{"id":125368,"date":"2021-01-25T13:08:11","date_gmt":"2021-01-25T13:08:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=125368"},"modified":"2022-06-10T11:27:22","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T11:27:22","slug":"esta-farto-de-ser-solteiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esta-farto-de-ser-solteiro\/","title":{"rendered":"Se est\u00e1s cansado de ser solteiro, l\u00ea isto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Est\u00e1 farto de que as pessoas lhe recordem o seu estatuto de solteiro? Est\u00e1 farto de todos aqueles eventos e reuni\u00f5es sociais em que as pessoas v\u00eam com os seus parceiros (e voc\u00ea n\u00e3o tem ningu\u00e9m para o acompanhar)? <\/em><\/p>\n

Do you feel like you\u2019re going to be single forever<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n

If someone asked me these questions a year ago, my answer to every single one of them would\u2019ve been, \u201cSim, sim e sim<\/strong>.\u201d (Boy, that sounds really desperate.)<\/p>\n

When I broke up with my partner and entered \u2018the realm of being single,\u2019 I felt isolated, excluded from society (including my friends), and I felt like something was missing in my life.<\/p>\n

I hated every single couple around me and all those cheesy things they do. Holding hands? Gross. At the same time, I craved all those things even though I didn\u2019t want to admit it to myself.<\/p>\n

A pior parte de ser solteiro \u00e9 as pessoas estarem constantemente a fazer-nos perguntas como:<\/strong> How come you\u2019re so pretty but still single? Why are you so picky? Do you think you\u2019ll be young forever?<\/p>\n

Seriously, people? I\u2019m sure that every single one of you (who are tired of being single) agrees with me that the worst part of being single is people making you feel like there\u2019s something wrong with you.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, you\u2019re not even tired of being single, but you\u2019re tired of people asking you stupid questions and thinking that your solo status is the leading cause of your \u201cunhappiness.\u201d<\/p>\n

Just because you\u2019re (still) single doesn\u2019t mean that there\u2019s something wrong with you.<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Quero que leiam este t\u00edtulo dez vezes, se necess\u00e1rio, at\u00e9 absorverem todo o seu significado. Todos os filmes, programas de televis\u00e3o e os meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o social nos fizeram acreditar que ser solteiro \u00e9 algo mau.<\/p>\n

Nos filmes, todas as raparigas bonitas ficam com todos os rapazes (e vice-versa). S\u00f3 as pessoas que t\u00eam uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o apresentadas como verdadeiramente felizes, enquanto as pessoas solteiras s\u00e3o apresentadas como desesperadas.<\/p>\n

All these things can make you think that there\u2019s something wrong with you because you\u2019re still single. When you see a couple sharing food, you think to yourself: OMG, that\u2019s so sweet.<\/p>\n

When will I be able to do such a thing with my partner? Wait, I\u2019ll probably be solteiro para sempre<\/a>.<\/p>\n

For a long time, I thought that the only relationship I\u2019d ever have in my life is the one I have with my cat. And then it struck me:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to be single than with the wrong person. It\u2019s better to be happy and single than unhappy in a relationship. <\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to be happy with what you have right now than feel miserable about something you don\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

It took me a while to realize that being single is not a matter of being desperate, but it\u2019s a choice!<\/p>\n

I choose to be single because I don\u2019t want to settle for mediocre romances where the pinnacle of sharing affection is posting a picture on social media with some cheesy cita\u00e7\u00e3o sobre o amor verdadeiro<\/a> quando na vida real, mal se suportam um ao outro.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be a victim of fake love. I don\u2019t want anything fake. I don\u2019t want to rush anything, and that\u2019s why I\u2019m single.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not single because I can\u2019t meet anyone at the moment, but I\u2019m single because I don\u2019t want to give my heart to a random stranger only to get rid of my solo status.<\/p>\n

\u201cSorry, society, but I like my solo status, and I don\u2019t want to get rid of it only to make YOU happy.\u201d<\/p>\n

Provavelmente tamb\u00e9m tem o seu pr\u00f3prio damn good reasons why you\u2019re still single<\/a>e estas podem ser algumas delas:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 You were heartbroken before<\/p>\n

\u2022 You need more time to decide to commit to someone again<\/p>\n

\u2022 You love your independence<\/p>\n

\u2022 You need time to work on yourself<\/p>\n

\u2022 You\u2019re not afraid to wait for things you deserve<\/p>\n

\u2022 You know that being single is better than being in an unhappy relationship<\/p>\n

Qualquer pessoa pode estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas poucos de n\u00f3s conseguem ser realmente felizes numa.<\/p>\n

