Enquanto pensava em todas estas coisas, fiquei subitamente paralisado assim que vi que ele me estava a ligar.<\/strong><\/p>\n Cumprimentei-o com um simples Ol\u00e1<\/em>E eu pensei que n\u00e3o se podia errar com isso, certo? Ele perguntou-me como tinha sido o meu dia. Respondi-lhe e depois parei durante alguns segundos.<\/p>\n A raz\u00e3o pela qual parei de falar foi porque senti que a conversa estava a ir na dire\u00e7\u00e3o errada. Conseguia sentir o seu tom de rob\u00f4 e o qu\u00e3o tenso estava.<\/p>\n A certa altura, perguntei-lhe o seguinte: Tell me something you don\u2019t want me to know about yourself.<\/em><\/p>\n He said that he is actually a shy guy and he has difficulties opening up to others, and that\u2019s why he expected me to be the one talking all the time.<\/p>\n Bit by bit, I helped him open up more and more about himself, and he said that he hadn\u2019t felt so vulnerable, yet fulfilled in a long time when talking to girls.<\/p>\n And, that\u2019s when I knew that I was doing it right.<\/p>\n Ora, a conclus\u00e3o de toda esta conversa \u00e9 a seguinte: When talking to a guy you like, don\u2019t focus only on yourself and what you want to say to him. Instead, focus on encouraging him to share things with you because that\u2019s what will make him like you! That’s what will faz com que ele se apaixone por ti<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n Criar uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional \u00e9 uma das coisas mais importantes quando se trata de conversas (especialmente com algu\u00e9m de quem se gosta). Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que se estabelece uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o com um rapaz de quem se gosta?<\/p>\n Estabelece uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o com ele fazendo-lhe perguntas significativas que o ajudar\u00e3o a abrir-se consigo. O maior erro que pode cometer \u00e9 concentrar-se apenas nas coisas que quer partilhar sobre si.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong. He wants to get to know you better and he wants you to share things with him, and you should do that, but you should also be interested in what he has to share with you.<\/p>\n O que se passa com os rapazes \u00e9 que est\u00e3o habituados a ouvir apenas as raparigas em vez de retribu\u00edrem e de se concentrarem em criar uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional.<\/strong><\/p>\n Escolher temas que a ajudar\u00e3o a conhec\u00ea-lo melhor<\/a>. Pergunte-lhe quais s\u00e3o os seus interesses, os seus objectivos futuros, os seus maiores receios e os seus pontos fracos e fortes.<\/p>\n Se queres que um rapaz se abra contigo, tens de o fazer sentir-se confort\u00e1vel para partilhar coisas contigo.<\/p>\n Tem de lhe dar espa\u00e7o para se exprimir e ganhar coragem para lhe mostrar tamb\u00e9m o seu lado vulner\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n Sim, eles querem mostrar a sua masculinidade, os seus pontos fortes e gabar-se dos seus feitos, porque isso faz parte da sua natureza.<\/p>\n They are competitive and protective of their women, and that\u2019s why they often have a hard time expressing their deepest feelings and opening themselves up to you.<\/p>\n \u00c9 a\u00ed que tu entras na hist\u00f3ria. There isn\u2019t a single man on earth who won\u2019t choose to open up to you and be vulnerable with you if he feels comfortable enough to do so.<\/strong><\/p>\n You need to make him feel comfortable about sharing things with you just as I made that guy confess that he\u2019s usually shy around women and he needs some time to open up to me.<\/p>\n Atrevo-me a dizer que, por causa disso, ele gosta ainda mais de mim e gostou ainda mais da nossa conversa (o que ele admitiu).<\/p>\n What does it mean to be \u2018creatively honest\u2019? It means saying exactly what you want to say to him at that very moment. It means being yourself instead of pretending to be something you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n The easiest way to get a man\u2019s attention is to be creative when answering his questions instead of being predictable like the majority of other people.<\/strong> THAT\u2019S what guys cherish most!<\/p>\n Eles querem uma mulher que desafie as suas cren\u00e7as em vez de acenar com a cabe\u00e7a a tudo o que eles dizem.<\/p>\n That guy you like wants you to contradict him; to show him that you have your own opinions on certain topics and that you\u2019re not afraid of expressing them.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re capable of inspiring a guy with your unique perspective on things, you\u2019re already halfway there. He will be mesmerized by your boldness, intelligence, and inspiring aura.<\/p>\n If you want to get a man\u2019s attention, you need to mant\u00ea-lo interessado durante a conversa<\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n There\u2019s a reason why I wrote mysterious in caps lock, and the reason is to accentuate the importance of it.<\/p>\n Um dos maiores erros que se pode cometer quando se fala com um rapaz de quem se gosta \u00e9 partilhar demasiado as coisas com ele.<\/strong><\/p>\n I understand that you want to tell him everything about yourself, and you\u2019re dying for him to finally know every single detail about your life, but you shouldn\u2019t do it.<\/p>\nSe queres que ele goste de ti e se abra contigo, tens de criar uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional.<\/h2>\n
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