{"id":126348,"date":"2021-02-15T00:31:07","date_gmt":"2021-02-15T00:31:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126348"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:55:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:55:25","slug":"como-conseguir-que-a-tua-paixao-goste-de-ti-de-novo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-conseguir-que-a-tua-paixao-goste-de-ti-de-novo\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que vais conseguir que a tua paix\u00e3o volte a gostar de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sempre que tenho uma paixoneta por algu\u00e9m, o meu c\u00e9rebro transforma-se nisto:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Oh n\u00e3o, ele viu-me a olhar para ele. A minha vida est\u00e1 oficialmente acabada.<\/li>\n<li>I\u2019ve got NOTHING to wear.<\/li>\n<li>Como \u00e9 que me livro dessas borboletas no est\u00f4mago?<\/li>\n<li>OMG, adicionei-o\/segui-o nas redes sociais. Agora ele provavelmente pensa que eu gosto dele.<\/li>\n<li>Preciso de fazer um novo corte de cabelo.<\/li>\n<li>Should I text him? But, what if he doesn\u2019t text me back??<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Se adicionar <em>being unable to fall asleep because you can\u2019t stop thinking about them and every single thing reminding you of them<\/em> para a equa\u00e7\u00e3o, a\u00ed est\u00e1: <strong>Uma receita para perder a cabe\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Alguma destas coisas vos parece familiar? Eu sei que sim, por isso p\u00e1ra de mentir a ti pr\u00f3pria! A tua paix\u00e3o \u00e9 a primeira coisa em que pensas de manh\u00e3 e a \u00faltima coisa em que pensas antes de ires dormir.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e3o respons\u00e1veis por tantas noites de ins\u00f3nia, pensamentos excessivos e devaneios (especialmente devaneios!).<\/p>\n<p>Se ao menos soubesses uma receita m\u00e1gica de como <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/como-impressionar-a-sua-paixoneta\/\">fazer com que a sua paix\u00e3o se apaixone por si<\/a>, you would learn it by heart. If only\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Now, let\u2019s be honest. There are no magic recipes or remedies for those intense feelings of infatuation. I\u2019m sorry, but you have to find a way to live with it (for the time being).<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, h\u00e1 algumas coisas que pode fazer para chamar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o e conquistar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o da sua cara-metade. H\u00e1 algumas coisas que pode fazer para mostrar \u00e0 sua paixoneta que \u00e9 uma pessoa interessante e espantosa!<\/p>\n<h2>Se queres que a tua paixoneta goste de ti, ent\u00e3o certifica-te de que a IMPRESSIONAS!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126374 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a falar com homem enquanto toma caf\u00e9 ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/woman-talking-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re a girl, the first thing that comes to your mind when someone mentions the word IMPRESS is physical appearance, right?<\/p>\n<p>You think of so many different combinations of outfits that could potentially catch his attention, so many different shades of lipstick, nail polish, you name it. (I won\u2019t even mention hair because that would be another article in itself).<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong. Paying attention to your physical appearance is a great way to impress your crush, but only temporarily.<\/p>\n<p>Quando ele a vir com a roupa perfeita, com o cabelo perfeito penteado durante 3 horas, e todas as outras coisas perfeitas em si, o seu crush vai pensar para si pr\u00f3prio: <strong>Esta rapariga tem muito bom aspeto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Depois disso, continuar\u00e1 a sua vida como se nada tivesse acontecido.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re a guy, the first thing that comes to your mind when someone mentions the word IMPRESS is masculinity, strength, and skills, right?<\/p>\n<p>You think of hitting the gym immediately to pump those muscles or taking a picture in front of a mirror in a T-shirt that flatters those biceps, triceps, and almighty abs so that you can post it on social media while praying to God that the girl of your dreams, a.k.a., your CRUSH will see it! (I won\u2019t even mention cars because that would be another story in itself.)<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong. There\u2019s nothing wrong with your desire to accentuate your physique and impress your crush, but this is what she will think to herself: <strong>Este gajo tem muito bom aspeto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After that, she\u2019ll move on with her life as if nothing happened.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What I\u2019m trying to say is that physical appearance makes a temporary impression, but your personality is what keeps someone\u2019s attention (and eventually wins their heart)!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Regardless if you\u2019re a guy or a girl, if you want to win your crush like a boss, you need to impress them with your way of thinking, thoughtful actions, and unique mindset.<\/p>\n<h3>Por outras palavras: Se quisermos conquistar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o delas, temos de ser diferentes do resto dos rapazes e raparigas que andam por a\u00ed.<\/h3>\n<p>So, how do you show someone that you\u2019re special and different from others? Easy:<\/p>\n<p>a) You don\u2019t pretend to be something you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n<p>b) You accentuate things you\u2019re good at.<\/p>\n<p>c) You don\u2019t use cheesy\/generic pick up lines (reserved for guys).<\/p>\n<p>d) You don\u2019t act desperate (I\u2019m talking about stalking them and similar).<\/p>\n<p>Esque\u00e7a todos aqueles artigos que lhe dizem que fazer-se de dif\u00edcil \u00e9 a melhor maneira de conquistar a sua paix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de se fazer de dif\u00edcil, sugiro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-jogos-de-seducao-jogar-crush\/\">jogar jogos de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o com a sua paix\u00e3o<\/a> (partindo do princ\u00edpio que teve coragem e os contactou pessoalmente ou atrav\u00e9s das redes sociais).