{"id":127260,"date":"2021-03-09T21:59:37","date_gmt":"2021-03-09T21:59:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127260"},"modified":"2022-02-05T16:23:18","modified_gmt":"2022-02-05T16:23:18","slug":"como-deves-tratar-os-teus-melhores-amigos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-deves-tratar-os-teus-melhores-amigos\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que deves tratar os teus melhores amigos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Whenever I\u2019m texting or dating a new guy, I have to immediately share it with my best friend. Whenever I\u2019m feeling off, the first person I call is my best friend.<\/p>\n<p>As nossas conversas v\u00e3o desde uma crise existencial a uma conversa aleat\u00f3ria \u00e0s duas da manh\u00e3, porque nenhum de n\u00f3s consegue adormecer.<\/p>\n<p>O nosso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/23-coisas-que-acontecem-a-pessoas-que-sao-amigas-desde-sempre\/\">melhores amigos<\/a> are not just random people that we choose to spend time with because they\u2019re fun to be around. They are so much more than that!<\/p>\n<p><strong>They are our confidante, a family member, a relationship counselor, and our favorite person (when they\u2019re not annoying us) all in one.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Without them, we wouldn\u2019t know how strong we actually are and capable of doing the weirdest things at the most inappropriate times like laughing your ass off when you\u2019re supposed to act professional.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Os nossos melhores amigos compreendem-nos.<\/strong> Conhecem as nossas fraquezas e prefer\u00eancias e sabem certamente como nos desafiar a tornarmo-nos melhores vers\u00f5es de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, we want to kill them (when they embarrass us in front of others), but we can\u2019t because we love them too much.<\/p>\n<p>Our best friends will always be the most special people in our life, and that\u2019s why they deserve to know how much they mean to us!<\/p>\n<h2>\u201cThings are never quite as scary when you\u2019ve got a best friend.\u201d \u2013 Bill Watterson<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127262 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"duas amigas a abra\u00e7arem-se na praia\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-hugging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-hugging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-hugging-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-hugging-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-hugging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-hugging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-hugging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The world in which we live is a scary place. We are surrounded by 7.6 billion people. From my personal experience, half of them are either catfish on social media or legit creeps (maybe I\u2019m overexaggerating, but you get the idea).<\/p>\n<p>What I\u2019m trying to say is: <strong>Sabe como \u00e9 dif\u00edcil encontrar um melhor amigo ou, pelo menos, encontrar amigos que gostem verdadeiramente de si?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s really hard, if not mission impossible, but I found mine and I\u2019m truly grateful for that. With a best friend, things are never quite as scary and the world seems like a happier place.<\/p>\n<p>Quando encontras aquela pessoa que te compreende completamente, que se preocupa contigo e que te diz sempre a verdade, por mais dolorosa que seja, sabes que ganhaste.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Finding someone special like that may take ages, but when you meet your true best friend (if you haven\u2019t already), you will never feel alone in this big world ever again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re feeling anxious before an exam, your best friend will know what to do.<\/strong> Eles v\u00e3o fazer-te rir tanto que te vais esquecer que tens mesmo um exame.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re on a bad date, freedom is one call away because your best friend will do anything for you (even if it means lying to others).<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you\u2019re in a self-pity mode, they won\u2019t join you.<\/strong> Em vez disso, dir-lhe-\u00e3o exatamente o que precisa de ouvir, mesmo que seja a \u00faltima coisa que gostaria de ouvir.<\/p>\n<p>Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n<p>Because that\u2019s what friends do for each other, and they know you would do the same thing for them.<\/p>\n<h2>\u201cFriends are those rare people who ask how we are and then wait to hear the answer.\u201d \u2013 Ed Cunningham<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127263 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-talking-1.jpg\" alt=\"duas amigas a conversar sentadas junto ao lago\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-talking-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-talking-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-talking-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-talking-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-talking-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-talking-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-talking-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-female-friends-talking-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In the world full of selfishness and pursuit of fake ideals, true friends are those rare people who actually care about how you feel. They don\u2019t ask you things for the sake of asking them.