{"id":127457,"date":"2021-03-12T22:15:25","date_gmt":"2021-03-12T22:15:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127457"},"modified":"2022-03-02T23:01:55","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T23:01:55","slug":"o-verdadeiro-amor-e-um-desafio-mas-vale-a-pena-lutar-por-ele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-verdadeiro-amor-e-um-desafio-mas-vale-a-pena-lutar-por-ele\/","title":{"rendered":"O amor verdadeiro \u00e9 desafiador, mas vale a pena lutar e esperar por ele"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o, o verdadeiro amor n\u00e3o vai bater \u00e0 sua porta a meio da noite e acord\u00e1-lo de um pesadelo. Amor verdadeiro<\/a> will also not come to you when you\u2019re unprepared or not ready to experience it.<\/p>\n

When true love comes, chances are you will not recognize it at first. You will think that it\u2019s just another romance that is probably bound to fail in a couple of months. <\/p>\n

A certa altura, pensar\u00e1 em desistir, e \u00e9 ent\u00e3o que descobrir\u00e1 que, durante todo este tempo, se tratava de um amor verdadeiro.<\/p>\n

Misterioso. Inspirador. Poderoso. Transformador. <\/b><\/p>\n

O amor verdadeiro \u00e9 tudo isso (e mais), e \u00e9 por isso que vale a pena lutar e esperar.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let your past romantic endeavors discourage you!<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

I\u2019m ashamed to say how many times I\u2019ve repeated this one sentence to myself: Nunca encontrarei a pessoa certa para mim; aquela famosa homem unic\u00f3rnio<\/a> que me far\u00e1 esquecer todos os romances do meu passado porque, de repente, eles se tornar\u00e3o insignificantes.<\/b><\/p>\n

Costumava pensar que o amor verdadeiro s\u00f3 existia em filmes rom\u00e2nticos pirosos criados para que as pessoas se sentissem um pouco melhor consigo pr\u00f3prias e com os seus romances falhados. <\/p>\n

I\u2019ve met men who were legit players, commitment-phobes, indecisive men, you name it. I\u2019ve been taken for granted, I\u2019ve been cheated on, and I\u2019ve been desiludido com o amor<\/b> . <\/p>\n

The last three words of the previous sentence are key. How can you even be disappointed in something that you haven\u2019t even experienced? <\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized that the main reason why people lose hope in true love is that they compare it to their previous romantic endeavors.<\/b><\/p>\n

Trust me, everything you\u2019ve experienced so far has nothing to do with real love. Don\u2019t allow your past romantic endeavors to influence your perspective on love.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make assumptions about something you have yet to experience. Also, I\u2019m not saying that it will be easy.<\/p>\n

O verdadeiro amor \u00e9 um trabalho \u00e1rduo<\/a>, but it\u2019s TOTALLY worth it!<\/h3>\n

Costumava pensar no conceito de amor verdadeiro como algo que acontece abruptamente, nos arrebata, cura todas as nossas feridas e restaura a f\u00e9 na humanidade.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized that I\u2019ve watched one too many romantic movies with \u201chappily ever afters,\u201d where the representation of love is anything but realistic. <\/p>\n

Now that I can proudly say I\u2019ve experienced (and am still experiencing) the magic of real love, I can tell you one thing: True love is not easy. It is hard work, but it\u2019s totally worth it!<\/b><\/p>\n

There will be times when you will think that there\u2019s no point in pursuing it any longer. You will be challenged in so many ways that you\u2019ll have to pinch yourself to make sure that you\u2019re not in a poorly directed comedy movie.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll go through so many ups and downs, question your beliefs, change your perspective, and so on. Do you know why? <\/p>\n

Porque o verdadeiro amor faz tudo isso. \u00c9 ao mesmo tempo divino, desafiante e edificante. Experimentamo-lo por uma raz\u00e3o, e essa raz\u00e3o est\u00e1 para al\u00e9m de n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

O verdadeiro amor \u00e9 o mais desafiante de todos<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Isto pode parecer um pouco contradit\u00f3rio para muitos de v\u00f3s, mas garanto-vos que \u00e9 a verdade. Depois de experimentar o amor incondicional com a pessoa certa para si, ir\u00e1 passar por uma s\u00e9rie de obst\u00e1culos e desafios, tanto a n\u00edvel pessoal como na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Antes de vos dizer porqu\u00ea, permitam-me que vos d\u00ea um exemplo. Pensem em Elizabeth Bennet e Mr. Darcy em <\/b>Orgulho e Preconceito<\/i><\/b>, Allie e Noah de <\/b>O caderno de notas<\/i><\/b>,<\/b> ou Peeta e Katniss de <\/b>The Hunger Games.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Embora eu tenha dito que os filmes rom\u00e2nticos n\u00e3o t\u00eam nada a ver com representa\u00e7\u00f5es verdadeiras do amor real, alguns t\u00eam-no (at\u00e9 certo ponto, claro). Todos os filmes acima mencionados tiveram grandes reviravoltas no enredo e os amantes passaram por muitos desafios.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sim, seria irrealista dizer que todos os grandes o amor no mundo real \u00e9 um desafio extra<\/a>. Algumas delas s\u00e3o mais exigentes, outras menos. A quest\u00e3o \u00e9: Porqu\u00ea? <\/b><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 duas raz\u00f5es principais pelas quais esse amor \u00e9 o mais dif\u00edcil de todos:<\/p>\n

