{"id":124955,"date":"2021-01-22T18:59:28","date_gmt":"2021-01-22T18:59:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=124955"},"modified":"2022-01-16T21:10:31","modified_gmt":"2022-01-16T21:10:31","slug":"como-saber-se-o-seu-ex-vai-voltar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-saber-se-o-seu-ex-vai-voltar\/","title":{"rendered":"Como saber se o seu ex vai voltar (e se deve voltar)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After tons of ice cream, binge-watching of romantic movies, secretly hating couples around you, and contemplating texting your ex, you\u2019ll probably get to the point where you\u2019ll start asking yourself: <em>Como \u00e9 que sei se o meu ex me quer de volta?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Of course, you won\u2019t think about this much if you don\u2019t have feelings for them and if you\u2019ve successfully moved on. After a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fases-do-dumper\/\">separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, h\u00e1 dois resultados poss\u00edveis:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>a) Ou se segue em frente<\/p>\n<p>b) Est\u00e1 sempre a pensar em voltar a namorar e pergunta-se se a pessoa sente o mesmo.<\/p>\n<p>Refletir sobre as seguintes quest\u00f5es:<\/p>\n<p><em>What if your ex secretly wants you back but won\u2019t admit it? What if your ex doesn\u2019t want to get back together but keeps sending you mixed signals and giving you hope for some reason?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>What if you don\u2019t want to get back together, but you\u2019re only curious about whether they miss you?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Demasiados <em>E se,<\/em> I understand completely. Actually, there are so many things you need to think about when it comes to exes. It\u2019s never only one thing like <em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sera-que-ele-se-vai-arrepender-de-me-ter-perdido-7-sinais-de-que-sim-como-fazer-com-que-ele\/\">Ser\u00e1 que v\u00e3o voltar<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>As quest\u00f5es mais importantes s\u00e3o <em>Ser\u00e1 que devem voltar? E querem mesmo voltar a juntar-se?<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Ainda sente algo pelo seu ex ou apenas tem saudades dele?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124961 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com len\u00e7o cinzento junto a uma parede\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A dada altura, come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a colocar a si pr\u00f3prio a seguinte quest\u00e3o: <em>Ser\u00e1 que ainda sinto algo pelo meu ex ou s\u00f3 tenho saudades dele?<\/em> There\u2019s a huge difference between the two.<\/p>\n<p>After a breakup, it is totally normal to miss the person you\u2019ve been with and created so many memories with.<\/p>\n<p><em>Your first road trip, laughing like careless children, pretending to be foreigners in your own country, kissing passionately during a romantic movie, the feel of their touch\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Estas e todas as outras coisas tornaram-se parte de si.<\/p>\n<p>You have collected these memories in your mind, and it\u2019s not that easy to get rid of them (unless you\u2019re in the <em>Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind<\/em> filme, onde apagam com sucesso as mem\u00f3rias).<\/p>\n<p><strong>O pior de tudo \u00e9 que n\u00e3o se pode controlar quando essas mem\u00f3rias surgem e nos fazem lembrar do nosso ex.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando isso acontece, pode come\u00e7ar a pensar que ainda sente algo por ele, mesmo que isso n\u00e3o seja necessariamente verdade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Para evitar que isso aconte\u00e7a, precisa de se dar algum tempo para se curar e processar tudo o que aconteceu entre voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you think about them a lot doesn\u2019t mean that you still have feelings for them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 claro que tem todo o direito de come\u00e7ar a procurar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-que-o-ex-quer-voltar-desesperadamente\/\">sinais de que o teu ex te quer de volta<\/a>Mas isso s\u00f3 o deixar\u00e1 ainda mais confuso se n\u00e3o tiver a certeza de que quer mesmo voltar a namorar.<\/p>\n<p>Isto leva-nos a outra quest\u00e3o:<\/p>\n<h2>Ainda sentes algo por eles ou est\u00e1s apenas curioso para saber se eles sentem algo por ti?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124965 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com \u00f3culos a caminhar perto de \u00e1gua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If I\u2019ve learned something from all my romantic encounters, it\u2019s the following: <strong>A curiosidade \u00e9 uma coisa complicada.<\/strong> N\u00f3s, seres humanos, temos este poder de nos enganarmos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios para acreditarmos em algo que n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade.<\/p>\n<p>Podes pensar que ainda sentes algo por eles, mas na realidade, podes estar apenas curioso para saber se eles sentem algo por ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In that case, you shouldn\u2019t worry too much about whether your ex will ever come back. <\/strong><strong>Porqu\u00ea?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because it\u2019s time-consuming and since you\u2019re not genuinely interested in getting back together, there are other more important things you should worry about.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de pensar no que o seu ex est\u00e1 a pensar, deve concentrar-se em si e no processo de seguir em frente.<\/p>\n<h2>Ser\u00e1 que o teu ex vai voltar?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124967 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada num banco a olhar para a \u00e1gua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is one of the trickiest questions after a breakup. So, there you are, holding your cell phone and thinking about texting your ex just to ask them how they\u2019ve been doing.<\/p>\n<p>As you\u2019re getting ready to hit the send button, anxious thoughts start to occupy your brain.