{"id":125051,"date":"2021-01-20T16:32:43","date_gmt":"2021-01-20T16:32:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=125051"},"modified":"2022-07-05T09:53:25","modified_gmt":"2022-07-05T09:53:25","slug":"citacoes-de-confianca-quebrada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/citacoes-de-confianca-quebrada\/","title":{"rendered":"Estas cita\u00e7\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a quebrada provam que a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 TUDO"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u201cTrust is like glass. Once broken, it will never be the same again.\u201d<\/em> \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>Demorei algum tempo a perceber que a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 uma coisa muito fr\u00e1gil. \u00c9 t\u00e3o fr\u00e1gil que, uma vez quebrada, nunca mais voltar\u00e1 a ser a mesma.<\/p>\n<p>As fendas da sua confian\u00e7a quebrada ser\u00e3o sempre vis\u00edveis, por mais que tente remend\u00e1-las ou escond\u00ea-las de si pr\u00f3prio ou do resto do mundo.<\/p>\n<p><em>A verdade \u00e9 que \u00e9 preciso muito tempo para sarar completamente de um sentimento de trai\u00e7\u00e3o, e os problemas de confian\u00e7a surgem como um efeito secund\u00e1rio que nos persegue durante anos.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>O pior efeito secund\u00e1rio de todos \u00e9 a convic\u00e7\u00e3o de que poderia ter evitado o sucedido.<\/p>\n<p>Pensas para ti pr\u00f3prio: <em>Talvez as coisas tivessem sido diferentes se eu tivesse sido mais cautelosa e se n\u00e3o tivesse sido t\u00e3o ing\u00e9nua ao acreditar que eles nunca me fariam mal. Culpo-me por ter sido demasiado ing\u00e9nua para acreditar que eles eram diferentes dos outros.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Depois disso, vem uma promessa que se faz a si pr\u00f3prio: <em><strong>I solemnly promise to myself that I\u2019ll never trust anyone again.<\/strong><\/em> Trancas as portas do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o para impedir que outros entrem nele.<\/p>\n<p>Observamos cada uma das suas palavras e ac\u00e7\u00f5es com ceticismo e precau\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You just wait for the moment when you find out that they weren\u2019t the person you believed they were, and that all this time, they\u2019ve been feeding you lies and deceit.<\/p>\n<h2>That\u2019s when you realize that TRUST IS EVERYTHING.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-125055\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/beautiful-woman-staring.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita a olhar para a c\u00e2mara, pensativa, de casaco ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/beautiful-woman-staring.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/beautiful-woman-staring-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/beautiful-woman-staring-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/beautiful-woman-staring-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/beautiful-woman-staring-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/beautiful-woman-staring-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/beautiful-woman-staring-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/beautiful-woman-staring-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once broken, it doesn\u2019t only affect your present, but your future becomes a real challenge as well because all of a sudden, you fear that it\u2019s only a matter of time before you will be hurt again.<\/p>\n<p>Your life becomes limbo, and you can\u2019t sleep at night because you can\u2019t stop thinking about what you have done to deserve to be disappointed and hurt by someone you trusted with your body and heart.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You wish you could stop caring about them, but it\u2019s not that simple. Even though your trust is broken, you still have that wish inside you to fight for what you believe in.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You still think that there is hope, and one day, you\u2019ll be able to trust them again.<\/p>\n<p>But, the pain that you\u2019re feeling inside every fiber of your being confuses you.<\/p>\n<p>You realize that there will always be a little voice in your head telling you that maybe it\u2019s not safe to be open and honest with the one who hurt you because at some point, they might use it against you.<\/p>\n<h2>Ser magoado pela pessoa em quem mais se confiava \u00e9 um dos sentimentos mais dolorosos do mundo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-125056\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-black.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste, com camisola e cal\u00e7as pretas, sentada no ch\u00e3o, numa sala vazia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-black.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-black-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-black-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-black-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-black-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-black-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-black-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-black-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay to feel broken, shattered into pieces, disappointed, and mad.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay to cry at night and curse all those romantic movies for making you believe that such romance is possible in the real world.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s okay to blame yourself for thinking that your romance was flawless only to realize that it was a nightmare instead.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not alone. There is an imaginary coast of people dealing with trust issues and believing that they will never be able to open themselves up to someone new.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, a cura de uma m\u00e1goa \u00e9 um processo e levar\u00e1 algum tempo at\u00e9 come\u00e7ar a sentir-se confiante para voltar a confiar nos outros.