{"id":127588,"date":"2021-03-19T00:47:41","date_gmt":"2021-03-19T00:47:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127588"},"modified":"2022-02-27T13:34:18","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T13:34:18","slug":"e-por-isso-que-nunca-tiveste-uma-namorada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-nunca-tiveste-uma-namorada\/","title":{"rendered":"Caros amigos, \u00e9 por isto que nunca tiveram uma namorada"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019re one of those men who never had a girlfriend, you probably think that you\u2019re the only one. Well, that\u2019s what everyone thinks when they don\u2019t fit in the conventional sequence: finish school – find a job – <\/i>encontrar uma namorada<\/i><\/b> – get married – have kids.  <\/i><\/p>\n

If everyone around you has a girlfriend except you, this might make you feel ostracized from society and\/or disappointed in yourself (assuming you want to have a girlfriend, but for some reason, you still don\u2019t). <\/p>\n

Truth be told, some men may act like they don\u2019t really care about the fact that they never had a girlfriend or they don\u2019t even want to have one. Still, the majority of them will think that they are doing something wrong (which is not so far from the truth).<\/p>\n

Exonera\u00e7\u00e3o de responsabilidade:<\/b> This is not an article about judging single guys, glorifying them, or pitying them. It\u2019s about stating the facts based on other \u201cforever single\u201d men\u2019s experiences for the sake of helping you step up your dating game.<\/p>\n

(Podem agradecer-me mais tarde).<\/p>\n

Do you think you\u2019re doing something wrong or there\u2019s something wrong with all the girls out there? <\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Since I\u2019m a straightforward person by nature, I hope you\u2019ll get used to me writing exactly what I mean with no sugar coating.<\/p>\n

Yes, I\u2019m a female myself, and I don\u2019t think that every single girl out there is perfect girlfriend material.<\/b><\/p>\n

There are plenty of girls who are only interested in a man\u2019s financial status (if you catch my drift) and who don\u2019t even bother to get to know you better because all they\u2019re interested in is you being able to indulge them. <\/p>\n

Isto vai t\u00e3o longe que as raparigas at\u00e9 se atrevem a pedir a um rapaz que pague o seu sof\u00e1 $2500 ap\u00f3s o segundo encontro (isto aconteceu a uma amiga minha que tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 solteira h\u00e1 algum tempo). <\/p>\n

Algumas raparigas est\u00e3o marcadas pelas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas, pelo que t\u00eam dificuldade em abrir-se a algu\u00e9m novo.<\/p>\n

Outras raparigas (incluindo eu) t\u00eam avers\u00e3o a homens gen\u00e9ricos que usam frases de engate pirosas e se orgulham da sua mentalidade de pouco esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

There are also plenty of minimalist, creative, fun, and hard-working girls who simply don\u2019t have time to date anyone, let alone be in a relationship at the moment.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 chega de falar de raparigas. The point is, not every girl\u2019s personality and lifestyle is bound to match yours, which is okay.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Now, let\u2019s talk about you. <\/b><\/p>\n

Are you satisfied with your approach when it comes to girls (if there were any approaches whatsoever)? Do you think you\u2019re doing something wrong? Or, that you could work more on improving yourself and stepping up your dating game? <\/i><\/p>\n

If your answer is no on the last question, then you can be sure you\u2019re doing something wrong. No matter how handsome, smart, or fun you are, there is always room for improvement. <\/p>\n

Some guys forget that, and that\u2019s how they find themselves stuck in the realm of \u201cnever had a girlfriend\u201d. Don\u2019t be one of those guys.<\/p>\n

No, there\u2019s nothing wrong with you if you never had a girlfriend, but if you think that you shouldn\u2019t keep working on yourself, then there is something wrong with you.<\/b> Isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 apenas essencial no mundo dos encontros, mas tamb\u00e9m em geral. <\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 sempre a atualizar a sua lista imagin\u00e1ria de caracter\u00edsticas de uma namorada perfeita <\/a> mas nunca pensa no que tem para lhes oferecer? <\/h3>\n

If you ask me, this is the worst that could happen to any man out there. It\u2019s okay if you are shy or if you aren\u2019t that confident. <\/p>\n