Estas liga\u00e7\u00f5es profundas est\u00e3o repletas de emo\u00e7\u00f5es intensas<\/h3>\n

O verdadeiro amor \u00e9 extremamente apaixonado em todos os aspectos e sentidos do seu significado. Quando nos ligamos a outra pessoa a um n\u00edvel t\u00e3o profundo, come\u00e7amos a sentir emo\u00e7\u00f5es intensas. <\/p>\n

Isso significa que at\u00e9 as coisas mais insignificantes podem transformar-se em chamas furiosas. Porqu\u00ea? Porque nos preocupamos demasiado. Sente-se demasiado intensamente. <\/p>\n

True love is the most challenging of all because it\u2019s addictive, intense, and also demanding. <\/b> Quanto mais aprenderem uns sobre os outros, mais ligados se tornam. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s so easy to get addicted to this euphoric feeling of something bigger than you. Something too divine and impossible to be described with words. <\/p>\n

O papel da tua alma g\u00e9mea \u00e9 ajudar-te a crescer<\/h3>\n

True love happens for a reason. There\u2019s a reason why you met that one special person at that one period in your life. Your soulmate\u2019s entrance into your life was not random. It happened because you\u2019re ready to grow, and they are there to help you with that.<\/p>\n

Your soulmate\u2019s role is to push you to your limits, challenge your perspectives, improve your way of thinking, and help you become who you\u2019re meant to be. <\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why true love is worth fighting for<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Quando experimentar o amor verdadeiro, entrar\u00e1 em contacto com o seu verdadeiro eu<\/h2>\n

\"Grande<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 desafiado e provocado por uma raz\u00e3o. Se tivesse de escolher o melhor sin\u00f3nimo de amor verdadeiro, seria EVOLUIR.<\/p>\n

Of course, love is not only about that. It consists of all those cozy moments we\u2019ve dreamed of experiencing with our loved one such as:<\/p>\n

 Looking deeply into their eyes and knowing what they\u2019re thinking even without asking them.  <\/i><\/p>\n

Pillow fights in the morning because someone has to get up first, and you don\u2019t want to be that person.  <\/i><\/p>\n

Conversas profundas e significativas que invocar\u00e3o Arist\u00f3teles, que esteve escondido dentro de si durante todo este tempo.  <\/i><\/p>\n

Long cuddling sessions, heartfelt romantic gifts, you name it\u2026 <\/i><\/p>\n

O verdadeiro amor \u00e9 tudo isso (e mais), e \u00e9 por isso que vale a pena lutar e esperar! <\/p>\n

It is about YOU and THEM getting in touch with your true selves. It\u2019s about motivating each other to do your best every day, sharing your deepest thoughts, contradicting each other, laughing together…<\/p>\n

True love is worth fighting and waiting for because it\u2019s the only way to experience true happiness. <\/b><\/p>\n

If you haven\u2019t experienced such divine love yet, let these \u00e0 espera do amor cita\u00e7\u00f5es <\/a> d\u00e3o-lhe uma espreitadela na complexidade e beleza do verdadeiro amor: <\/p>\n

\u201cThe course of true love never did run smooth.\u201d \u2013 William Shakespeare <\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cYou must learn to wait for the fulfillment of your visions.\u201d \u2013 Lailah Gifty Akita <\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cLove is everything it\u2019s cracked up to be. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.\u201d \u2013 Erica Jong <\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cWe must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.\u201d \u2013 Joseph Campbell <\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cWhatever we are waiting for \u2014 peace of mind, contentment, grace, the inner awareness of simple abundance \u2014 it will surely come to us, but only when we are ready to receive it with an open and grateful heart.\u201d \u2013 Sarah Ban Breathnach <\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

No, true love will not knock on your door in the middle of the night and wake you up from a bad dream. True love will also not come to you when you\u2019re unprepared or not ready to experience it. When true love comes, chances are you will not recognize it at first. You will…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":127458,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-127457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/True-Love-Is-Challenging-But-Its-Worth-Fighting-And-Waiting-For-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/127457","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=127457"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/127457\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/127458"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=127457"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=127457"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=127457"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}