<\/p>\n<p>Also, pay attention to WHAT you\u2019re talking about rather than HOW MUCH you\u2019re talking to them. Quality over quantity (always remember that).<\/p>\n<p>So, let\u2019s say that you text or you stumble upon your crush in real life. What would you text\/say to them? Think about it for a few seconds as I\u2019m resting my hands from typing.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, given that I cannot know your answer, I\u2019ll just ask you one important question: <strong>H\u00e1 alguma inten\u00e7\u00e3o no que lhes quer dizer\/escrever?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let me simplify. Do you want to ask them questions only for the sake of asking or is there an intention behind your questions and answers? If there isn\u2019t, well, there should be.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 tantos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/coisas-para-falar-com-a-sua-paixao\/\">coisas interessantes para falar com a sua paix\u00e3o e conquist\u00e1-la<\/a> como a inf\u00e2ncia, os animais de estima\u00e7\u00e3o, etc., e essas coisas t\u00eam de ter uma inten\u00e7\u00e3o (algo que queira descobrir sobre eles e semelhantes), e tamb\u00e9m t\u00eam de manter a conversa.<\/p>\n<p>And, you need to LISTEN to them carefully. By listening, you\u2019ll find so many follow-up questions, which will help you deepen the conversation and make it even more interesting.<\/p>\n<h2>Se queres que a tua paix\u00e3o goste de ti, ajuda-a a abrir-se para ti!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126375 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking.jpg\" alt=\"homem a falar com uma mulher sentado num caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/man-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the thing with crushes. Chances are high that your crush also has a crush on you, but they won\u2019t admit it to you. You both keep living in an illusion and in your dreamy world full of fantasies and what ifs.<\/p>\n<p>Well, it\u2019s high time you wake up from daydreaming! It\u2019s time to do something about your feelings that are making your life so complicated.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll share with you one little secret: <strong>Se ajudar a sua paix\u00e3o a abrir-se para si, ent\u00e3o metade do seu trabalho est\u00e1 feito!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que todos n\u00f3s gostamos de falar de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios (quem n\u00e3o concordar comigo neste ponto, est\u00e1 apenas a enganar-se a si pr\u00f3prio).<\/p>\n<p>Ao fazermos perguntas com significado, ajudamos os outros a abrirem-se connosco, o que faz com que se sintam mais \u00e0 vontade e ligados a n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>A matem\u00e1tica \u00e9 simples. <strong>Se a sua cara-metade se sentir confort\u00e1vel \u00e0 sua volta e ligada a si, vai querer passar mais tempo consigo<\/strong> (apenas para falarem de si pr\u00f3prios e n\u00e3o para mais nada).<\/p>\n<p>Tenho experi\u00eancias positivas e negativas no que diz respeito aos meus projectos de paix\u00e3o. Algumas delas eram imposs\u00edveis de decifrar e abrir, por mais que eu tentasse, enquanto outras eram um livro aberto.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo depende do tipo de personalidade de cada um, por isso tenha isso em mente. No entanto, tanto os introvertidos como os extrovertidos gostam de responder a perguntas ponderadas, ou seja, perguntas que n\u00e3o sejam aborrecidas ou GEN\u00c9RICAS.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ent\u00e3o, aqui est\u00e3o algumas interessantes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/50-perguntas-para-fazer-a-sua-cara-metade-e-ajuda-la-a-abrir-se-consigo\/\">perguntas para fazer \u00e0 sua cara-metade e ajud\u00e1-la a abrir-se consigo<\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Se pudesses voltar atr\u00e1s no tempo, o que farias de diferente?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Qual foi a primeira coisa que te veio \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a quando me viste pela primeira vez?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Se fosses um animal, o que escolherias ser? (Imagina que eles respondem: Tu. Seria sarcasticamente \u00e9pico).<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Tem alguma fobia?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>What\u2019s the one thing you can\u2019t live without?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>O que \u00e9 que mais detesta nas pessoas?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>E, pelo amor de Deus, mostrem essa CONFIAN\u00c7A!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-126376 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a sorrir sentados ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If there\u2019s something I have learned in my humble life, it\u2019s the fact that you could be the prettiest, handsomest, or whatever-est person in the world, but you will not succeed in winning your crush if you don\u2019t show some confidence.<\/p>\n<p>Isso inclui sentir-se confort\u00e1vel na sua pr\u00f3pria pele, n\u00e3o se importar com o que os outros pensam de si e aceitar-se como \u00e9, com todas as suas peculiaridades e defeitos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The more you are in love with yourself, the more you\u2019ll attract others.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the end, it\u2019s all about the vibes, people. It\u2019s all about exhibiting positive energy that can make even the shyest ones or hard-to-get ones addicted to you.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whenever I have a crush on someone, my brain turns into this: Oh no, he saw me staring at him. My life is officially over. I\u2019ve got NOTHING to wear. How do I get rid of those butterflies in my stomach?? OMG, I added\/followed him on social media. Now he probably thinks that I like&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":126373,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-126348","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/This-Is-How-Youll-Get-Your-Crush-To-LIKE-You-BACK-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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