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sentir-se tra\u00eddo \u00e9 uma das coisas mais dolorosas do mundo, e estes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/citacoes-sobre-ser-magoado\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cita\u00e7\u00f5es sobre ser magoado por algu\u00e9m em quem mais se confiava<\/a> provar isso:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cSome old wounds never truly heal and bleed again at the slightest word.\u201d \u2013 George R. R. Martin<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI have learned now that while those who speak about one\u2019s miseries usually hurt, those who keep silent hurt more.\u201d \u2013 C. S. Lewis<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cNo matter how hurt you may be feeling right now, you have to have faith that you will be able to smile again. Maybe not today and maybe not tomorrow, but it will happen.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI may act like I do not care at all. I might give the impression that this does not phase me at all. But inside, I am hurting.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cDo you know the feeling when your heart is so hurt that you could feel the blood dripping?\u201d \u2013 Lady Gaga<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cSometimes, I get so tired of getting hurt by people that I wonder if I was just<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/algumas-pessoas-estao-destinadas-a-ficar-sozinhas\/\"> destinado a estar sozinho<\/a> in this world.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cEven when you feel like your pain is killing you, remember that you are the one who can kill your pain.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>\u201cTrust is like a paper. Once it\u2019s crumpled, it can\u2019t be perfect again.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-125057\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a olhar para fora da janela em plena idade adulta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-looking-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-looking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-looking-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-looking-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-looking-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-looking-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-looking-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/sad-woman-looking-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando olho pela janela, apercebo-me de que a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 como a neve. No in\u00edcio, \u00e9 perfeitamente branca e intocada, mas quando se entra nela, muda de forma e nunca mais ser\u00e1 a mesma.<\/p>\n<p>A confian\u00e7a \u00e9 como uma tela branca. Quando pegamos no pincel e lhe acrescentamos algumas cores, nunca mais voltar\u00e1 a ser a mesma. Nunca mais ser\u00e1 branca e intocada como era no in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que a pessoa que o magoou pe\u00e7a desculpa e lhe prometa que nunca mais o vai desiludir, torna-se muito dif\u00edcil confiar nela.<\/p>\n<p>Tememos que, quando decidirmos voltar a confiar neles, nos arrependamos da nossa decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Os problemas de confian\u00e7a s\u00e3o uma coisa complicada. Fazem-nos questionar tudo e fazem-nos sentir como verdadeiros lun\u00e1ticos que pensam demais.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s really hard to be yourself when you think that being who you are will backfire on you and make you regret your decisions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s really hard to mend the cracks of broken trust, and these <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/citacoes-de-confianca-quebrada-sobre-traicao-e-problemas-de-confianca\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cita\u00e7\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a quebrada sobre trai\u00e7\u00e3o e problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/a> provar isso:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cThat&#8217;s the thing about trust. It&#8217;s like broken glass. You can put it back together, and the cracks are always visible &#8211; like scars that never fully heal.\u201d\u2013 Hope Collier<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cSometimes, trusting a friend is the hardest thing to do. Even the closest friends can become enemies.\u201d \u2013 James Merrow<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cWhen the person you trust the most breaks your trust, get over it by building a bridge, but never let them cross it again.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cTrust is like a vase. Once it is broken, though you can fix it, the vase will never be the same again.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cBetrayal annihilates trust. The more trust there is to begin with, and the more deception is involved, the more damage is done.\u201d \u2013 Sandra Lee Dennis<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cTrust is a fragile thing. Easy to break, easy to lose, and one of the hardest things to ever get back.\u201d \u2013 Alekhya Sana<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Be careful who you trust \u2013 not everyone is your friend.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-125058\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fashionable-woman-standing.jpg\" alt=\"mulher na moda perto do lago, olhando para longe e apoiada numa veda\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fashionable-woman-standing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fashionable-woman-standing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fashionable-woman-standing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fashionable-woman-standing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fashionable-woman-standing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fashionable-woman-standing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fashionable-woman-standing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fashionable-woman-standing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s in our human nature to want to connect with other human beings&#8230; to want to trust them and form meaningful relationships.