<\/p>\n<p>When a best friend asks you how you are, you don\u2019t even have to tell them anything because they already know from your facial expressions and your vibe.<\/p>\n<p>Ainda assim, esperam para ouvir a resposta porque querem que confirme o que j\u00e1 sabem.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Best friends have this telepathic superpower, and there\u2019s no way you could ever fake anything in front of them, which is what makes them so amazing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t pretend that you like that one random person when they know you despise them. Lucky you because you don\u2019t need to act polite in front of your friend for them to like you.<\/p>\n<p><em>You can be who you are even when you think you shouldn\u2019t.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Pode fazer figura de parvo sem se sentir envergonhado.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Pode fazer-lhes as perguntas mais est\u00fapidas do mundo e eles ficar\u00e3o espantados com o n\u00edvel da sua confian\u00e7a e criatividade.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>Os melhores amigos s\u00e3o as pessoas que trazem ao de cima o melhor de n\u00f3s<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127264 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-hugging-her-female-friend-from-the-back.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente abra\u00e7a a sua amiga pelas costas enquanto est\u00e3o juntas na natureza\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-hugging-her-female-friend-from-the-back.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-hugging-her-female-friend-from-the-back-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-hugging-her-female-friend-from-the-back-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-hugging-her-female-friend-from-the-back-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-hugging-her-female-friend-from-the-back-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-hugging-her-female-friend-from-the-back-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-hugging-her-female-friend-from-the-back-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-hugging-her-female-friend-from-the-back-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t judge you. They don\u2019t make you feel uncomfortable about being who you are in front of them. They inspire you and motivate you to achieve your goals.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Acreditam em si, mesmo quando todos os outros n\u00e3o o fazem.<\/strong> No matter how many times you argue with them, you always know that in the end, everything will be alright because that\u2019s what best friends do!<\/p>\n<p>When they\u2019re not having the time of their lives, they fight, they contradict each other, and sometimes, they say things they don\u2019t mean. Still, this doesn\u2019t mean that they no longer care about each other.<\/p>\n<p>Os melhores amigos s\u00e3o pessoas especiais, e uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com eles \u00e9 tudo menos vulgar. \u00c9 por isso que merecem ser elogiados.<\/p>\n<p>Our best friends\u2019 efforts deserve to be acknowledged, and here\u2019s one of the t<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/8-coisas-que-deves-dizer-ao-teu-melhor-amigo-neste-momento\/\">Coisas que deves dizer ao teu melhor amigo neste momento:<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Tu \u00e9s a minha pessoa e ser\u00e1s sempre a minha pessoa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let your best friend know that you\u2019re like one. When they\u2019re feeling down, you\u2019re feeling the same way. When they\u2019re happy, you\u2019re even happier.<\/p>\n<p>Let them know that you have enjoyed everything you\u2019ve gone through with them from the saddest moments to the most cheerful ones. Your best friend deserves to know that they will always be your person no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que o mundo inteiro comece a conspirar contra ele, fa\u00e7a-o saber que continuar\u00e1 a ser a pessoa que estar\u00e1 do seu lado a segurar-lhe a m\u00e3o. O teu melhor amigo merece saber o quanto \u00e9 especial para ti e o quanto esta amizade significa para ti.<\/p>\n<h2>Trate o seu melhor amigo como o amor da sua vida<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127265 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-happy-female-friends-dancing-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"duas amigas felizes a dan\u00e7ar na praia durante o p\u00f4r do sol\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-happy-female-friends-dancing-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-happy-female-friends-dancing-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-happy-female-friends-dancing-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-happy-female-friends-dancing-on-the-beach-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-happy-female-friends-dancing-on-the-beach-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-happy-female-friends-dancing-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-happy-female-friends-dancing-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/two-happy-female-friends-dancing-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A maioria das pessoas est\u00e1 muito entusiasmada com a ideia de encontrar a sua alma g\u00e9mea e, quando a encontram, esquecem-se muitas vezes do seu melhor amigo. Ou ent\u00e3o, optam por manter os amigos apenas como uma fonte de entretenimento para noites divertidas.