{"id":12511,"date":"2020-06-17T11:31:35","date_gmt":"2020-06-17T11:31:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12511"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:14:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:14:12","slug":"e-bom-que-alguem-nao-tenha-a-certeza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-bom-que-alguem-nao-tenha-a-certeza\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9s demasiado bom para algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o tem a certeza sobre ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you’re looking at the ceiling now, you can see him in every crack.<\/p>\n

You see all the effort you’ve made, you see all the rules you’ve broken to be with him. And still, he isn’t really sure if he wants to be with you.<\/p>\n

Querida, alguma vez dependeu de ti?<\/b><\/p>\n

You can’t make him<\/a> be with you if everything he wants is fun and everything he’s interested in is keeping you as an option besides all those other women who are standing in line, just like you are, to see which one he’s going to pick.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 justo?<\/p>\n

Is it fair to make him your priority, when he\u2019s just keeping you as an option? <\/b>\u00c9 isso que queres de um homem que significa tanto para ti?<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o mesmo homem que pensaste ser a tua alma g\u00e9mea, desde o momento em que ele entrou na tua vida.<\/p>\n

Manteve-te na vida dele todo este tempo s\u00f3 para te fazer acreditar que eras a \u00fanica, quando eras uma de muitas. Tiveste de lutar para chegar ao cora\u00e7\u00e3o dele, quando ele tomou o teu de assalto.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

You didn’t even think twice about making him happy, showing your affection and giving him all of your attention.<\/p>\n

Lembras-te de quando te esfor\u00e7avas por estar l\u00e1 para ele, sempre que ele precisava de ti, apesar de ele nunca querer estar l\u00e1 para ti?<\/p>\n

Tal como tu queres ser amada, pensavas que era o mesmo que ele queria. Nada te poderia fazer crer o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

But look around yourself, realize that it’s not like that. He made you put so much effort in without giving you anything in return.<\/p>\n

He didn’t try to make you feel loved, he made you feel needed. <\/b>Fazia-nos sentir necess\u00e1rios todos os dias quando nos pedia alguma coisa, quando nos obrigava a fazer o trabalho sujo.<\/p>\n

He didn’t ask you to kiss him, he didn’t ask you to love him. He asked you to stand around waiting.<\/p>\n

It’s always like this with these homens inseguros.<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n

They want to see women fighting for them, they want to see them suffer in his name. Don’t give him the pleasure of doing so.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

D\u00f3i, eu sei, acredita que sim.<\/p>\n

But when it comes to him, the man who can’t see what you’re doing for him, the man who isn’t able to make you feel loved, the man who can’t keep it in his pants, <\/b>porque \u00e9 que est\u00e1s a chorar?<\/p>\n

You are beautiful, and there is nothing you can’t do in this world. You don’t need him to accomplish your dreams and reach your goals. You don’t need him to be happy.<\/p>\n

Se ele lhe pedir para voltar, a melhor maneira de lhe resistir \u00e9 ver a felicidade de estar sozinha.<\/p>\n

A vida sem ele \u00e9 clara e cheia de sol. Ent\u00e3o, queres mesmo que ele fa\u00e7a com que os teus dias fiquem nublados como antes?<\/p>\n

V\u00e1-se embora! Mereces muito melhor na tua vida, mereces a perfei\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n

You deserve love and appreciation and if, for the time being, you’re the only person who can give yourself that, then you don’t need anyone else. <\/b><\/p>\n

People are selfish and they can’t comprehend if someone is as pure as you are. You don’t deserve to stand in a row of women waiting for your turn.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don’t bother with these people. Don’t bother with him. You’re too good for someone who isn’t sure about you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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When you’re looking at the ceiling now, you can see him in every crack. You see all the effort you’ve made, you see all the rules you’ve broken to be with him. And still, he isn’t really sure if he wants to be with you. Dear, was it ever up to you? You can’t make…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":116132,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Youre-Too-Good-For-Someone-Who-Isnt-Sure-About-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12511"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12511\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116132"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}