{"id":125780,"date":"2021-02-01T11:24:55","date_gmt":"2021-02-01T11:24:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=125780"},"modified":"2022-03-02T23:03:05","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T23:03:05","slug":"namorar-um-homem-de-verdade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/namorar-um-homem-de-verdade\/","title":{"rendered":"Senhoras, \u00e9 assim que sabem que est\u00e3o a sair com um homem a s\u00e9rio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A pandemia da procura de um homem de verdade atingiu o seu auge h\u00e1 muito tempo. H\u00e1 tantos artigos, coment\u00e1rios, memes e tantas defini\u00e7\u00f5es desta criatura m\u00edtica conhecida como o homem real.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There\u2019s one huge misconception as well.<\/strong> Algumas pessoas (sobretudo do sexo masculino) pensam que um verdadeiro homem \u00e9 sin\u00f3nimo de perfei\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>They think that the main reason why women have \u201cinvented\u201d the term, real man, is because of their unrealistic expectations of men.<\/p>\n<p>The saddest part of all is the fact that this has nothing to do with unrealistic expectations, women being picky, ungrateful, or similar. Also, this has nothing to do with the saying \u201call men are pigs\u201d either.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O termo \"homem de verdade\" \u00e9, na verdade, um sin\u00f3nimo do mal-entendido entre os g\u00e9neros.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tanto os homens como as mulheres t\u00eam a sua pr\u00f3pria vis\u00e3o do que se espera que d\u00eaem e recebam quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/conselhos-de-namoro-para-mulheres\/\">namoro<\/a> ou estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, a diferen\u00e7a entre um rapaz e um homem a s\u00e9rio \u00e9 que este \u00faltimo sabe o que as mulheres REALMENTE querem, esperam e precisam.<\/p>\n<p>Os verdadeiros homens sabem que a confian\u00e7a, a honestidade, o respeito e o esfor\u00e7o s\u00e3o as coisas que as mulheres valorizam mais do que qualquer outra coisa!<\/p>\n<h2>Real men are like unicorns &#8211; TRUE or FALSE?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125786 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz com camisola de gola alta branca e homem abra\u00e7ado no interior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/couple-hugging-3-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably heard that cliche saying multiple times, but you still aren\u2019t sure if it is false or true. Are real men legit unicorns who exist in the real world, but are really rare and hard to find?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll be honest with you. There were times when I thought I finally met a real man only to realize that I was completely wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, houve alturas em que pensei que um homem era um jogador leg\u00edtimo, mas depois apercebi-me de que, na realidade, era <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-unicornio-2\/\">um unic\u00f3rnio homem real<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, if you\u2019re being too skeptical, then even if you meet one, you will think that there must be something wrong with him because such men don\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u201cReal men are like unicorns. You\u2019ve heard of them, a crazy friend of a friend has seen one, but there is no hope of ever actually meeting one.\u201d &#8211; Unknown<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tenho um forte desejo de reformular a \u00faltima frase da cita\u00e7\u00e3o acima para isto: H\u00e1 esperan\u00e7a de alguma vez conhecer um? A minha resposta \u00e9: Sim, existe.<\/p>\n<p>Do you know how I\u2019m so sure? Because I met mine.<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re waiting to meet yours, here are some <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/8-razoes-pelas-quais-e-tao-dificil-encontrar-um-homem-a-serio\/\">reasons why it\u2019s so hard to find a real man<\/a> that might give you a better understanding of this whole \u2018real man\u2019 situation:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Os encontros casuais modernos s\u00e3o os principais culpados pela extin\u00e7\u00e3o dos homens a s\u00e9rio<\/li>\n<li>Outro culpado \u00e9 o excesso de op\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros<\/li>\n<li>Quest\u00f5es de empenhamento<\/li>\n<li>Alguns homens sentem-se intimidados por mulheres poderosas e independentes<\/li>\n<li>Crescer e ser respons\u00e1vel \u00e9 uma tarefa dif\u00edcil para alguns homens<\/li>\n<li>A extin\u00e7\u00e3o das conversas na vida real<\/li>\n<li>Sem press\u00e3o para casar<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Todas estas raz\u00f5es mencionadas s\u00e3o mais como factores que influenciaram a extin\u00e7\u00e3o dos verdadeiros homens.<\/p>\n<p>A principal raz\u00e3o pela qual \u00e9 t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil encontrar um homem a s\u00e9rio deve-se aos tempos modernos em que vivemos. O namoro na vida real foi substitu\u00eddo pelo namoro virtual.<\/p>\n<p>As conversas na vida real foram substitu\u00eddas por mensagens instant\u00e2neas. A express\u00e3o das nossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es foi substitu\u00edda por emojis.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Os romances lentos, repletos de gestos rom\u00e2nticos antiquados, foram substitu\u00eddos por encontros casuais.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Todas estas tend\u00eancias est\u00e3o a tornar dif\u00edcil para os homens expressar o seu afeto da forma correcta, cortejar uma mulher da forma que ela merece, ganhar a sua confian\u00e7a e fazer um esfor\u00e7o na vida real e n\u00e3o apenas na virtual.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00c9 preciso ser um homem de verdade para saber que as pequenas coisas s\u00e3o as mais importantes para as mulheres.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It takes a real man to know that just because he has won a woman\u2019s heart doesn\u2019t mean he should stop winning her.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/true-love\/finding-the-one\/takes-real-man-know-one-woman-enough\/\">\u00c9 preciso um homem de verdade para saber que uma mulher \u00e9 suficiente<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It takes a real man to ignore what\u2019s trending and stay true to his gentleman manners even if they are considered old-fashioned.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the main difference between real men and those who don\u2019t belong in this category. Basically, a real man doesn\u2019t give a damn about what society or other people will think of him.<\/p>\n<p>Um verdadeiro homem s\u00f3 se preocupa em fazer a sua mulher feliz.