{"id":124437,"date":"2021-01-18T14:35:37","date_gmt":"2021-01-18T14:35:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=124437"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:09:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:09:05","slug":"coisas-que-as-raparigas-fazem-para-os-afastar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-que-as-raparigas-fazem-para-os-afastar\/","title":{"rendered":"5 homens revelam as pequenas coisas que as raparigas fazem para os afastar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando penso nisso, n\u00e3o aprendi muito sobre os homens com os meus namorados. Um homem com quem andamos nunca ser\u00e1 completamente honesto connosco.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that he\u2019ll go behind your back or deceive you, but he certainly won\u2019t tell you things that could start a fight.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly why todas as raparigas deviam ter um melhor amigo homem<\/a>. He\u2019s the one who will show you the world from a whole different perspective.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But what if you don\u2019t have guy friends? Well, luckily, you have me.<\/p>\n

No outro dia, estava a tomar uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9 com alguns dos meus amigos. E perguntei-lhes quais s\u00e3o as pequenas coisas que as raparigas fazem para os afastar, sem sequer terem consci\u00eancia disso.<\/p>\n

Eis o que me disseram:<\/p>\n

Ser uma rainha do drama<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The number one thing that will make most guys run for their lives is you making a fuss over everything. Of course, you\u2019re allowed to complain about the things bothering you in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you\u2019re both grownups. So, I\u2019m sure you can find a way to sort things out differently.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t achieve anything if you blow things out of proportion and turn every little dispute into a disaster.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trust me: guys don\u2019t find this behavior charming. Instead, they see you as a spoiled attention-whore.<\/p>\n

Remember: not everything will go your way. Whether you like it or not, if you want to keep a man around, you\u2019ll have to deal with it and act accordingly.<\/p>\n

Sufocante<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Just because you\u2019re this man\u2019s GF doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve suddenly become the only person in his life.<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019re head over heels for your boyfriend, and you probably want to spend every second of your day with him, but smothering him is not the way to keep him around.<\/p>\n

Pelo contr\u00e1rio, todos os homens lhe dir\u00e3o que sufocar s\u00f3 o vai afastar de uma mulher, por muito que goste dela.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que os homens s\u00e3o muito diferentes das mulheres. A o gajo pode estar louco por ti<\/a>mas ele precisa de espa\u00e7o e tempo para si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

The last thing he wants is to feel tied down. The moment he notices that you\u2019re trying to ensnare him, he\u2019ll see your behavior as a threat, and he\u2019ll run for his life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, if you want to make any man yours, just let him be. Don\u2019t be too possessive, and he\u2019ll come to you of his own accord.<\/p>\n

Esperar que ele seja um leitor de mentes<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

As much as we would all like them to be, the truth is that men are not mind-readers. No guy can guess what\u2019s going on in your head, nor can he be familiar with your feelings without you saying a word.<\/p>\n

Todos eles detestam quando se espera que sejam uma esp\u00e9cie de m\u00e1gicos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Afasta-os quando uma rapariga apresenta padr\u00f5es de comportamento passivo-agressivo e quando lhes d\u00e1 o tratamento do sil\u00eancio sem mais nem menos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso compreender que a maioria dos homens \u00e9 menos perceptiva do que as mulheres. Raramente t\u00eam a capacidade de ler nas entrelinhas.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se quer que o seu namorado a compreenda, verbalize os seus pensamentos, sentimentos e atitudes. Seja muito clara sobre os seus padr\u00f5es e precisa sobre as suas expectativas, se quiser que elas sejam cumpridas.<\/p>\n

Partilhar os segredos da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com a sua melhor amiga<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The next thing on the list of things most guys consider a huge turn off is not respecting his privacy. I\u2019m not talking about snooping around your boyfriend\u2019s phone here (even though this is also a big no).<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, I\u2019m referring to when you share your relationship secrets with your BFF. I know this is your friend, but she is not his person of trust, so this is something every man will hold against you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Look, there is nothing wrong with talking about your relationship. After all, it\u2019s perfectly normal that you value your best friend\u2019s opinion and that sometimes, you\u2019ll be in need of her advice.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, no guy likes knowing that his girlfriend\u2019s BFF is familiar with all the personal details of his romantic relationship. He won\u2019t be comfortable knowing that this girl is familiar with his bedroom activities, financial records, and deepest emotions.<\/p>\n

Procura de valida\u00e7\u00e3o constante<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I hate to break it to you, but most guys don\u2019t consider overly insecure girls attractive.<\/p>\n

You can look like a top model and be the smartest woman in the world, but if you don\u2019t have high self-esteem, nobody will even notice you.<\/p>\n

Quando se apercebem de que a sua auto-confian\u00e7a est\u00e1 prestes a ser destru\u00edda, as raparigas come\u00e7am normalmente a pedir a valida\u00e7\u00e3o constante do namorado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cAm I pretty enough? Am I interesting to be around? Am I girlfriend material? What would you do if I died \u2013 would you get married again, or would you remain single forever?\u201d<\/p>\n

Even though this list sounds immature and unnecessary when you read it all together, this is just the tip of the iceberg. It\u2019s a sign that you don\u2019t see your worth, and before you know it, your BF will follow your lead<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When I come to think about it, I didn\u2019t learn a lot about men from my boyfriends. A guy you\u2019re dating will never be completely honest with you. I\u2019m not saying that he\u2019ll go behind your back or deceive you, but he certainly won\u2019t tell you things that could start a fight. That\u2019s exactly why…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":124440,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-124437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/5-Men-Reveal-The-Little-Things-Girls-Do-To-Push-Them-Away-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=124437"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124437\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163631,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124437\/revisions\/163631"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/124440"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=124437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=124437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=124437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}