{"id":12465,"date":"2020-06-06T08:36:10","date_gmt":"2020-06-06T08:36:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12465"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","slug":"ausencia-que-ensinou-a-viver-sem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ausencia-que-ensinou-a-viver-sem\/","title":{"rendered":"Na tua aus\u00eancia, ensinaste-me a viver sem ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Na tua aus\u00eancia, ensinaste-me a viver sem ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

There was once a time when I couldn\u2019t imagine my life sem ti<\/a> nele. Entraste na minha vida e, inesperadamente, tornaste-te a pessoa mais importante para mim.<\/p>\n

Tornaste-te o meu melhor amigo<\/a>Foste a minha rocha, o meu conforto e a minha verdade para a realidade. Foste a minha maior l\u00edder de claque, dizendo que estarias sempre l\u00e1 para me apoiar. Acreditavas em mim quando mais ningu\u00e9m acreditava, incluindo eu pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

Na tua aus\u00eancia, ensinaste-me a viver sem ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

I tried not to fall in love with you but I was absolutely powerless to stop. Before I realized the danger zone, I\u2019d fallen so deeply into the ravine of loving you like I\u2019d never loved before.<\/p>\n

Without trying, you had full custody of my heart. Oh, I don\u2019t blame you for the heartbreak I was too blind to see coming. You told me that we were just friends.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You said that you didn\u2019t want a relationship. I just had hope to change your mind and you selfishly encouraged me with my success when you never planned to.<\/p>\n

Na tua aus\u00eancia, ensinaste-me a viver sem ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

I told you that I wasn\u2019t perfect. I knew that I would annoy you sometimes. I knew that compared to you, I was a complete mess.<\/p>\n

But I believed that you had allowed your heart to love me in return and that together we\u2019d find a way to make it work. I never could have imagined the havoc that would be thrown our way from every direction.<\/p>\n

Nunca poderia ter previsto os acontecimentos que me levariam ao fundo do po\u00e7o. Mas tu nunca pareceste desistir de<\/a> eu. Parecia que continuava a estar do meu lado, encorajando-me a avan\u00e7ar quando eu queria desistir.<\/p>\n

Na tua aus\u00eancia, ensinaste-me a viver sem ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Enquanto todos os outros se viravam e se afastavam de mim, tu estavas l\u00e1 para me dizer que o problema era deles e n\u00e3o meu.<\/p>\n

Disseste-me para continuar a fazer o que tinha de fazer. A cada desilus\u00e3o em que me pegavas, eu apaixonava-me mais e mais por ti. Apercebi-me de que o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o j\u00e1 estava t\u00e3o longe, mas ainda acreditava em milagres e magia.<\/p>\n

I believed that I was one step closer to being yours as I found a more positive outlook. I believed that the day of \u2018us\u2019 was just around the corner.<\/p>\n

Na tua aus\u00eancia, ensinaste-me a viver sem ti. <\/b>Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que eu ia ver o dia em que desapareceste?<\/p>\n

Disseste que estavas a ser o grande empurr\u00e3o de que eu precisava para fazer avan\u00e7ar as coisas para o melhor da minha vida. Disseste que ainda estavas l\u00e1 para mim e que ainda estarias na minha vida. Sabias que eras a \u00daNICA pessoa que eu tinha na minha vida.<\/p>\n

O \u00fanico a quem eu podia pedir conselhos. O \u00fanico com quem podia chorar. O \u00fanico com quem podia contar. Sabias o quanto eu te amava e precisavas que me lembrasses de continuar.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

In your absence you\u2019ve taught me how to live without you.<\/b><\/p>\n

So in the last month I\u2019ve been doing what I could to bring things to a better state. I\u2019ve been working to get my life back on track. I\u2019ve been trying new ideas and I\u2019ve been scared to try some others.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve thought of solutions I hope will accomplish my goals. But I\u2019ve done it alone. You haven\u2019t been here. You have gone days without communicating with me.<\/p>\n

