{"id":12593,"date":"2020-04-18T09:07:29","date_gmt":"2020-04-18T09:07:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12593"},"modified":"2022-07-19T08:49:59","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T08:49:59","slug":"acontece-finalmente-descartar-o-narcisista-manipulador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/acontece-finalmente-descartar-o-narcisista-manipulador\/","title":{"rendered":"Isto \u00e9 o que acontece quando finalmente descartamos um narcisista manipulador"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sair de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o narc\u00edsica<\/a> \u00e9 extremamente dif\u00edcil. O sacana mentiroso acaba com a nossa autoestima e com o nosso respeito por n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

After you\u2019re done with him, you don\u2019t have the strength to move on. Trusting people is the last thing you\u2019ll do.<\/p>\n

Only after you survive the long and painful healing process and after you realize that it wasn\u2019t your fault things didn\u2019t work out and that he made you believe in things that are not true, you are able to look at life from a different perspective.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es narcisistas s\u00e3o viciantes.<\/strong> You get used to their mistreatment and it becomes your life. He becomes like a fix that you need to take every day otherwise you\u2019ll be in crisis. His insults and manipulations become the air that you breathe and you don\u2019t want to suffocate. That\u2019s why you stay.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es narcisistas s\u00e3o um desafio.<\/strong> Some women stay in that relationship although they are unhappy because they keep hoping things will change. They cling on to the idea they will change him and make him a better person. And actually, narcissists are such good actors that they know just the right moment to pretend they have changed\u2014the moment when the woman has had enough and once again, they manipulate her into staying.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es narcisistas s\u00e3o humilhantes.<\/strong> These people take away everything positive about you. They take your will for life. They shove you and corner you with no hope of getting out. You just keep going round in circles hoping you\u2019ll find the way out but it never happens.<\/p>\n

He turns you into a shadow of the woman you once were. He takes away everything you had and creates a woman of his taste\u2014the one he could control and finally destroy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas uma pessoa pode tomar apenas o suficiente abuso<\/a>. All women put a stop to this behavior eventually. Narcissists get them to the point they don\u2019t really care what is going to happen to them.<\/p>\n

\"Discuss\u00e3o<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o t\u00eam medo e a sua consci\u00eancia entra em a\u00e7\u00e3o. Aquele bocadinho de for\u00e7a que ainda lhes resta grita e, finalmente, descartam o sacana sorrateiro.<\/p>\n

But the struggle doesn\u2019t end there. That is just the beginning of the journey. That was just the first step they were brave enough to take.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Agora vem a parte dif\u00edcil. Todas as mulheres que tiveram a for\u00e7a para libertar-se de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o narc\u00edsica<\/a> s\u00e3o confrontados com a redescoberta de um amor por si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o confrontados com o desafio de encontrarem a sua autoestima e de se perdoarem a si pr\u00f3prios por terem acreditado em todas as mentiras e manipula\u00e7\u00f5es narc\u00edsicas at\u00e9 ent\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Women have to deal with healing and fighting his tries to get them back. You see, narcissists can\u2019t live without their victims. They have to have someone to leech off of.<\/p>\n

They have to have someone who will be their punching bag, someone who will make them feel better, and someone to lash out at. And they will try with everything they\u2019ve got to get you back.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: O guia definitivo para ignorar um narcisista (Spotting and The Aftermath)<\/a><\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 o que se pode esperar quando finalmente se desfaz de um narcisista:<\/p>\n

Ele vai perseguir-te e assediar-te<\/h2>\n

\"Uma  <\/p>\n

Qualquer pessoa normal compreenderia, se n\u00e3o de imediato, ao fim de algum tempo, que tinha de deixar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que lhe estava a causar mais sofrimento do que felicidade.<\/p>\n

Mas, ao contr\u00e1rio das pessoas normais, um narcisista ver\u00e1 a sua partida como uma vit\u00f3ria sua e n\u00e3o pode admitir a derrota.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t get that you were afraid for your safety and he will see you leaving him as abandonment, but no one abandons a narcissist because, in his own eyes, he is perfect. He sees your relationship as a competition and you won.<\/p>\n

Since he can\u2019t accept the fact you discarded him first, he will stalk and harass you for months and maybe even years after you break up.<\/p>\n

