resultasse! <strong>But it didn&#8217;t change a thing. I hope he can sleep knowing that.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Estou a perceber, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/there-will-always-be-someone-better\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">haver\u00e1 sempre algu\u00e9m melhor do que n\u00f3s<\/a>. Someone more intelligent, someone more attractive etc, but no one can love him the way you did. No one can do all the things you&#8217;ve done for him and yet, he still chose someone else.<\/p>\n<p>You wanted to stay, but you couldn&#8217;t see the reason. Because there was no reason besides his lack of effort that made you choose between him and your own happiness. If it comes to these two, always choose yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Porque um dia olhar\u00e3o para tr\u00e1s e sorrir\u00e3o, porque saber\u00e3o que escaparam a uma bala. Escapaste a uma armadilha.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Imagine if you hadn\u2019t found out about her. The same &#8216;her&#8217; who ruined your dreams about forever being with that one person. She destroyed your dreams of loving him until the end of days.<\/p>\n<p>E foi ele que partiu o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o em pedacinhos porque a escolheu a ela em vez de ti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94035\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa na banheira\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Why would you even want someone who has to think twice before choosing you? Or the way he did it\u2014he didn&#8217;t think twice, he simply chose her.<\/p>\n<p>Qual foi o teu primeiro pensamento? Que nunca mais o ia ter de volta, certo? Mas depois come\u00e7ou a pensar e o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o saltou uma batida porque percebeu que o aceitaria de volta, porque o amava, porque tem uma alma pura.<\/p>\n<p>But you shouldn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Too often, love is an excuse to put up with someone&#8217;s bullshit, but it&#8217;s much, much more than that. Love is knowing that you are worthy of being someone&#8217;s priority rather than a choice.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>O amor \u00e9 saber que somos suficientes para algu\u00e9m que nos vai apreciar verdadeiramente. O amor \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o que se tem quando algu\u00e9m nos abra\u00e7a como se nunca mais nos largasse.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9 disso que se trata verdadeiramente o amor. O amor verdadeiro e genu\u00edno nunca ser\u00e1 outra coisa que n\u00e3o isso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Please remember that she is not easier to love than you are. You will be loved by your soulmate so effortlessly and you need to know that there will be someone who won&#8217;t let go of you, no matter how many women there are in line just to kiss him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94036\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Young-woman-in-bikini-kissing-her-boyfriend-on-beach-at-sunset.-Lovely-couple.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher jovem em biqu\u00edni a beijar o namorado na praia ao p\u00f4r do sol. Casal encantador\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Young-woman-in-bikini-kissing-her-boyfriend-on-beach-at-sunset.-Lovely-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Young-woman-in-bikini-kissing-her-boyfriend-on-beach-at-sunset.-Lovely-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Young-woman-in-bikini-kissing-her-boyfriend-on-beach-at-sunset.-Lovely-couple-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There will come someone who won&#8217;t think twice, because his ONLY choice will be you. Not like the man you just saw walking away with someone who he thought to be a better option, but rather a man who won&#8217;t have options, but a priority\u2014which is you.<\/p>\n<p>You are the person he&#8217;s looking forward to meeting, so make space for that man while<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/10-formas-eficazes-de-deixar-a-negatividade-para-tras\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> deixar o passado para tr\u00e1s<\/a> mem\u00f3rias e experi\u00eancias passadas.<\/p>\n<p>Para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-te-contentes-com-um-homem-que-ja-te-deixou-uma-vez\/\">o homem que te deixou<\/a> will never be ready for a woman like you are. You are too kind and generous for him. He didn&#8217;t know how to handle you.<\/p>\n<p>He didn&#8217;t think that you were good enough, but you will be more than perfect for someone who knows how to appreciate you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So choose life and love over someone who doesn&#8217;t even know what loving someone like you looks like. And be patient, my dear. Be patient. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Haver\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que nos deixar\u00e1 de rastos no momento em que olharmos para os seus olhos e virmos a eternidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-94033 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o podes continuar a escolher algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o te escolhe a ti\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let me refresh your memory, may I? You were the one who always cared for him. You were the one putting so much effort into your relationship. You were the one who took all his bullshit. You were the one who did everything you could to make it work! But it didn&#8217;t change a thing&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":94032,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12393"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12393\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}