{"id":12654,"date":"2020-02-20T14:18:16","date_gmt":"2020-02-20T14:18:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12654"},"modified":"2022-01-28T00:27:43","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T00:27:43","slug":"se-gosto-dele-24-perguntas-podem-fazer-para-ter-a-certeza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-gosto-dele-24-perguntas-podem-fazer-para-ter-a-certeza\/","title":{"rendered":"Ser\u00e1 que gosto dele? 24 perguntas para saber com certeza"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se gosto dele?<\/i> That\u2019s the million dollar question ninety percent of women ask themselves after a date that they\u2019re not sure went exactly according to plan or when they think about that weird borderline friends relationship they have going on.<\/p>\n

Os sentimentos podem ser t\u00e3o enganadores \u00e0s vezes. Os sentimentos podem ser mesmo uma porcaria. Mas, o que \u00e9 que se pode fazer em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso?<\/p>\n

You are human, you feel. You deal with it and find a way to understand what’s going on in your love life.<\/p>\n

So here’s the problem and I’m bringing you the best answer possible.<\/b><\/p>\n

You can think you don’t have a crush on the guy you’re seeing<\/a>, but then when he’s gone, you realize you’ve been denying your true feelings for him from the beginning.<\/p>\n

We all go out with people, desperately trying to find our \u201cone\u201d and sometimes, due to our hidden desire to find that deep love that movies romanticize so much, we tend to settle for something that\u2019s not easy to define.<\/p>\n

But the real truth is, it\u2019s just too risky to put your heart out there, leaving it so open and vulnerable, when you\u2019re just not sure whether you like him or it\u2019s just a fleeting crush for the sake of momentary pleasure.<\/i><\/p>\n

You really want to like him and you want to be sure of your feelings if you\u2019re going to act on them\u2026 But what if your mind is tricking you? What if your <\/b>sentimentos reais<\/b> are not what you’re feeling right now?<\/b><\/p>\n

What if this guy is just some rebound dude you like at this very moment, because you\u2019re still so fresh from a breakup that you just can\u2019t think straight?<\/p>\n

This is why it\u2019s really important to ask yourself, \u201cDo I like him?\u2019\u2019<\/i> por duas raz\u00f5es muito espec\u00edficas<\/h2>\n

\"jovem <\/i><\/p>\n

Firstly, you don\u2019t want to end up embarking on another superficial, draining, insignificant romantic voyage that\u2019s going to feel good for exactly three weeks before you start realizing you\u2019re wasting your time on something so meaningless.<\/i><\/p>\n

E, em segundo lugar, \u00e9 preciso ter cuidado para n\u00e3o ferir os sentimentos dele. Os homens tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o pessoas. Por muito duro que o seu exterior possa parecer, eles magoam tanto como n\u00f3s, por isso \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio ter a certeza do que se quer antes de fazer quaisquer promessas.<\/i><\/p>\n

Se quer ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o verdadeira e saud\u00e1vel com este homem, tem de ter o cuidado de a iniciar com sentimentos honestos e genu\u00ednos.<\/p>\n

Como sabeis, fidelidade<\/a> takes first place in every relationship and you can\u2019t be loyal if you\u2019re unsure of your feelings.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019re still interested in uncovering the hidden affections of your heart, keep reading, give honest answers to these questions, and find out for sure. Good luck!<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que eu gosto dele? 20 perguntas que pode fazer a si pr\u00f3pria para ter a certeza<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/i><\/p>\n

1. Com que frequ\u00eancia pensas nele?<\/h3>\n

Se a resposta for ocasionalmente ou por vezes, pode tratar-se de uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o tempor\u00e1ria esmagamento<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But if you can\u2019t take your mind off of him and if thoughts about him give you a fuzzy feeling, the answer is clear \u2013 you like him.<\/p>\n

Embora isto seja geralmente verdade, h\u00e1 uma exce\u00e7\u00e3o para situa\u00e7\u00f5es semelhantes.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso contar com a primeira fase depois de conhecer algu\u00e9m novo. Ele pode estar muito presente na sua mente, mas isso normalmente dura 10 ou 15 dias.<\/p>\n

I suggest you don\u2019t make the first move until you’re absolutely positive you like him.<\/p>\n

If nothing\u2019s happened in that period and you stop thinking about him, it means that you were just infatuated by him and not in love. These periods last so much shorter than the real deal.<\/p>\n

2. Quantas coisas podes enumerar que gostas nele?<\/h3>\n

De que \u00e9 que gostas nele? Fa\u00e7a uma lista de tudo numa folha de papel e veja o n\u00famero de coisas listadas.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 mais de 10, talvez 20 ou 30 coisas de que realmente gosta nele?<\/p>\n

Se assim \u00e9, porque \u00e9 que est\u00e1s a perguntar-te se gostas dele? Claro que gostas.<\/p>\n