But, if you\u2019re constantly dreaming about having the perfect girlfriend (according to your \u201cperfect standards\u201d), but aren\u2019t willing to work on yourself, then this is truly unfair and unrealistic to say the least. <\/p>\n

Yes, almost every man thinks about himself as being a great catch, but that\u2019s just how you see yourself. Note that every girl has different standards as well. <\/p>\n

Algumas raparigas preferem rapazes normais com um grande sentido de humor, enquanto outras gostam mais de homens fortes e cheios de confian\u00e7a ou uma combina\u00e7\u00e3o de ambos.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, <\/b>you shouldn\u2019t lower your standards just because you\u2019re single<\/b><\/a>, but you also shouldn\u2019t be too picky or let unrealistic expectations rule your love life. <\/b><\/p>\n

Be who you are. Be your best self every day. Don\u2019t stagnate, and don\u2019t think that you are perfect in every aspect of your life because none of us is. <\/p>\n

Talvez a raz\u00e3o pela qual nunca tiveste uma namorada seja o facto de estares sempre a falar nisso?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Recentemente, uma das minhas amigas estava a enviar uma mensagem a um rapaz e desde o primeiro dia que tiveram uma qu\u00edmica de mensagens. Ele fazia-a rir a toda a hora, era atencioso e simplesmente diferente de qualquer outro rapaz com quem ela tivesse trocado mensagens ou sa\u00eddo at\u00e9 ent\u00e3o. <\/p>\n

E depois, BOOM! Um dia, do nada, ele disse-lhe que nunca tinha tido uma namorada (apesar de ter 30 e poucos anos).<\/p>\n

Ela passou-se imediatamente, telefonou-me e disse: OMG, deve haver algo de errado com ele, porque ele nunca teve uma namorada antes! <\/b><\/p>\n

As reasonable as I am, I told her to calm down because there are plenty of reasons why someone has never had a girlfriend, and it doesn\u2019t have to mean that there\u2019s something wrong with him. <\/p>\n

When she asked him why he has never had a girlfriend before, he told her that he didn\u2019t have time for that because he wanted to fully commit to his job. He didn\u2019t want his potential girlfriend to feel neglected due to possible lack of attention or similar.<\/p>\n

Depois de ele ter dito tudo isto, ela recuperou imediatamente os sentidos e percebeu que esta era uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o l\u00f3gica. Well, some girls won\u2019t even ask you about the reason why you never had a girlfriend, and that\u2019s a problem.<\/b><\/p>\n

Many girls just freak out when you tell them that, and they immediately start assuming that you\u2019re a player, a selfish guy, a commitment-phobe, or something of sorts.<\/p>\n

Deixam imediatamente de nos enviar mensagens e de sair connosco, e acabamos por pensar no que fizemos de errado. <\/p>\n

Practically, you haven\u2019t done anything wrong, but there\u2019s also no need to keep repeating that you never had a girlfriend to every new girl you meet.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, it\u2019s better to keep some things to yourself (especially the ones that won\u2019t cause harm if you don\u2019t tell the truth). <\/p>\n

Ou, a raz\u00e3o pela qual nunca tiveste uma namorada \u00e9 porque n\u00e3o sabes ler sinais?<\/h3>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Many men actually have no idea when a woman is genuinely interested in them. Sometimes, they think she\u2019s interested even when she\u2019s not, so they ask her out and she rejects them. <\/p>\n

Other times, a woman is totally interested in them, but they misinterpret the signs and never ask her out, thinking she doesn\u2019t give a damn about them.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, maybe the reason why you never had a girlfriend is that you suck at reading signs? Let me tell you one thing. If a woman laughs at your jokes (even the corny ones), then you know she\u2019s interested in you.<\/p>\n

If a woman keeps texting you (doesn\u2019t let you wait for long between replies), then you know she probably likes you. Also, if a woman ignores your texts, pretends to be busy 24\/7, or tells you openly that she\u2019s interested in dating you, then she PROBABLY means it.<\/p>\n

Se precisar de mais raz\u00f5es pelas quais nunca tiveste uma namorada <\/a> , delicie-se:<\/h3>\n

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