You know that I cannot go anywhere and you haven\u2019t come to see me.<\/p>\n

When I suggested you come and see me, you avoided the subject. You don\u2019t call to see how I\u2019m doing or how my progress is going.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t call to see if I\u2019m OK. You only call to tell me about your problems or to ask my opinion, even though we both know that you won\u2019t take my advice anyway.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Na tua aus\u00eancia, ensinaste-me a viver sem ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por isso, agora sei que posso viver sem ti<\/a>. O meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o d\u00f3i pelos sonhos que um dia tive para n\u00f3s. Apanho-me a querer chegar at\u00e9 ti e partilhar algo contigo.<\/p>\n

But I then remind myself that you aren\u2019t doing the same with me. And if you really wanted to know if I was OK, then you would ask. If I was important to you, then you would make some effort. Instead, you just abandoned me. Just like everyone else.<\/p>\n

You now only see the negative in me and no longer believe in me. I could ask myself why I should try, if no one, not even you, believes in me and sees my potential. I could ask myself that but I won\u2019t. I won\u2019t ask because I know what I hold inside.<\/p>\n

I know my value and importance. I\u2019m just sad that you can\u2019t. I no longer need validation from you because in your absence, you\u2019ve taught me how to live without you.<\/p>\n

In your absence you\u2019ve taught me how to live without you.<\/b><\/p>\n

For so long, the only thought that went through my head was the incessant question, \u2018\u2019How do I live without you?\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que eu vivo sem a pessoa que fez de mim a mulher que eu sou? Como \u00e9 que eu vivo sem a \u00fanica pessoa que me moldou para ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de mim mesma?<\/p>\n

Aquele que nunca se cansou de me fazer melhorar e que sempre me apoiou, independentemente de tudo.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que uma pessoa se habitua a viver sem algu\u00e9m que acreditava ser a sua cara-metade?<\/p>\n

It was tough. It took me time, I\u2019m not going to lie. I had to stop myself from wondering why, in order to stay sane. It was a roller coaster of emotions\u2026 but I pulled through.<\/p>\n

Na tua aus\u00eancia, ensinaste-me a viver sem ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Now, instead of torturing myself wondering why you\u2019ve abandoned me, I tell myself that if it was destinado a ser<\/a>, you\u2019d still be here.<\/p>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

God has a funny way of showing me what\u2019s good for me but I choose to believe that I\u2019m on my way to something more meaningful. Something that is going to come into my life, make me happy, and stick by my side come hell or high water.<\/p>\n

Acreditei tolamente que eras a minha alma g\u00e9mea. A \u00fanica pessoa neste mundo que foi criada para estar ao meu lado e segurar sempre a minha m\u00e3o. A pessoa sem a qual eu nunca teria de viver. Mas eu estava errado.<\/p>\n

Now I see that you came into my life to teach me a lesson. That no matter how much love there is and no matter how deeply connected I felt to you\u2026 if it\u2019s not in the cards for us, it\u2019s not going to last.<\/p>\n

It was a tough pill to swallow but that\u2019s what helped me push forward without looking back every two minutes.<\/p>\n

Na tua aus\u00eancia, ensinaste-me a viver sem ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Hoje, aceito o que se passou entre n\u00f3s. Aceito que o que tivemos foi especial, profundo, profundo e m\u00e1gico e que, enquanto durou, foi uma onda sensacional de sentimentos que me percorreu o corpo e a alma.<\/p>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o sinto ressentimento e raiva quando penso em ti. Agora s\u00f3 sinto pena da tua maneira de ser.<\/p>\n

See, I\u2019m going to be fine. I\u2019m not going to let this define me, mark me or destroy me.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s going to be rough getting over you with no closure but I\u2019ll be damned if I\u2019m going to let it stop me from living my life.<\/p>\n

You know your reasons for leaving me and you\u2019re the one who needs to live with them. I, on the other hand, have a clear conscience. There is nothing that is troubling me and keeping me from sleeping at night.<\/p>\n

One of these days, I\u2019m going to wake up and you won\u2019t be the first thought that pops into my head. And when that happens, I\u2019m going to know that I\u2019ve made it. You\u2019re no longer somebody whose company I crave, and I\u2019ll finally be free of you.<\/p>\n

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