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<\/p>\nTudo o que fizeste foi jogar jogos com ela. Tudo o que fizeste foi brincar ao empurra e puxa com ela.<\/p>\n
It was this endless game that only you would probably never get tired of. The only problem is you sucked in a girl who didn\u2019t want to become a part of your game.<\/p>\n
Ela s\u00f3 te queria, mas era imposs\u00edvel ter-te sem toda a bagagem que trazias contigo.<\/p>\n
She didn\u2019t enter this \u2018relationship\u2019 or whatever you choose to call it now so you\u2019d be able to project your insecurities onto her.<\/p>\n
She didn\u2019t hop on that ride so you could keep her just close enough to know you existed, but always at arm’s length so she never got too close.<\/p>\n
Whenever you saw things were getting serious, you\u2019d pull back. <\/b><\/p>\n
Nunca quiseste dar tudo de ti. Nunca quiseste permitir-te sentir tudo o que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o traz.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
It seemed as if you were only there for the good parts and small talk, but once things would get heated, once you actually needed to involve true emotions, you\u2019d bail.<\/p>\n
Sempre tiveste o h\u00e1bito de desaparecer no momento mais inapropriado.<\/p>\n
The moment it appeared to her that you would actually come forward with how you truly felt, she\u2019d end up getting zero response from you in days.<\/p>\n
Como se tivesses desaparecido da face da terra.<\/p>\n
Whenever she got tired of your games or waiting for you, you\u2019d pull her back and start it all over again. <\/b><\/p>\n
The moment you saw her doubting you or questioning your \u2018relationship\u2019, you\u2019d pull her back into your little game that usually led her only to a dead end.<\/p>\n
You\u2019d start with your sweet talk once again and you\u2019d start appearing in front of her whenever you had the chance.<\/p>\n
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You\u2019d start doing everything just to make sure she got used to having you around one more time and when things eventually got too heated, you\u2019d once again perform your good old trick called \u2018pull away while you still can\u2019.<\/p>\n
You\u2019d leave her wondering what she did wrong this time.<\/p>\n
Sabias que ela nunca poderia tentar com mais ningu\u00e9m enquanto ainda estivesses no jogo. <\/b><\/p>\n
Ela precisava de uma conclus\u00e3o ou de algo que lhe dissesse que a vossa hist\u00f3ria tinha terminado.<\/p>\n
But you never gave her any of that. You got her hooked and that\u2019s how you always wanted to keep her. <\/p>\n
You knew she couldn\u2019t move on until someone said out loud that everything you had was over.<\/p>\n
Mas ela nunca p\u00f4de ser essa pessoa, n\u00e3o porque fosse demasiado fraca, mas porque nunca soube qual era a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ti.<\/p>\n
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You never had the chance to truly try and that\u2019s what kept her for so long.<\/p>\n
Constru\u00edste um suspense, uma tens\u00e3o que lhe dizia que se avizinhavam coisas maiores. Mas esses tempos nunca chegaram porque nunca estiveste pronto para te comprometeres verdadeiramente com ela.<\/p>\n
S\u00f3 precisavas que ela pensasse assim porque tamb\u00e9m precisavas dela.<\/p>\n
Ela era o teu porto seguro. Ela era a \u00fanica que estava sempre l\u00e1 para ti, acontecesse o que acontecesse.<\/p>\n
Sabia-se que se podia contar com ela, dia e noite. Ela era a sua pessoa, aquela que toda a gente espera encontrar durante a sua vida.<\/p>\n
Mas como tinha demasiado receio de melhorar o seu jogo, arrastou-a para o turbilh\u00e3o da sua toxicidade.<\/p>\n
You know, you might be the bigger player here, but you\u2019re missing something.<\/p>\n
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<\/p>\n
You\u2019re missing the fact that as good as you are at this push and pull game, nothing you do will stop her once she decides to cut all strings with you.<\/p>\n
And although this might seem unrealistic to you, she\u2019ll do it.<\/p>\n
It won\u2019t take her much longer to see you for who you truly are.<\/p>\n
She\u2019ll see that you\u2019re only a player full of promises you never intend to keep.<\/p>\n
Que s\u00f3 fica quando as coisas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o s\u00e9rias, mas que foge sempre que os sentimentos reais come\u00e7am a vir \u00e0 tona.<\/p>\n
It won\u2019t take her much longer to see she deserves more than you.<\/b><\/p>\n
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/stressed-man-sitting-on-couch-e1590489412958.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
She deserves more than a guy who doesn\u2019t know what he wants, more than someone who\u2019s afraid of real feelings.<\/b><\/p>\n
It won\u2019t take her much longer before she realizes that there will be someone who\u2019ll give her everything she deserves and everything you\u2019ve been unwilling to give her.<\/p>\n
When she realizes there is someone else who\u2019s going to make a true effort and who\u2019s going to be there for her the same as she was for you.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t bother coming back once she realizes you are just an immature boy who’s too scared to commit.<\/p>\n
Because by the time you realize what you\u2019ve pushed away, all your efforts to pull her back will be in vain.<\/p>\n
She will have found someone who\u2019ll appreciate her the way you never knew.<\/p>\n
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