{"id":127205,"date":"2021-03-08T10:26:40","date_gmt":"2021-03-08T10:26:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127205"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:38:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:38:30","slug":"fazer-uma-investida-numa-rapariga-da-forma-correcta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fazer-uma-investida-numa-rapariga-da-forma-correcta\/","title":{"rendered":"Se queres conquistar uma rapariga, tens de o fazer da forma correcta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>OMG, she\u2019s so hot, smart, and beautiful. She would never notice me even if my picture were stuck on her forehead (wait, that doesn\u2019t even make sense, but okay.) Maybe I should just say a simple hello&#8230; <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Hmm, maybe playing hard to get is not a bad idea after all. But what if she doesn\u2019t like playing games? Maybe women like simple men. There\u2019s no way I\u2019ll ever make a move on this girl if I continue complicating things.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Raise your hand if you\u2019ve ever been in this situation. (And I thought so.) I bet millions of men experience such overthinking on a daily basis (especially those who are shy by nature).<\/p>\n<p>Antes de escrever mais alguma coisa, tenho uma pergunta a fazer-vos: <strong>O que acha de uma rapariga dar o primeiro passo?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Even though I\u2019m a girl myself, I have no problems making the first move if I really like the guy and notice that he\u2019s a little bit reserved or shy. I mean, we live in the 21st century when gender stereotyping shouldn\u2019t even exist!<\/p>\n<p>So, if you\u2019re a guy lucky enough to run into a girl like me who doesn\u2019t have a problem with making the first move, then congratulations! But, if you\u2019re not, learning <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-fazer-uma-jogada-com-uma-rapariga-e-torna-la-sua\/\">como fazer uma investida numa rapariga<\/a> o caminho certo \u00e9 o \u00fanico caminho!<\/p>\n<h2>Como \u00e9 que sabes se ela quer que tu avances?<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127208 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher olham um para o outro enquanto est\u00e3o no balc\u00e3o de um bar\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Before you decide to approach a girl and impress her with your skills, it\u2019s advisable that you first learn if she wants you to make a move at all.<\/p>\n<p>As raparigas s\u00e3o seres complexos. Por vezes, podem enviar-nos toneladas de sinais contradit\u00f3rios e deixar-nos totalmente confusos na melhor das hip\u00f3teses.<\/p>\n<p>We certainly don\u2019t want that to happen. So, what do you need to do to find out if that one girl actually wants you to approach her?<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o aos seguintes aspectos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-subtis-de-que-se-quer-mudar\/\">sinais subtis de que ela quer que voc\u00ea se mexa<\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She\u2019s approachable, warm, and open to you.<\/li>\n<li>H\u00e1 muitos toques subtis.<\/li>\n<li>Ela mant\u00e9m um contacto visual profundo.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If she feels relaxed and has that \u2018happy vibe\u2019 when in your company, this is a great sign. If she\u2019s a little bit flirty with her words and overall behavior, know that she\u2019s totally interested in you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A girl who doesn\u2019t want you to make a move will act like it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ignorar\u00e1 as suas mensagens (na maioria das vezes) ou far\u00e1 um esfor\u00e7o m\u00ednimo ao responder. N\u00e3o estar\u00e1 certamente interessada em conhec\u00ea-lo melhor, pelo que n\u00e3o lhe far\u00e1 perguntas.<\/p>\n<p>These are the things that you need to pay attention to, so make sure to take note. Observe her body language, texting patterns, and all those little things that can say a lot about her intentions, and you\u2019ll be just fine.<\/p>\n<h2>Fazer uma investida numa rapariga n\u00e3o \u00e9 f\u00edsica qu\u00e2ntica, mas \u00e9 preciso aprender o b\u00e1sico!<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127209 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a conversar enquanto bebem vinho num telhado\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tenho a estranha sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que os meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o social gostam de fazer com que certos temas pare\u00e7am complexos apenas para confundir os leitores.<\/p>\n<p>They even go one step further and invent new terms that don\u2019t even exist, only to make you feel incapable and dependent on their virtual help.<\/p>\n<p>This article is not about that. It\u2019s not about representing \u2018making the first move\u2019 as something complicated or \u201cunreachable\u201d to regular guys out there.<\/p>\n<p>Do meu ponto de vista feminino, posso dizer-vos uma coisa: <strong>Fazer uma investida numa rapariga \u00e9 REALMENTE muito simples.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And if it is not simple, then she\u2019s not worthy of you approaching her. Yup, I just said that, and I\u2019m really proud of that new hypothesis of mine.<\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que pode abordar com sucesso qualquer mulher, seja na vida real ou virtualmente, e tudo o que precisa \u00e9 de uma coisa: CONFIAN\u00c7A (e uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 Internet, claro, se escolher esta \u00faltima).<\/p>\n<p>Now, what does it mean to be confident? No, it doesn\u2019t mean having a perfect body, trendy hairstyle, and a six-figure salary. You can be confident even if you\u2019re broke, have a dad bod, and no hair at all.<\/p>\n<p>Estes s\u00e3o apenas factores externos que podem ajudar, mas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o cruciais quando se trata de atrair mulheres. Por isso, a coisa em que se deve concentrar \u00e9:<\/p>\n<h2>O que \u00e9 que as mulheres acham atraente em si?<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127210 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente a olhar para um homem enquanto est\u00e3o sentados juntos num restaurante\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Qual \u00e9 a coisa (ou coisas) que as mulheres podem achar atraente em si? Quais s\u00e3o os seus passatempos (se os tiver), interesses, tra\u00e7os de personalidade?<\/p>\n<p>What are the things that you can offer to her that would add value to her life? (and I don\u2019t mean only financially).