3. Como seria a tua vida sem ele?<\/h3>\n

\"jovem<\/i><\/p>\n

Has your life gotten much happier since he\u2019s been around? Are you happy he\u2019s there?<\/p>\n

Or would it be much better if he wasn\u2019t around? Is this the first time you feel complete?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 a primeira vez que tem a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o a s\u00e9rio?<\/p>\n

Se a resposta a estas perguntas for afirmativa, ent\u00e3o n\u00e3o tem nada com que se preocupar. For\u00e7a!<\/p>\n

4. \u00c9 natural estar com ele?<\/h3>\n

Simplesmente temos algumas pessoas na nossa vida que est\u00e3o destinadas a estar l\u00e1.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o como o sol depois de uma tempestade, t\u00e3o lindamente quentes, e sentimo-nos t\u00e3o ligados a eles porque podemos ser n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios ao p\u00e9 deles. Isto tamb\u00e9m se aplica a ele?<\/p>\n

5. Como \u00e9 que o teu corpo se comporta quando o v\u00eas?<\/h3>\n

Does your heart rate increase? If you feel your heart thumping inside your chest and you lose your breath, if you can\u2019t find the right words and you always say something silly or things don\u2019t come out of your mouth the way they should, you are getting nervous around him.<\/p>\n

The next question is, \u201dWhy do you get nervous?\u201d and I guess that\u2019s because you really do like him.<\/p>\n

6. Como \u00e9 que ele olha para si?<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A forma como um homem de quem gostamos olha para n\u00f3s pode causar-nos arrepios por todo o corpo. Ele olha para ti dessa forma?<\/p>\n

Ele deixa-te de rastos s\u00f3 de olhar para ti? A atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica \u00e9 demasiado forte para aguentar?<\/p>\n

Estas perguntas s\u00e3o a base de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Se as suas respostas forem afirmativas, n\u00e3o tem nada com que se preocupar.<\/p>\n

You’re definitely crazy about that guy and if you play your cards right, you can go far in your intention.<\/p>\n

7. Quais s\u00e3o os seus objectivos em mat\u00e9ria de rela\u00e7\u00f5es?<\/h3>\n

I mean for the both of you. Can you see yourself being with him and reaching all the relationship goals you\u2019ve set for yourself?<\/p>\n

Can you imagine yourself being happy with him? If you immediately thought, \u201cYes!\u201d to all of the above, you probably really like him!<\/p>\n

8. Se ele te convidasse para um encontro a s\u00e9rio, o que farias?<\/h3>\n

J\u00e1 imaginou a situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que ele vem ter consigo e a convida para sair? Recria essa mesma imagem na sua mente sempre que o v\u00ea?<\/p>\n

Se a resposta a esta pergunta for uma fotografia sua a saltar de felicidade, ent\u00e3o o meu trabalho aqui est\u00e1 feito.<\/p>\n

9. Tem uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Ou seja, uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional, mental e talvez at\u00e9 f\u00edsica com ele.<\/p>\n

Emotional, as in you feel secure when you\u2019re around him and you don\u2019t need to worry about if he\u2019s going to be there for you.<\/p>\n

A mental connection, as in you can talk about everything that\u2019s on your mind with him.<\/p>\n

Physical \u2013 do you Ach\u00e1-lo atraente?<\/a> Ele \u00e9 sexy; ele \u00e9 bonito? Seja sincero!<\/p>\n

10. Basta perguntar a si pr\u00f3prio se gosta dele.<\/h3>\n

It\u2019s about the first thing that pops into your mind. If you get that fuzzy feeling and butterflies in your stomach and if the first thing on your mind is happiness, then the answer is clear. No need to further question yourself about it.<\/p>\n

Consider yourself lucky if he feels the same about you because a lot of people find themselves in the state of hopeless infatuation but sadly don’t get any response in return.<\/p>\n

11. J\u00e1 o conheces?<\/h3>\n

J\u00e1 se sentou com ele e conversou sobre os seus planos para o futuro, a sua moral, os seus ideais, os seus gostos e desgostos?<\/p>\n

If you haven\u2019t had a proper conversation about the big stuff, it\u2019s important to do so before deciding if you really like him!<\/p>\n

12. H\u00e1 quanto tempo \u00e9 que isso acontece?<\/h3>\n

\"jovem<\/i><\/p>\n

I mean, how long do you think you have liked him? If you\u2019ve been crushing on him for some time now, you might see that there is no reason to just call it a crush.<\/p>\n

Crushes can\u2019t last for a long period of time\u2014they are just temporary. But if it\u2019s been months? It\u2019s more than just a crush.<\/p>\n

13. Os teus amigos est\u00e3o a provocar-te e a pressionar-te para estares com ele?<\/h3>\n

Friends from both sides. If you\u2019re being pressured from your and his friends to like him and be with him because, as they said, \u201dYou\u2019d look cute together,\u201d chances are slim that you\u2019re actually interested in him but rather that you\u2019re being pressured into something that wasn\u2019t even your choice to begin with.<\/p>\n