<\/p>\n<p>Well, true friends should never be treated only as a source of entertainment or kept on hold because you\u2019ve got more important things to do at the moment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas v\u00eam e v\u00e3o, mas os verdadeiros amigos ficam para a vida!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tenho uma confiss\u00e3o a fazer. Quando estava na minha rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior, comecei a negligenciar os meus melhores amigos porque queria passar a maior parte do meu tempo com o meu namorado.<\/p>\n<p>I was selfish, rude, and disappointed in myself for that. When I broke up with my boyfriend, I promised myself that I would never make the same mistake again. And, I didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Quase todos os meus bons amigos vivem noutra cidade, mas mesmo assim conseguimos manter-nos em contacto e ver-nos de vez em quando.<\/p>\n<p><strong>J\u00e1 n\u00e3o dou prioridade \u00e0s rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas em detrimento das amizades, mas trato os meus melhores amigos como se fossem o amor da minha vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Recentemente, escrevi<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/carta-aberta-o-melhor-amigo-merece-o-mundo\/\"> uma carta aberta \u00e0 minha melhor amiga<\/a> onde exprimi a minha gratid\u00e3o pela nossa amizade e por todos os momentos especiais que pass\u00e1mos juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of sending a letter via email, I chose to do it the old-fashioned way and send it via post office in real life. When my friend read the letter, she immediately called me and couldn\u2019t find the words to express how touched she was.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127267 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/cheerful-woman-having-a-phone-call.jpg\" alt=\"mulher alegre a receber uma chamada telef\u00f3nica na rua\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/cheerful-woman-having-a-phone-call.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/cheerful-woman-having-a-phone-call-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/cheerful-woman-having-a-phone-call-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/cheerful-woman-having-a-phone-call-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/cheerful-woman-having-a-phone-call-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/cheerful-woman-having-a-phone-call-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/cheerful-woman-having-a-phone-call-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/cheerful-woman-having-a-phone-call-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A certa altura, come\u00e7ou a chorar porque ficou demasiado emocionada.<\/p>\n<p>It was one of the most beautiful moments in my life that I haven\u2019t experienced with any of my previous romantic partners.<\/p>\n<p>So, treat your best friends like the love of your life because they are so much more than that. Make them feel special, spoil them, make DIY gifts for them, do something funny that will brighten their day. Don&#8217;t forget to surprise them with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-de-feliz-aniversario-para-a-minha-melhor-amiga-amo-te\/\">par\u00e1grafos emocionais de anivers\u00e1rio do melhor amigo<\/a> no seu dia especial.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Treat them like the most special people in the world because that\u2019s what they are to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Without them, you wouldn\u2019t know how it feels to be mad and laugh your ass off at the same time. If it weren\u2019t for them, no one would ever give you the perfect gift for your birthday because they are the only people who know the real you.<\/p>\n<p>So, it\u2019s time to let them know all that. If you\u2019re not that good at writing letters, you can always <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/palavras-de-encorajamento-para-um-amigo\/\">surpreender o seu melhor amigo<\/a> com uma destas emo\u00e7\u00f5es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/paragrafos-do-melhor-amigo\/\">par\u00e1grafos do melhor amigo<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Contigo ao meu lado, o mundo \u00e9 um lugar melhor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>O sol brilha um pouco mais, o meu sorriso alarga-se um pouco mais e, nesse momento, os meus problemas deixam de existir.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>You are the most beautiful person inside and out. You\u2019re selfless, compassionate, and wise beyond your years.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Acredito mesmo que encontrei o ouro da amizade quando entraste na minha vida e encheste os meus dias de riso, l\u00e1grimas de felicidade e encantamento.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whenever I\u2019m texting or dating a new guy, I have to immediately share it with my best friend. Whenever I\u2019m feeling off, the first person I call is my best friend. Our conversations range from an existential crisis to just-a-random-convo at 2 a.m. because none of the two of us can fall asleep. Our best&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":127261,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-127260","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/This-Is-How-You-Should-Treat-Your-Best-Friends-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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