{"id":127295,"date":"2021-03-15T15:14:25","date_gmt":"2021-03-15T15:14:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127295"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:30:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:30:05","slug":"sentir-se-perdido-na-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sentir-se-perdido-na-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"Sempre que te sentires perdido na vida, lembra-te destas coisas-chave"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Sente-se s\u00f3, ou est\u00e1 rodeado de tantas pessoas mas sente que ningu\u00e9m o compreende? <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Tem <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/se-sentires-que-ja-nao-sabes-quem-es-le-isto\/\">feel like you don\u2019t know who you are anymore<\/a>? Do you think that nothing can make you happy and you\u2019ll never find your true purpose in life?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Pensem bem. H\u00e1 alguns anos, eu sentia exatamente o mesmo e querem saber o que mudou? Deixei de sentir e comecei a agir.<\/p>\n<p>Eu costumava estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica, pensando que era realmente feliz. Costumava rodear-me de pessoas negativas, sem saber que elas eram a principal raz\u00e3o para me sentir esgotada e perdida.<\/p>\n<p>I used to feel lost in life but not only because of my actions but because of other people\u2019s as well.<\/p>\n<p><em>Dizem que o que pensamos \u00e9 o que nos tornamos. Os nossos pensamentos s\u00e3o a for\u00e7a mais poderosa do universo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Por isso, sempre que se sentir perdido na vida, saiba que tem o poder de a mudar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you redirect your thoughts and focus on things you can control instead of those you can\u2019t, you\u2019ll realize that you were never lost, but you were on a journey to finding yourself.<\/p>\n<h2>\u201cNot until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves.\u201d \u2013 Henry David Thoreau<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-127298 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-looking-at-sea.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a olhar para o mar durante o p\u00f4r do sol\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-looking-at-sea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-looking-at-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-looking-at-sea-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-looking-at-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-looking-at-sea-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-looking-at-sea-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-looking-at-sea-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-looking-at-sea-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o nos podemos encontrar a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios enquanto n\u00e3o nos perdermos. N\u00e3o te podes tornar forte enquanto n\u00e3o enfrentares desafios. N\u00e3o nos podemos compreender a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios enquanto n\u00e3o entrarmos em contacto com o nosso verdadeiro eu.<\/p>\n<p>I was lost. I didn\u2019t know what to do, where to go, and how to start feeling better. I was fighting severe anxiety.<\/p>\n<p>Eu estava numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica e lutava para terminar a faculdade. A certa altura da minha vida, senti-me t\u00e3o esgotada e perdida.<\/p>\n<p>Queria desesperadamente tornar-me na pessoa que devia ser. <strong>Sentia que faltava metade de mim e esfor\u00e7ava-me muito por encontrar essa metade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the process of searching for happiness and my missing half, I lost myself. And that is when I started thinking about all the things that I\u2019ve done and those things that I should\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n<p>I realized that I was mainly focused on worrying about the things I don\u2019t have or being anxious about things that might happen.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The biggest problem was that I wasn\u2019t living in the present, and that is how I lost myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Lentamente, comecei a aperceber-me de que tenho o poder de mudar as coisas na minha vida. Sentir-se perdido n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma desculpa para ficar estagnado na vida.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve realized that if I want to change things, I need to fall in love with myself first and focus on all those things I can control instead of worrying about the things I can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>By focusing on the process of my life and goals, I\u2019ve learned to live in the moment. If you let your mind wander, you will start feeling lost because you won\u2019t know if you\u2019re in the past, the present, or the future.<\/p>\n<p>Quando perceber que tem a capacidade de redirecionar os seus pensamentos, vai encontrar-se a si pr\u00f3prio. Tamb\u00e9m se vai aperceber disso:<\/p>\n<h2>Tu \u00e9s o \u00fanico criador da tua pr\u00f3pria felicidade!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-127299\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-smiling-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a sorrir enquanto est\u00e1 num campo de milho\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-smiling-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-smiling-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-smiling-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-smiling-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-smiling-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-smiling-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-smiling-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-smiling-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/> N\u00e3o, o seu parceiro, o seu trabalho ou qualquer outra coisa n\u00e3o o pode fazer verdadeiramente feliz. Lembre-se que a \u00fanica pessoa no mundo que o pode fazer feliz \u00e9 VOC\u00ca.<\/p>\n<p>Tu \u00e9s o \u00fanico criador da tua pr\u00f3pria felicidade e, quando te aperceberes disso, vais encontrar-te a ti pr\u00f3prio. Tudo come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a fazer sentido para si.<\/p>\n<p>We have this innate desire to expect the universe to always be in our favor even though we\u2019re not in <em>Os Jogos Vorazes<\/em> (os amantes desta trilogia dist\u00f3pica compreender-me-\u00e3o).<\/p>\n<p>Whenever we\u2019re feeling sad, we tend to blame that one specific thing for that, and we get mad for even feeling that way.<\/p>\n<p>We think that feeling happy is the only right mental state for human beings, and every other negative feeling and emotion shouldn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p>Adivinhem l\u00e1: <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/tu-es-o-unico-criador-da-tua-propria-felicidade-so-depende-de-ti\/\">Tu \u00e9s o \u00fanico criador da tua pr\u00f3pria felicidade<\/a>e tudo acontece por uma raz\u00e3o. <\/strong>Seja o que for que lhe aconte\u00e7a na vida, tem o poder de o viver da forma que quiser.