14. Porque \u00e9 que est\u00e1s confuso?<\/h3>\n

Usually, if you like someone, you simply know it. You feel it, to be honest. You don\u2019t question yourself.<\/p>\n

But if you do, you can continue to ask yourself questions like, \u201cIs it because I didn\u2019t have the chance to talk to him alone?\u201d<\/p>\n

15. Ele elogia-a muito?<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You like the people who see the good parts of you and compliment you a lot. It\u2019s human nature. We love to be complimented.<\/p>\n

If he does compliment you a lot, then maybe you\u2019ve fallen for the compliments and not for him? I don\u2019t know, you do.<\/p>\n

16. Est\u00e1 a tentar esquecer um ex?<\/h3>\n

This can mess with your feelings a lot. If you\u2019re trying to get over an ex, finding someone to help you with that is the easiest thing ever.<\/p>\n

Certifique-se de que ultrapassou completamente qualquer bagagem que tenha ficado das suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas; ajude-se a si pr\u00f3prio com isso.<\/p>\n

You will end up hurting both of you if you start something new while you\u2019re holding on to the baggage of your past.<\/p>\n

17. Gosta simplesmente da ideia de gostar dele?<\/h3>\n

This is more confusing, but if you made a move on him before, if you tried to flirt with him, you really do like him. If not, then you\u2019re in love with the idea of liking him.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re known for going after what we want. If you didn\u2019t start something then you don\u2019t desej\u00e1-lo verdadeiramente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

18. Se o teu telefone tocasse neste momento e visses o nome dele no ecr\u00e3, como te sentirias?<\/h3>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

If you immediately started hyperventilating in your mind at the thought of this, your heart started beating twice the normal speed and a huge smile formed on your face\u2026 Yup, you really like this dude.<\/p>\n

19. Se a melhor amiga dele te convidasse para sair, tu ias?<\/h3>\n

If you can\u2019t even imagine this happening and you are repulsed by the idea\u2026 then you probably do have strong feelings for him. If you can\u2019t see yourself going out with anyone else (no matter how hot they are), you know your feelings are legit.<\/p>\n

20. Como \u00e9 que os seus sentimentos se comparam aos que tinha pelo seu ex?<\/h3>\n

If you feel like it\u2019s really different this time and you can\u2019t even compare it to anything, you might be onto something here.<\/p>\n

But if it feels the exact same way as it did with your exes, you might not actually like him; you\u2019re just stuck in an unhealthy pattern.<\/p>\n

21. Consegues imaginar-te com ele?<\/h3>\n

\"silhueta<\/p>\n

Quando gostamos de algu\u00e9m, normalmente imaginamo-nos com essa pessoa. Lentamente, come\u00e7a a imaginar como seria uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele.<\/p>\n

Se conseguir imaginar-se com ele nos bons e nos maus momentos, em todos os momentos, sempre ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

If that thought doesn’t scare you, then you’re definitely ready for a relationship and you really like him.<\/p>\n

22. J\u00e1 alguma vez falaste com ele?<\/h3>\n

If you never made a move, then you probably don’t like him. You just like the idea of him.<\/p>\n

Since you’ve never done anything about that crush you feel, it’s probably something that won’t last for a long time.<\/p>\n

Normalmente, a ideia de se apaixonar \u00e9 seguida de dar o primeiro passo, falar com a pessoa de quem se gosta ou convid\u00e1-la para um encontro. O objetivo \u00e9 estabelecer contacto e come\u00e7ar a sair com ele.<\/p>\n

23. Sentes-te s\u00f3 ou gostas mesmo dele?<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This is a trap that is easy to fall into. Many people enter relationships only because they don’t want to end up alone.<\/p>\n

T\u00eam medo de n\u00e3o se apaixonarem, pelo que se obrigam a apaixonar-se apenas para evitar a solid\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

So, if you only think of him at the end of the day, when you\u2019re home and alone, that’s a bad sign.<\/p>\n

It means you’re only trying to find someone to keep you company, someone who will prevent you from ending up single and miserable.<\/p>\n

But, if you’re thinking about him even when you’re out with friends or in a crowd, then there is something special about that person. Then, you\u2019ve definitely fallen in love with him.<\/p>\n

24. Tens ci\u00fames s\u00f3 de pensar que ele est\u00e1 com outra pessoa?<\/h3>\n

If just the thought of him being around other girls drives you crazy, then what you’re feeling is far more than just simple infatuation.<\/p>\n

And, no, you’re not crazy for freaking out imagining him with other women despite the fact that you’re not with him.<\/p>\n

Isto s\u00f3 significa que gosta mesmo dele e que quer ser essa pessoa especial na sua vida.<\/p>\n

So if your answer to this last question is yes, then you really do like him and you don’t have to wonder anymore. Just go for it!<\/p>\n

A \u00faltima coisa na sua lista deve ser diz-lhe como te sentes<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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