{"id":126010,"date":"2021-02-04T22:29:12","date_gmt":"2021-02-04T22:29:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126010"},"modified":"2022-06-25T09:23:36","modified_gmt":"2022-06-25T09:23:36","slug":"porque-e-que-ele-deixou-de-te-enviar-mensagens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-ele-deixou-de-te-enviar-mensagens\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que ele deixou de te enviar mensagens de texto de repente (e o que fazer em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>H\u00e1 alguns dias, ele era o homem mais encantador do mundo, tanto na vida real como na virtual.<\/p>\n<p>As suas capacidades de envio de mensagens de texto eram verdadeiramente not\u00e1veis e ele nunca se esquecia de te enviar um emoji para tornar os seus textos ainda mais interessantes.<\/p>\n<p>Ele contava-lhe o seu dia, as suas paix\u00f5es e os seus planos, fazendo-a sentir-se como se fosse uma parte importante da sua vida, mesmo que se tivessem acabado de conhecer e come\u00e7ado a namorar.<\/p>\n<p>E, de repente, olha para o seu telem\u00f3vel e a sua ansiedade multiplica-se a cada minuto que passa \u00e0 espera que ele lhe envie uma mensagem de resposta.<\/p>\n<p><em>Minutes, hours, days, weeks, and even months go by, and he still didn\u2019t text you back. You decide to double text him or triple text him (if that term even exists), and still, nothing changes.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Agora, a situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 ainda pior porque tem montes de mensagens sem resposta e ele pode come\u00e7ar a pensar que \u00e9 uma mulher desesperada, chata, ou sabe Deus o qu\u00ea.<\/strong> (Deus, odeio os homens e o excesso de pensamento).<\/p>\n<p>A \u00fanica coisa em que se pode pensar \u00e9: <em>Porque \u00e9 que ele deixou de me enviar mensagens de repente, quando est\u00e1vamos a ir muito bem? O que \u00e9 que aconteceu? O que \u00e9 que mudou? <\/em><em>Fiz algo de errado para que ele fugisse de mim ou existem outras raz\u00f5es leg\u00edtimas para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-um-tipo-se-mostra-interessado-e-depois-recua\/\">ele estar distante de repente<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>So many questions, but not a single answer to alleviate your worried mind. If it means anything to you, I\u2019ve been through the same situation multiple times so far, and here\u2019s what I\u2019ve learned from it.<\/p>\n<h2>When he stops texting you suddenly, it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve done something wrong.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126026 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste de blusa amarela apoiada numa mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-leaning-on-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 provavelmente a coisa mais dif\u00edcil de aceitar.<\/p>\n<p>When a guy you really like and have great chemistry with all of a sudden stops answering your texts, you can\u2019t help yourself but think that you\u2019re the one to blame for it.<\/p>\n<p>Deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In the majority of cases, this has nothing to do with you. No, he didn\u2019t stop texting you because you annoyed him with your texts or said something inappropriate that made him mad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t stop texting you because he wants you to suffer for some reason. There are so many factors that influence someone\u2019s decision to become distant.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps he\u2019s busy at the moment and forgot to tell you that.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he thinks by telling you that he\u2019s busy, you\u2019ll think that he\u2019s just playing with you, and that\u2019s the reason why he decided to stop texting you at the moment without telling you why.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Scrolling through your chat to figure out what you\u2019ve done wrong WON\u2019T help. It will only make you feel even more confused.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can only guess what\u2019s going on in his mind, and jumping to conclusions is out of the question.<\/p>\n<p>Quero que saibas que perder tempo a decifrar porque \u00e9 que ele deixou de te enviar mensagens de repente n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o para o teu problema.<\/p>\n<p>Claro que seria dez vezes mais f\u00e1cil para si se soubesse exatamente porqu\u00ea<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-os-homens-deixam-de-enviar-mensagens-e-depois-comecam-outra-vez\/\"> ele deixou de te enviar mensagens<\/a>mas nunca se pode ter a certeza at\u00e9 ele nos dizer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por isso, at\u00e9 ele dizer o que se passa exatamente na cabe\u00e7a dele, eis algumas possibilidades <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-razoes-pelas-quais-ele-deixou-de-te-enviar-mensagens-de-texto-de-repente\/\">raz\u00f5es pelas quais ele deixou de te enviar mensagens de texto de repente<\/a> (but don\u2019t jump to conclusions yet):<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>He\u2019s busy at the moment<\/li>\n<li>He\u2019s only interested in something casual<\/li>\n<li>He\u2019s already taken<\/li>\n<li>You\u2019re always the first one to text him<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The last time a guy I\u2019ve been texting with for a long time stopped texting me suddenly is because he was too busy at the moment. Yup.<\/p>\n<p>Passei semanas a preocupar-me com o que lhe tinha acontecido e porque \u00e9 que, de repente, decidiu eliminar-me da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>After some time, he told me that he wanted to focus on his studies, so he didn\u2019t text anyone, not only me. SERIOUSLY?