<\/p>\n<p>Is it really wise to send that text message when you\u2019re not sure what exactly is going on in your ex\u2019s head? Indeed, how do you know if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/15-maneiras-poderosas-de-fazer-com-que-ele-te-queira-de-volta-em-pouco-tempo\/\">o teu ex vai voltar<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>Um dos maiores <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/20-sinais-claros-de-que-o-seu-ex-vai-acabar-por-voltar\/\">sinais de que o seu ex acabar\u00e1 por voltar<\/a> is the fact that they\u2019re still making an effort to be a part of your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se ele(a) fizer algumas ou todas as coisas que se seguem, ent\u00e3o sabe que o(a) seu(sua) ex ainda gosta de si:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Arranjar desculpas para entrar em contacto consigo<\/li>\n<li>Enviar-lhe mensagens de texto com frequ\u00eancia (mesmo durante <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-e-que-ele-pensa-durante-a-ausencia-de-contacto-6-pensamentos-mais-comuns2\/\">nenhum contacto<\/a>)<\/li>\n<li>Chamando-o<\/li>\n<li>Perguntar aos seus amigos e familiares sobre si<\/li>\n<li>They aren\u2019t returning your things<\/li>\n<li>Perseguir-te nas redes sociais<\/li>\n<li>Admitting that they\u2019re unhappy after the breakup<\/li>\n<li>Mant\u00ea-lo atualizado sobre os seus sonhos, objectivos e planos futuros.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Let\u2019s be real. If they don\u2019t care about you and are not interested in what\u2019s going on in your life, they wouldn\u2019t try so hard to be a part of it still.<\/p>\n<p>They wouldn\u2019t make silly excuses like: <em>Preciso de ajuda para fazer as compras de mercearia ou preciso da vossa ajuda para esta tarefa espec\u00edfica.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>They certainly wouldn\u2019t bother to text you or call you frequently because they would be focused on moving on instead of staying connected with you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E se continuarem a fazer perguntas sobre si aos seus amigos e familiares, pode ter a certeza absoluta de que ainda sentem algo por si.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t bother reaching out to those you\u2019re closest to only to find out a few things about you.<\/p>\n<p>They wouldn\u2019t bother stalking you on social media and following your every move hoping that they will uncover clues you still care about them.<\/p>\n<p>E por \u00faltimo, mas n\u00e3o menos importante, <strong>they wouldn\u2019t waste their time talking to you about their dreams, goals, and future plans because they would be busy living their own life and focusing only on themselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, yes, if your ex does all or some of these things, you can be sure that they will eventually come back to you, and it\u2019s just a matter of time when.<\/p>\n<h2>O seu ex est\u00e1 a fingir que j\u00e1 o esqueceu?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124970 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada \u00e0 mesa perto de uma planta seca\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now, this is where things get a little bit complicated, so I need you to focus on the following. If things were that simple, then we wouldn\u2019t be called humans, right?<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the thing, <strong>existem tamb\u00e9m <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-obvios-de-que-o-seu-ex-esta-a-fingir-que-o-esqueceu\/\">sinais de que o teu ex est\u00e1 a fingir que te esqueceu<\/a>, and it\u2019s not that easy to decipher them. Here are some of them:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Est\u00e3o sempre a tentar fazer-te ci\u00fames<\/li>\n<li>They\u2019re trying too hard to prove that they are over you<\/li>\n<li>They can\u2019t keep their eyes off you (they also can\u2019t stop texting you)<\/li>\n<li>Perguntar aos seus amigos em comum sobre si<\/li>\n<li>Perseguir-te nas redes sociais e na vida real<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Alguns destes sinais s\u00e3o semelhantes aos sinais de que o seu ex acabar\u00e1 por voltar, por isso \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio prestar-lhes muita aten\u00e7\u00e3o para aprender a identificar a sua verdadeira inten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re probably asking yourself the following right now: <em>Porque \u00e9 que o meu ex finge que j\u00e1 me esqueceu?<\/em> Eis duas raz\u00f5es poss\u00edveis:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>a) Perhaps the reason why they are pretending to be over you is that they think you\u2019re over them, so they believe they don\u2019t have a chance at reuniting with you.<\/p>\n<p>b) Acham que fingir que te esqueceram vai fazer com que os queiras de volta.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably noticed how complex this whole situation is, and it is never one answer or one reason but a wide array of them.<\/p>\n<p>Saber o que \u00e9 correto fazer \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de processo e n\u00e3o uma decis\u00e3o instant\u00e2nea.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the last question that you should ask yourself:<\/p>\n<h2>Ser\u00e1 que reatar com o seu ex \u00e9 uma boa ideia?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124972 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de casaco cinzento de p\u00e9 sobre a neve\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you genuinely still care about them and have feelings for them, then yes, it\u2019s a good idea, BUT (there\u2019s always a but) only if you\u2019re on the same page.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no point in getting back together, only to realize that you\u2019re the only one who really cares about reuniting.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Reatar com um ex \u00e9 uma boa ideia se ambos os parceiros estiverem dispostos a trabalhar em conjunto para melhorar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se apenas uma pessoa se esfor\u00e7a para fazer as coisas bem, ent\u00e3o a reuni\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma boa ideia.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, se um dos parceiros for culpado de comportamento abusivo no passado, deve pensar duas vezes antes de voltar a juntar-se.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00fanica forma de conseguir reatar com o seu parceiro \u00e9 fazer um esfor\u00e7o m\u00fatuo e trabalhar em si e na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 assim que se sabe que reatar com o seu ex \u00e9 uma boa (ou m\u00e1) ideia.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After tons of ice cream, binge-watching of romantic movies, secretly hating couples around you, and contemplating texting your ex, you\u2019ll probably get to the point where you\u2019ll start asking yourself: How do I know if my ex wants me back? Of course, you won\u2019t think about this much if you don\u2019t have feelings for them&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":124960,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-124955","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/How-To-Know-If-Your-Ex-Will-Ever-Come-Back-And-If-They-Should-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. 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