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<\/p>\nMesmo que estejamos a quil\u00f3metros de dist\u00e2ncia e mesmo que n\u00e3o me conhe\u00e7am, estamos t\u00e3o pr\u00f3ximos e unidos na nossa dor.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
I know how you feel every single day. I know that you are the one who wants this relationship to work out but darling, you can\u2019t be the only one trying.<\/p>\n
Sooner or later you will be fed up with all his stupid excuses and his reasons why he doesn\u2019t give you the love you need. I know that because I have been there.<\/p>\n
Just like you, I was once in love with a man who didn\u2019t give a damn about me. And I was the one who was trying so hard for us to make it . <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
I was the one who would buy the peace in our home, paying for it with my tears. I was the one who was lighting a fire in our bedroom when he didn\u2019t want to sleep with me. And most of all, I was the one who loved him more than he loved me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
I was the girl who was so easy to love\u2014the one who deserved everything but in the end, got nothing. And that fact broke my heart. It took me so much time to recover and to pick myself up again.<\/p>\n
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It was a long process and I had to go through it all alone while he was seeking another victim. I couldn\u2019t believe that someone who swore his love to me could do that to me.<\/p>\n
I couldn\u2019t believe that he treated me like shit all the time and I just thought that it was just a phase and that he would change.<\/p>\n
Porque as pessoas mudam quando amam, mas acho que ele nunca me amou.<\/i><\/b> Era s\u00f3 a mim que ele recorria quando as coisas ficavam dif\u00edceis. Eu era apenas a pessoa que lhe era conveniente naquela altura. E ele sabia-o muito bem.<\/p>\n
Ele conseguia ver isso pela forma como eu olhava para ele quando est\u00e1vamos sozinhos. Ele podia sentir isso pela forma como eu tocava no seu corpo quando ele estava a dormir.<\/p>\n
Ele sentia-o pela forma como eu o beijava. Sentia-o no bater forte do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o quando se deitava sobre os meus seios.<\/p>\n
Mas mesmo que ele soubesse todas essas coisas, nunca me deu o que eu tanto desejava. Ele era apenas um homem que me fez aprender uma li\u00e7\u00e3o de vida de uma forma dura.<\/p>\n
Era um homem que me batia at\u00e9 \u00e0 morte emocional, n\u00e3o deixando nada para os outros que estavam prestes a entrar na minha vida. Com ele, fiquei totalmente esgotada, sem qualquer sentimento de felicidade interior que tinha antes.<\/p>\n
Com ele, perdi-me porque estava t\u00e3o preocupada com as coisas que ele queria que eu fizesse<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n
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Com ele, fiquei confortavelmente entorpecida e, algures ao longo do caminho, aprendi a viver assim. Mas um dia, vi-me ao espelho e fiquei chocada com o meu reflexo.<\/p>\n
I couldn\u2019t even recognize myself anymore. I looked like a ghost wearing a tracksuit two sizes larger, with greasy hair and dark rings under my eyes.<\/p>\n
My lips were pale just like my skin and my eyes barely opened. There wasn\u2019t that sparkle in my eyes anymore and there wasn\u2019t a smile on my lips. I was just a shell of the girl I once was and I didn\u2019t like anything about that.<\/p>\n
Foi o meu sinal de alerta e soube que tinha de fazer alguma coisa na minha vida. Por isso, deixei-o, mesmo que isso me estivesse a despeda\u00e7ar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
Tive de o deixar porque n\u00e3o havia mais nada a que me agarrar. <\/i><\/b> E mesmo que tenha sido o pior momento da minha vida, nunca me arrependerei, porque nesse dia salvei-me dele.<\/p>\n
So, now while I am telling my story to you, I know that you are going through all the same shit I have been through and I don\u2019t want you to mess up your life as I did with mine.<\/p>\n
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I want you to be smarter and to not let him treat you like shit. I want you to stand up for yourself and to fight against anyone who doesn\u2019t give you what you deserve. Trust me, baby, you deserve so much more than he can give you .<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Eu sei que pensas que o amas agora, mas depois de te aperceberes de tudo o que ele te fez e de contares todas as vezes que ultrapassaste as merdas que ele te fez, vais ver que, no final, ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o vale a pena esperar.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Ele n\u00e3o fez qualquer esfor\u00e7o para a fazer ficar e, provavelmente, ficaria mais feliz se a deixasse, para poder passar para outra v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n
S\u00f3 parar\u00e1 quando encontrar aquela que n\u00e3o o amar\u00e1 o suficiente para lhe mostrar que tipo de idiota ele \u00e9.<\/p>\n
Por isso, por favor, se te preocupas contigo e se queres ter uma boa vida, p\u00e1ra de arranjar desculpas para ele e simplesmente ir embora.<\/a><\/p>\n
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