<\/p>\n<p>We like to think that our lovers, friends, and neighbors are people whom we can trust until we realize that it\u2019s otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>William Shakespeare percebeu-o muito bem: <strong>\u201cLove all, trust few.\u201d<\/strong> Mas ser\u00e1 que \u00e9 realmente poss\u00edvel observar o amor e a confian\u00e7a como duas unidades separadas?<\/p>\n<p>Ensinaram-nos que a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 a base de qualquer amizade, rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica e outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es significativas. Como \u00e9 que podemos amar algu\u00e9m sem confiar nessa pessoa?<\/p>\n<p>Talvez seja poss\u00edvel gostar dos outros e am\u00e1-los sem confiar completamente neles. Na verdade, chama-se a isto <strong>\u2018getting rid of high expectations\u2019.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t expect much from someone, then the chances are small that you\u2019ll be disappointed once they do something wrong.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por outras palavras, estar preparado para tudo, confiar na sua coragem e amar os outros apesar de saber que nos podem magoar \u00e9 a chave para encontrar um equil\u00edbrio entre os problemas de confian\u00e7a e a necessidade de nos relacionarmos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Estes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/cuidado-com-quem-confia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Be careful who you trust \u2013 not everyone is your friend<\/a> As cita\u00e7\u00f5es provam-no:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cYou must trust yourself more than you trust others. Pay attention to your inner voice \u2013 it will tell you if, how, and what you are investing in is right for you.\u201d \u2013 Suze Orman<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cTrust, but verify.\u201d \u2013 Ronald Reagan<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-125060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-beautiful-redhead.jpg\" alt=\"jovem ruiva bonita deitada no banco do parque \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-beautiful-redhead.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-beautiful-redhead-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-beautiful-redhead-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-beautiful-redhead-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-beautiful-redhead-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-beautiful-redhead-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-beautiful-redhead-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/young-beautiful-redhead-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cRelationships survive on trust and if that is broken at any point, it\u2019s pretty much the end of the relationship. Besides, the inability to communicate leads to problems.\u201d \u2013 Yuvraj Singh<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cThere are indeed times when one should trust blindly just as there are times when one should not. Wisdom consists of being able to tell one from the other.\u201d \u2013 Daniel Quinn<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cWhen you completely trust another person, you will end up with one of two outcomes. A friend for life or a lesson for life. Both, regardless of the outcome, are valuable.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>\u201cDon\u2019t trust people whose feelings change with time. Trust people whose feelings remain the same, even when the time changes.\u201d \u2013 Bob Marley<\/h2>\n<p>Trust those who inspire you to be the best version of yourself. Trust those who treat you the same regardless of life\u2019s challenges.<\/p>\n<p>Trust people who PROVE to you that they are worthy of being trusted. Don\u2019t jump to conclusions and don\u2019t blame yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Look at trust as something elastic that can change its shape at any time, and when that happens, don\u2019t get surprised, but be prepared for it. And, remember: <strong>\u201cTime heals everything.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cTrust is like glass. Once broken, it will never be the same again.\u201d \u2013 Unknown It took me a while to realize that trust is a very fragile thing. It is so fragile that once broken, it will never be the same again. The cracks of your broken trust will always be visible no matter&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":125062,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29657],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-125051","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-quotes"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29657,"label":"quotes"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/These-Broken-Trust-Quotes-Prove-That-Trust-Is-EVERYTHING-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29657,"name":"quotes","slug":"quotes","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29657,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Collection of quotes: These inspirational words of wisdom perfectly capture the essence of love and life with all their challenges, beauty, ups and downs.\r\n","parent":29651,"count":213,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29657,"category_count":213,"category_description":"Collection of quotes: These inspirational words of wisdom perfectly capture the essence of love and life with all their challenges, beauty, ups and downs.\r\n","cat_name":"quotes","category_nicename":"quotes","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125051","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=125051"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125051\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/125062"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=125051"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=125051"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=125051"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}