<\/p>\n<p>Like every human being on the planet, your set of skills and personality traits are unique. There isn\u2019t another you out there. So, what you need to do is CONVINCE that one girl you like that you are exactly what she needs in her life.<\/p>\n<p>Quando se trata de dar o primeiro passo, pense nisso como se fosse publicidade. \u00c9 tanto o anunciante como o produto que quer vender. Basicamente, est\u00e1 a vender-se a si pr\u00f3prio (por muito estranho que pare\u00e7a).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que algu\u00e9m se vende sem ser demasiado \u00f3bvio, rude ou insistente?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Antes de mais, \u00e9 preciso ter em conta que a principal coisa que uma mulher quer num homem \u00e9 que ele seja DIFERENTE dos outros. Achas que podes ser isso ou mostrar-lhe isso? Aposto que sim!<\/p>\n<p>Se quiser causar uma boa primeira impress\u00e3o e conquistar aquela rapariga, fa\u00e7a o seguinte:<\/p>\n<h3>Intriga-a<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127211 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente a utilizar o seu smartphone enquanto est\u00e1 deitada no sof\u00e1\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re planning on approaching her in the virtual world, then you need to make sure that your profile looks intriguing enough for her to decide to text you back.<\/p>\n<p>To save you the trouble, I\u2019ll tell you what kind of profiles DON\u2019T look interesting at all:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Ter uma fotografia de perfil do seu autom\u00f3vel.<\/strong> (Yes, we understand that you\u2019re a car lover, but you don\u2019t have to display it everywhere.)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Ter fotografias repetidas de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong> (Se beber com os seus amigos \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que faz, at\u00e9 que ponto \u00e9 interessante?)<\/li>\n<li><strong>A exagerar nas fotografias do gin\u00e1sio.<\/strong> (Yes, it\u2019s good to know that you take good care of your physical appearance, but what about your personality?)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If I don\u2019t stop myself right here, I\u2019m afraid I never will. So, what you need to pay attention to, both virtually and in the real world is: Don\u2019t be boring or predictable.<\/p>\n<p>Intrigue-a sendo um verdadeiro cavalheiro ou mostrando interesse por v\u00e1rias coisas e n\u00e3o apenas por beber cerveja com os seus amigos. Por outras palavras:<\/p>\n<h3>DON\u2019T be generic<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127213 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria a ouvir um homem enquanto est\u00e3o juntos ao ar livre\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be one of those guys who sends something like this every single time: <em>Ol\u00e1, como est\u00e1s? O que andas a fazer?<\/em> These sentences scream BORING (especially if you\u2019re overusing them).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Let\u2019s say that you\u2019re approaching a girl on the street.<\/strong> O que \u00e9 que lhe diria? <em>Como \u00e9 que est\u00e1?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s not a bad idea for starters, but you would have much bigger chances of impressing her if you said something like: <em>Onde \u00e9 que comprou essa pulseira?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re really interested in her bracelet or not. What matters is that you\u2019ve noticed it!<\/p>\n<p>You can pretend that you\u2019re thinking about buying the same bracelet for your mother, sister, or best friend for their birthday, and that\u2019s the reason why you\u2019re asking her in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Lembra-se do que dissemos sobre a publicidade? <strong>Desta forma, est\u00e1 a vender-se indiretamente. Est\u00e1 a captar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o dela, a mostrar-lhe como \u00e9 atencioso e a impression\u00e1-la.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Depois da pulseira, pode perguntar-lhe se ela quer ir beber um copo ou algo semelhante. Ela nunca saber\u00e1 que esse era o seu principal objetivo. As abordagens indirectas s\u00e3o normalmente as<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/como-pedir-a-uma-rapariga-para-ser-sua-namorada\/\"> As melhores maneiras de convidar uma rapariga para sair.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Tentar ser misterioso<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127214 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher a conversar num caf\u00e9 enquanto bebem caf\u00e9\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t tell her everything about yourself too soon. Leave her guessing. Don\u2019t be an open book. Instead, focus on listening to her more because, let\u2019s be honest, women LOVE to talk a lot (except me).<\/p>\n<p>You can certainly not go wrong by letting her talk, but don\u2019t be passive either. Ask her some sub-questions, make her laugh.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fa\u00e7a-a sentir-se bem!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let her know that you want to get to know her better. Don\u2019t be one of those low-effort guys waiting for a girl to do everything. Take the initiative, roll up your sleeves, and win her!<\/p>\n<h2>\u201cLife is a game board. Time is your opponent. If you procrastinate, you will lose the game. You must make a move to be victorious.\u201d \u2013 Napoleon Hill<\/h2>\n<p>So, what are you waiting for? Now that you know the basics of making a move like a boss don\u2019t wait any longer.<\/p>\n<p>Ser diferente. Seja confiante. S\u00ea vitorioso!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>OMG, she\u2019s so hot, smart, and beautiful. She would never notice me even if my picture were stuck on her forehead (wait, that doesn\u2019t even make sense, but okay.) Maybe I should just say a simple hello&#8230; Hmm, maybe playing hard to get is not a bad idea after all. But what if she doesn\u2019t&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":127207,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29640],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-127205","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29640,"label":"seducing women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/If-You-Want-To-Make-A-Move-On-A-Girl-You-Need-To-Do-It-The-RIGHT-Way-1-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29640,"name":"seducing women","slug":"seducing-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29640,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing women requires a unique set of skills and mastering lots of dating tips. 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