<\/p>\n<h2>Compromissos de um homem a s\u00e9rio:<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125787 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar uma mulher na bochecha enquanto est\u00e1 sentado num caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When it comes to romances, I\u2019ve learned this lesson the hard way: <strong>NUNCA tirar conclus\u00f5es precipitadas.<\/strong> It\u2019s true that you cannot judge a book by its cover.<\/p>\n<p>It is impossible to know if he\u2019s a real man right on the first date. Nevertheless, it is possible to make a mistake and misinterpret his actions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, how do you know that you\u2019re dating (or you\u2019re in a relationship with) a real man?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You know it by paying attention to his actions. Here\u2019s another cliche saying that I\u2019m really fond of: <em>As ac\u00e7\u00f5es falam mais alto do que as palavras.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A man could spend an eternity convincing you with his words that he\u2019s the right person for you, but this doesn\u2019t mean anything if he\u2019s not ready to show it to you.<\/p>\n<p>Qualquer um pode dizer o que quiser sobre si pr\u00f3prio, mas poucos est\u00e3o realmente dispostos a PROV\u00c1-LO.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aqui est\u00e3o alguns <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-coisas-que-um-homem-de-verdade-faz\/\">things a real man does when he\u2019s in a relationship<\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Ele cumpre sempre as suas promessas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Uma das maiores diferen\u00e7as entre os rapazes e os verdadeiros homens \u00e9 que os rapazes arranjam desculpas, mas os verdadeiros homens cumprem as suas promessas.<\/p>\n<p>If they aren\u2019t sure that they will be able to deliver it, then they won\u2019t promise it to you. If they fail to deliver a promise, they make sure to apologize for it and never repeat the same mistake again.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Ele sabe que as ac\u00e7\u00f5es falam mais alto do que as palavras.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A regular man says \u2018I love you\u2019 and does nothing to prove it to his woman, but a real man says those three words and supports them with actions.<\/p>\n<p>He makes sure that the amount of effort he invests in you and your relationship is visible, and that you never have to question his intentions or ask yourself if he\u2019s the right one for you.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Ele conhece as suas prioridades.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No matter what is happening in his life at the moment, a real man always knows his priorities. He never takes you for granted or appears only when it\u2019s convenient for him.<\/p>\n<p>Ele nunca a deixa esperar s\u00f3 porque sabe que voc\u00ea o far\u00e1. Ele aprecia o seu tempo e as coisas que faz por ele e pela vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Ele protege-te.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que o mundo inteiro esteja contra si, um homem a s\u00e9rio far\u00e1 com que saiba que a apoia. Um homem a s\u00e9rio protege-a dos inimigos, das pessoas t\u00f3xicas e de outras coisas negativas na sua vida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125789 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar a testa de uma mulher enquanto est\u00e1 junto a um muro de madeira\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He will never let you fight your battles on your own because he\u2019s a team player and because it\u2019s his duty to protect his woman.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Faz planos para o futuro.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Real men aren\u2019t only focused on what\u2019s happening at the moment, but they make future plans and they involve you in them as well.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t wait on their women to do everything, but they make sure to roll up their sleeves and make their women proud of their present and future accomplishments.<\/p>\n<p>Os verdadeiros homens s\u00e3o ambiciosos e nunca ficam estagnados.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Ele aprecia-te.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to remind a real man to appreciate you because it\u2019s in his nature to treat a woman the way she deserves to be treated.<\/p>\n<p>A real man appreciates his woman, his friends, his family, and all the other people as well. He\u2019s never rude to those of lower social status and he treats everyone with the same amount of respect and appreciation.<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Ele ganha a vossa confian\u00e7a e conquista o vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Some men are only interested in getting into a woman\u2019s pants, but real men are actually interested in earning a woman\u2019s trust and winning her heart.<\/p>\n<p>They aren\u2019t interested in mediocre romances, but they are interested in investing in real relationships that take time, effort, and patience.<\/p>\n<p>Being solely focused on winning a woman\u2019s heart and never stopping pursuing her even when they have won her is one of the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/45-coisas-que-os-homens-de-verdade-fazem\/\">coisas que s\u00f3 os homens de verdade fazem<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em>Real men support their women, they don\u2019t depreciate them.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Os verdadeiros homens esfor\u00e7am-se em vez de darem desculpas.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/os-verdadeiros-homens-protegem-as-suas-mulheres-nao-abusam-delas\/\">Real men protect their women, they don\u2019t abuse them<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Real men are honest and genuine, they don\u2019t play games.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>When you meet one, you\u2019ll know it in your guts. He will never make you question his feelings for you and he will never make you overthink.<\/p>\n<p>Quando conhecer um, o seu mundo deixar\u00e1 de ser preto e branco e passar\u00e1 a ter milhares de tonalidades coloridas. Finalmente vais perceber que a espera pelo teu homem unic\u00f3rnio valeu a pena.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The pandemic of searching for a real man reached its peak a long time ago. There are so many articles, comments, memes, and so many definitions of this mythical creature known as the real man. There\u2019s one huge misconception as well. Some people (especially male species) think that a real man is a synonym for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":125784,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-125780","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Ladies-This-Is-How-You-Know-That-Youre-Dating-A-Real-Man-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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