Ele vai persegui-lo nas redes sociais<\/a>O seu pai ou a sua m\u00e3e, o seu pai ou a sua m\u00e3e, o seu pai ou a sua m\u00e3e, o seu pai ou a sua m\u00e3e, v\u00e3o a sua casa, enviam-lhe mensagens de texto, telefonam-lhe ou at\u00e9 usam outra pessoa para tentar manipul\u00e1-la para que volte para ele.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 pronto para fazer literalmente qualquer coisa, desde entrar no seu computador at\u00e9 mexer com a sua cabe\u00e7a e amea\u00e7\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: Sinais de obsess\u00e3o: 10 sinais de que ele \u00e9 perigosamente obsessivo, n\u00e3o apaixonado<\/a><\/p>\n

Ele vai culpar-te por tudo<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, ele agia como se tivesse sorte em te ter e como se fosses uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o. Ele age como se tivesse muita sorte em conseguir algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o bom como tu.<\/p>\n

Mas, \u00e0 medida que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o se vai desenrolando e ele come\u00e7a a mostrar a sua verdadeira face, as coisas deterioram-se. Por isso, ele vai p\u00f4r as culpas em si.<\/p>\n

Ele vai inventar uma desculpa est\u00fapida para lhe atribuir a culpa do fim da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

The reason is completely irrelevant\u2014what\u2019s important is that everything is your fault.<\/p>\n

Isso \u00e9 t\u00e3o chocante e doloroso e os narcisistas fazem-no apenas porque v\u00eaem que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 maneira de voc\u00eas os dois voltarem a ficar juntos, por isso fazem quest\u00e3o de limpar os seus nomes e enganam-se a si pr\u00f3prios pensando que n\u00e3o fizeram nada de errado.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: 18 sinais de alerta de um namorado controlador<\/a><\/p>\n

Triangula\u00e7\u00e3o p\u00f3s-separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Ele tentar\u00e1 criar deliberadamente um tri\u00e2ngulo amoroso<\/a> para te diminuir e fazer com que a tua mente volte ao tempo em que estavas com ele.<\/p>\n

Nestas situa\u00e7\u00f5es, \u00e9 preciso ter cuidado com as redes sociais, evit\u00e1-las e tentar n\u00e3o ir aos locais onde o poderia encontrar.<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 muito importante porque ainda est\u00e1 em processo de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o e qualquer vis\u00e3o dele ou mesmo uma tentativa falhada de a fazer sentir ci\u00fames pode trazer de volta a d\u00favida e a falta de respeito.<\/p>\n

You have to make sure to have no contact whatsoever with your narcissist, so you deny him the chance of sucking you back into the hell you\u2019ve lived in.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: Como magoar emocionalmente um homem narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n

Ele vai fazer-te sentir culpada para ficares<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Depois de finalmente se desfazer de um narcisista, ele tentar\u00e1 fazer com que se sinta culpada para voltar para ele.<\/p>\n

Ele recordar-lhe-\u00e1 todas as coisas maravilhosas que fez por si enquanto estiveram juntos, e foram muitas, mas, infelizmente, cada uma dessas ac\u00e7\u00f5es teve um motivo oculto.<\/p>\n

Sempre que ele fazia algo de bom para si, queria algo em troca.<\/p>\n

He will shove these things into your face, hoping you\u2019ll remember only the good things and give him another chance.<\/p>\n

Ele vai fazer-te ficar mal visto<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t dodge this bullet. You can\u2019t hide the fact that you broke up because the narcissist wants to make sure everyone knows you broke up and now it\u2019s time for those people to choose sides.<\/p>\n

O seu narcisista quer que experimente o abandono total dos seus amigos.<\/p>\n

Ele vai falar mal de si nas redes sociais e coscuvilhar sobre si sempre que tiver oportunidade.<\/p>\n

Ele tentar\u00e1 convencer as pessoas de que voc\u00ea fez tudo o que ele realmente lhe fez. Ele quer reunir o m\u00e1ximo de simpatia poss\u00edvel e fazer de si o mau da fita.<\/p>\n

\"Isto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Leaving a narcissistic relationship is extremely hard. The lying bastard wipes out your self-esteem and your self-respect. After you\u2019re done with him, you don\u2019t have the strength to move on. Trusting people is the last thing you\u2019ll do. Only after you survive the long and painful healing process and after you realize that it wasn\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":115489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12593","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/This-Is-What-Happens-When-You-Finally-Discard-A-Manipulative-Narcissist-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":24,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12593","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12593"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12593\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/115489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12593"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12593"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12593"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}