<\/p>\n<p>The one thing I still don\u2019t understand is why he didn\u2019t tell me that? I\u2019m definitely not one of those people who would still continue texting him even if he specifically told me that he doesn\u2019t have time for it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why don\u2019t guys just say what they REALLY mean and how they really FEEL for once in their life?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Is it really easier to ignore someone and risk losing them from your life than to tell them that you\u2019re just too busy to text them right now?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I guess we\u2019ll never know the right answer to this question. (Okay, now give me some time to come to my senses because the recollection of this event has really pissed me off.)<\/p>\n<p>The second and the third reasons are pretty much obvious, so I won\u2019t even comment on them (I don\u2019t want to risk another virtual breakdown).<\/p>\n<p>But, I have the urge to say something about the last one. If you\u2019re always the first one to text him, this is a huge red flag.<\/p>\n<p>Um dos maiores <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/12-razoes-pelas-quais-ele-nunca-te-manda-uma-mensagem-primeiro-mas-responde-sempre-quando-tu-lhe-mandas-uma\/\">raz\u00f5es pelas quais ele nunca te envia uma mensagem de texto primeiro (mas responde sempre quando lhe envias uma mensagem)<\/a> \u00e9 devido ao seu fraco esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p>If a guy can\u2019t EVER find time to text you first, you should refrain from initiating texting for some time to see if anything changes.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, este \u00e9 um dos melhores <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-coisas-a-fazer-quando-ele-nao-responde-as-mensagens\/\">things to do when he doesn\u2019t text back<\/a> for days as well, not only when he doesn\u2019t text first.<\/p>\n<h2>What to do when he doesn\u2019t text back for days?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126027 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste deitada na cama enquanto utiliza um smartphone\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-laying-on-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, as you\u2019re sitting next to your cellphone and expecting him to text you back any second or minute, you might be wondering what exactly to do in this situation.<\/p>\n<p>To spare you the trouble, here\u2019s one thing that you should NEVER do: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-razoes-pelas-quais-ele-nunca-te-manda-uma-mensagem-primeiro-mas-responde-sempre-quando-tu-lhe-mandas-uma\/\"><strong>DON\u2019T TEXT HIM<\/strong><\/a> EM QUALQUER CIRCUNST\u00c2NCIA.<\/p>\n<p>Many girls (including my past self) think that by double texting a guy, you\u2019ll remind him that you\u2019re still alive and that you\u2019re still waiting for his reply (I love the fact that this sentence even rhymes).<\/p>\n<p>No, you won\u2019t remind him to text you back, and he will be even more reluctant to reply to you. Why? Because, in a way, you\u2019re forcing him to do so.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ent\u00e3o, o que fazer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-nao-responde-as-mensagens\/\">when he doesn\u2019t text back<\/a> durante dias? A melhor coisa a fazer \u00e9 DIVERTIR-SE e certificar-se de que ELE sabe disso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>By doing this, you\u2019ll let him know that you don\u2019t care whether he texts you back or not and you\u2019ll be equally happy with or without him. If a man knows that, he will be more than happy to text you back.<\/p>\n<p>Um dos melhores <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/ele-nao-responde-as-mensagens\/\">things to do when he doesn\u2019t text back for days<\/a> is to focus on yourself instead of wasting your time thinking about why he hasn\u2019t texted you back.<\/p>\n<p>When a man sees that you\u2019re a confident, independent woman and that you have more important things to do in your life than worry about him texting you, he will be more than happy to text you back.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s the only recipe that works for sure. If you don\u2019t trust me, you can try both ways.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pode tentar pensar nele e enviar-lhe mensagens todos os dias da sua vida at\u00e9 ele decidir responder (ou bloque\u00e1-la).<\/p>\n<p>Ou pode concentrar-se em viver a sua vida da melhor forma poss\u00edvel at\u00e9 que ele ganhe ju\u00edzo (ou descubra o que precisa de descobrir) e decida enviar-lhe uma mensagem de volta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por isso, quando ele finalmente lhe enviar uma mensagem de resposta, h\u00e1 duas coisas que pode fazer:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>a)<\/strong> Responder-lhe e pedir-lhe que explique por que raz\u00e3o demorou tanto tempo (esta \u00faltima op\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 facultativa)<\/p>\n<p><strong>b)<\/strong> Ignore-o para o resto da sua vida (ou durante algum tempo apenas para lhe dar a provar o seu pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio)<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you choose to do, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll make the right choice.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few days ago, he was the most charming man in the world both in real life and in the virtual one. His texting skills were truly remarkable and he would never forget to send you an emoji to make his texts look even more interesting. He would tell you about his day, his passions,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":126025,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-126010","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Why-He-Stopped-Texting-You-Suddenly-And-What-To-Do-About-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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