{"id":126385,"date":"2021-02-15T00:38:31","date_gmt":"2021-02-15T00:38:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126385"},"modified":"2022-02-07T11:24:50","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T11:24:50","slug":"como-fazer-ciumes-a-um-rapaz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-fazer-ciumes-a-um-rapaz\/","title":{"rendered":"Como fazer ci\u00fames a um homem da forma correcta"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019re a woman reading this, I want you to answer the following question honestly: Quantas vezes j\u00e1 pensaste em fazer ci\u00fames a um homem?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be the first to admit to the world that I haven\u2019t thought about it once or twice but multiple times. Do you know why, world?<\/p>\n

Because sometimes (and only sometimes) that\u2019s THE ONLY WAY to get a man\u2019s attention. That\u2019s why.<\/p>\n

Agora, permita-me aprofundar as raz\u00f5es pelas quais quer para fazer ci\u00fames a um rapaz<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Na maior parte das vezes, estas s\u00e3o as tr\u00eas principais raz\u00f5es pelas quais as mulheres querem fazer ci\u00fames a um homem, o que, na minha opini\u00e3o, \u00e9 perfeitamente LEG\u00cdTIMO:<\/p>\n

1. You\u2019re in a relationship, and he\u2019s taking you for granted.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. He\u2019s your ex-boyfriend, and you want him to suffer (or see if he still cares about you).<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Tens uma paix\u00e3o enorme por aquele rapaz e queres chamar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o dele e descobrir se ele tamb\u00e9m gosta de ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I have experience with all three of these scenarios. I\u2019ve been in relationships where I\u2019ve been taken for granted, I have an ex-boyfriend who I wanted to make regret leaving me, and I\u2019ve had a few crushes where<\/p>\n

Esforcei-me por chamar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o deles.<\/p>\n

Before deciding to make them jealous, I tried the usual way. I tried talking to my boyfriend and explaining that I\u2019d been sentir-se negligenciado durante algum tempo<\/strong> e que algo precisava de mudar.<\/p>\n

Well, he didn\u2019t listen (or simply didn\u2019t want to).<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m tentei falar com o meu ex-namorado para ver se ainda t\u00ednhamos uma hip\u00f3tese de nos reencontrarmos e se ele ainda sentia algo por mim, mas he didn\u2019t want to \u201ccooperate.<\/strong>\u201d (A less painful way of saying that he ghosted me.)<\/p>\n

And I\u2019ve had a HUGE crush on so many guys so far, and they seriously owe me for so many sleepless nights.<\/p>\n

Tentei tudo, desde perguntar aos amigos deles sobre mim at\u00e9 contact\u00e1-los nas redes sociais (sim, demorei algum tempo a ganhar coragem para dar esse passo corajoso).<\/p>\n

Ou eram extremamente t\u00edmido ou fingia fazer-se de dif\u00edcil<\/strong>Por isso, os meus esfor\u00e7os foram em v\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

After all these failed attempts, I\u2019ve realized that the only thing that was left for me to try was making them jealous.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not usually the type of girl who enjoys making others jealous (especially guys), but sometimes a woman\u2019s gotta do what a woman\u2019s gotta do.<\/p>\n

When I started implementing my jealousy tactics, I wasn\u2019t too optimistic about it, but to my surprise, it turned out to be the BEST THING I\u2019ve done in a long time.<\/p>\n

Quando comecei a fazer-lhes ci\u00fames, eles mudaram instantaneamente, e quero dizer mesmo instantaneamente, o seu comportamento em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a mim. Ficaram mais agradecidos, honestos, abertos e, acima de tudo, tinham medo de me perder.<\/p>\n

Nota:<\/strong> Isto s\u00f3 funciona se ele gostar mesmo de si e se preocupar consigo.<\/p>\n

Fazer ci\u00fames a um homem \u00e9 viver a sua MELHOR vida.<\/h2>\n

\"quatro<\/p>\n

Sempre que algu\u00e9m fala em fazer ci\u00fames a um homem, a primeira coisa que lhe vem \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a \u00e9 provavelmente estar com outro homem, publicar fotografias suas com outro homem, etc., certo?<\/p>\n

While this \u201cancient\u201d technique of making a guy jealous works every time, it is still not the only way to fazer ci\u00fames a um homem<\/a>E, muitas vezes, n\u00e3o \u00e9 a coisa certa a fazer.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, como fazer ci\u00fames a um homem<\/a> da forma correcta?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, tem de compreender que fazer-lhe ci\u00fames n\u00e3o \u00e9 apenas seduzir os amigos dele ou fingir que tem algo s\u00e9rio com os seus amigos homens para que ele fique furioso e com ci\u00fames.<\/p>\n

Acima de tudo, fazer-lhe ci\u00fames \u00e9 viver a sua melhor vida.<\/p>\n

Com isso, quero dizer divertir-se com os seus amigos e amigas, estar no seu melhor, mencionar o seu ex algumas vezes (aplic\u00e1vel a quem est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o)<\/strong>e outras coisas do g\u00e9nero.<\/p>\n

Fazer-lhe ci\u00fames \u00e9 CELEBRAR A VIDA e mostrar-lhe que pode ser igualmente feliz com ou sem ele.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about showing men what an interesting life you have with so many exciting things going on.<\/p>\n

Quando ele se aperceber de tudo isso, vai QUERER fazer parte disso ou LAMENTAR-SE de a ter perdido.<\/strong>
\nSe quiser fazer com que um homem fique com ci\u00fames e a deseje mais<\/a>, you need to be yourself and live like he doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you can\u2019t fall asleep at night because you can\u2019t stop thinking about him, or check his profile thousands of times a day, or do other things that people do when they really like someone.<\/p>\n

As long as he doesn\u2019t know anything about it, then it doesn\u2019t matter. As long as you\u2019re not making him your priority, you\u2019re doing it RIGHT.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s another valuable piece of advice:<\/strong> Se quiser para fazer ci\u00fames \u00e0 tua ex<\/a>, it\u2019s best to pretend that you met someone new and that they are making you happy.<\/p>\n

Once he realizes that, he will feel as if he\u2019s not competent enough to make you happy, and he will want to prove otherwise. (Sorry men, but the male ego truly is a fragile thing.)<\/p>\n

Achas que ele pode estar a esconder os seus ci\u00fames?<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Another important aspect of making a guy jealous is knowing when we have succeeded in doing so. Here\u2019s an interesting fact: Guys don\u2019t like showing jealousy, and they are ashamed of it in a way.<\/strong> Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n

Because by showing you that he\u2019s jealous, he knows that YOU WON. You made him feel miserable and regret taking you for granted (referring to relationships and ex-boyfriends).<\/p>\n

Por isso, fazem o poss\u00edvel para esconder a todo o custo os seus sinais de ci\u00fame.<\/p>\n

They will pretend that they don\u2019t give a damn about you chatting with some random guy or having a girl\u2019s night when, in reality, they are slowly dying of jealousy.<\/p>\n

Dito isto, aqui est\u00e3o alguns subtle signs he\u2019s hiding his jealousy<\/a> a que tens de prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o quando tentas fazer-lhe ci\u00fames:<\/strong><\/p>\n