{"id":126319,"date":"2021-05-17T19:12:49","date_gmt":"2021-05-17T19:12:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126319"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:26:21","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:26:21","slug":"nao-precisas-de-um-homem-para-ser-feliz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-precisas-de-um-homem-para-ser-feliz\/","title":{"rendered":"Senhoras, \u00e9 por isso que n\u00e3o precisam de um homem para serem felizes"},"content":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t need a man to be happy<\/a>!<\/strong><\/p>\n

How many times have you heard this clich\u00e9?
\nApostei demasiadas vezes, tal como eu.<\/p>\n

Mas, quantos de v\u00f3s implementaram realmente esta filosofia nas vossas vidas?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aposto que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o muitos, tal como o meu passado.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s something truly intriguing about us women (and people in general) being convinced that we need to have someone in our lives to be truly happy or fit into societal norms.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s something truly wrong about this worn-out sequence: Finish school \u2013 Find a job \u2013 Find a partner \u2013 Get married \u2013 Have kids.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A s\u00e9rio? Desde quando \u00e9 que esta \u00e9 a receita que cada um de n\u00f3s tem de seguir para evitar ser ostracizado pela sociedade?<\/p>\n

So, if you manage to finish school and find a job but have no partner yet, society and the media will make you feel like you\u2019re doing something wrong, and you\u2019ll NEVER be truly happy.<\/p>\n

Well, it\u2019s time to put an end to this lie and manipulation because we don\u2019t need a partner to be happy, and we don\u2019t need to appease society to feel worthy.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to experience true happiness because you\u2019re the creator of your own!<\/p>\n

Ser solteiro pode ser t\u00e3o excitante como estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

As borboletas no est\u00f4mago, contar os segundos que faltam para ver a pessoa amada, abra\u00e7ar, rir, ter um parceiro no crime, um confidente e um amigo, tudo num s\u00f3<\/em> s\u00e3o as coisas que tornam a nossa vida divertida e emocionante.<\/p>\n

Now let\u2019s be honest. No matter how fulfilling and entertaining relationships can be, they also come with a HUGE burden.<\/p>\n

All those overthinking sessions about whether you should text them first (or not), whether you should introduce them to your friends and family, the inevitable arguments, compromising (even when you don\u2019t feel like it), finding a balance between fazer tudo o que est\u00e1 ao seu alcance para os ajudar e n\u00e3o ser tomado como garantido<\/strong>e a lista \u00e9 intermin\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Todas estas coisas podem tornar a sua vida frustrante e, em alguns casos, um inferno.<\/p>\n

So, NO, you don\u2019t need to be in a relationship to be happy (especially not a toxic one) because ser solteiro<\/a> pode ser t\u00e3o excitante como ter um parceiro!<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re single, you have all the time in the world to prioritize your own happiness before someone else\u2019s<\/h2>\n

\"tr\u00eas<\/p>\n

Pode escolher as suas pr\u00f3prias actividades, comida, filmes e todas as outras coisas que as pessoas normalmente comprometem com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

You get to live your best life without needing to worry about whether you\u2019re texting him too much, whether he\u2019s not giving you enough attention, or if you should be suspicious of his loyalty.<\/p>\n

You get to spoil yourself the way you deserve, spend more time with your friends and family, so you don\u2019t need a man to be happy because you can be perfectly happy on your own!<\/strong><\/p>\n

It took me a while to realize that putting my happiness in someone else\u2019s hands is the wrong thing to do.<\/p>\n

Durante metade da minha vida, costumava pensar que a \u00fanica forma de alcan\u00e7ar a verdadeira felicidade era encontrar o parceiro perfeito para mim.<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019ve learned two lessons the hard way:<\/p>\n

1. The perfect partner doesn\u2019t exist.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. A \u00fanica maneira de ser verdadeiramente feliz \u00e9 aprender a amarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you love yourself, you don\u2019t look for that one missing piece in someone else. When you love yourself, you don\u2019t need validation from others. You don\u2019t need a man to make you feel worthy or loved.<\/p>\n

Loving yourself is about establishing a relationship you\u2019ll value your whole life. It\u2019s about accepting yourself for who you are with all those imperfections, quirks, weaknesses, and weird habits.<\/p>\n

Loving yourself is about knowing that you\u2019re the creator of your own happiness<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Lembra-te que vieste a este mundo sozinho. Encontrar um parceiro \u00e9 uma escolha, mas apaixonar-se por si pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 uma necessidade.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s interesting how society (particularly the media) prioritizes relationships before self-love.<\/p>\n

Since when did finding a partner become an alternative for getting in touch with your true self? How is it possible to love someone else if you\u2019re not in love with yourself?<\/p>\n

Uma das principais raz\u00f5es pelas quais os meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o social nos obrigam a acreditar que precisamos de um parceiro para sermos felizes \u00e9 porque essa \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de nos venderem coisas.<\/p>\n

De \u201ctechniques and magical recipes for dealing with commitment phobes\u201d <\/strong><\/em>para \u201cthe most expensive makeup that will make you beautiful\u201d<\/strong><\/em> and help you find a long-awaited \u201cperfect\u201d partner.<\/p>\n

Convencem-nos de que precisamos de algu\u00e9m na nossa vida para nos tornarmos escravos da sua propaganda.<\/p>\n

Half of those terms like \u201ccommitment-phobes,\u201d \u201calmost relationships,\u201d and similar don\u2019t even exist in the real world, but that\u2019s an article for another day.<\/p>\n

Se me perguntarem, a sequ\u00eancia desgastada que mencion\u00e1mos no in\u00edcio deveria ser reformulada da seguinte forma:<\/p>\n

Finish school \u2013 Find a job \u2013 Apaixone-se por si pr\u00f3prio<\/strong> \u2013 Find a partner \u2013 Get married \u2013 Have kids.
\n(Of course, some of us don\u2019t want to get married, have kids, finish school, or have a job, which is more than okay.)<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t love yourself, you\u2019ll spend your whole life feeling like something is missing. Perhaps you already have a few failed relationships, and you blame yourself for it.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa de que se deve culpar \u00e9 de n\u00e3o se dar amor e aten\u00e7\u00e3o suficientes.<\/p>\n

\u201cLove yourself first because that\u2019s who you\u2019ll be spending the rest of your life with.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Yup. Relationships come and go, but the relationship you have with yourself is for life. You don\u2019t need a man to be happy because you can be perfectly happy on your own only if you want to.<\/p>\n

Lembra-te:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to be single than to be in a crappy relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not happy, give yourself permission to leave<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Amarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios \u00e9 a chave para a verdadeira felicidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to live your life without a man<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love yourself because, at the end of the day, the only person you have is yourself. You don\u2019t need a man to remind you of that.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to be happy because you\u2019ve already got plenty of raz\u00f5es para ser feliz agora, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer<\/a>:<\/p>\n