Once you understand the real reason why you\u2019re still single, it will be easier for you to accept and applaud your solo status instead of seeing it as something bad.<\/p>\n

Permane\u00e7a solteiro at\u00e9 encontrar algu\u00e9m que realmente se importe consigo<\/a>.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A minha av\u00f3 costumava dizer-me: \u201cDear, remember this very well. It\u2019s better to be single and happy than with the wrong partner. You cannot love others if you don\u2019t love yourself.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Relationships and true love cannot be forced. No matter how clich\u00e9 it may sound, the truth is that everything happens for a reason, and you\u2019re right where you\u2019re supposed to be right now.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re single at the moment because you\u2019re supposed to be. Perhaps you need some time to work on yourself and increase your self-love.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you need more time to heal from your past relationships (even though you think you don\u2019t).<\/p>\n

A quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que, para amar os outros, \u00e9 preciso aprender a amarmo-nos primeiro a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. A \u00fanica forma de nos apaixonarmos por n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios \u00e9 aceitarmos o facto de sermos solteiros.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re tired of being single, it means you need more time to fall in love with yourself before you meet someone. It means you need more solo time.<\/p>\n

Por isso, fica solteiro at\u00e9 come\u00e7ares a amar cada cent\u00edmetro de ti.<\/em><\/p>\n

Permanece solteiro at\u00e9 come\u00e7ares a apreciar a liberdade que tens.<\/em><\/p>\n

Permane\u00e7a solteiro at\u00e9 come\u00e7ar a ver isso como uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o em vez de uma maldi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n

Fica solteiro at\u00e9 encontrares algu\u00e9m que se importe contigo.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t rush things. Don\u2019t force yourself to meet new people if you\u2019re not ready for it and, most importantly, DON\u2019T worry about what others think!<\/strong><\/p>\n

I always say that people will always talk, say stupid things, and worry more about other people\u2019s lives than their own (well, the majority of them). Guess what? There\u2019s nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

Isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que possa controlar, por isso ignore-o. A \u00fanica pessoa a quem deve dar ouvidos \u00e9 a si pr\u00f3prio. Por isso, continue solteiro at\u00e9 encontrar a pessoa certa para si.<\/p>\n

Every single one of us has our own unique path, and being single is a part of it. So, instead of seeing it as something negative, understand that there\u2019s a reason why you\u2019re still single, and you\u2019ll meet someone when the time comes.<\/p>\n

Em vez de se preocuparem com o facto de serem solteiros, abra\u00e7em-no!<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

I used to think that being single was a curse, but now I can say for sure that it\u2019s the best thing that ever happened to me.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t believe me, here are some legit reasons why being single is priceless:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 You get to pick your own movies and TV shows to watch<\/p>\n

\u2022 No drama (every relationship eventually gets drama-filled)<\/p>\n

\u2022 No jealousy<\/p>\n

\u2022 You can truly learn to love yourself<\/p>\n

\u2022 No pressure about shaving or waxing<\/p>\n

\u2022 You realize that being a cat lady is not that bad after all (reserved for females)<\/p>\n

\u2022 The only person you have to spoil is yourself<\/p>\n

\u2022 The entire bed is YOURS<\/p>\n

\u2022 You realize that you don\u2019t need a romantic relationship to be truly happy<\/p>\n

\u2022 You invest more time in hobbies and building meaningful relationships<\/p>\n

\u2022 You have plenty of time to have fun and mingle to your heart\u2019s content (if you want to…)<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I could go on and on with this list, but I\u2019ll stop right here because I don\u2019t want to overdo it. I just want you to see that there are so many reasons why you should embrace your single life instead of seeing it as a curse.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m single at the moment, and I can tell you for sure that I\u2019ve never been happier. Yes, it took me a while to get used to it and see it as a blessing, and I\u2019m glad that I did.<\/p>\n

Um dos mais dicas \u00fateis para abra\u00e7ar a sua vida de solteiro<\/a> is realizing that what you think you\u2019re missing at the moment is not a romantic relationship but SELF-LOVE.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll miss falling in love with yourself and not someone else. Once you understand that, you will never, ever say to yourself or others that you\u2019re tired of being single.<\/p>\n

Saying that basically means you\u2019re tired of being with yourself.<\/p>\n

Nunca se deve cansar de encontrar novas formas de se tornar a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio e nunca se deve cansar de explorar a vida e a sua beleza por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de se preocuparem com o facto de serem solteiros, aceitem-no. Em vez de esperar que outra pessoa o ame, opte por se apaixonar por si pr\u00f3prio (primeiro).<\/em><\/p>\n

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