We just need to know why something happens, but the problem comes when this one person who is able to give you an explanation doesn\u2019t actually want to talk to you.<\/p>\n
So, what do you do when your ex won\u2019t talk to you?<\/strong><\/p>\n When your ex doesn\u2019t want to talk to you, it\u2019s time for you to start realizing certain things.<\/p>\n Firstly, you\u2019re going after someone who thinks you don\u2019t deserve a simple explanation.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re going after someone who wants you to be the last one to let go so that he could be able to say he was the one who cared less. Obviously, that\u2019s something he\u2019s proud of.<\/p>\n Secondly, you\u2019ll be clinging to your past if you continue to seek closure from a person who actually isn\u2019t willing to give you any.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019ll appear as a crazy girl who\u2019s desperately wanting to hear from her ex-boyfriend. You\u2019ll appear as a girl who comes up with all kinds of excuses just to talk to her ex.<\/p>\n You’ll obsess over whether he’s just pretending to be over you<\/a>.<\/p>\n Por \u00faltimo, \u00e9 preciso deixar de procurar uma conclus\u00e3o nos s\u00edtios errados.<\/strong> A sua paz \u00e9 mais importante do que a necessidade de ouvir o que correu mal de algu\u00e9m que o abandonou.<\/p>\n De algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o teve a dec\u00eancia de lutar e se esfor\u00e7ar o suficiente por essa \u00fanica pessoa que realmente o amava.<\/p>\n Remember, you\u2019re the only one who needs closure. So if you\u2019re the only one who needs it, then you\u2019re only who can give you it.<\/strong><\/p>\n What I\u2019m trying to say is that you\u2019ll need to be the one to close the doors on a failed relationship. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but because the doors otherwise simply lead nowhere.<\/p>\n Even if you deserve an explanation, this doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re actually going to get one. The worst thing you can do is let the unfinished stories of the past stop you from living your life.<\/p>\n A pior coisa que se pode fazer \u00e9 deixar que o passado interfira com o futuro.<\/p>\n A melhor vingan\u00e7a \u00e9 seguir em frente, ultrapassar o problema e continuar a ter sucesso. Nunca d\u00ea a algu\u00e9m a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o de o ver sofrer.<\/strong><\/p>\n Looking for closure from a person who doesn\u2019t want to talk to you is a joke. The only apology you need is the one you owe yourself for staying as long as you did.<\/p>\n A \u00fanica conversa que precisa de ter \u00e9 consigo e a \u00fanica pessoa que precisa de voltar a ver \u00e9 a pessoa no espelho.<\/p>\n No one likes to be ignored, and no one likes to not get answers to their questions. But what you have to learn is that any answer you are so desperate to get won\u2019t change anything, and it may or may not be the truth anyway.<\/p>\n A verdade \u00e9 que, a menos que se deixe ir, a menos que perdoa-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>Se n\u00e3o perdoar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e se n\u00e3o compreender que a situa\u00e7\u00e3o acabou, n\u00e3o pode seguir em frente.<\/p>\n No final do dia, lembra-te do que mereces e que, normalmente, as coisas que acabam por chegar ao fim nunca foram feitas para acontecer.<\/p>\n Relacionadas: 98 Melhores \u00faltimas palavras para dizer a um ex (n\u00e3o importa a situa\u00e7\u00e3o)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Always know that you deserve much more than a man who doesn\u2019t pick up the phone when you call.<\/p>\n You deserve a man who\u2019ll respect your feelings even when your story comes to an end.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t deserve someone who\u2019ll you\u2019ll need to chase<\/a> so if he isn\u2019t ready to give you what you need, let him go.<\/p>\n Encontre o que precisa noutro lugar, encontre o seu encerramento em si mesmo.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t need him to give you closure so that you\u2019d be able to validate your relationship.<\/p>\n What happened was real, you should be able to realize this at least based on the pain you\u2019re feeling now.<\/p>\n O que aconteceu est\u00e1 escrito no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e nenhuma \u00faltima palavra de um homem ser\u00e1 capaz de mudar isso.<\/p>\n Relacionadas: Como se vingar do seu ex: 12 maneiras comprovadas de o fazer<\/a><\/p>\n When you think about it, you\u2019ll see that the person you want to be with has a completely different personality to the one you\u2019ve been with. And this should help you to get your closure.<\/p>\n Because you\u2019ll see that not only will you not be wanting a new start with the person who already hurt you once, but that you should be the one cutting all the strings.<\/p>\n A parte mais dif\u00edcil \u00e9 perdoar-lhe<\/a> for all the pain you\u2019ve been through. But sometimes that\u2019s the only thing that will help you move on.<\/p>\n Forgive him for treating you the way he did. Forgive yourself for how long you\u2019ve been holding onto something that was just breaking you. But don\u2019t ever forget.<\/p>\n Keep what you\u2019ve been through at the back of your mind so you have something to remind you about the hell you\u2019ve been through once he reaches out to you again.<\/p>\n E como saber se ele vai mesmo tentar voltar a entrar na sua vida? Bem, porque eles tentam sempre.<\/p>\n![\"jovem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-brunette-touching-her-hair-closed-eyes.jpg\")
<\/p>\n1. Reconhecer que fez tudo o que estava ao seu alcance<\/h2>\n
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What\u2019s done is done. If your ex doesn\u2019t want to talk to you, then stop chasing after him. Stop wanting him to do anything. Remember that you did all you could but even that wasn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n2. Pensa no que mereces<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Esque\u00e7a a sua valida\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Pensa no tipo de pessoa com quem queres estar<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Perdoa-te a ti pr\u00f3prio e perdoa-lhe a ele<\/h2>\n
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