<\/p>\n<p>You can feel sad about a certain situation, or you can choose to believe that there\u2019s a valid reason why that happened to you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pode optar por ficar a remoer o passado, pensando nos \"e se\", ou pode optar por lidar com os seus sentimentos, fazer o que puder e ter a coragem de aceitar as coisas que n\u00e3o pode mudar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pode optar por continuar a sentir-se perdido, ou pode encontrar-se a si pr\u00f3prio. S\u00f3 tu podes fazer-te feliz, porque s\u00f3 tu sabes exatamente o que queres e precisas.<\/p>\n<h2>Livrar-se da toxicidade \u00e9 o m\u00e9todo de autocuidado mais importante<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-127300\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-holding-hat.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar o chap\u00e9u enquanto est\u00e1 no campo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-holding-hat.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-holding-hat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-holding-hat-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-holding-hat-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-holding-hat-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-holding-hat-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-holding-hat-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-holding-hat-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando algu\u00e9m menciona a palavra t\u00f3xico, o que \u00e9 que lhe vem \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a? Imagina apenas pessoas t\u00f3xicas que o fazem sentir-se esgotado a toda a hora?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you\u2019re right about that, but it\u2019s not only them that you need to pay attention to.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There are also toxic things that you should stop doing because you\u2019re harming yourself. One of the main reasons why people feel lost is because they stop taking care of themselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Concentram-se noutras coisas da vida, como satisfazer toda a gente (apenas para viver em harmonia), atingir objectivos pela raz\u00e3o errada (apenas para se sentirem dignas), etc.<\/p>\n<p>Todas estas coisas e outras semelhantes s\u00e3o t\u00f3xicas para o seu bem-estar e, se n\u00e3o forem tratadas, podem fazer com que se sinta perdido todos os dias da sua vida. Se quer encontrar-se a si pr\u00f3prio, precisa de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor-proprio\/confidence\/5-coisas-que-e-preciso-deixar-de-fazer-agora-mesmo\/\">deixar de fazer coisas que s\u00e3o t\u00f3xicas para si<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Most of the time, we\u2019re not even aware that we\u2019re doing those things because we\u2019ve been doing them for so long they\u2019ve become a part of our lives.<\/p>\n<h3>Se queres encontrar-te a ti pr\u00f3prio, tens de parar de tentar agradar a todos<\/h3>\n<p>I used to do the same thing. The easiest way to lose yourself is to play by other people\u2019s rules instead of creating your own.<\/p>\n<p>Deixe de se preocupar com o que os outros v\u00e3o pensar de si e deixe de procurar a sua valida\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Tu \u00e9s digno. Tem os seus pr\u00f3prios sonhos e objectivos em que se concentrar, por isso, por que raz\u00e3o perderia o seu tempo a pensar no que essa pessoa pensa de si?<\/p>\n<p><strong>H\u00e1 7,6 mil milh\u00f5es de pessoas no mundo e, se cada uma delas tentasse agradar aos outros, nunca conseguir\u00edamos evoluir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 andar\u00edamos em c\u00edrculos. Por isso, pare de andar em c\u00edrculos e concentre-se em si. Pense naquilo que VOC\u00ca quer fazer porque o faz feliz, em vez de fazer coisas apenas para fazer os outros felizes.<\/p>\n<h3>If you want to find yourself, don\u2019t be scared of change<\/h3>\n<p>A vida est\u00e1 cheia de escolhas, altos e baixos, consequ\u00eancias inevit\u00e1veis e mudan\u00e7as constantes. Encontrarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios n\u00e3o significa perceber quem somos e nunca nos preocuparmos em questionar a nossa pr\u00f3pria exist\u00eancia e perspectivas.<\/p>\n<p>Finding yourself is about constantly evolving and embracing every single change in your life, be it good or bad. It\u2019s about learning lessons the hard way, challenging yourself, and motivating yourself to do better.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Encontrar-se a si pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 procurar melhorar constantemente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t just wake up one day and realize that you\u2019ve finally found yourself, and you no longer have to worry about that.<\/p>\n<p>Todos os dias da sua vida, aprender\u00e1 coisas novas sobre si pr\u00f3prio, mas s\u00f3 se for um participante ativo na sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Se apenas observar as mudan\u00e7as e passar pela vida de forma passiva e segura, nunca entrar\u00e1 em contacto com o seu verdadeiro eu. Se continuar a contentar-se com a mediocridade, nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de se melhorar.<\/p>\n<h2>If you want to find yourself, don\u2019t be scared of losing yourself<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-127301\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-walking-near-canyon.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher de top cor-de-rosa a caminhar perto de um desfiladeiro\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-walking-near-canyon.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-walking-near-canyon-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-walking-near-canyon-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-walking-near-canyon-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-walking-near-canyon-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-walking-near-canyon-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-walking-near-canyon-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/woman-walking-near-canyon-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se quer encontrar-se a si pr\u00f3prio, aceite a vida com todos os seus desafios, altos e baixos, momentos felizes e menos felizes. <strong>O mundo \u00e9 a sua ostra!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Podemos conseguir tudo o que quisermos na vida e podemos ir para onde quisermos, se quisermos.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 nos podemos perder cem vezes e encontrar um milh\u00e3o de vezes se quisermos. Portanto, a quest\u00e3o \u00e9: <strong>Queres?<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you feeling lonely, or are you surrounded by so many people but still feel like no one understands you? Do you feel like you don\u2019t know who you are anymore? Do you think that nothing can make you happy and you\u2019ll never find your true purpose in life? Think again. I used to feel&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":127297,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-127295","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Whenever-You-Feel-Lost-In-Life-Remember-These-KEY-Things-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/127295","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=127295"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/127295\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/127297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=127295"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=127295"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=127295"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}